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Train Your Brain: Neuroscience, Meditation and the Power of Neurofeedback | Ariel Garten Mar 17, 2026

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What if your mind’s greatest obstacles aren’t real threats, but runaway thoughts you never chose? And what if reclaiming your focus could rewire your life?

Neuroscientist and entrepreneur Ariel Garten has spent decades translating the mysteries of the brain into practical tools for calm, focus, and well-being. As co-founder of Muse, the pioneering brain-sensing headband, she’s at the intersection of neuroscience, mindfulness, and technology, helping hundreds of thousands train their minds, rather than be controlled by them.

Ariel joins Kevin St. Clergy to unpack why meditation works, how real-time neurofeedback demystifies calm, and practical ways to stop blind blaming and start training your brain for resilience and peace.

In this episode, Kevin and Ariel will discuss:

(00:00) Introduction

(03:40) Creating Muse for meditation

(07:58) Sleep tips, caffeine and mindfulness

(10:12) Amygdala scanning for real or imaginary danger

(14:18) How phone-free nights improve sleep

(19:23) Meditation breakthroughs with Muse

(25:48) Meditation meets wearable technology

(27:52) Prioritize what matters

(33:05) Shifting from a fixed mindset

(33:45) Embracing change and adaptability

(37:57) Electrical signals in the body

Ariel Garten is a neuroscientist, psychotherapist, and tech entrepreneur best known as the co-founder of Muse, the brain-sensing headband that brings real-time meditation feedback to millions. Blending science, design, and mindfulness, she helps people train their brains, improve focus, and build healthier relationships with stress and performance.

Connect with Ariel:

Muse: https://choosemuse.com/

Ariel’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/ariels_musings/

Resources Mentioned:

Atomic Habits by James Clear: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0735211299

How to Change by Katy Milkman: https://www.amazon.com/dp/059308375X/

The Power of Habit by Charles Duhigg: https://www.amazon.com/dp/081298160X

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How The Hawk Method Frames Marketing for Real Results | Erik Huberman Mar 10, 2026

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Erik Huberman learned firsthand that blaming external forces can blind leaders to the truth, and sometimes sink a company for good.

As founder and CEO of Hawke Media, Erik has built one of America’s fastest-growing marketing consultancies, scaling thousands of brands and pioneering data-driven strategies for lasting growth. He’s also the author of The HAWK Method, with insights featured in Forbes and Entrepreneur.

In this episode, Erik joins Kevin St. Clergy to reveal how uncovering hidden challenges, taking ownership, and making bold decisions drive real-world results. Expect hard lessons, practical frameworks, and a refreshingly honest take on what separates companies that thrive from those that fail.

In this episode, Kevin and Erik will discuss:

(00:00) Introduction

(04:00) Marketing struggles and agency failures

(06:56) Distilling marketing into public speaking

(11:42) Facebook ads performance decline

(15:58) Building employee confidence

(16:46) Emotional AI monitoring clients

(21:12) Gen Z work ethic and balance

(25:54) Resilience in business adversity

(27:59) Leadership and financial resilience

(31:32) Transforming workplace culture

(34:24) Building a high-performance culture

(37:01) Environment shapes community dynamics

(40:31) Mental performance and therapy insights

Erik Huberman is the founder and CEO of Hawke Media, a leading US marketing consultancy that’s helped thousands of brands scale with strategic, data-driven solutions. A serial entrepreneur, bestselling author of The Hawke Method and sought-after speaker, he’s been recognised on Forbes 30 Under 30 and shaped modern digital marketing practices.

Connect with Erik:

Erik’s Website: https://erikhuberman.com/

Erik’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/erikhuberman/

Erik’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/erikhuberman/

Resources Mentioned:

The Hawke Method by Erik Huberman: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1631957015

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Strategy First for Powerful Personal and Business Brands | Karen Leland Mar 03, 2026

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What if you could build a powerful brand not by chasing big media hits, but by consistently lighting “a lot of little fires”?

Karen Leland, branding and marketing strategist, author, and CEO of Sterling Marketing Group, is Kevin St. Clergy’s guest this week. With over 15 years of guiding Fortune 500 companies and entrepreneurs, her work bridges the gap between business systems and authentic brand presence.

Together, they unpack how branding has shifted from quick sprints to enduring marathons, where targeted messaging, ongoing self-audit, and overcoming blind spots – not drunk marketing or ego – are key to staying relevant and impactful.

In this episode, Kevin and Karen will discuss:

(00:00) Introduction

(03:43) Journey to branding and marketing

(08:37) Starting many fires persistently

(10:58) Targeted marketing beats broad exposure

(15:10) Personal branding beyond the self

(19:09) Stop reactive drunk marketing

(22:20) Thought leadership requires substance

(25:56) Revitalizing a construction brand

(28:02) Navigating branding challenges today

(30:46) Why the problem is your culture

(37:47) Key branding and marketing insights

Karen Leland is president of Sterling Consulting Group, a branding and customer service expert with over 25 years of experience helping leaders and teams excel. She’s the Brand Mapping Strategy, and a respected keynote speaker and consultant on business communication and service culture.

Connect with Karen:

Karen’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/karentiberleland/

Sterling Consulting Group: https://sterlingmarketinggroup.com/

Resources Mentioned:

The Brand Mapping Strategy by Karen Leland: https://www.amazon.com/dp/159918589X

Joel Barker’s Paradigm Paralysis: https://jeffshore.com/2010/01/paradigm-paralysis/

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Blockchain, AI, and the Myths That Hold Us Back | Armando Pantoja Feb 24, 2026

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Armando Pantoja, known as the Tall Guy Tycoon, reveals why persistence, not perfection, is the secret ingredient tech entrepreneurs and investors often overlook.

With a deep background at the cutting edge of fintech, blockchain, and artificial intelligence, Armando blends street-level financial wisdom with futuristic insights. He’s a multi-company founder and celebrated voice who’s not afraid to disrupt business-as-usual thinking, guiding both individuals and enterprises toward long-term success in modern finance.

In this episode, Armando joins Kevin St. Clergy to bust myths about cryptocurrency, demystify the realities of AI and blockchain, and reveal the real blind spots that hold people back – from compounding returns to the dangers of unchecked ego.

In this episode, Kevin and Armando will discuss:

(00:00) Introduction

(06:35) Persistence over talent

(07:57) Redefining failure as learning

(10:34) Power of compounding explained

(16:08) Ego greed and financial collapse

(20:23) Quantum computing for food logistics

(21:25) Quantum computers revolutionize predictions

(23:48) Wrap-up and contact information

Armando Pantoja is a US-based tech entrepreneur, fintech expert, and bestselling author of The Strategic Millionaire. Known as “Tall Guy Tycoon,” he blends software engineering, blockchain and financial education to help audiences build strategic wealth. A TEDx speaker and recognized innovator, he inspires through insights on crypto, investing and financial literacy.

Connect with Armando:

Armando’s Website: https://www.whoistallguytycoon.com/index.html

Armando’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tallguytycoon/

Armando’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/tallguytycoon/

Resources Mentioned:

The Strategic Millionaire by Armando Pantoja: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B0BZJY36V2

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Asking Better Questions to Negotiate Anything | Alex Carter Feb 17, 2026

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Ever wondered why your toughest negotiations often start long before you enter the room? What if the real battle isn’t with others, but the stories you tell yourself?

Alex Carter is a world-renowned negotiation expert, clinical professor at Columbia Law School, and bestselling author of "Ask for More." Her work with the United Nations, global leaders, and Fortune 500 companies has shaped how thousands approach both business and everyday conversations, showing negotiation is a daily practice rooted in self-awareness and advocacy.

In this episode, Alex breaks down the hidden traps of blame, the role of self-reflection, and how asking better questions – of yourself and others – can transform conflict into partnership and unlock real change.

In this episode, Kevin and Aex will discuss:

(00:00) Negotiation and knowing your value

(03:23) Empowering others through integrity

(06:40) Asking better questions without blame

(12:43) Asking what instead of why

(14:39) Preventing conflict with negotiation

(18:59) Rethinking how sales really works

(22:06) Shifting from blame to collaboration

(26:20) Winning beyond the finish line

(27:13) Building success through partnership

(30:41) Sales as problem solving through connection

(34:42) Walking through life’s challenges

Alex Carter is a Columbia Law School professor and director of its Mediation Clinic, and the Wall Street Journal bestselling author of “Ask For More”. A leading negotiation expert, she trains organisations worldwide, advises public institutions, and speaks widely on negotiation, equity, and leadership. Her TEDx talk has reached hundreds of thousands globally.

Connect with Alex:

Alex’s Website: https://alexcarterasks.com/

Alex’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/alexandrabcarter/

Alex’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/alexandrabcarter

Resources Mentioned:

Ask For More by Alex Carter: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1982130482

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AI Won’t Fix Your Business – Leadership Will | David DeWolf Feb 10, 2026

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Will AI help your business grow or quietly undermine your culture? In this episode, visionary entrepreneur David DeWolf reveals why leaders can’t afford to sit back and “let AI happen.” As companies rush to automate, the real competitive advantage isn’t just better technology – it’s stronger leadership, clearer communication, and a culture built for change.

David is the Founder and CEO of Knownwell, an AI-powered CRM helping organizations build smarter, more human-centred relationships. With decades of experience in digital transformation, leadership, and scaling high-performance teams, David brings a rare blend of technical insight and real-world business wisdom.

Together, David and Kevin St. Clergy explore how to avoid the trap of “blind blaming,” why extreme ownership is the fastest path to growth, and how intentional culture turns disruption into opportunity.

If you’re a founder, executive, or team leader navigating AI, leadership, and the future of work, this conversation will change how you think about building a business that lasts.

In this episode, Kevin and David will discuss:

(04:11) Elevating work through AI

(07:41) Scaling leadership through reinvention

(10:25) Reflecting on leadership accountability

(15:16) Leadership reflection and accountability

(20:03) Dignity in leadership decisions

(22:58) Prioritise team investment strategy

(26:30) Morning routine shapes mindset

(31:39) Keys to effective leadership

(35:09) Empathy unlocks leadership potential

(36:11) Proactive performance review framework

(44:10) The value of mentorship

David DeWolf is a veteran entrepreneur, bestselling author, and founder of Knownwell, an AI-powered CRM redefining how relationships drive growth. With decades of leadership across software, investing, and ministry, David helps purpose-driven leaders build businesses that scale with clarity, trust, and long-term impact.

Connect with David:

Knownwell: https://knownwell.com/

David’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/ddewolf/

David’s Website: https://daviddewolf.com/

Resources Mentioned:

The Five Dysfunctions of a Team by Patrick Lencioni: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0787960756

AI Knowhow Podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/4umjv0k2QPRUibC2zwzPjW

The Leadership Secrets of Santa Claus by Eric Harvey: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1492632694

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Master the Stage with These Practical Tips and Mindset Shifts for Speakers | Carla Howard Feb 03, 2026

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Carla Howard spent years navigating corporate change, and now she’s leading others through the maze of self-doubt, tough negotiations, and career transitions on her own terms.

As a mentor, strategic change leader, and confidence-builder, Carla empowers speakers to ditch limiting beliefs, build an unshakable foundation, and advocate for themselves in the marketplace. Her toolkit: clarity, bold action, and mindset shifts.

In this episode, Carla joins Kevin St. Clergy to unpack the hidden traps speakers face – from overcoming imposter syndrome and blind blaming, to mastering the art of negotiation, niching down for impact, and becoming truly indispensable on any stage.

In this episode, Kevin and Carla will discuss:

(01:12) Introducing Carla Howard

(03:47) How speakers really get paid

(08:06) Turning speaking into a profession

(10:00) Overcoming nerves on stage

(14:31) Finding the right conferences for your niche

(17:14) Negotiating fees and adding more value

(20:23) How to get paid from the stage

(23:21) Focusing on what the audience actually needs

(27:35) Habits of proactive event speakers

(30:26) Promoting events before and after they run

(33:00) Simple ways to keep an audience engaged

(37:46) Why mistakes fuel real growth

Carla Howard is a sought-after speaker, coach, and communication strategist who helps leaders and entrepreneurs get paid for their expertise. With decades of experience on stages and in boardrooms, she teaches how to own your voice, deliver real value, and turn speaking into a profitable, impact-driven career.

Connect with Carla:

The Speakers Connection: https://thespeakersconnection.com/

Carla’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/changestrategist/

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Unlocking Potential From Self-Doubt to 7-Figure Success | Sunil Tulsiani Jan 27, 2026

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What if the biggest obstacle to wealth isn’t external, but the story you tell yourself? Sunil Tulsiani was once a Toronto police detective who doubted he could write a single paragraph. Now he’s a seven-time bestselling author, high-profile real estate investor, and business mentor.

Founder of the Private Investment Club, Canada’s largest real estate investment group, Sunil has empowered thousands to rewrite their futures, building wealth and confidence through strategic deals and a no-excuses mindset. His journey from working at gas stations to partnering with legends like Tony Robbins and Robert Kiyosaki inspires people to go beyond self-imposed limitations.

Kevin St. Clergy and Sunil dig into the vital role of mindset, and practical steps for anyone, regardless of background, to unlock financial independence.

In this episode, Kevin and Sunil will discuss:

(04:07) How mindset drives action

(09:19) Why you need a mentor

(12:48) Building a real estate business

(15:52) Journey from struggle to privilege

(18:58) Overcoming challenges and setbacks

(21:43) Lessons in growth and accountability

(24:08) Real estate wealth from no money

(27:30) Benefits of real estate wholesaling

(32:22) Property investment and partnerships

(35:44) Importance of having a mentor

(39:22) Proximity, coaching, growth strategies

(42:52) Russell brunson's strangest secret

Sunil Tulsiani is a global leadership coach, bestselling author, and founder of the Private Wealth Mastery Program. Known as “The Wealthy Life Mentor,” he helps entrepreneurs and executives align purpose, prosperity, and performance – guiding high achievers to build wealth, legacy, and a deeply fulfilling life.

Connect with Sunil:

Professional Investors Club: https://professionalinvestorsclub.com/

Sunil’s YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/suniltulsiani

Sunil’s Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/suniltulsianiofficial/

Sunil’s LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/suniltulsiani/

Resources Mentioned:

ACHIEVE by Sunil Tulsiani and Robert Allen: https://www.amazon.com/dp/1628651385

Science of Getting Rich by Wallace D. Wattles: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B001WYVB7O/

Rich Dad Poor Dad by Robert Kiyosaki: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B07QPQ8WBL/

Cash Flow Quadrant by Robert Kiyosaki: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B009PSK0RG

Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B000XJNDVQ/

The Strangest Secret by Earl Nightingale: https://www.amazon.com/dp/B00OH7DRT8/

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Redefining Dreams From Hearing Loss to Hope | Mandy Harvey Jan 20, 2026

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For singer-songwriter Mandy Harvey, losing her hearing at 18 could have meant an ending – but instead, it became the start of her most powerful story.

An acclaimed musician, author, and motivational speaker, Mandy has inspired millions through her performances and her resilience, including her unforgettable run on America's Got Talent. With a unique journey marked by setbacks, reinvention, and grit, she shows what’s possible when adversity is met with unwavering hope.

In this episode, Mandy unpacks separating dreams from self-worth, overcoming “dream thieves,” embracing risk, and discovering strength in vulnerability.

In this episode, Kevin and Mandy will discuss:

(03:15) Finding identity through music

(07:18) Growth beyond cancel culture

(12:24) Pursuing dreams through resilience

(13:35) Embracing growth through challenges

(19:11) Isolation and the deaf experience

(21:54) Dealing with cyberbullying insights

(25:57) No barriers inspire songwriting

(28:12) Overcoming fear to create

(31:26) Pursuing dreams embraces change

(34:35) Overcoming fear through performance

(37:49) Creating music fuels my soul

(43:31) Gratitude for caring audiologists

(46:07) Overcoming doubt and fear

Mandy Harvey is a deaf singer-songwriter, speaker, and finalist on America’s Got Talent. After losing her hearing, she rebuilt her relationship with music through vibration and muscle memory. Today, she inspires audiences worldwide with her resilience, creativity, and message that limitations don’t define potential.

Connect with Mandy:

Mandy’s Website: https://mandyharveymusic.com/

Mandy on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mandyharvey/

Mandy’s Music: https://open.spotify.com/artist/15BFYS3S38ABXsEs8AVrXL?si=bLrHJwXNQ4ukllZX1OITow&nd=1&dlsi=799c1e5b3ebe47ad

Resources Mentioned:

‘Sensing the Rhythm’ by Mandy Harvey: https://www.amazon.co.uk/dp/1501172255

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From Guns N' Roses to Rockstar Brand | Craig Duswalt Jan 13, 2026

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Legendary road manager turned marketing maverick Craig Duswalt knows firsthand that playing it safe can leave you invisible – even if you’re brilliant.

After touring with Guns N’ Roses and Air Supply, Craig Duswalt infused his backstage wisdom into the world of entrepreneurship, helping business owners and speakers break free from bland branding. His Rockstar approach has made him a sought-after coach and event leader.

In this episode, Craig Duswalt joins Kevin St. Clergy to explore what it really takes to stand out, the myths that keep entrepreneurs stuck, and why making daring decisions is the ultimate power move.

In this episode, Kevin and Craig will discuss:

(00:00) From touring to rock-star marketing

(05:51) Interactive branding through performance

(09:23) Rock stars and keynote icons

(13:00) Accepting the worst-case scenario

(13:53) Patience and perseverance pay off

(19:21) Decisions define leadership

(21:46) Decision-making and mastermind success

(24:53) Maximizing coaching and mastermind value

(27:46) Storytelling enhances marketing impact

(31:25) Personalizing AI content creation

(39:42) Breaking into the music industry

(46:37) Mindset shapes success

(47:40) Wrestling with self-esteem issues

(50:33) The fly swatter success story

Craig Duswalt is a keynote speaker, leadership coach, and former tour manager for Guns N’ Roses. Drawing on decades of real-world experience, he helps leaders and teams build discipline, accountability, and high-performance habits through practical, no-nonsense lessons that translate directly into results.

Connect with Craig:

Craig on LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/craigduswalt

Craig’s Website: https://www.craigduswalt.com/

Rockstar Marketing Speaker Website: https://rockstarmarketingspeaker.com/

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