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    Between the Ears Podcast

    Your inner state creates your outer reality. Between The Ears is a show about the mental and emotional world we all carry inside, and how understanding it can transform the life we live outside. Hosted by Arnold Beekes, each episode explores a single idea for building a better life between the ears: taking back control from the expectations of parents, teachers, bosses, and everyone else who has quietly been driving your behavior, learning what you actually want instead of what you have been told to want, and lowering the chronic stress that comes from living two lives at once. Every episode closes with a moment of everyday beauty, a small true story of kindness, courage, or compassion, because what you notice and appreciate shapes your inner state just as much as what you think. If you are ready to stop living someone else’s life and start living your own, this podcast is for you.

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    Latest Episodes:
    #23 Q&Q — How Am I Loving Myself? Sep 13, 2026
    Show notes

    In this question-and-quote episode, Arnold Beekes tackles a question many people instinctively label selfish: how am I loving myself? He makes the case that self-love isn't ego or self-interest — it's the actual precondition for loving anyone or anything else, since a self-critical inner state directly shapes the outer reality you attract. He argues this is something to practice daily, not something to arrive at once and forget, since the inner critic most of us have built up over a lifetime doesn't disappear on its own. He pairs it with a sobering quote: "The longer you allow yourself to be damaged by negative behavior from others, the more unlikely it becomes that you can fully recover." Arnold connects this to the compounding effect of constant negative inputs — 24/7 news, complaining friends, people always comparing and criticizing — becoming your normalized environment the longer you stay in it. He shares a personal, vulnerable example: his own mother, who instinctively looked for the dark side of everything, from good weather ("but it will start to rain") to anything else in front of her, believing that worry and anxiety were somehow protective, when in reality they just made everyone around her feel lousy. His closing message: while you can't always choose your circumstances, you can choose your friends, your media, and what you read — and those choices matter more than most people realize.

    🔗 About Your Host (Arnold Beekes)
    🌐 Website: https://bio.link/beekes
    💪 Brain Gym: https://braingym.fitness
    🧠 Brain Athletes: https://brainathletes.club
    🚀 Innovation Athletes: https://innovationathletes.club
    🎓 Join our Skool brain-fitness community: https://www.skool.com/brain-fitness-7070

    Roy Coughlan · The Podfather Network — Editor & Promoter
    Website: https://roycoughlan.com/
    Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/
    Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 49+ Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academy
    Brain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/
    The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/

    #BetweenTheEars #BrainUpgrade #QuestionAndQuote #SelfLove #SelfCompassion #PersonalGrowth #ArnoldBeekes #Mindset #Uniqueness


    #22 The Happiness Taboo Sep 13, 2026
    Show notes

    In this episode, Arnold Beekes unpacks a striking piece of psychology history: an article by Scott Barry Kaufman revealing that Abraham Maslow — the famous psychologist behind the pyramid of needs — wrote a chapter back in 1969 concluding that a substantial portion of how happy you are comes down to the luck of your genetic draw, and then chose never to publish it, fearing the implications. Arnold argues that suppressing this finding for over 50 years has quietly caused enormous suffering, leaving countless people to believe there's something wrong with them for not being as happy as everyone around them, despite doing all the "right" things — gratitude journals, exercise, self-help books. He draws a direct parallel to the business and entrepreneurship world, where the same "follow these seven steps and you'll be a millionaire" formula gets sold as universally guaranteed, and when it doesn't work, people turn the blame inward instead of questioning the promise itself. Arnold's takeaway is a reframe, not a resignation: this isn't proof you can't be happy, it's proof that you are genuinely unique, and that a practice working for one person is never a guarantee it will work identically for you. The episode closes with a genuinely moving moment of everyday beauty: footage of Spanish footballer Nico Williams, fresh off a championship win, finding his mother in the stadium and handing her his gold medal — a tribute to the journey she made walking through the Sahara from Ghana to build a better life for her family in Spain.

    🔗 About Your Host (Arnold Beekes)
    🌐 Website: https://bio.link/beekes
    💪 Brain Gym: https://braingym.fitness
    🧠 Brain Athletes: https://brainathletes.club
    🚀 Innovation Athletes: https://innovationathletes.club
    🎓 Join our Skool brain-fitness community: https://www.skool.com/brain-fitness-7070

    Roy Coughlan · The Podfather Network — Editor & Promoter
    Website: https://roycoughlan.com/
    Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/
    Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 49+ Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academy
    Brain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/
    The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/

    #BetweenTheEars #BrainUpgrade #Happiness #Psychology #SelfCompassion #PersonalGrowth #ArnoldBeekes #Uniqueness #EverydayBeauty


    #21 What Do You Believe That Others Think Is Insane? Sep 13, 2026
    Show notes

    In this question-and-quote episode, Arnold Beekes challenges groupthink head-on — the pressure to quietly change your own opinion just to fit in, avoid looking weird, or avoid being the exception. He asks: what do you believe that other people would think is insane, and dares you to hold onto it rather than conform. He shares his own example — a belief that we live in a simulated reality, an idea David Icke was mocked for over 20 years ago that now has growing scientific support behind it. His point: looking insane at first doesn't mean you're wrong, it might just mean you were early. He pairs it with a quote: "If you always blame someone else, you will not grow and others will dislike you." Arnold connects this to a culture of constant criticism and blame — on social media, in everyday conversation — arguing that blaming others keeps you stuck reacting to someone else's creation instead of generating your own ideas, and radiates a low, uninviting frequency that pushes people away rather than drawing them in.

    🔗 About Your Host (Arnold Beekes)
    🌐 Website: https://bio.link/beekes
    💪 Brain Gym: https://braingym.fitness
    🧠 Brain Athletes: https://brainathletes.club
    🚀 Innovation Athletes: https://innovationathletes.club
    🎓 Join our Skool brain-fitness community: https://www.skool.com/brain-fitness-7070

    Roy Coughlan · The Podfather Network — Editor & Promoter
    Website: https://roycoughlan.com/
    Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/
    Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 49+ Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academy
    Brain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/
    The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/

    #BetweenTheEars #BrainUpgrade #QuestionAndQuote #Groupthink #PersonalGrowth #Mindset #ArnoldBeekes #SelfAwareness #Uniqueness


    #20 Everydayness Sep 13, 2026
    Show notes

    In this episode, Arnold Beekes makes the case that "everydayness" — showing up daily, not just occasionally — is the actual hallmark of excellence in any domain, whether that's music, sport, nursing, or building a better world. He pushes back on the excuse of being too busy, arguing that anyone excellent at anything got there through consistent daily practice, never once-a-week effort. He connects this directly to the modern distraction problem: smartphones and social media offering constant, fear-based content that pulls people into comparing themselves to others, which actively works against the discipline everydayness requires. Arnold offers three simple daily practices: learn something (however small), create something (even just a pencil drawing), and care — for yourself as much as for others, since most of us are far better at the second than the first. He adds true self-analysis — checking in honestly with what you're feeling, thinking, or even physically sensing — and walking, sharing his own remarkable story of being told by a surgeon he might never walk again after destroying his heel, and now walking over an hour every morning. The episode closes with its usual moment of everyday beauty: the story of Florence Loma Rivo in Kenya, who escaped female genital mutilation and child marriage herself and turned that experience into a mission — building a school and rescue center for girls facing the same threat today.

    🔗 About Your Host (Arnold Beekes)
    🌐 Website: https://bio.link/beekes
    💪 Brain Gym: https://braingym.fitness
    🧠 Brain Athletes: https://brainathletes.club
    🚀 Innovation Athletes: https://innovationathletes.club
    🎓 Join our Skool brain-fitness community: https://www.skool.com/brain-fitness-7070

    Roy Coughlan · The Podfather Network — Editor & Promoter
    Website: https://roycoughlan.com/
    Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/
    Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 49+ Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academy
    Brain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/
    The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/

    #BetweenTheEars #BrainUpgrade #Everydayness #Discipline #PersonalGrowth #Mindset #ArnoldBeekes #DailyPractice #EverydayBeauty


    #19 Q&Q — What Makes You Cry? Sep 12, 2026
    Show notes

    In this short question-and-quote episode, Arnold Beekes poses a single question: what makes you cry — and not just full tears, but burning ones too? He reflects on experiencing burning tears daily lately, and offers a reframe: tears, whether from sadness, beauty, love, loss, or meaning, are signs from the heart asking you to pay attention to what's been suppressed for far too long. He pairs it with a quote from Albert Camus — "Men must live and create, live to the point of tears" — meaning to live so fully and honestly that life moves you into awe, joy, heartbreak, and gratitude, rather than staying safe, numb, or half asleep.

    🔗 About Your Host (Arnold Beekes)
    🌐 Website: https://bio.link/beekes
    💪 Brain Gym: https://braingym.fitness
    🧠 Brain Athletes: https://brainathletes.club
    🚀 Innovation Athletes: https://innovationathletes.club
    🎓 Join our Skool brain-fitness community: https://www.skool.com/brain-fitness-7070

    Roy Coughlan · The Podfather Network — Editor & Promoter
    Website: https://roycoughlan.com/
    Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/
    Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 49+ Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academy
    Brain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/
    The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/

    #BetweenTheEars #BrainUpgrade #QuestionAndQuote #Camus #Emotions #PersonalGrowth #ArnoldBeekes #SelfAwareness #Uniqueness


    #18 The Power of Language Sep 12, 2026
    Show notes

    In this episode, Arnold Beekes explores language as what he calls an invisible straitjacket — something almost nobody recognizes as a limitation, yet it shapes and restricts nearly every connection we try to make with each other. He walks through why: the sheer number of mother tongues across the world, the fact that even speaking seven languages himself (he's currently learning Spanish, his seventh) still leaves him limited in certain conversations, and how communication breaks down even between people who share a language, let alone across a genuinely global world. Arnold introduces Marshall Rosenberg's framework of Nonviolent Communication — observation, feeling, need, and request — and explains why each step is harder than it sounds, particularly feeling, since most of us have spent a lifetime suppressing our emotions rather than naming them. He shares a personal story from his own coaching journey, when he was asked for the first time what he actually wanted, only to realize he could only articulate what he didn't want. That leads into two striking examples of language working against us: longevity researcher Bryan Johnson's slogan "Don't Die" (and the incurable immune disease diagnosis that followed), and Anita Moorjani's childhood fear of cancer, drilled into her as "I must not get cancer" — who went on to develop cancer before her well-known near-death experience. The episode closes, as always, with a moment of everyday beauty: research on how nature videos, even watched on a screen, can meaningfully reduce stress when direct access to nature isn't available.

    🔗 About Your Host (Arnold Beekes)
    🌐 Website: https://bio.link/beekes
    💪 Brain Gym: https://braingym.fitness
    🧠 Brain Athletes: https://brainathletes.club
    🚀 Innovation Athletes: https://innovationathletes.club
    🎓 Join our Skool brain-fitness community: https://www.skool.com/brain-fitness-7070

    Roy Coughlan · The Podfather Network — Editor & Promoter
    Website: https://roycoughlan.com/
    Virtual Assistants: https://va.world/
    Private Networking Group: Learn about a Private Networking Group in 50 US States & 49+ Countries with 700+ Members https://connectedleaders.academy
    Brain Upgrade: https://brainupgrade.org/
    The Authority Alliance: A Foundation of Experts — community for entrepreneurs, coaches, and thought leaders to connect, collaborate, and grow their authority together: https://theauthorityalliance.com/

    #BetweenTheEars #BrainUpgrade #Communication #NonviolentCommunication #Language #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #ArnoldBeekes #StressRelief #NatureTherapy


    #17 When do you feel that you are fully present? Aug 21, 2026
    Show notes

    In this Q&Q episode of Between the Ears, Arnold Beekes asks a question that sounds simple but reveals just how rarely we actually experience it — and then makes a compelling case for why boredom might be one of the most underrated tools you have. Another sharp, thought-provoking episode that is over before you know it.

    The Question

    When do you feel that you are fully present?

    • Most of us are either replaying the past or rehearsing the future — rarely actually here
    • Arnold noticed it himself during his morning mobility exercises — losing count because his mind was elsewhere thinking about an unpaid internet bill
    • He feels most present when reading something he genuinely cares about — rumination, emotions, mental health
    • Full presence isn't a default state — it's something worth noticing, cultivating and returning to deliberately
    • When do you feel it? In conversation, in nature, in flow? That answer tells you something important

    The Quote

    "There is no room for creativity if you are busy following orders."

    • Large and small companies alike suffer from a creativity drought — because people are too busy meeting expectations to think freely
    • Your brain needs space to make new connections — and that space is almost impossible to find when you're constantly trying to please someone above you
    • Boredom is not wasted time — it is when your brain quietly connects the wires that produce creative breakthroughs
    • Next time you're standing in a queue or sitting in a taxi, put the phone down and let your mind wander
    • Creativity cannot be forced into a full head — it needs room

    About Arnold Beekes

    🧠 Arnold Beekes enables you to have a better life between the ears.
    ✦ Links: https://bio.link/beekes
    ✦ Brain Fitness: https://braingym.fitness
    ✦ Brain Athletes Community: https://brainathletes.club
    ✦ Innovation Athletes: https://innovationathletes.club

    🎙️ Edited and Produced by The PodFather Network LLC
    🌐 https://roycoughlan.com/

    #BetweenTheEars #ArnoldBeekes #BrainFitness #QuestionAndQuote #FullPresence #Creativity #Boredom #UnleashYourUniqueness #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #InnerWork


    #16 Basics of Brain Fitness – Part 2 Aug 20, 2026
    Show notes

    In this episode of Between the Ears, Arnold Beekes completes his fundamentals series with four more brain fitness basics — covering your body, your social life, your environment and the humility to keep learning. Together with the previous episode, these eight basics form a complete daily framework for a better life between the ears. Plus a beautiful story of one man's 10-year mission to transform an old railroad bridge into something extraordinary.

    What You'll Learn in This Episode

    • Why your body and brain are completely interconnected — and why neglecting one always affects the other
    • How movement, sleep, nutrition and engaging in the arts all directly impact your brain fitness
    • Why ultra-processed food is one of the top three global threats to mental health
    • How the people you allow into your inner circle — and the environment you live in — shape your brain every single day
    • Why keeping a beginner's mind and staying humble about how much you don't know is one of the most powerful things you can do

    The Four Basics — Completing the Framework

    • Your Body — Movement, sleep, nutrition and arts. All of it connects directly to your brain. Skipping one while working on another is like going to the gym and drinking beer afterwards
    • Social — Choose your inner circle carefully. Toxic and narcissistic people damage your brain fitness. At the same time, meet new people, connect, wave to strangers on the street
    • Your Environment — Natural light, fresh air, noise levels, radiation and pollution all have measurable impacts on your brain. Where you spend your time matters more than most people realise
    • Know That You Don't Know — Humility and a beginner's mind keep learning fun and keep your brain growing. There is always more to discover

    Arnold's Mission

    To enable better brains and better innovation for better living.

    Everyday Beauty

    Mike Salarez spotted a disused 120-year-old railroad bridge on the Kansas River and spent 10 years turning it into a reality. Using his P6 approach — public, private, philanthropy, people, purpose and process — he assembled donated materials, pro bono legal support and community backing to create the Rock Island Bridge: now a restaurant, event space and public walkway above the river. One man, one vision, a decade of persistence.

    About Arnold Beekes

    🧠 Arnold Beekes enables you to have a better life between the ears.
    ✦ Links: https://bio.link/beekes
    ✦ Brain Fitness: https://braingym.fitness
    ✦ Brain Athletes Community: https://brainathletes.club
    ✦ Innovation Athletes: https://innovationathletes.club

    🎙️ Edited and Produced by The PodFather Network LLC
    🌐 https://roycoughlan.com/

    #BetweenTheEars #ArnoldBeekes #BrainFitness #BrainFitnessBasics #BodyAndBrain #SocialWellbeing #Environment #BeginnersМind #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #EverydayBeauty


    #15 What do you need now? Aug 19, 2026
    Show notes

    In this Q&Q episode of Between the Ears, Arnold Beekes asks a deceptively simple question that most people never stop to answer honestly — and follows it with a quote that draws a sharp line between two very different ways of living. Short, direct and worth sitting with.

    The Question

    What do you need now?

    • Most of us spend our time focused on what other people need — to gain their approval or acknowledgement
    • Arnold asks you to turn that inward — not tomorrow, not in three months, but right now
    • Maybe your body needs rest. Maybe your brain needs less screen time. Maybe you just need an hour alone with a good book
    • Pay attention to what comes up when you ask — and respect it

    The Quote

    "The ordinary brings you poverty, mental illnesses, addiction, fear and punishment. The extraordinary brings you joy, creativity and fulfilment."

    • We are conditioned to fit in, not stand out — because standing out feels dangerous
    • But fitting in means ignoring who you actually are — a unique human being
    • When everyone does the same thing, competition is fierce and fulfilment is rare
    • Living your own life — truly unleashing your uniqueness — is where joy, creativity and meaningful relationships actually live
    • The question is simple: are you ordinary or extraordinary?

    About Arnold Beekes

    🧠 Arnold Beekes enables you to have a better life between the ears.
    ✦ Links: https://bio.link/beekes
    ✦ Brain Fitness: https://braingym.fitness
    ✦ Brain Athletes Community: https://brainathletes.club
    ✦ Innovation Athletes: https://innovationathletes.club

    🎙️ Edited and Produced by The PodFather Network LLC
    🌐 https://roycoughlan.com/

    #BetweenTheEars #ArnoldBeekes #BrainFitness #QuestionAndQuote #UnleashYourUniqueness #OrdinaryVsExtraordinary #Mindset #PersonalGrowth #InnerWork #Consciousness #BeExtraordinary


    #14 Basics of Brain Fitness Aug 18, 2026
    Show notes

    Hello and welcome, I'm Arnold Beekes and I enable you to have a better life between the ears. Because, why is that relevant? Because your inner state creates your outer reality. Today we are going to discuss some basics of brain fitness and these are really, really important and if you want to improve your brain fitness, I suggest that you pay a lot of attention to them and you apply them, preferably daily into your schedule.

    Number one is full feeling. What does that mean? Is that you don't try to suppress your feelings, but you fully experience them, that you fully feel your feelings. Why is that relevant? Well, because emotions are the core psychological and physiological platform that determines the quality, consistency and effectiveness of your actions.

    So, emotions are really, really, like I said in another podcast, are really the driving force of everything you do and they provide the fuel for everything you do. So, instead of ignoring or suppressing your feelings, feel them where they are. What are they? Are they positive feelings or are they negative feelings? Are they constructive or are they destructive? The second basic is self-kindness.

    Be kind to yourself and validate only internally, not externally. Don't wait to feel good if some other people say you are okay. No, say it to yourself by yourself and we all have that inner voice which is very likely to be an inner critic.

    That is the language it uses is mostly very, very unpleasant. But sometimes your inner critic, because it tries to protect you or keep you safe, is relevant, but most of the time it repeats the language which your parents used and your most dominant parent used to you in your childhood. So, that inner critic is not helping you and I would suggest to transform your inner critic into an inner cheerleader.

    So, self-kindness. The third one is help others. If you want to keep your brain fit, just help others and that doesn't mean like big things.

    You can just greet people. You can just, if you go into the supermarket, keep the door open for someone else or if somebody has some problems with a computer and you say, hey, do you want any help? And it can be very small things and most likely these small things you can do every day. Maybe your neighbor is sick and say, hey, can I get you some food from the supermarket? Or better, you want some food which we have cooked.

    So, helping others. And the next one is diverge and converge. What does it mean? Diverge means that you allow your curiosity to go where you want it to go and not say, oh, you're looking into something which is not relevant for my work or my hobbies.

    No, it's okay. It's okay to be curious and to look into things where you have no clue about but you're like, I would like to know what these red birds are with these red feathers and making loud noises. What are they? That's your curiosity.

    Follow it. It's really good. And once you have followed your curiosity, then later you can, what they call converge, which means bring it more together.

    So, diverge is going wide. Converge is bringing it together and create something out of all the experiences you have. And that doesn't mean the experiences from just this week or the last month.

    You can have topics which you viewed for years and years and years in your life and then all of a sudden you see an application and you create something out of that for a topic where you had no clue years ago that it would be so useful. So, I would like to repeat these basics for your brain fitness. Fulfilling, self-kindness, help others, diverge and converge.

    We conclude each session with some examples of everyday beauty because beauty and especially moral beauty like kindness, again, courage, compassion has a very positive influence on your inner state. Today's topic is about a positive use of artificial intelligence and it's artificial intelligence protecting elephants. In certain areas there are acoustic sensor networks deployed in forest canopies and they now can detect the sounds of poachers, chainsaws and illegal vehicles in real time using AI analysis.

    And that gives rangers, the guy who take care of the parks, of the wild parks, early warning that protects both elephants and the forest they live in. Please remember, we need your uniqueness. Be a better maker for yourself, for others, for the world.


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