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#79 - How Do You Know If You're Winning? Apr 03, 2018

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Everyone keeps score. Our brains are hard-wired to categorize even when it comes to grading our children or marriages. So when someone asks, "how are you doing" what do you use for your scorecard?

In this episode Billy and Joy discuss the perils of focusing on micro gauges and limiting our evaluations to tangible measures. If you are walking through challenging days, you will definitely appreciate this discussion.

Talk about this:

How do you we currently "score" our family or marriage? How confident are we in the criteria we are using?

What SHOULD we be using to score our relationships?

Related link:

We love Seth Godin – his blog is here…do yourself a solid and check him out!

#78 - The Best Way to De-Stress Your Family Mar 27, 2018

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Stress makes every area of life more difficult, but it's particularly challenging in families. The good news is, there's an antidote. In this episode Billy and Joy tee up one simple, yet challenging, approach.

Related-ish Links

Essentialism by Greg McKeown found here

NY Times Article On Mommy Wine Culture here

Mary Poppins – Let's go fly a kite! Behind the scenes here.

Albert Einstein… " When I examine myself and my methods of thought, I come to the conclusion that the gift of fantasy has meant more to me than my talent for absorbing positive knowledge."

Find other episodes on play here …Check out #10, 33, and 62

Talk about this:

Are we stressed? If so, then check the gauges and find the cause? How can we have more PLAY in our life?

What are the obstacles keeping us from play that we need to push through?

Also remember:

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#77 - The Danger of Building Your Life Around Your Kids Mar 20, 2018

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Have you ever felt like your children rule your life? Of COURSE they require a ton of care and nurturing, but have they become the core of your family? The temptation to build the family around the kids is one of the easiest things for parents to slip into. In this episode Billy and Joy discuss the dangers of child-centric parenting and how to see if you're inadvertently living that life!

This may be one of those episodes where you disagree with our thoughts, but hopefully it will get you talking!

Related-ish links:

Psychology Today talks about narcissism here…

We mention a few previous episodes that expand on these topics. Links below...

Episode 4 – Practical Steps For Prioritizing Marriage

Episode 31 – Erasing Fear From Parenting

Episode 32 – 6 Crucial Practices Before Becoming Parents

Talk about this:

It's likely all of us have some child-centric habits - so this week's "play along with us at home" questions are... in what areas do you make your kids the center of your world? how can we make practical changes to move them from the center?

Also remember:

Tag someone who you think would like this podcast on one of the socials! Leave a review! It's an easy way to invest in others and we really appreciate the support!

You can find us @betweenparents on instagram and @betweenparentspodcast on Facebook. We love hearing from you!!

#76 - 15 Things Husbands Really Want Their Wives To Know Mar 13, 2018

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In our last episode Joy detailed her list of what wives really want their husbands to know, so now it's Billy's turn. Of COURSE this list isn't all-inclusive and, to be sure, some of it may not be relevant to you (especially #9), but hey – it's a great start!

Talk about this:

Wives, ask your husbands if any of these reflect his feelings!

Also remember…

Tag someone who you think would like this podcast on one of the socials! Leave a review! It's an easy way to invest in others and we really appreciate the support!

#75 - 15 Things wives really want their husbands to know Mar 06, 2018

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While there's no instruction manual for marriage, it's not uncommon for spouses to have a mental "wish list" of things they wish their spouse understood. In this week's episode Joy has taken a stab at fifteen such "things." Maybe you'll agree - -maybe you won't. Either way, it should prompt some good discussion!

Guys – don't worry. Next week Billy will have a chance to share his list!

Talk about this:

Husbands, ask your wives if any of these things reflect her feelings!

Also remember…

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#74 - Six Expectations For Parents Feb 27, 2018

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What did you think life would be like when you became a parent? What were your hopes and dreams? What did you expect from your kids and your experience?

Whatever your answer, there's tremendous power in those expectations. In today's episode Billy and Joy talk through lesser known, but realistic expectations every parent should have.

Talk about this:

Which of these expectations is most challenging for you to manage and why?

Also remember…

#73 - Enjoying the Middle School Years Feb 20, 2018

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What is it about Middle School that makes everything feel so awkward? Is it the rush of hormones? Is it the lack of executive reasoning? Is it because parents are put off by the goofiness or hygiene?

Yes to all of the above. Still, with a little patience and a plan, the Middle School season can be AMAZING. Take a listen and see for yourself.

Talk about this:

What are we currently doing that seems out of step with our middle schooler's developmental reality?

Where do we need to improve our plan?

Also remember…

Finally - remember to tag your social media posts with #middleschoolawesomeness and #betweenparents

#72 - Eight things to do before you get married Feb 13, 2018

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In the throws of new love, dating, and then engagement, it's easy to lose sight of what it takes to start a marriage well. What do you need to focus on and what needs to be minimized? In this episode Billy and Joy discuss eight things every couple should do before tying the knot!

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