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Behind The Story Show

Welcome to Behind The Story Show, a long-form interview podcast hosted by Jelani Gonzalez that goes beyond the headlines to uncover the real journeys behind extraordinary people and powerful ideas.

Each week, Jelani sits down with entrepreneurs, athletes, artists, creators, leaders, and change-makers to explore the defining moments, hard-earned lessons, personal challenges, and bold decisions that shaped their path. From business and creativity to leadership, culture, innovation, and reinvention, Behind The Story brings you candid conversations that reveal not just what people achieved, but what it took to get there.

If you are building something, chasing a vision, navigating change, or looking for stories that educate, inspire, and challenge the way you think, this show is for you.

Join us as we go behind the success, behind the struggle, and Behind The Story.

Latest Episodes:

Aaron Ryan on Writing 43 Books, Fatherhood, and the Fight to Keep Storytelling Human Apr 09, 2026

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On this episode of Behind the Story, Jelani sits down with bestselling and award-winning author Aaron Ryan for a deeply personal conversation about the life behind the books.

Aaron opens up about the childhood spark that made him a storyteller, the emotional therapy of writing, how fatherhood reshaped both his life and his work, and why hope remains the through-line in the worlds he creates. He also shares what it means to self-publish, see his work adapted for screen, and navigate a creative career during a time when AI is rapidly disrupting both publishing and voice acting.

This is a conversation about identity, legacy, creativity, and what it means to keep creating when the world keeps changing.

In this episode:

The childhood moment that made Aaron realize he was meant to write
Why writing is both catharsis and calling
Fatherhood, vulnerability, and his book on being a dad
The emotional toll of loving fictional characters
AI’s impact on authors, voice artists, and human creativity
Self-publishing vs traditional publishing
The legacy Aaron hopes to leave behind

#BehindTheStory #AaronRyan #AuthorInterview #WritingLife #SelfPublishing #VoiceActing #AIAndCreativity #Fatherhood #SciFiAuthor #FantasyAuthor #HumanAuthored

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Dr. Donna Bellinger: Discipline, Self-Worth, and Getting Paid Your Value Apr 06, 2026

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What really keeps business owners stuck in sales?

In this episode of Behind the Story, Dr. Donna Bellinger breaks down the habits, mindset gaps, and leadership mistakes that quietly block revenue growth. She shares why business owners often become their own bottleneck, how self-sabotage shows up in sales, and why consistently communicating your competence matters more than trying to be the smartest person in the room.

Donna also explains her powerful “suspects, prospects, and ambassadors” framework, how to stop chasing the wrong people, and what sales discipline actually looks like when you want sustainable growth.

This conversation is direct, practical, and full of real-world advice for entrepreneurs, coaches, consultants, and owner-operators who want to grow revenue, own their value, and build a stronger business.

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Michelle Minnikin on Good Girl Conditioning, Imposter Syndrome, and Women Playing Small Apr 04, 2026

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Why do so many women grow up learning to be liked, agreeable, and accommodating — but not fully themselves?

In this episode of Behind the Story, Jelani sits down with Michelle Minnikin — author, speaker, coach, and organisational psychologist — to unpack the hidden conditioning that teaches women to over-function, people-please, apologize constantly, and shrink their voice in the workplace and in life.

Michelle breaks down the concept behind her work on Good Girl Deprogramming, explains why imposter syndrome is often misunderstood, and shares how women are shaped from an early age to prioritize acceptability over authenticity. The conversation also explores burnout, toxic work environments, cultural conditioning, leadership, and what dads can do differently when raising daughters.

This is a powerful conversation about identity, confidence, language, and what it takes to stop performing and start living more truthfully.

In this episode:

What “good girl conditioning” really means
Why so many women don’t know what they want
The connection between burnout and over-functioning
Why imposter syndrome may be a workplace problem, not a personal flaw
How toxic environments affect women differently
The language patterns that quietly keep women small
What parents, especially fathers, should stop saying to girls

#BehindTheStory #MichelleMinnikin #GoodGirlDeprogramming #WomenInLeadership #ImposterSyndrome #PeoplePleasing #WorkplaceConfidence #Boundaries #PersonalGrowth

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Epstein Files, FBI Pressure, and the Truth Behind the Redactions Mar 31, 2026

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In this special edition of Behind the Story, Jelani sits down with attorney Courtney Groff and retired FBI agent Eric Robinson for a timely roundtable on the Epstein files, the DOJ response, FBI procedure, congressional pressure, and the growing crisis of public trust. The conversation breaks down how investigations actually move between the FBI and DOJ, why records are sometimes released in pieces, what redactions are supposed to protect, why victim privacy complicates public demands for transparency, and what the reported hack of Kash Patel’s personal Gmail says about the moment we’re in right now. This is a grounded conversation for listeners who want clarity, not chaos.

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Jade Simmons on Purpose, Reinvention, Faith, and Independent Politics Mar 29, 2026

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Jade Simmons joins Behind the Story for a powerful conversation on purpose, reinvention, faith, leadership, mental health, and politics. Jade shares how a battle with stage fright unexpectedly transformed her career from classical concert pianist into transformational speaker, and why she now defines purpose as what happens in others when you do what you do.

We also discuss youth suicide prevention, the state of the mental health conversation, authenticity, independent political thinking, immigration, tax policy, abortion, and what it means to lead with conviction in a deeply divided culture.

This is a wide-ranging episode about impact, courage, identity, and the cost of becoming who you were really meant to be.

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Mark Astor: Why the System Fails Families in Addiction & Mental Health Crisis Mar 24, 2026

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In this episode of Behind The Story, Jelani sits down with attorney Mark Astor for a candid conversation about addiction, severe mental illness, and why the system often reacts too late to save families. Drawing from his experience as a former prosecutor and his current work helping families navigate crisis, Mark explains what he saw inside the justice system, why untreated behavioral health issues keep leading people back into chaos, and what families can do before tragedy strikes.

They discuss why addiction should be understood as a disease rather than a simple choice, how families can tell the difference between denial and being uninformed, what “real hope” looks like in recovery, and why compassionate legal intervention can sometimes be an act of love. Mark also shares what happens when families do nothing, why treatment often fails when it is too short or poorly enforced, and how earlier action can change the outcome for everyone involved.

This episode is for anyone affected by addiction, mental health crisis, family trauma, or the hard reality of trying to help someone who does not believe they need help.

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Chronic Pain Isn’t Forever: Daniel Esposito’s “Undo Method” + The Comeback Story Mar 17, 2026

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What if chronic pain isn’t the end of the story?

In this episode of Behind The Story, I sit down with Daniel “Dan” Esposito, creator of the Undo Method, to unpack his decade-long battle with chronic pain, multiple diagnoses, and feeling like he couldn’t fully show up for his family — and how he rebuilt his health from the ground up.

Dan shares the turning points that changed everything: what didn’t work early on, the first real “breakthrough” moment that gave him hope, and the core framework behind the Undo Method — a combination of a chronic pain playbook plus his supplement approach (“Flexibility Fuel”) designed around the way he thinks pain gets “stuck” in the body.

In this conversation we get into:

Chronic pain loops: inflammation, soft tissue/fascia, and why it can feel like your body is “on fire”
The castor oil / lymphatic story that became a major early “signal” for him
Fasting timelines (autophagy + longer fasts) and why he believes it matters for recovery
Breathing through the nose, nitric oxide, and the “simple” stuff people overlook
Food choices, omega balance, and why he became extremely intentional about what’s in his home

Note: This episode is for education and discussion, not medical advice. Always consult a qualified clinician for personal health decisions.

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Inside the FBI: Undercover Work, Investigations, Politics, and the Human Side of the Badge Mar 10, 2026

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What does FBI work actually look like beyond the movies and headlines?

In this episode of Behind the Story, Jelani sits down with former FBI agent, SWAT operator, tactical instructor, and investigator Eric Robinson for a candid conversation about what really happens behind federal investigations.

Eric breaks down how undercover work actually functions, how people end up on the FBI’s radar, why public understanding of investigations is often incomplete, and what separates protected speech from conduct that raises real concern.

He also shares insight into the pressures facing rank-and-file agents, the difference between what happens in Washington versus the field, and why so much of the job is far less glamorous — and far more human — than people think.

The conversation also explores current headline-driven topics, including search warrants, public distrust, online behavior, Nancy Guthrie’s case, and what political change can do to morale inside a storied institution.

This is a thoughtful, nuanced look at law enforcement, power, accountability, and the people doing difficult work behind the scenes.

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Former DEA Agent Reveals the Truth About the Fentanyl Crisis (Only 2mg Can Kill) Mar 08, 2026

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What does the fentanyl crisis actually look like from inside law enforcement?

In this episode of Behind the Story, Jelani sits down with Brian Townsend, a retired supervisory special agent who spent nearly 30 years in law enforcement, including 23 years with the Drug Enforcement Administration.

Brian explains why illicit fentanyl has become the most dangerous drug law enforcement has ever encountered—and why just two milligrams can be deadly.

The conversation explores the reality behind drug trafficking, the limits of the war on drugs, and why prevention, awareness, and honest conversations may be the most powerful tools communities have.

Brian also shares insights from building leadership training programs, working complex drug investigations, and witnessing the devastating impact of the opioid epidemic across America.

Topics include:

Why fentanyl changed the drug landscape
The difference between overdose and drug poisoning
Why people are dying on first-time drug use
The “Only 2mg” reality of fentanyl
What the public misunderstands about the opioid crisis
How families and communities can protect themselves

This is a sobering but important conversation about leadership, responsibility, and the human cost of today’s drug crisis.

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Connection Builds Trust: Angel Tucker on DISC, Leadership, and the GLOW Connection Mar 07, 2026

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What if the real problem isn’t “bad communication”… but a missing connection? In this episode of Behind The Story, Jelani sits down with Angel Tucker—personality strategist, bestselling author, and keynote speaker—to break down the DISC personality model and her proprietary GLOW Connection method for building trust faster.

You’ll learn how to spot personality styles in real time (even over the phone), why teams get stuck in friction, and how leaders can flex their style without feeling fake—so the message you intend is the message people actually receive.

In this conversation, we cover:

Where the DISC model came from and what it actually measures (behavioral preferences—not intelligence)
What D, I, S, and C stand for—and why most people lean into two dominant styles
The GLOW Connection framework: Gain awareness → Lock on to what they need → Operate accordingly → Win the connection
Why “culture fit” can be a blind spot—and how personality balance can change outcomes (including a powerful oil-rig story)
Sales + referrals: why fast-moving sellers lose the most loyal buyers (and what to do instead)
HR + retention: the hidden driver behind turnover—not feeling understood and valued

Listener takeaway:
If you’re a leader, recruiter, seller, or founder—this episode gives you practical tools to reduce resistance, improve team dynamics, and build trust without changing who you are.

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