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Dating Horror Stories & Men with Kids Dec 23, 2020

This week on the podcast, Joyce speaks to Abby about the super awkward to the all-time cringiest moments – they’re exchanging all the horrible dating stories you wouldn’t believe. From the ups and downs of dating to what it’s like dating a partner with kids, we follow Abby’s dating life.

Highlights

A horrible Valentine’s Day
A cringey restaurant date (especially when the bill comes)
Gather around the campfire: Dating Ghost Stories
What it’s like dating a partner who has kids

Resources

Follow Abby on Instagram at @crumblexcheesecake

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Moving to another country with your partner Dec 02, 2020

This week on the podcast Keith speaks to Joy Fajardo, a marketing professional living in PEI, Canada. Joy and her husband moved from The Philippines to Singapore and more recently to Canada. As they start a new life in a new country together, Joy shares the conversations and experiences that led them to making a big life decision despite having different perspectives.

How to get on the same page when you want different things
How immigrating to a new country can affect your relationship with your partner
Addressing fears and concerns about moving to a new country and starting a new life together
Why communication is key to expressing your goals to your partner

Takeaways

Lean into scary topics like immigrating – it can only make your relationship stronger
Listen to your partners perspectives, big decisions affect both of you
Be a team player and trust that your partner can handle your unfiltered thoughts (your partner is your partner for a reason)
Consider the timing of your communication

Resources

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**Dating Apps 101** Nov 18, 2020
Dating apps can be exciting, nerve-wracking and overwhelming all at the same time. But what if you could get inside the male brain to learn more about what they’re thinking when they’re on apps. This week on the podcast we welcome Alex, a British Expat living in Toronto who is well-versed in the world of dating apps.

He’s giving you his best advice on how to thrive on dating apps and sharing all of his cringe-worthy dating app stories.

Grab your glass of wine, take a shot, and let’s dive in.

Bumble, Hinge, Tinder and more – What apps should you be swiping on
From the male perspective – what are women doing wrong on dating apps
How to present yourself on apps to find the type of relationship you’re looking for
What are the red flags to look out for on dating apps
How to make app dating part of your lifestyle
How to avoid app burnout (it’s a real thing)

**Takeaways**

Be strategic with the pictures you choose for your dating profile (Alex shares the top picture faux-pas to avoid)
Foodie? Traveler? Who isn’t. Write an original personal bio that isn’t yawn-worthy
Don’t invest too early, pace yourself when swiping
Fit app dates into your lifestyle – avoid disappointment if your date is a flake
Women may have the advantage on dating apps – but with great power, comes great responsibility

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Niche Dating Apps
Dating Safety
How Do I Stand Out on Dating Apps

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So you think you’re ready for kids? Parenthood Nov 04, 2020

Becoming parents can be an incredible step to take with your partner. Yet, it also has the potential to change your relationship dynamics. Kristina, a busy lifestyle blogger, writer, and soon to be mom of two shares her journey and experiences as a parent.

How meeting your partner can change your mind and open yourself up to something that you’ve closed yourself off to before
It’s not always the biological clock – How passions and careers can influence your decision to have kids
Addressing fears and concerns about becoming a parent
How to connect with your partner during pregnancy and after the baby is born
How to maintain your sense of self life and not just your parental identity

Takeaways

Communicate in real-time with your partner about your needs- “go to the bones”
Always find time between parenting duties to focus on yourself and connect with your partner
Realize that children depend on you for everything – you need to have patience and change your lens to understand their thought-process and feelings

Resources

Follow Kristina Dapaah on Instagram

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I don’t want to be with you anymore Oct 21, 2020

Being in a relationship with the right person can be a beautiful thing. However, what happens when you start to have doubts? Kirthiga has been in a few relationships that started off well, but a few flags started to pop up. So she left. We sat down with her to hear some of her relationship stories.

What is the most important thing to help determine whether you should leave or not
How did it feel when you first left someone
How did you get over that first hump of leaving
What are some flags to look for
How did this effect the way you dated and how you viewed other relationships
How did you make this a learning experience

Takeaways

Remember, you deserve better
Be open minded to change and learning from experiences
Dating is the best way to learn and build yourself

Resources

Follow Kirthiga on Instagram

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Meet the Hosts of Before Anyone Else (Part 2) Sep 23, 2020

Get to know the hosts of BAE podcast with part two of an inside look at their relationship backgrounds from their foray into dating apps to long-term relationships.

The ultimate tips for navigating dating
Sharing the hosts favourite or most memorable date
The ultimate tips for when you’re in a relationship
How their views on relationships has changed and grown over time
If they’ve been influenced by their significant other

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Meet the Hosts of Before Anyone Else (Part 1) Sep 09, 2020

Get to know the hosts of BAE podcast with part one of an inside look at their relationship backgrounds from their foray into dating apps to long-term relationships.

Sharing their personal dating and relationship histories
The hosts untangle their upbringings and how it has influenced their approach to relationships
The meet cute moments and unexpected ways they met their significant others

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Family Pressures: From Marriage to Divorce with Netflix’s Dating Around’s Gurki Basra Aug 26, 2020

Most of us remember the notorious episode of the Netflix show Dating Around where Punjabi-American, Gurki Basra experienced a heated culture clash on one of her dates. After sharing her divorce and parents arranged marriage – Gurki was met with a less than understanding date who questioned how her culture had played a role in her decisions.

The date went viral. Streams of fans were left impressed with Gurki’s composure during the cringeworthy exchange.

This week, the hosts of BAE Podcast speak to Netflix’s Dating Around’s Gurki Basra about her experiences being a divorced South Asian woman, being gaslit on television, and how her parents arranged marriage has formed her views on dating and relationships.

An inside perspective on how Gurki felt during her Dating Around appearance and why she didn’t accept a second date
The sociocultural pressures of getting married and the stigma of getting divorced
Marriage: the glorification, big business, and family dynamics in Indian cultures
Dating and relationship taboos – why relationships are celebrated while being single is shamed
Challenging the classic commentary surrounding dating and relationships from family
Preconceptions of arranged marriages

Takeaways

Divorce isn’t always sad – sometimes we can be empowered by our decision to leave the wrong relationship
Ask your your loved ones better questions – are you happy? versus when are you getting married?
How cultural practices can work for some people but aren’t right for everyone
How complete honesty even when it causes waves can actually lead to deeper relationships with the people closest to you

Resources

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Baseball Wives Aug 12, 2020

Everybody talks about the star, but rarely does the spotlight shine on the baseball wives and girlfriends (WAGs). This week the hosts of BAE podcast speak to Erika Richardson, the wife of professional baseball player Dustin Richardson. She shares how she’s been able to establish her own career path while dating and ultimately marrying a pro ball player. Erika helps reveal some of the misconceptions about the world of WAGs.

Are the popular WAG shows we see on tv realistic?
How to establish your own identity and career-path
How to support your partner during the ups and downs of their athletic journey
How do you maintain a trusting relationship when your partner travels often for their job
The challenges of financial planning when the future is uncertain

Takeaways

Communicate your needs and fears often even when it’s challenging
Discover ways to pursue your own passions, careers goals, and interests
Support each other throughout the ups and downs of your career (the breadwinner in your relationship may change)
Only travel for your partner if it feels right to the both of you

Resources

Follow Erika on Instagram

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Dating while hustling

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Married and living with parents Jul 29, 2020

A recently married millennial couple, who recently moved back in with his parents, talk to us about what happens post-wedding and what to consider when living with in-laws. This week, the hosts of BAE podcast welcome David and Rebecca Dapaah. As millennials face unique lifestyle and financial challenges, more are opting to make the move back home. But how do you navigate this environment with your partner while married?

New reasons for living with your parents
Putting old societal views on living at home to rest
Navigating finances as newlyweds
How to change your mindset and fight societal expectations
How to communicate when making the decision to move back home
How to spend quality time together when living in a full-house
How do you adapt your goals or lifestyle when sharing a space

Takeaways

Short term pain for long term gain – sacrifices can get you ahead in the long term
Communicate your comfort levels, often, with your partner
Share your choice with friends to give them more insight into your decision

Resources

Follow Kojo Dave on Instagram
Listen to his music on Apple, Spotify and most music platforms.
Follow Bexdrums on Instagram
Subscribe to Bexdrums on Youtube

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Dating while hustling Jul 15, 2020

Performing and recording artist and entrepreneur, Taya Marquis, joins the hosts of Before Anyone Else podcast to discuss her experiences and stories trying to balance her hustle while trying to keep up with dating and relationships.

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Healing after a breakup Jul 01, 2020

How can you live your best single life? Tenika from unattached and unbothered joins the hosts of BAE podcast to discuss life after breakup. Discover her movement to empower the single woman and teach them how to hear their own voice again.

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Love spells, witchcraft and tarot readings Jun 17, 2020

How can you use love spells and the power of spiritual consulting to improve relationship dynamics? The hosts of BAE podcast speak to a witch, tarot teacher, and tarot reader. Sabrina shares how she helps couples use spirituality to troubleshoot their relationships and understand their dating/relationship future.

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How does Tamil cinema effect dating Jun 03, 2020

The hosts of BAE podcast speak to an insider about Tamil Cinema. They ask Mathusha, host of Dash the Curry Podcast who worked in the Tamil television industry, to share her perspective on the industry and larger implications on tamil youth.

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Love Languages: Physical Touch May 20, 2020

This week our hosts explore and share their views on the fifth love language: physical touch.

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Love Languages: Receiving Gifts May 06, 2020

This week our hosts explore and share their views on the fifth love language: receiving gifts.

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Love Languages: Acts of Service Apr 22, 2020

This week our hosts explore and share their views on the third love language: acts of service.

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Love languages: Words of Affirmation Apr 08, 2020

This week our hosts explore and share their views on the second love language: words of affirmation.

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Love languages: Quality time Mar 25, 2020

This week our hosts explore and share their views on the first love language: quality time.

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Niche Dating Apps Mar 11, 2020

In the world of dating apps, there isn’t a lack of options. There are about as many dating apps on the scene as people to meet. While options can be a good thing, is there such a thing as too many?

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Intercultural Weddings: Do’s and Don’ts Feb 26, 2020

So, they popped the question, but you’re from two different cultural backgrounds. How will you incorporate both cultures on your big day and meet family expectations?

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Are your preferences racist? Feb 12, 2020

As we move into a more diverse dating scene, are we actually dating with open minds and open hearts? Does preferring to date a specific race mean you are being prejudice?

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I Wouldn’t Date Someone That… (Part 2) Nov 21, 2018

On this special two part series, we run through each hosts list of type of people they wouldn’t date.

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I Wouldn’t Date Someone That… (Part 1) Oct 17, 2018

On this special two part series, we run through each hosts list of type of people they wouldn’t date.

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Are Relationships Supposed to be Hard? Sep 19, 2018

Society really romanticizes the passion and many ups and downs of a relationship. But are relationships really supposed to be this hard?

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Is Getting Married the Goal? Sep 05, 2018

Getting married is a lifetime milestone in society. Is getting married the actual end game in life?

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Ask a Relationship Therapist: Supporting a Partner with Mental Health Issues Aug 29, 2018

Our guest Judy Lui, MSc, CCC, RP is a registered Psychotherapist specializing in relational therapy. We ask Judy how can we help support a partner facing mental health issues.

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Ask a Relationship Therapist: When Should you See a Relational Therapist? Aug 22, 2018

Our guest Judy Lui, MSc, CCC, RP is a registered Psychotherapist specializing in relational therapy. We ask Judy when should you see a relational therapist?

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How Does the #MeToo Movement Affect Society and Dating? Aug 08, 2018

What is the #MeToo movement and how does it affect our social life and dating? In this episode, we take a look at the history and the many events that have happened to spur the popularity of the #MeToo movement.

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Dating Safety Aug 01, 2018

You’ve found a great prospect and they’ve asked you out on a date. You’ve never met this person so naturally you feel a bit cautious. What steps can you take […]

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How to be a Supportive Partner During Tough Times Jul 25, 2018

Although relationships have its high points, there are also the lesser talked about low points. While your partner might be going through a low in their lives, it is very […]

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Relationship Red Flags and Deal breakers Jul 18, 2018

Before getting into a relationship or while in a relationship, certain red flags come up that we miss. We take a look at few of the red flags that you […]

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How Do I Stand Out On Dating Apps? Jul 11, 2018

Taking that step into online dating is a big decision in its self. But what about creating your profile? How can someone stand out in a long list of potential […]

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Getting Married: Do I Take His Last Name? Jul 04, 2018

Whether to hyphenate your last name, take his name or even to create a completely brand new name, this is a decision that will follow you wherever your name will […]

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Rules of Dating: Where to Go on a First Date? Jun 27, 2018

Introducing our First Date System. Planning your first date is the most important for first impressions. Where should you go? Where should you avoid going? In this episode we take […]

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Navigating Interracial Relationships Jun 20, 2018

Since the legalization of interracial marriages in the US, interracial marriages have increased more than 5 times, but is that enough? As the hosts of the Before Anyone Else podcast […]

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Dating A Younger Person Versus Dating an Older Person Jun 13, 2018

Going beyond the usual societal norms of dating within a close age gap, some people choose to date much younger or much older. Age sometimes effects dating experience, commitment and […]

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Should You Be Single or in a Relationship? Jun 06, 2018

Is it better to be single or is it better to be in a relationship. We explore the different scenarios of how someone can benefit being in both situations. How […]

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Once a Cheater Always a Cheater: Can a Relationship Survive Cheating? May 30, 2018

Can you forgive someone who has cheated on you? How can we take a mature approach to continuing the relationship? What are some of the dependencies on figuring out if […]

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Relationship Milestones: Meeting Their Parents May 23, 2018

Where should I meet their parents? When should you meet the parents? Why does it take so long to meet parents for some people? Should you push your partner to […]

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Relationship Milestones: Meeting Their Friends May 16, 2018

What to expect when meeting their friends for the first time? Where should we meet? What are some of the Dos and Donts when first meeting? What should you do […]

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How to Argue in a Healthy Relationship? May 09, 2018

How should I argue with my partner effectively? Can I effectively get my points across over the phone? Is there a right time to bring up an argument? What should […]

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Dating and Exclusivity – How Many Dates Before We’re Exclusive? May 02, 2018

Does the talk need to happen? How do you have that talk? Is being exclusive take away the need for the talk? Should relationships have deadlines and ultimatums? Is having […]

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Friends Who Change In Relationships: Who Dis Apr 25, 2018

Why do some people change when they start a new relationship? Is it easy to lose friends when you’re in a relationship? Is there a certain type of person who […]

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Does Sex Equal Attachment? Apr 18, 2018

Why is there a myth that women are clingy after having sex for the first time with a new partner? Why are men not so attached after having sex? Do […]

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Finding Your Soulmate – Do They Exist? Apr 11, 2018

What is a soulmate supposed to be? Is there someone out there for everyone? Does your idea of soulmate change over time? Does it come around only once? Does there […]

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Dating and Relationship FOMO Apr 04, 2018

Is the fear of missing out while in a relationship normal? What does it say about the relationship? Can having FOMO while being single hurt your chances of having a […]

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Is Social Media Bad for Relationships? Jealousy Online Mar 28, 2018

What does a like really mean? Should I be jealous when my partner comments on a picture on social media? Should my partner be heavily involved in social media while […]

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Have Dating Apps Changed Dating Forever? Mar 21, 2018

Are we more desensitized to dating because of dating apps? Is “Organically” meeting someone better. What are some of the advantages of meeting someone through an app vs organically? How […]

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Rules of Dating: Who Should Pay on the First Date? Mar 14, 2018

We answer the age old question who pays on the first date? Is it a case of old gender roles? What does someone offering to pay for a date mean […]

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In a Relationship: Am I Comfortable or Am I Too Complacent? Mar 07, 2018

What causes complacency in a relationship? How do I bring the spark back? How do I save a dead bedroom? What are the signs of a complacent relationship? How do […]

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When Do I Text Back? Texting and Dating Etiquette Feb 28, 2018

After they text me, how long before I’m supposed to text back? If i respond immediately, will I look desperate? Has modern dating changed how we communicate over the phone? […]

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It’s Not You, It’s Me. Classic Cop-outs for Breaking Up Feb 21, 2018

Why do we use breakup lines when ending things? Is there a good time to use cop-outs? Why do we use cop-outs when we can just tell the truth? Should […]

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Dating Question: Am I Too Picky? Non-Negotiables Feb 14, 2018

Religion, height? How much do these things matter when choosing a partner? Are we becoming too picky of a generation. Are we making it more difficult to find someone? When […]

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Types of Relationships: Does Monogamy Still Exist? Feb 14, 2018

We discuss how the definition of monogamy has changed and become more fluid over the years. Does it still exist? As our world continues to become more connected through social […]

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