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Plan B, the Female Gaze, and Puberty with Brandon Kyle Goodman Dec 03, 2021

HAPPY FRIDAY, BLUE BALLERS! This week, we have a very bittersweet announcement — Balls Deep has reached its end. It’s been a hell of a 49 episodes with y’all and we enjoyed every minute of schmooze, news, interview(s), Qs, and BOOZE! Don’t fret, we’re not going anywhere!! Our DMs are open :)

Phew, now that we ripped off the bandaid… let’s get to the schmooze! Rachel’s analysis of Pete Davidson and Kim Kardashian’s budding relationship shows that all roads lead back to Kris Jenner, and Arielle shares the tale of Judith, the Hanukkah heroine who seduced the enemy with her feminine wiles. Spooky season is debatably over but we’ve got another wild ghost story on the agenda from Arielle and a lesson on the female and male gaze from Rachel. In news, listen to a deep dive on Plan B’s effectiveness (or lack of effectiveness) on larger bodies.

Our honorary final guest is none other than Brandon Kyle Goodman (!!) An actor, activist, writer, and self-proclaimed “Messy Mom,” Brandon takes us into the Big Mouth writer’s room and how he’s finally making the representation he needed as a child. Host of the Black Folx podcast, Brandon is an outspoken queer, Black person whose signature blowjob is SO mind-blowing that it made it to Urban Dictionary.

Okay, so… no real questions this week, but a Blue Baller calls in just to share some compliments <3

IT’S NOT GOODBYE, IT’S SEE YOU LATER… Blue Ballers for life, baby!!

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Balls Deep in Food Fetishes and Hometown Hookups Nov 26, 2021

HAPPY THANKSGIVING, BLUE BALLERS! This week, the girls get Balls Deep in two of their favorite topics, SEX and FOOD, in this ultra-satisfying special episode. The girls wonder why there are no good Thanksgiving movies but tons of excellent TV episodes (#neverforget the pie from Gossip Girl), schmooze about holiday-themed step sibling porn, and share their best hometown hookup tips.

And for the main course: Why is food so sexy? Listen up for the breakdown. Arielle gives food play tips and rattles off a list of aphrodisiacs and Rachel explains the psychology behind what makes food so fuckin sexy. The hosts top off the episode with a dive deep into two of the most popular food fetishes — feederism and splashing — and explore how these fetishes can sometimes be disguised as viral content.

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Swift v. Gyllenhaal, Incels, and Toxic Friends with Straight Candid Nov 19, 2021

Happy Balls Deep Day! This week, Arielle shares an exxxtremely juicy story and Rachel gives a TEDx Talk on Swift v. Gyllenhaal. The girls schmooze about horny laxative ads and shitting your brains out at fat camp, and tell you all about the former bishop who left Jesus to jack off pigs (really). In news, the hosts get Balls Deep in two studies that prove people are fucking less than they used to — and that ain’t necessarily a bad thing!

Y’all are gonna wanna pay attention to this interview. Syd and Soph (the co-hosts of Straight Candid) join the pod to talk TOXIC FRIENDS! Breaking up with a good friend can be awkward but sometimes, you just gotta do it. Tune in for a raw convo about real issues... and when you’re done listening to this ep, head over to their pod to hear Rachel and Arielle give the dirt on toxic dicks.

Okay, so…. a Blue Baller sends us fan mail and another caller is taken aback by the way her ex ended the relationship. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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No Nut November, Self Sabotage, and Sex Magick with Gabriela Herstik Nov 12, 2021

Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel gets her titties painted, Arielle has a tipsy meet-cute at a vintage store, and together they roast No Nut November and praise Netflix’s Big Mouth. The girls schmooze about censorship and OnlyFans’ newest creator: a museum in Vienna. Tune in to learn about the world’s first unisex condom, why we self-sabotage relationships, and the importance of establishing a “shared reality” with your partner.

Can the spiritual be sexual? Jewish-Mexican witch and sex magick expert Gabriela Herstik says YES! The author of Embody Your Magick teaches the girls how to harness the power of their orgasms and opens up about finding community in kink. Devoted to the Goddess of Love, Gaby shares how to step up your glamour game and how infusing magick into her beauty routine is her way of honoring her Holocaust survivor grandmother.

Okay, so… a Blue Baller made a sex tape and has questions about female ejaculate, and another BB wants advice on orgasming during sex without a vibrator. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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Golden Penises, Cringey Couples, and Sucking Dick with Liza Treyger Nov 05, 2021

Happy No Nut November, BBs! This week on Balls Deep, the girls are TIRED and UNSOCIABLE! Rachel rewatches How I Met Your Mother and applauds itfor giving couples the representation they deserve and Arielle shares her experience with Golden Penis Syndrome. The girls slam the person who created women’s fitted t-shirts and wonder if unisex clothing and names are really just masculine trends masking as gender neutral. In news, the hosts get Balls Deep in why couples who watch porn together stay together and a surprising new study that suggests dating app marriages are doomed to end in divorce.

This week’s honorary guest is comedian Liza Treyger, aka GLITTERCHEESE! Popularly known for co-hosting That’s Messed Up: An SVU Podcast, Liza bemoans her weed addiction with Arielle, vents about baby pushers with Rachel, and the gaggle of giggling gals dissect Liza’s dating life and bond over bisexuality.

Okay, so… a Blue Baller calls in with a question on sexual assault (trigger warning) and another listener is scared to have sex in her apartment lest her roommates hear, and the sexual tension is FESTERING! Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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Balls Deep in Ghost Sex and Slutty Halloween Costumes Oct 29, 2021

It’s a Balls Deep Spooktacular! No tricks this week, only TREATS for our Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel and Arielle dive into the sexy history of Halloween to explore how a former Gaelic festival evolved into the one time of year when a girl can dress like a total slut and no other girls can say anything about it. The girls wonder if Halloween costumes are sexist, explain why men should show more skin, and give the listeners tips on how to put together a last-minute look.

Did you know that horror is the only genre where women have more screen time and lines than men? Well, now you do. A spooktacular simply isn’t complete without an analysis of horror’s two favorite movie tropes: The Final Girl and Death by Sex.

For the main event we get Balls Deep into spectrophilia (AKA ghost sex). From Patrick Swayze’s Ghost to American Horror Story, pop culture is filled with ghost sex scenes—and according to a handful of celebrities, it’s a real thing. Arielle rattles off all the celebs who’ve gotten down and dirty with spirits, and Rachel tells the dramatic tale of Amethyst Realm, the woman who’s had sex with more than 20 ghosts.

Next week we’ll be back to our regularly scheduled programming. If you’ve got a sex/relationship question call the hotline: 855-OKAYSO.

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Unfuckable Vampires, Spooky Sex, and Seances with Patti Negri Oct 22, 2021

Happy Friday BOOs! This week on Balls Deep, Arielle is busy being alone, Rachel has flashbacks to Catholic school, and the girls debate what makes a vampire fuckable. In schmooze, the hosts chat about poo-phoria, why Sex and the City wasn’t feminist, and Hollywood’s hottest couples. For the listeners, the girls explain why watching porn ISN’T cheating and reveal some of the Blue Baller’s sex horror stories. Later on, Rachel shares some stats on rising dating show viewership and falling marriage rates and Arielle talks about three shitty Spanish men who posed as a female author. Guh-ross!

Hold onto your broomsticks y’all, shit’s about to get spooky! Hollywood Psychic Medium Patti Negri joins the girls to spill all the saucy stories in her cauldron—from conducting a seance at age eight to conjuring the spirit of Marilyn Monroe. She tells us about the different ways people have sex with ghosts and why she thinks Ouija boards shouldn’t be sold in toy stores. Listen up, and don’t forget to suspend your disbelief!

Okay, so… a Blue Baller gained weight during Covid (relatable) and is afraid of catfishing her dating app suitors, and another listener wants to test the submissive waters but has no idea where to start. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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Witches Brew, Reforming Fuckboys, and Polyamory with Gabrielle Smith Oct 15, 2021

HAPPY FRIDAY, BLUE BALLERS! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel tries cycle syncing her period to her productivity, Arielle finally bonds with her kitten, and the girls schmooze about bisexual Superman, Salmon Rice Bowl Girl’s engagement, and why Saturday has always been for the girls. The girls give their verdict on whether you can turn a fuckboy into a boyfriend and get Balls Deep in new safety standards for sex toys and how dangerous dating apps can be.

Intersectional sex and relationship writer Gabrielle Smith joins the girls for an in-depth conversation about polyamory. The honorable guest of the week reveals her non-monogamous journey, chats about queer imposter syndrome, and walks us through the polyamory lexicon. If you’ve thought about dipping your toes into polyamory, or just wanna know what all the buzz is about, tune the eff in!

Okay, so… a Blue Baller wants to know if it’s normal to be invited to a bachelorette party even though she’s not a bridesmaid, and another listener needs help turning off her sex toy. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO.

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Twerking, Desexualising Consent, and Ditching Diet Culture with Kenzie Brenna Oct 08, 2021

Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel takes a necessary break from work (and celebrates her birthday in solitude), Arielle needs new pants to fit her fat ass, and the girls chat about Tom Brady’s grossness and Lizzo’s TED Talk on twerking. In more schmooze, the girls teach men how to properly cover their infidelity, explain why some men botch their house chores, and Arielle recommends watching Professor Marsten and the Wonder Women on HBO. Fresh off the press, the cohosts get Balls Deep in how the pandemic showed us consent isn’t just about sex and the correlation between appearance dissatisfaction and sexual problems.

New friend of the pod Kenzie Brenna chats with the girls about healing your inner child and why she pivoted from being a weight loss influencer to a self-love influencer. The girls get into the double standard placed on women’s bodies and how Disney totally fucked them all up. Tune in for an incredibly raw conversation on navigating a thin-focused society in a fat body.

Okay, so… a Blue Baller calls in with the ultimate dilemma: How can she explore her bisexuality while in a monogamous heterosexual relationship? Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO or email ballsdeep@bellesa.co

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Happy Endings, Tinder Elders, and Civil War Gays with Stanzi Potenza Oct 01, 2021

Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week, Arielle masturbates to Jersey Shore, Rachel goes through hell week, and the girls schmooze about hickey hacks, Kardashian queerbaiting, and Netflix’s obsession with celibacy. The girls also discuss why maybe James Bond shouldn’t be a woman and the questionable “sex loopholes” Mormon teens use to preserve their virginity. Hot off the press, the hosts share a study that proves your grandparents are better at using dating apps than you and talk about how having safe sex can save the animals (yes, really).

This week’s esteemed guest is Stanzi Potenza, an award-winning actor, writer, and creator. You probably know them from their viral TikToks, where they create comedy series like Satan and God, Civil War Gays, and Call Out News. Stanzi gives the girls a behind-the-scenes look at how they create content and gets Balls Deep in gender identity, bisexuality, and how they finally found their style in quarantine.

Okay, so… a Blue Baller is self-conscious about her inverted nipples and another caller seeks advice on being more open on social media. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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Date Nights, Zombie Boys, and Pegging the Patriarchy with Luna Matatas Sep 24, 2021

TGIF, BLUE BALLERS! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel celebrates her anniversary, Arielle gives a relationship status update, and the girls schmooze about the Met Gala, the petty queen Taylor Swift, and our divine goddess Megan Fox. For this week’s Blue Baller question, the girls wanted to know how “weird” you get with your partner. In news, Arielle talks about a new study that proves exposure to plus-sized people on Instagram makes you happier and Rachel breaks down the mating strategies of heterosexual college students.

New friend of the pod, Luna Matatas, joins the girls to talk about her work as a sex and pleasure educator, why we can’t have consent without pleasure, and oh, the Peg the Patriarchy scandal (you might have heard of it). Luna trademarked the phrase in 2015, and for our Blue Ballers, she breaks down what it really means, how we can dismantle the patriarchy through penetration, and why she’s not suing Prada.

Okay, so… a tired Blue Baller wants to have sex with her partner but she’s too darn tired (relatable). Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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Divorce Parties, Cuffing Season, and Period Cycle Syncing with Nicole Bendayan Sep 17, 2021

Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week, we’re back to our regularly scheduled programming. Rachel attempts an interesting TikTok trend with her boyfriend, Arielle reunites with her FB husband, and together, the girls schmooze about divorce parties, cuffing season, and baby fever in Hollywood. The girls also get Balls Deep in dating contracts, Amazon’s new docu-series LueLaRich, and explain why straights probably shouldn’t be partying at gay bars. In news, Rachel gives a quick update on Texas’s abortion ban and Arielle breaks down the California bill that would ban stealthing.

Cycle-Syncing Nutritionist Nicole Bendayan joins the pod for an enlightening and educational conversation on how you can optimize your menstrual cycle. Women know so little about how our period cycle and birth control affects our bodies (thanks, patriarchy!), and if you have a uterus this interview is a MUST listen.

Okay so… a Blue Baller calls in with a complaint about getting cat-called, and another listener vents about her toxic ex-friend. Got a question? Call 855-OKAYSO.

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Balls Deep in Abortions (F*ck You, Texas) Sep 10, 2021

Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel and Arielle get balls mf deep in all things abortion, and yes, they’re looking at you, Texas (and Mississippi, and every other state that’s tried to undermine a person’s right to abortion!). In this special edition episode, things are going to sound a little different. While there isn’t a guest interview, there is a breakdown of all the information you need to better understand the history of reproductive rights in the United States and where we’ll go from here. The girls tell you everything you need to know about the state and federal laws, bust some major myths about the surgery, and break down who gets abortions and why. (The answers may surprise you!) Warning, shit most definitely gets real, but as always, Rachel and Arielle keep it fun and flirty.

P.S. Thank you to all the Blue Ballers who submitted their questions, shared their stories, and helped us put this episode together. We couldn’t have done it without you!

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Shrek Porn, Dick Pics, and Period Poverty with Nadya Okamoto Sep 03, 2021

Happy Friday Blue Ballers!! This week on the pod, Arielle is obsessed with Jersey Shore, Rachel calls out slut-shaming on Bachelor in Paradise, and the girls question Drake’s weird habit of befriending teenage girls. Later on, the girls talk about a Texas anti-abortion website that’s being flooded with Shrek porn and share the best tips on how to send a dick pic that actually looks good. In news, the girls get Balls Deep into a legal battle between a man who sued his parents over his porn collection and the different pleasure signals partners look for during sex.

Get ready to see red during this interview with Nadya Okamoto, who has been fighting to normalize conversations around periods since she was 16. We’re talking about period poverty, the tampon tax, and how we can fight the stigma surrounding periods. The co-founder of August, a brand that reimagines periods, Nadya explains why we need to separate menstruation from motherhood, and why we should retire phrases like “aunt flow,” and “time of the month.”

Okay, so… a Blue Baller calls in for advice on a friend breakup and another listener asks a very vague question that the girls attempt to answer. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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OnlyFans, Plastic Surgery, and Toxic Exes with Tefi Pessoa Aug 27, 2021

It’s the last Friday of the month, Blue Ballers and we’re here to help you go out of the month with a BANG! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel gets cock-blocked by her new kitten (Mandy Patinkin), Arielle takes a look inside a subreddit community where people fantasize about shtupping bees, and the girls schmooze about ugly representation, botox, and friend breakups. In news, Rachel and Arielle get Balls Deep into the disaster that is OnlyFans banning porn and why no one should ever have “maintenance sex” with their partner.

Queen of pop culture and your TikTok BFF, Tefi Pessoa, joins the pod for a hilarious conversation on how she manifested her dream career and finally ditched her toxic ex. Listeners beware, shit gets heavy, but we keep it real and laugh through it, as always. Stick around for the end, you don’t wanna miss Tefi’s first porn story.

Okay, so… a Blue Baller feels like she missed out on a hoe-phase, and another caller wants to know if she should tell her husband she’s fantasizing about fucking a stranger. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

UPDATE: After recording this episode, OnlyFans shared an update saying they will no longer ban porn starting October 1.

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Pick Me Girls, Queer Representation, and Intuitive Dating with Dana Hamilton Aug 20, 2021

Cheers to the weekend, Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel reveals herself to be a recovering “Cool Girl,” Arielle has a smallllllll emotional breakdown, and the girls get Balls Deep into queer representation in Scooby-Doo, Batman, and Gossip Girl. Later on, they pose the age-old question: “Just how far will you go for sex?” and explain why Jamie Spears stepping down from Britney’s Conservatorship isn’t as great as it might seem. In sex news, Rachel and Arielle explore why Nazi Porn is so popular, remind you it’s healthy to have sexual fantasies (even if you’re in a relationship), and break down why you don’t need to be worried about Apple scanning your iCloud photos for porn.

Strap in for this week’s interview with Anti-Diet Dating coach, Dana Hamilton, who helps break down the social stigmas around bodies and boys. She gives tips on how we can remove some of the anxiety around rejection, explains how to practice intuitive dating, and gives us some very real advice on why it’s okay to walk away from people who aren’t meeting our standards.

Okay, so a caller is wondering how to recover her sex drive after getting out of a relationship and another listener is wondering if her post-sex depression is normal. (It totally is!). Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO.

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Eating Ass, FBoy Island, and Porn Addiction with Dr. Nicole Prause Aug 13, 2021

Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week on Balls Deep, Arielle eats ass, Rachel cuts her boyfriend’s hair, and together they review HBO’s FBoy Island- and get into a heated discussion on what it really means to be a “Nice Guy.” The girls schmooze and news about gaslighting on The Bachelorette, Reddit’s OnlyFans problem, and those weird apple cider vinegar penis enlargement ads. To top it off, they get Balls Deep into a study that confirms that women are extremely anxious in bed.

Give a round of applause for today’s esteemed guest, Dr. Nicole Prause! A wealth of knowledge, Dr. Prause is a neuroscientist researching human sexual behavior, addiction, and the physiology of sexual response. She tells us about the positive effects of watching porn for women, explains why sex addiction isn’t a real thing, and reveals the perfect dick size (according to science, of course).

Okay, so… a Blue Baller wonders if painful sex is related to her IUD, and another listener wants to know how she can repay her boyfriend for “spoiling” her with oral sex. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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Hickeys, Strip Clubs, and Fucking Like a Goddess with Alexandra Roxo Aug 06, 2021

Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! Welcome back to another sexy episode-- strap in for some hot takes. This week, Rachel shares her go-to karaoke song, Arielle has sex with someone her friends don’t approve of, and the girls talk about the complicated dynamic of wanting to complain to your friends about your partner while also not wanting your friends to hate their guts. In schmooze, Rachel and Arielle get into why crusty old man Matt Damon is finally retiring the F-slur and break down the top 5 best things you can put on your dating profile. In news, the girls get Balls Deep into a study that proves that strip clubs reduce sex crimes-- and they reveal the REAL reason why men are messier than women.

Stay tuned for an interview with Goddess, Speaker, and Coach Alexandra Roxo, who you might recognize from the latest season of Too Hot To Handle. Alexandra explains how we can work past generational trauma to become more in touch with our emotions and spiritual selves, teaches us the importance of celebrating our sexuality, and redefines our definition of feminine to go beyond vanity.

Okay, so a listener wants to know if it’s worth it to pursue a relationship with a woman who is in a very serious sub/dom partnership, and another listener wants to know how she can talk to her partner about not being able to cum via penetration without making it weird. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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Pregnancy Tests, Olympics Sexism, and Body Neutrality with Maddie Dragsbaek Jul 30, 2021

It’s the 31st episode of Balls Deep!! WE’RE SO OLD!! This week, Arielle shows up with a big ol’ hickey (and a surprising announcement), Rachel laments adult hangovers, and the girls give the best hack for inducing menstruation. In schmooze, the girls discuss Barney’s tantric sex cult, why the Louvre is suing Pornhub, Vince Vaughn’s new comedy-horror movie, Freaky, Amazon’s upcoming lesbian reality show, Tampa Baes, and sex toys in space (phew!). After a riveting conversation on celeb couple Zach Braff and Florence Pugh’s age gap, Rachel breaks down “sexual gaslighting” and how to spot it. The gals also get balls deep in relevant Olympics news.

Body-positive YouTuber and filmmaker Maddie Dragsbaeck joins the pod for a conversation that will leave you with a new appreciation for your body. Tune in for how the body positive movement was co opted by the self-love movement, plus sized tips for riding cowgirl, and Maddie’s experience being fetishized for her physique. Stick around for the end, you don’t wanna miss Maddie’s first porn story!

Okay, so... a Blue Baller tells us about your next girls’ night activity — presenting a slideshow on your sexual debut — and another listener shares her very real and scary experience with a predatory Uber driver. Got a question? Call 8555-OKAYSO

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Madonna-Whore, Limp Dicks, and Water Births with Bekah Martinez Jul 23, 2021

Balls Deep is officially in its dirty thirties! That’s right — this is our thirtieth episode and we’re ready to take you for a ride! This week, Arielle has a threesome with I Love You Man and his dog and Rachel is working on giving out less advice to people who don’t want to take it. The girls schmooze about Madonna’s first orgasm, the iconic dating trend you’ve never heard of, and Hollywood’s obsession with unrealistic sex scenes. In news, they get Balls Deep™ into a study about friends who fuck, get into the nitty-gritty of Drake “Campana” Bell’s court hearing, and discuss the importance of post sex cuddles.

Stick around for a conversation with Bachelor Nation’s Bekah Martinez all about the realities of being a mother raising her children online. Bekah teaches the girls about the history of breastfeeding and birthing practices and shares her own experience of feeling like a fertility goddess and smiling throughout her second birth. We also talk about the importance of teaching kids about their bodies, and reveal the most ethical kind of porn there is… want to know? You’ll have to listen to find out.

Okay, so… a girl is having dinner with her mom but her girlfriend planted a big ol’ hickey on her cheek — WTF? Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Instagram Couples, Kinky America, and Daddy Issues with Violet Benson Jul 16, 2021

Happy Balls Deep Day, Blue Ballers! This week, Rachel decides to remove her IUD, Arielle gives her new lover blue balls, and together they brainstorm why boys love “the crazy.” The girls give the inside scoop on what you should watch this weekend and schmooze about Selena Gomez’s hot girl summer. They also debunk the myth that Elle Woods was originally meant to have a queer ending, hype up Nikki Glaser’s upcoming dating show FBOY Island, and give the 411 on two of 2021’s most unlikely updates: the NBA helping fans get off and Lil Wayne’s favorite sex position. YOWZA! In scary news, the patriarchy is chipping away at abortion rights, and in flirty news, Americans are having better sex.

Mother of sex memes and queen of @daddyissues_, Violet Benson, joins the pod for an epic convo on ugly duckling syndrome, immigrant mentality, and pulling yourself out of toxic dating patterns. The Jewish-Russian business bitch presents her case on withholding sex on the first date and warns against getting “dickmatized.” As for her porn story? This is one we’ve never heard before…

Okay, so… a recovering Catholic requests pointers to help her overcome her religious guilt and another listener calls in on behalf of her mother with a question on how to get out of the dreaded “talking phase.” Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Summer Coochie, Pull Out Method, and Bisexuality with Zachary Zane Jul 09, 2021

It’s not getting any cooler and we know you’re thirsty for episode 28! This week, Arielle spills a secret from a late night romp and Rachel gives tips for dealing with Sweaty Summer Coochie™. The girls get Balls Deep into Kim Kardashian freeing Britney Spears, Netflix’s Sexy Beasts, Bill Cosby, the new breakup app PostDates, and Allison Mack’s sentencing. In news, the girls discuss the efficacy of the pull out method and how you can tell if someone wants sex based on just their facial features.

Bisexual icon, writer, and activist Zachary Zane joins the pod to talk bisexuality. The interview covers everything from “double discrimination,” to why bisexual people face more mental and physical problems than the rest of the LGBTQ+ community. He explains why more people need to publicly come out as bi, and as always, we suggest you stay tuned for a first-time porn story you won’t want to miss.

Okay, so… a caller wants to explore her sexuality with a woman and fears internalized misogyny will make her bad at cunnilingus, and another Blue baller is at her wits end with dating apps. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Fisting, False Positive, and Curly Pubes with Emily Wilson Jul 02, 2021

It’s July and it’s hot as BALLS — might we suggest cooling off with the 27th installation of Balls Deep? This week, we live react to horny texts from one of Arielle’s many suitors before giving you a list of must-watch content. From Ilana Glazer’s False Positive (skip from 13:57 — 22:14 to avoid spoilers!) to Outer Banks, Rachel and Arielle also break down Britney Spears’ chilling court testimony and talk about the importance of showing healthy male bromances in media. In news, the hosts discuss a study on sluts, identity, and neglect, and Rachel ends Pride month with a groundbreaking announcement for the Miss USA Pageant and trans community.

This week’s interview features a dear friend of the pod who also happens to be a hilarious comedian, singer, and actor: Emily Wilson. We have an open chat on white girls on a diet, coke nails (but for frosting), and Emily’s appearance on The Drew Barrymore Show. Stay tuned for Emily’s first porn experience, and remember: everyone’s got curly pubes.

Okay, so a Blue Baller is stressing because her boyfriend keeps going on dates with his girl “friends,” and another listener needs to know if guys at the bar REALLY think she is hot. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO

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Broken Dicks, Olympic Orgies, and Sex & Money with Gaby Dunn Jun 25, 2021

Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week on the pod, Rachel and Arielle reveal the dirty truth behind club promoters and wonder if anyone actually knows what a real-life 26 year old looks like. Schmooze highlights include the Batman/Catwoman oral sex debate, Victoria’s Secret’s long-overdue rebrand, and a politician’s perfect response to his leaked BDSM video. In sex news, the girls get balls deep into new protections for transgender students, why the Olympics banned sex but supplies condoms for athletes, and celebrate Anne Frank’s bisexuality.

Strap in for a hilarious conversation with podcaster, author, and activist Gaby Dunn as we talk about two of the most taboo subjects: sex and money. Gaby talks about the struggle of wanting more money and needing to stay true to themselves. Gaby opens up about how dating helped pave the way to explore their gender and shared the story of their first time reading Superman porn online. Needless to say, it’s a must-listen.

Okay, so… a caller feels guilty for breaking her not-boyfriend’s dick, and Rachel and Arielle give a recently-single gal some advice on casual sex after a long-term relationship. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Ghost Orgasms, Floor Sex, and Netflix Queerbaiting with Casey Tanner Jun 18, 2021

A toast is in order for the 25th Balls Deep Day! This week, Arielle witnesses her first ghost orgasm, Rachel and Hunter recreate that Notebook sex scene (you know the one), and the girls list off all the different hot girl sub-genres. See also: a conversation about Billie Eilish’s queerbaiting accusations, nipple reconstruction surgery, and advice on how to track how many calories you burn doin' the dirty. In news, the hosts get Balls Deep into why shitty husbands make more money, how long sex should really last, and a new report that declares Facebook a hub for sex trafficking — oy vey!

The vivacious Casey Tanner joins the show for an incredible conversation on queer sex therapy and how her career path flipped from studying to be a youth paster to becoming the queer affirming therapist she wished she had. We also dive into how Netflix knows your sexuality better than you do, all the different flavors of the patriarchy, and to top it all off, Dr. Casey answers some listener questions.

Okay, so a Blue Baller calls in to request tips for butt stuff with her boyfriend, and another listener needs advice on the post sex cleanup. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Lazy Girl Sex, Blocking Your Ex, and She Rates Dogs with Michaela Okland Jun 11, 2021

Mazel tov, Blue Ballers, you made it to Balls Deep Friday! This week, Arielle dishes on her dating life and anti-depressants, Rachel shares her adventures at the beach, and together they expose companies guilty of “rainbow-washing.” The hosts schmooze about a bad-ass valedictorian speech, McDonald’s “feminist” commercial, and Tinder’s best update yet. In news, the girls get Balls Deep into a study about height preferences and attractiveness, how ride-sharing apps can help reduce sexual assault, and an oral history on the most controversial sex position: 69.

Stick around for our interview with the creator of She Rates Dogs and all-around absolute icon, Michaela Okland. She joins the pod to talk about calling out shitty men on the internet, why she blocks anyone who calls her hot, and how getting a therapist for her ex totally backfired. Grab a tissue for Michaela’s first porn story, it’ll make you cry tears of laughter and then of sadness.

Okay, so ever since she moved in with her boyfriend a Blue Baller can’t masturbate to climax, and another listener’s beau cums too quickly. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Burner Accounts, Period Peeling, and Bimbo-Tok with Chrissy Chlapecka Jun 04, 2021

Happy Pride, Blue Ballers! This week on Balls Deep, Arielle bravely buys tampons at a bodega and Rachel tries to trick her boyfriend into believing period-havers peel off their skin after they bleed. Stick around for what the hosts are binge watching, a review of Hulu’s Plan B, and the short and scandalous tale of the iconic woman who inspired Cruella de Vil. The girls get Balls Deep into making the perfect burner Instagram account to stalk your ex, why police are banned from NYC’s Pride March, and a new study that looks at why women who sleep around are perceived as insecure.

Chrissy Chlapecka, aka the queen of the Bimbo Movement on TikTok, joins the girls for a conversation on the rise of the new age bimbo and subverting the male gaze. Chrissy breaks down the different types of bimbos, how she navigates living in a world made for White cis-het men, and her journey to coming out as bisexual. The cherry on top? Her amazing and oh-so-relatable story about the first time she watched porn.

Okay, so a Blue Baller is on a new medication that makes her libido skyrocket but her boyfriend’s meds make his libido plummet — what’s a gal to do? Another caller is dating a virgin and needs help asking for cunnilingus. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Dirty Talk, Dating on Drugs, and Sexy Subtitles with Girls on Porn May 28, 2021

Tell your boss you can’t work today cuz Fridays are for the Blue Ballers! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel and Arielle get nostalgic for work-free summers, schmooze about that viral Taika Waititi threesome photo. Oh, and HUGE news for porn consumers: you can now password protect your Google searches. The girls get Balls Deep into dirty talk, why you should Marie Kondo your sex life, and that gross Florida high school that photoshopped over female students’ cleavage in the yearbooks. Ew!

Friends of the pod and hosts of the Girls on Porn podcast Rachel Napoleon and Laura Ramadei join the girls and get balls deep into — you guessed it — porn! They talk about their ever-evolving relationship with porn, laugh about what closed captions for porn would look like, and share their personal method for recognizing ethical porn when they see it.

Okay, so a Blue Baller thinks her birth control is making her mad depressed, and another caller isn’t sure what to do about a guy who says “it depends” when it comes to going down on a girl. Classic. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Boundaries, Blood Sucking, and Badge Bangers with Rachel Feinstein May 21, 2021

Grab a drink, Blue Ballers, we’re toasting the 21st episode! This week on Balls Deep, Arielle deletes her dating apps, Rachel decides it’s time to ditch Victoria’s Secret for Hanes, and the girls bond over a shared disappointment with John Mulaney. In audience engagement, the Blue Ballers share their dating boundaries and tips on how to set your relationship up for success. And in news, the girls get Balls Deep into abortion rights and the most credible threat to Roe v Wade. Arielle gets into a new study about social anxiety and Tinder habits, and Rachel busts a silly myth about Covid vaccines and infertility.

Iconic comedian and new friend of the pod RACHEL FREAKING FEINSTEIN joins the girls for what’s essentially a private comedy show. Married to a firefighter, Rachel shares how she became a Badge Banger, spills the tea about her ex-bf who froze her laptop (??), and teaches us how to British novel our lives.

Okay, so a caller in a ten-year relationship needs to decide if her marriage is worth saving, and another Blue Baller isn’t sure how to ask her hotel hookup to enter a long distance relationship. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Plan B, Bi-Erasure, and How to Squirt with Lola Jean May 14, 2021

This week on Balls Deep, Rachel recaps her sexcation, Arielle takes Plan B, and together, they schmooze about the struggle of losing a condom inside of you. The girls also share their thoughts on Aubrey Plaza’s marriage and celebrity divorces (RIP John Mulaney and Annamarie Tendler). In news, they share the sexy secret to youthful skin, explain why masturbating is self care, and reveal a trick guaranteed to tell you if your crush has a massive schlong.

Grab a towel ‘cause this week’s interview is about to get WET. Sex educator and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting Lola Jean joins the pod for a beginner’s guide to squirting. Lola shares tips on how to do it, explains why it happens, and offers advice on navigating squirting with hookups and partners.

Okay, so after being treated for chlamydia from oral sex a caller needs the 411 on dental dams, and another Blue Baller wants more from a guy who clearly doesn’t deserve her. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Cheating, The Whoring 20s, and Infertility with Rosebud Baker May 07, 2021

It’s episode 19, blue balling queens! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel struggles with co-dependency, Arielle gets oral sex on her period, and we schmooze about the most sustainable way to cheat on your partner. We also break down the body image double standard of Billie Eilish’s Vogue cover, and explain the buzz surrounding The Bachelorette’s Katie Thurston. In news, the co-hosts get Balls Deep into the condom sales surge, when you should? fake an orgasm, and Pornhub’s 2020 Tech Review.

Comedian and co-host of Find Your Beach podcast Rosebud Baker joins the girls to talk about the last thing people don’t want to talk about — infertility. Rosebud opens up about her experience with motherhood, miscarriages, and feeling like a fertility goddess. She talks about how pregnancy changed her kinks and the way she views her tits (they’re not just for decoration, fellas), and explains how she’s learned to laugh through the trauma. Trust us when we say you won’t want to miss this interview.

Okay, so a caller got a vulvar biopsy and needs help getting off without touching her clit, and another listener wants to know if she should stay with a guy who’s pretty bad at sex. Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Cinderella C*cks, Kardashians, and Breaking Up with Krystyna Hutchinson Apr 30, 2021

Episode 18 and we’re living the dream! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel declares spring has sprung, Arielle makes a regretful confession, and the girls schmooze about how horny the Kardashians are. Our lovely audience weighs in on dick size — does it matter? (Yes, but not in the way you might think.) In other news, the co-hosts beg Blue Ballers to stock up on condoms and get Balls Deep into what makes a man attractive to a woman.

The illustrious co-host of Guys We Fucked Krystyna Hutchinson joins the pod and wastes no time getting Balls Deep into breakups and personal growth. Can you be in a relationship and still be a slut? Should you cheat on your boyfriend so you have an excuse to break up with him? No spoilers here—tune in to find out!

Okay, so a caller rang in and wants to know why the heck she and her boyfriend only have sleep sex, and another listener tested negative for STIs and fishes for approval to tell him.

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Period Sex, Daddy Issues, and the (Racist) American Dream with Dr. Donna Oriowo Apr 23, 2021

Holy Blue Balls it’s the 17th episode! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel is sick (sad!), Arielle christened her apartment, and the co-hosts schmooze about casting adult actors as teens, cancelling Colton Underwood, and having period sex. The girls get Balls Deep into Pinky (the disposable dog poo bag for periods), the link between drugs and kinky behavior, and new research on techniques for making vaginal penetration more pleasurable.

Next up, sex and relationships therapist Dr. Donna Oriowo joins the pod for an enlightening conversation on the impact colorism and texturism have on Black women’s mental and sexual health. The author of Cocoa Butter and Grease: A Self Love Journey Through Hair and Skin, Dr. Donna breaks down racist sexual scripts and how to rise above them.

Okay, so a caller explains that since they started using sex toys they can no longer orgasm in anyone’s mouth and needs help to fix it, and another listener needs help settling a household argument — are butt plugs for aesthetic or function? Got a question? Call us at 8555-OKAYSO.

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Shot Girl Summer, Dad Bods, and Having Gay Sex with Ashley Gavin Apr 16, 2021

April showers bring… the 16th episode of Balls Deep! This week, Rachel gets the J&J shot and wants to (lovingly) complain about it, Arielle snags a hot date, and the co-hosts schmooze about the new Powerpuff Girls and how to have a healthy — or toxic — hoe phase. The girls get Balls Deep into pandemic periods, why one in 10 people don’t delete their ex’s nudes, and dad bods.

Next up, comedian Ashley Gavin — host of the We’re Having Gay Sex podcast — joins Balls Deep to talk about… having gay sex, being a gateway lesbian, living with her ex, and symbolic choking. Ashely also shares some top-tier advice on how to spot and get out of toxic relationships, and as for the first time she saw porn? Tune in to find out!

Okay, so a caller is blue balling herself and can’t orgasm after a breakup, and another listener wants to know how to get through airport security with a sex toy. Got a question? Call us at 855-OKAYSO

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Gender Reveal Parties, Male Feminists, and Bad Dates with Abby Govindan Apr 09, 2021

Hot off the press it’s episode 15! This week, Rachel and Arielle schmooze about sex cheerleaders, Hulu’s documentary Hysterical, and gender reveal parties gone wrong. The girls get Balls Deep into the studies that prove male feminists get more head, and that masturbating boosts your sex drive. They also dive into an Iowa court case that would prevent doctors in Iowa from requiring a man’s consent when women get hysterectomies. Oh, and don’t panic, but the Republicans are coming for OnlyFans and mobile porn.

Next up, comedian Abby Govindan — AKA the girl who convinced Twitter she wrote Emily in Paris — joins the pod to gossip about her ex-boyfriends. Cured of dating white boys, the serial monogamist chats about dating Indian men and the pressure of representing all Indian American women on stage.

Okay, so a caller wants to know how to dispose of unwanted sex toys and the girls tell a listener why Arielle’s mom thinks her career is linked to daddy issues. Got a question? Call us at 855-OKAYSO.

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Birth Control, Celeb Documentaries, and Non-Threatening Tits with Porn Performer Ana Foxxx Apr 02, 2021

New month, new episode! This week, Rachel laments about missing sex with condoms, Arielle needs to christen her apartment, and they schmooze about celebrity documentaries. In news, the girls get Balls Deep in the gross legislation unfolding in Minnesota and Arkansas and Cosmo’s study on sex and dating in a post-pandemic world.

Next, trailblazing adult performer Ana Foxxx joins the pod to schmooze about shitty porn scripts, sex off-screen, and being the first “chocolate” Fleshlight girl. The girls discuss non-threatening boobs, the ethical porn renaissance, and celebrate Ana’s success as Playboy’s first Black producer.

On the hotline, a trans man seeks advice on bringing toys into the bedroom and a girl wants to know why she orgasms harder without porn. Got a question? Call us at 855-OKAYSO

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Vagina Selfies, Sex Addiction, and Getting Off with Queer Queen Demi Burnett Mar 26, 2021

Thank god it’s mother fucking Friday, Blue Ballers! This week on Balls Deep, Arielle gets to the bottom of her “cauliflower vagina,” Rachel reviews Amy Poehler’s new movie Moxie, and the girls get Balls Deep™ in the upcoming cicada orgy.

Fair warning, the news segment gets heavy. Rachel and Arielle discuss the Atlanta spa shooting, why sex addiction isn’t real, and America’s gross fetishization of Asian women. Next, Rachel details the latest sexual assault allegations against YouTuber David Dobrik and the Vlog Squad.

On a lighter note, Bachelor icon Demi Burnett joins the pod and shit gets HORNY! Her royal Queer Queen wastes no time getting Balls Deep™ in hoe phases, her morning masturbation routine, and the time she masturbated in her grandma’s tanning bed. Will Demi ever join OnlyFans? Tune in to find out!

Heading to the hotline, a listener seeks advice on how to stop squirtingand the girls get into sex toys after Spencer’s bullet vibes. Got a question? Call us at 855-OKAYSO

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Bitch Flicks, Hard Nips, and Childhood Trauma with Jessica Kirson Mar 19, 2021

It’s Friday y’all and we’re feeling STIMULATED!!! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel and Arielle schmooze about the iconic Bitch Flick, the weirdest places people have sex, and leaning into your period. The girls get Balls Deep™ into the power of erect nipples, what happens when women take Viagra, and why sex-ed should start in Kindergarten. Oh, and they talk about the religious hypocrisy of the Catholic Church refusing to recognize gay marriage.

Next, “comedy whisperer” and host of the Relatively Sane podcast Jessica Kirson joins the pod to chat about turning trauma into comedy, watching her parent’s porn, and Jessica’s upcoming Hulu documentary Hysterical.

On the hotline, the girls help a caller navigate religious guilt after her parents discovered her OnlyFans tax forms. Lastly, Rachel and Arielle take a question from a listener who’s struggling to get sexy after a sexual assault. Got a question? Call us at 855-OKAYSO

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Ghosting, Sexy Cartoons, and Gangbangs with Nikki Glaser Mar 12, 2021

TGIF, Blue Ballers!!! This week on Balls Deep, the girls schmooze about why Rachel’s not living with her boyfriend, what happened with Arielle’s Dark Horse, and when it’s okay to ghost someone. They get Balls Deep™ into Title IX, how to avoid dating fatigue, and a new study that flips a long-standing sexual script on its head.

New friend of the pod comedian Nikki Glaser joins the girls to dish on her favorite Bellesa sex toys, gangbangs, and why she never gives men blue balls. Rachel and Nikki bond over their labia and the trio discuss the woes of being a woman in a man’s world.

On the hotline, the girls help out a listener who wants to sext for money, and a repeat caller dials in after a traumatic morning sex session. Got a question? Call us at 855-OKAYSO

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True Crime, Sex Fears, and Dating Narcissists with Hannah Berner Mar 05, 2021

Holy blue ballers, it’s the tenth episode!!! This week on Balls Deep, Arielle and Rachel schmooze about Netflix’s Ginny & Georgia, Jonah Hill, and body shaming, and why women love true crime. The girls also get Balls Deep™ in how to improve your sex life on a schedule, and why people are masturbating less in the pandemic.

Bravolebrity, comedian, and Berning in Hell host Hannah Berner joins the pod and skips the small talk. The girls get into sexism in sports, why Prince Charming is a narcissist, and redefining the “cool girl” image. Hannah dishes on the most feminist thing she’s done on national TV (receiving oral for an hour) and absolutely gushes over her fiancé (!!)

Next, Rachel and Arielle answer the hotline and help out a caller who’s experiencing premature ejaculation, and advise a dude who can’t stay hard during doggy style with his new girlfriend.

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Shaving Pubes and Eating Lube with Emily Morse Feb 26, 2021

Pour yourself a glass of wine and get Balls Deep™ into episode nine! This week, the girls schmooze about Arielle’s date, Rachel’s masturbation fail, and Kink, a groundbreaking anthology of steamy stories edited by R.O. Kwon and Garth Greenwell.

In other news, Queen Esther is the ultimate Blue Baller, comedian Chris D’Elia isn’t a sex addict (he’s just gross), and there’s one sex position that’s bound to help you hit REM sleep. The girls also chat about France’s new consent laws, racism and dating on The Bachelor, and why Vagisil is canceled.

Next, sex therapist Dr. Emily Morse — host of the Sex with Emily podcast — joins the pod to chat about sex during Covid, the time she lost her virginity on a waterbed, and eating flavored lube. Emily also shares the best hack for getting over an ex, and how to stop your friends from texting toxic fuckboys.

On the hotline, Rachel and Arielle help out a caller whose boyfriend came on her face without asking, and dole out advice to a guy who’s interesting in opening his relationship. Got a question? Call us at 855-OKAYSO

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Drunk Sex, OnlyFans, and Closing the Orgasm Gap with Dr. Laurie Mintz Feb 19, 2021

The edging is over — a new episode of Balls Deep just dropped!! This week, Rachel and Arielle schmooze about sober sex versus drunk sex, Hulu’s OnlyFans: Selling Sexy documentary, and Buffy Creator, Joss Whedon. Hot off the press, the girls review studies about physically aggressive men having more sex, the link between sex and your sense of smell, and the latest dating app trend that’s bound to get you more matches.

Sex therapist Dr. Laurie Mintz — clitorally acclaimed author of Becoming Cliterate — joins the pod for an incredibly fun, flirty, and informative discussion on the orgasm gap (and how to close it). If you can’t cum with a partner or find the elusive G-spot, this one’s for you.

Next up: the Balls Deep hotline! Rachel and Arielle help out a caller who’s worried about becoming addicted to high sex, and give some tough love to a listener who’s thinking about getting back with her ex. Got a question? Call us at 855-OKAYSO!

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Britney Spears, Red Flags, and Dating 101 with Shan Boodram Feb 12, 2021

Forget flowers, the girls have a très special Valentine’s Day episode for their Blue Ballers. This week, Rachel and Arielle schmooze about dating app red flags, the NYT’s “Framing Britney Spears” documentary, and they get Balls Deep in sex and weed, and the CDC’s staggering STI statistics. They also reveal how dentists know when you’re giving head and the role food plays in relationships.

Turn the volume up for special guest Shan Boodram, the internet’s most sought-after sex educator who’s kinda like Dr. Ruth meets Rihanna. The trio chat about self-discovery through dating, branding yourself on dating apps, and what to do when sex with your partner ain’t cutting it.

Next, Rachel and Arielle answer a couple of hotline Q's from a sugar baby who needs help with taxes, and a caller who must make a decision: Should she stay with an amazing fuckbuddy or forego foreplay and get back with her ex?

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How to Kiss, Astrology, and Tarzan Dating with Beth Stelling Feb 05, 2021

Happy Friday, Blue Ballers! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel and Arielle schmooze about A Promising Young Woman (spoilers ahead!!), kissing with your eyes open (looking at you, Matt James), and get Balls Deep™ into how porn is a top source for sex education for many. We also chat about the ~audacity~ of one man who blamed the GameStop fiasco on prude women.

Next, comedian and writer extraordinaire Beth Stelling joins the girls to talk about her new HBO special “Girl Daddy,” comedy as a coping mechanism, and Tarzan Dating.

As always, Rachel and Arielle wrap up the show with listener questions from a guy who needs advice on broaching the topic of pegging with a new partner, and a woman whose libido is way higher than her partner’s.

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Squirting, SVU, and Threesomes with Bachelor Star Taylor Nolan Jan 29, 2021

Happy Friday Blue Ballers, you know the drill: This week on Balls Deep, Rachel and Arielle schmooze about Law and Order: SVU’s OnlyFans episode, Jojo Siwa’s sexuality, and get Balls Deep into the tension between Kamala Harris and sex workers and the link between COVID and limp dick.

Next, the host of the Let’s Talk About It podcast and psychotherapist Taylor Nolan — you might recognize her from Nick Viall’s season of The Bachelor. Taylor joins the girls for a raw conversation on polyamory, threesomes, and everything working against her as the Anti-Bachelor Contestant.

Rachel and Arielle wrap up the show with listener questions from two gals who need the 411 on female ejaculation and advice on how to find out if the girl she’s crushing on is queer.

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Bridgerton, Sperm Kings, and Painful Sex with Dr. Krystyna Holland Jan 22, 2021

Happy Friday Blue Ballers for Biden!!! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel and Arielle schmooze about Bridgerton, the genius that is Kris Jenner, and get Balls Deep into the Sperm King black market and the link between throat cancer and oral sex.

Pelvic Floor Physical Therapist Dr. Krystyna Holland joined the pod for a super informative conversation on pelvic floor dysfunctions, painful sex (how to *not* have it), and everything you need to know about kegel exercises.

Before hopping off, Krystyna weighs in on a question from a queer listener with vaginismus who needs help with boning her first dude. Wrapping it up, the girls tackle a caller’s old wive’s tale: Can sex toys really break your pussy?

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Armie Hammer, Sex and the City, and Gay Porn with Performer Jane Wilde Jan 15, 2021

Happy Friday Blue Ballers!!! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel and Arielle schmooze about Dating Around, the Sex and the City reboot, and get Balls Deep into #MeToo in tech and 2021 dating trends. HEADS UP: A deep dive into the extremely graphic and highly disturbing Armie Hammer bomb happens from 18:29 — 33:12.

Self-proclaimed Anal Slut (and nice Jewish porn performer) Jane Wilde came on the pod to talk Judaism, penis injections, terrible acting in porn, and her first shady pimp. She also divulges who she *won’t* work with on a porn set and shares her surprising first time watching porn.

Next, a woman calls in for advice on how to get her boyfriend to go down on her when he’s sober, and the girls drop some tough love to a guy with genital herpes who just wants his dick sucked.

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Blue Balls, Taylor Swift, and Bestiality with Syd & Marie Jan 08, 2021

New year, new episode!! This week on Balls Deep, Rachel and Arielle schmooze about Taylor Swift (she doesn’t want you to text your ex), A Nice Girl Like You, and get balls deep into how Pornhub, Instagram, and TikTok are harming sex workers.

HILARIOUS best friends Sydnee Washington and Marie Faustin — comedians and hosts of The Unofficial Expert podcast — came on the pod to talk New Year’s resolutions, dusty friends, friendships and finances, and their first time watching porn, and fair warning, it gets... graphic.

Before we kiss you goodbye, we offer words of advice to two listeners on how to get kinky (and where to find kinky people) and how to let go during oral sex.

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Big Mouth, Sex Cults, and How to Cum with Remy Kassimir Dec 24, 2020

Forget post office delays, the only holiday gift you need has arrived on time. This week on Balls Deep, co-hosts Rachel and Arielle schmooze about Big Mouth and sex cults, and get balls deep™ into Pornhub, celebs endorsing sex toy companies, and how to copy right your nudes.

Friend of the pod Remy Kassimir—a comedian and host of the How Cum? podcast—joins us to chat about her journey to sexual pleasure, why it's so important to clean your sex toys, and her grandma's porn. Wrapping it up with a couple listener questions, we offer advice advice on pegging and whether or not to combine your finances with a partner.

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