“Ask Falan”

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CYBERSTALKING IS A CRIME AND I AM FIGHTING BACK! Sep 23, 2021

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IF YOU ARE EXPERIENCING THIS COMMON ABUSIVE BEHAVIOR NOW IS THE TIME TO JOIN WITH ME IN ADVOCATING FOR CHANGE.

Reach out to be apart of the change Ask@AskFalan.com

In this episode Falan launches her mission to advocate for victims of cyber crimes. As a victim for the last 15 years, she is determined to finally share her story publicly as to why she constantly leaves social media and creates dummy accounts.

Measures to take:

Hiring Buffers ( People who can manage your accounts for you) Or a trusted friend.
Using pseudonyms.
Cleaning up your digital footprint
App phone numbers
dedicated emails attached to the social medias that are spam related or for sign ups for subscriptions
create an avatar or media persona that does not reflect your real identity.
documenting everything especially proof you asked them to stop.

Contact the National Center for Victims of Crime 1-855-484-2846 ( 1-855- 4-VICTIM)

#cyberstalking #domesticviolenceawareness

FALAN EXPLAINS WHY SHE DISAPPEARED IN 2021 Sep 23, 2021

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In this painful, emotional yet victorious brief episode; Falan walks you through the devastating months she faced cyberstalking. This led to her deleting all of her social media until she was able to recover and come back stronger.

If you or someone you know is a victim of a CyberCrime please contact the FBI.gov

Near Death Survivor Alison Arnoff speaks her truth to Falan & how she soldiered through difficulties to walk again.... Sep 13, 2021

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Falan speaks with a former Division 1 swimmer and retired triathlete with a 30-year record of success helping giants like Intel and EMC plus seven startups resulting in six exits, Alison empowers Executives, Leaders, and Aspiring Leaders to "Dare 2 Be" Peak Performers. Always a trailblazer, Alison received her Master’s Degrees in Electrical Engineering at a time when women with those degrees were rare. She started her career as an engineer before moving to sales, marketing, management, and leadership. Competitive swimming at an elite level taught Alison that real growth happens by pushing outside your comfort zone; a principle she applied throughout her career and now with her clients. Supporting individuals to achieve their Personal Best is simply what she does best. During her corporate career, Alison mastered the challenge of customer adoption of emerging technologies, creating product roadmaps, building and closing large complex 7-figure deals, and leading effective teams. The core principle underneath her success and the success of her teams was confident and effective communication. Alison has been an analyst for a Venture Capital firm doing her best shark tank impression as well as consulting tech companies in their sales and marketing strategy. Coach training and credentials include Certified Coach through ICF (International Coaching Federation), Co-Active Training Institute, Breakthrough Coaching, Positive intelligence, and WBECS. Alison is a facilitator for the World Business and Executive Coaching Summit, an Advisory Board member of several tech companies, and advises several startup accelerators.

Call : (310) 344-5184 Email : alison@idare2be.com

www.idare2be.com

HEY FELLAS, EVER HAD A SLOPPY COLLAR RUIN A KILLER LOOK? Aug 12, 2021

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In this episode Falan interviews Rob Kessler of Million Dollar Collar who created a solution to a sloppy neckline that often ruins your crisp, polished look without a tie. He talks about his journey to creating a kickstarter campaign that has led to a successful business.

A look back on his wedding photos Rob cringed that the only imperfection was his collar of his shirt, he sought out to find a solution to this issue.

Are you tired of wearing ties? Gone are the days where we dress up wearing stuffy ties all the time. There are other professional looks that you can still pull off especially with a permanent straight collar. You know, collars can now stand at attention with Rob Kessler's invention of the Million Dollar Collar and he was so gracious to come on the show to tell you about it. A sophisticated design concept that allows you to go tieless. Just take a look at the company overview and order your Million Dollar Collars today. NEVER LOOK SLOPPY AGAIN, THE WORLD'S ONLY PERMANENT SOLUTION TO A SLOPPY COLLAR.

https://milliondollarcollar.com/

Ladies don't get jealous, while women often go for a plunging neckline, it's not often accepted in Corporate settings. You can straighten your collars too. so don't fret, Rob didn't forget about you.

Visit https://milliondollarcollar.com/

I WAS TARGETED BY DIVULGING MY INCOME IN EFFORTS TO HELP OTHER SINGLE PARENTS BUILD A BUSINESS. Aug 05, 2021

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In this episode, I candidly explain how divulging my business income online made me a target from people I actually know. I wanted to so much to help single moms thrive as I have suffered as a single mom for more than a decade.

In my efforts to show PROOF that you can build a profitable virtual business fast, jealous people planned their attack on me. I was sued bogusly and scammed from a fake marketing person I knew nearly a decade. It is IMPORTANT that you STOP telling people your business online and to your friends and family. YOUR INCOME IS BETWEEN YOU, THE CPA YOU HAVE AND THE IRS. This is the reason why I am not on social media. When I return, if ever, It will be a fan page monitored. THIS episode is my truth, my pain, my shame. I learned the hard way.... At least I have my life... for now. Just know, I am being targeted online by known and unknown people seeking to do me harm. Please understand that being a Media Personality is my INCOME stream and this safety concern has compromised my mental health. Fortunately, I have been able to rely on my skills to pivot instantly when I need to regroup, stabilize and disappear. Let me explain. My lifestyle as a domestic violence survivor has taught me unbelievable survival skills and how to compartmentalize information to remain level headed. I can DETACH, and FEEL NO PAIN and remain in this survival mode for months if not years. I CAN become robotic on cue. I have been in communication with the FBI and reported my cyber stalker. My attorneys are actively recouping lost funds if at all possible. I have spent most of my life fighting for my very life and NOW I have positioned myself well to have a team to fight for me. LET ME BE CLEAR...... I AM A SURVIVOR!!!!!

FEAR & ANXIETY IS A LIAR! RECLAIM YOUR LIFE NOW! Aug 02, 2021

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Falan interviews Megan M. Matte. Megan is a mindset coach who helps passionate people (who are willing to take relentless personal responsibility for their own advancement) to understand how their brain works so that they can shift it into its fullest potential. She witnessed the terrorist attacks of 9/11 from her dorm room window the first week of college. It was then that she realized: she could stay stuck in trauma, fear, anxiety, and limiting beliefs which would become her identity and therefore her life; or she could do the work to heal and change from the inside out. That realization lead her to create the life, business, and relationship of her dreams.

At the original time we recorded this show Ask Falan was Top 5% Worldwide. Today August 2, 2021 we are at Top 1.5% worldwide.

To advertise on the show reach out to Ask@AskFalan.com

To connect with Megan

https://www.instagram.com/meg_mcavoy_matte/

https://meganmcavoymatte.com/

https://www.facebook.com/meganmcavoymatte

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCQ3O_Stto_yJPO_zBLOBa4Q

The Corporate Chess Game.. how to WIN at work! Jul 31, 2021

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Falan interviews Terry Boyle McDougall who is an executive coach, speaker and best-selling author of Winning the Game of Work: Career Happiness and Success on Your Own Terms. She works with managers, executives and professionals who want to draw upon their greatest, most authentic abilities to positively impact their organizations. She supports clients who are creating change, driving innovation, and navigating transitions.

Leaving your 9 to 5 can be a challenging feat, listening to this episode will give you better insight on the process.

To connect with Terry:

Links:

Website: https://www.terrybmcdougall.com

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/terrybmcdougall

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/terrybmcdougall

Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/i_am_coach_terry

Book: https://www.tinyurl.com/gameofworkbook

Podcast: https://www.marketingmambo.net

STARTING SEASON 5 IN THE TOP 1.5% OF PODCASTS WORLDWIDE Jul 20, 2021

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THANK YOU, THANK YOU TO LISTENERS AND SUBSCRIBERS AROUND THE WORLD. WE ARE AIMING FOR THAT NUMBER 1 SPOT SOMEDAY! EVEN IF JUST FOR A DAY.

IN THIS EPISODE FALAN DISCUSSES HER DECISION TO ABANDON ALL OF HER SOCIAL MEDIA PLATFORMS AFTER INCESSANT STALKING AND THE COMPROMISING OF HER BUSINESS. FORTUNATELY HER CREATIVE AND NATURAL INSTINCT TO FIGHT BACK AND START OVER HAS NOT QUELLED HER STRENGTH TO KEEP GOING.

FALAN HAS REBUILT HER BUSINESSES ALL OVER AGAIN AND DETERMINED TO PUSH FORWARD ANYWAY. HER DREAM WILL NOT BE STOPPED JUST BECAUSE OF BORED INDIVIDUALS WITH LACK OF SELF AWARENESS.

SEASON 5 IS BIGGER THAN EVER AND GAINING MOMENTUM. WE CAN'T WAIT FOR YOU TO HEAR WHO WE HAVE COMING ON THE SHOW.

WHY I LEFT INSTAGRAM Jul 07, 2021

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In this live episode Falan recorded on her YouTube channel you can see this episode.

Falan explains why she left Instagram and her focus on going in a very different direction than she planned.

She explains pivoting last minute and why she felt the desire to cut off her income source to suit her mental health.

Don't be afraid to move differently, embrace the change and protect your energy at all costs.

Falan is on Twitter, Linkedin

FINALLY FINDING MY VOICE Jun 23, 2021

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Falan interviews Cynthia Zhai a Voice Coach, Tedx speaker and Best Selling Author. Falan has worked as a voiceover for commercials and radio nearly 10 years as well as in the media as a TV Personality but until recently decided to pivot into Public Speaking about her own life. Falan starts her speaking tour this summer. Cynthia helps Falan finally discover her powerful voice and overcome the fear of her being her authentic self and thinking that it would be too harsh for her professional peers. In this episode you will learn the importance of authenticity and sharing your true nature to resonate with your ideal audience.

To learn more about Cynthia Zhai visit her website www.powerfulexecutivevoice.com

Watch Cynthia on her Tedx Talk

Follow Cynthia on Linkedin and Instagram.

Subscribe to her on YouTube

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