Around The Way Curls

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Ep 382: Is it Care or Control? Oct 24, 2024

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In this episode, Antoinette and Shanti explore the complexities of offering care that is masked control. Shanti guides us through three main topics: No one is completely selfless, why we control, & what's at risk if we lose control. The conversation challenges what we know to be care and invites us to reflect on our true intentions and reason for them. Join us.

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00:00 Personal Updates

27:10 The Dichotomy of Care vs. Control

35:12 Personal Reflections on Control and Concern

39:29 The Impact of Past Experiences on Present Relationships

46:11 Communication and Vulnerability in Relationships

54:15 Healing Through Relationships and Parenting

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Ep 381. Obama + Black Men, Tyra + Black Dandies Oct 21, 2024

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This week, Antoinette updates us on her birthday and thanks the listeners for showing her love while Shanti fills us in on her weekend with Stevie Wonder. We have a check-in on how we're feeling about the upcoming election and discuss the current backlash for President Obama by exploring the nuances of political identity and voter expectations, particularly concerning Kamala Harris and the Democratic party's approach to Black voters. Finally, per a listener's request, we attempt to discuss Safari and Erica Mena but don't know what we're talking about, so we quickly pivot to Victoria Secret being damned if they do and damned if they don't and delve into (what will surely be tricky) the upcoming Dandyism Met Gala highlighting the intersection of politics and pop culture, and how public figures navigate media landscapes and societal expectations. Join us.

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00:00 Introduction and Personal Updates

16:54 Political Climate and Election Anxiety

34:41 Obama's Address to Black Men

01:00:14 The Killing of Hamas Leader and Its Implications

01:03:00 Pop Culture and Celebrity Controversies

01:07:03 Victoria's Secret Fashion Show Returns

01:14:01 The Met Gala: A Celebration of Black Dandyism

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Ep 380. Are We Addicted To Roller Coaster Relationships? Oct 17, 2024

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In this episode, Shanti feels the pressure build as she prepares for high-school selections for her daughter while Antoinette deals with her pet parenthood challenges. Together, we listen to a voicemail that requests a bit more accountability from both of us beyond the "claim of victimhood". For our main topic, we discuss the addictive nature of tumultuous relationships and how childhood experiences shape adult relationships. We discuss the addictive nature of these relationships, the importance of self-awareness, and the role of therapy in breaking the cycle of toxicity. The conversation is tender for Shanti as it touches on the challenges of parenting and her own ability to form healthy connections.

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05:50 Understanding Anxiety and Family Dynamics

11:59 The Pressures of Parenting in Modern Society

22:04 The Accountability Challenge in Relationships

26:10 Understanding Our Role in Relationship Dynamics

30:27 Co-Creation in Relationships

40:34 Addiction to Roller Coaster Relationships

49:25 The Allure of Chaos in Relationships

52:38 Understanding Trauma Bonds and Attachments

59:10 The Impact of Childhood Experiences on Adult Relationships

01:06:12 Navigating Parenting and Self-Awareness

01:10:46 Breaking the Cycle of Toxic Relationships

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Ep 379. J Cole & Drake: Best Friends Forever Oct 14, 2024

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In this week's episode, Shanti discovers the world of young professionals at a recent Tech conference while Antoinette finally shares Bae with the world. For politics, we discuss Hurricane Milton's impact, the challenges FEMA and Congress faced in providing adequate funding, and the ethical implications of price gouging during crises. For pop- culture, we dive into J-Cole's recent song "Port Antonio". We discuss Drake's rant on having "fake friends", whether Kendrick's strategy was a money/fame grab, and the importance of authenticity in any art form. Join us...

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02:58 Cultural References and TV Shows

05:58 Experiences at a Women's Tech Conference

09:02 The Importance of Networking and Community Support

11:52 Celebrating Personal Milestones and Relationships

14:59 Reflections on Social Media and Privacy

17:58 Insights from CultureCon and Future Aspirations

21:05 Support for the Podcast and Community Engagement

23:55 Discussion on Hurricane Milton and Climate Change

28:40 Misinformation and Hurricane Relief

32:22 Congress and FEMA Funding Challenges

36:33 Price Gouging in Crisis Situations

39:00 Corporate Responsibility During Disasters

44:35 The Complexities of Emergency Shelters

52:34 Pop Culture and Public Figures' Accountability

01:03:59 The Reality of Fake Friends

01:06:12 Drake's Authenticity and Character Judgments

01:09:10 Insecurity and Social Status in Hip-Hop

01:12:11 Kendrick vs. Drake: The Battle of Authenticity

01:18:29 J. Cole's Compassion and Reflection

01:28:34 Navigating Fame and Personal Growth

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Ep 378. Are You A Good Friend? Oct 10, 2024

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In today's episode, Shanti shares a deep, dark secret while Antoinette is delighted to be reminded of a song she forgot about. After listening to listener voicemails, we discuss friendship. We are inspired to explore friendships after listening to a thoughtful conversation about friendship between Trevor Noah + Simon Sinek. What does it mean to be a good friend? How do we make new friends as adults? We reflect on our own experiences with friendships, the challenges of maintaining relationships as adults, and the need for vulnerability and intentionality in nurturing these bonds. Join us...

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Simone Sinek + Trevor Noah on Friendship https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CNBxIhxHHxM

00:00 Nail Care and Personal Grooming

02:59 Exploring Friendship and Its Importance

06:01 Media Consumption and Cultural Reflections

09:00 Reflections on Recent Podcast Guests

12:07 The Value of Community and Connection

14:49 Listener Voicemails and Engagement

18:01 Friendship Dynamics and Personal Growth

20:54 Mental Health and Social Connections

24:00 Creating Space for Friendships

26:56 Navigating Adult Friendships

29:58 Intentionality in Relationships

32:59 The Role of Vulnerability in Friendships

35:54 Balancing Work and Personal Relationships

38:54 Practical Steps for Nurturing Friendships

41:59 Final Thoughts on Friendship and Community

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Ep 377. Not So Good Times & Is Jaguar (W)Right? Oct 07, 2024

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In this week's episode, Antoinette feels the heavy weight of life on her shoulders as she does her best to keep her head above water while Shanti pushes through on business projects. Together we discuss the recent Vice Presidential debate, the legacy of John Amos, and the controversial claims made by Jaguar Wright regarding the music industry including allegations against Jay-Z and Beyonce. Join us.

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Ep 376. Loving Corrections ft. adrienne maree brown Oct 03, 2024

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In this week's episode, Shanti prepares for high school applications while Antoinette masters the art of roasting chicken. After listening to voice mails, we are joined by very special guest, adrienne maree brown. In this conversation, adrienne discusses her new book, 'Loving Corrections. Together we explore themes of offering and receiving loving correction within interpersonal relationships and the greater collective. The discussion touches on the balance between revolutionary and reformist approaches to social change and how we can transform hopelessness into actionable steps toward collective freedom. Join us....

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NY Phil: Afromodernism - Music of the African Diaspora

Discount Code: CULTURELP20

Dates and Times:

Thursday, October 17, 2024, at 7:30 PM
Friday, October 18, 2024, at 7:30 PM
Location: David Geffen Hall, Lincoln Center

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Ep 375. Cardi B, Eric Adams, Marcellus Williams, & Janet Jackson Sep 30, 2024

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In this episode, Shanti connects her recent emotional sensitivity to her fitness journey while Antoinette recounts seeing Jazmine Sullivan and Maxwell at the Serenade Tour. For politics, they briefly touch on Israel's expansion into Lebanon, discuss the murder of Marcellus Khaliifah Williams, and explore the moral dilemmas surrounding the death penalty in the United States. The dialogue shifts to Cardi B & Offset's recent social media crash out, the indictment of New York City Mayor Eric Adams, and a critique of Janet Jackson's controversial remarks regarding Kamala Harris, emphasizing the importance of informed discourse in public figures. Join us...

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NY Phil: Afromodernism - Music of the African Diaspora

Discount Code: CULTURELP20

Dates and Times:

Thursday, October 17, 2024, at 7:30 PM
Friday, October 18, 2024, at 7:30 PM
Location: David Geffen Hall, Lincoln Center

Ticket Information:

Tickets are available at https://bit.ly/afromodernism

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Timestamps

00:00 Emotional Unraveling and Physical Connection

14:58 Reflections on Jazmine Sullivan & Maxwell

17:58 Cultural Events and Community Engagement

20:57 Current Events and Political Commentary

29:58 Patreon and Community Support

44:36 The Psychological Warfare of Conflict

48:14 The Normalization of Violence and Its Consequences

49:56 Media Control and the Impact on Public Perception

52:03 The Case of Marcellus Williams and the Death Penalty

01:02:46 The Death Penalty Debate: Morality and Justice

01:09:51 Cultural Reflections: Cardi B and Personal Agency

01:16:10 Janet Jackson's Controversial Remarks on Kamala Harris

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Ep 374. ShxtsNGigs Gone Wrong Sep 26, 2024

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In this episode, Shanti struggles with motherhood and the infamous "I told you so" while Antoinette juggles her love life and dog "motherhood". For the main topic, we revisit the recent controversy surrounding the Shxngigs podcast and attempt to uncover "the perfect apology". We discuss the importance of accountability and authenticity in apologies and the complexities of navigating humor, especially in the context of race and gender, and offer strategies for responding to offensive jokes. Join us...

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00:00 Navigating Parenting Challenges

03:01 The Struggles of New Parenthood

05:59 The Impact of Pets on Relationships

08:59 Pop Culture Reflections: Breaking Bad

12:03 Addressing Controversial Comedy: Shits and Gigs

16:01 Understanding Apologies and Accountability

20:07 The Importance of Authenticity in Apologies

24:02 Strategies for Responding to Offensive Humor

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Ep 373. You Are Going To Jail Sep 23, 2024

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In this episode, Shanti finds deep satisfaction in discovering a new cleaning product while Antoinette encourages us to walk more to live longer. For politics, we offer love and light to Amber Thurman who recently died unnecessarily due to abortion laws in GA and we share our thoughts and fears on the recent conflicts between Israel and Hezbollah. We return to the conversation about immigration and how the recent racist tropes about Haitins may reveal a time-old story about race and class in America. For pop culture, we discuss the recent allegations against Diddy, discussing public perception, accountability, the intricacies of consent and abusive behavior, and the societal structures that create and enable it. Join us...

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