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Government 03: Statesmen Character Development with Dr. Tina Hay Feb 16, 2018

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In order to be a statesman on the government mountain, you must represent God's Kingdom on earth with your sheer force of character. Last week, I shared that there were 7 Attributes of a Kingdom Statesman, and upstanding character is the very first. Without an upstanding character, you can never hope to reach the heights of the Government Mountain. Luckily, anyone has the power to succeed in character development. God has given us guidelines in the Scriptures that will help us get there.

I have a guest with me today that has been my own advisor and spiritual leader as I have sought to develop my character. Dr. Tina Hay is quite literally the Soul Doctor. She is using her God-given gifts and talents to transform souls. Today, Dr. Tina will explain how our character develops from a strength in our souls, and what we need to nurture it. God has made us powerful—powerful enough for self-governance. Dr. Tina will demonstrate the kinds of thoughts and actions that can reinforce your character. We can take feedback and turn it into strength. We can change our mindset about our bad habits.

When we do develop and strengthen our character, we can then teach and strengthen those leaders already in power. Dr. Tina has a vision for each of the individuals she serves. She desires more than anything to bring wholeness back to those who are in leadership. After all, in order to establish the Kingdom above you, you have to establish the Kingdom within you and around you first.

More in this episode:

Tina Hay weighs in on what the soul is.
How can we start practically begin disciplining our souls to strengthen character?
We all need a little honest perspective.
The Bible tells us that we are three-part beings.
Tap into the Spirit to look upon the image of God and see how we are made in His likeness.
Get your life back on track with the Soul Detox.
Change your thinking and everything else will change.
Look at your morals and values and evaluate which are serving you.
Every nation have things they are known for, and our reputations tell you our thoughts.
Talking about the issue of slavery and the past leaders of our nation.
Your character bleeds into your leadership.
The areas of character people tend to trip up on.
Hay's Number 1 character flaw is our thinking.

Links:

Soul Detox

Llbd.org

drtina@llbd.org

Linked 06: How to Go to Your City Feb 15, 2018

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We are called to go into a city to transform it by the power of the Holy Spirit. It's a high calling, but how are we expected to go? Are we to charge with the force of an army, go when we feel like it, or go alone? We've been walking through Luke 10 to understand what it means to be a modern-day apostle, and we return to Luke 10:3 today to better understand what Jesus meant when he commanded us to go.

Here at Are You Real: Linked, we believe that this year the harvest is plentiful! It is time to ask yourself a few challenging questions. What is God asking you to do? Where is he asking you to go? Whatever the answer, know that God has placed a wall of protection around you! As long as you go in his will, he will not lead you astray.

More in this episode:

• Make sure to go back and listen to last week's episode!

• Let's focus on the word, "Go."

• A quick grammar lesson about active and passive verbs.

• Get into the context for the Greek word hypago.

• A look at the Old Testament gives us a better understanding of Jesus' command.

• What happens when we look back rather than running forward.

• God protects us from fear.

• When we Go, God keeps us safe.

• We are sheep being led by our loving shepherd.

Purpose 89: Getting Real; Sex- Love & Marriage Feb 14, 2018

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Valentine's Day is here, and with this day comes a mix of expectations, emotions, and a good deal of pressure. Husbands and wives tend to put a lot of weight on one day to reaffirm their marriage, but in the end the day-to-day intentional choices you make with your spouse will be the thing that turns your marriage from ordinary to extraordinary. I'm here with my wife, Kasey, and together in the spirit of the holiday, we are interviewing another husband and wife duo, Tony and Alisa Dilorenzo. Tony and Alisa are what you might call "Valentine's Day Specialists." Together, they are creating invaluable resources for husbands and wives who are looking to build up their marriage.

One Extraordinary Marriage is a podcast that Kasey and I already love and appreciate as we invest in our marriage. As Valentine's Day approaches, we wanted to know how Tony and Alisa celebrate the holiday, as well as hear some of their tips for making the other 364 days of the year just as loving at February 14th. I know you will love hearing the story of how the Dilorenzos got together! Even though the pair is in the "marriage" business," they will share with you the areas they still work intentionally to build up their relationship. We will talk about how to have the best sex of your marriage, work through emotional intimacy, and have a little fun with your relationship!

Yes, marriage is hard work. Sometimes it's awkward. Tony and Alisa know that your hard work will pay off in a rewarding, beautiful, Godly marriage. Learn from one another and listen to what your spouse needs. That might be the greatest Valentine's Day gift you've ever given.

More in this episode:

Find out how Tony and Alisa met in the summer of '94.
The biggest challenges of working together on creative projects as a married couple.
Intentional conversation is the key!
Trust in your partner's strengths, and don't focus on the weaknesses.
How the Dilorenzos celebrate Valentine's Day by taking the weight out of it.
Guys, learn how to be the hero before Valentines day.
Speak your partner's love language. Learn all you can about them.
Advice for married couples to have sexual and emotional intimacy with their spouse.
Sexual experiences are about more than the physical act.
Grace, Forgiveness, and Intentionality are the biggest components of a successful marriage.
We can choose to be intentional and make decisions to build up one another.
Find the systems and habits that build up your marriage.
There's always room for improvement, and don't try to fix it all at once.
Get out of a rut in the bedroom. Have conversations.

Links:

19 Questions to Extraordinary Sex

Position of The Month Club

Fit 04: Success Begins with Setting Goals Feb 13, 2018

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When it comes to fitness, age is just a number. That is the mentality that Katecha Cook brings to every workout, training program or fitness class. Katecha is 44 and is still running marathons, competing in bodybuilding challenges, and keeping up with the young CrossFitters just fine. Beyond the gym, Katecha is a business instructor, a Master of Business Administration, and is working towards a Doctorate degree. Nothing is stopping Katecha.

It's that time of year when we tend to give up on our fitness goals. Katecha is here to remind our Are You Real: Fit community that your fitness goals are a mindset. She will share all the ways she has made her health her priority, even in the midst of difficult seasons. She will be your goal-setting coach as we try to tackle some of the biggest problems people have with a consistent gym routine. After all, consistency is key!

You are never too old to accomplish a fitness goal. Whether it's the race you haven't finished yet or the weekly walk across the block you've been meaning to get to, you can begin today. The only thing stopping you from wellness is you!

More in this episode:

What motivates Katecha to stay healthy and work out consistently.
1/3 of people in the US are obese. Exercise is the best medicine to prevent costly health problems.
The gym brings Katecha peace of mind. It's an escape.
How Katecha has trained for the Europa and other fitness competitions.
Age is just a number when it comes to fitness.
Katecha had to overcome time obstacles.
You have to treat exercise like a habit.
Everyone has unique fitness goals, and they are all worthwhile!

Resources:

Katecha Cook on Facebook

Train 4 Life Fitness on Facebook

Instagram @MamaBeast1206 @806SwoleSisters

Creatives 04: Life of a Nashville Producer with Chris Clayton Feb 12, 2018

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When it comes to making music, there is so much happening behind the scenes that the general population has no idea about. Behind Christian music production are faithful, talented people producing, writing, and mentoring the artists we see on the stage. It is my goal to bring to you every perspective on creativity, from the people in the front to those behind the booth. Chris Clayton is an acclaimed songwriter, artists, and producer based out of Nashville. His perspective on the music industry, mentoring artists, and the music community at large simply cannot be missed.

Chris has always bloomed wherever the Lord has planted him. Growing up in the church as a PK (Pastor's Kid,) Chris was exposed to the powerful force that is an interpersonal ministry. He still enjoys putting on his pastor hat every now and then, but God has gifted him with a passion for music, and he intends to use it. Chris has done just about every job in the industry. He has recorded incredible music, written beautiful worship songs, and now his interest lies in developing new artists from the production booth. Today, he is going to give us a unique perspective on the production versus the recording industry.

What makes Chris' story and perspective so unique is that he never quite set out to launch into the music industry. Instead, he followed where God opened doors. People called on him to lead worship. Artists asked for him to write songs. Ultimately, everything Chris does is to support and nurture the music community to spread its nets wide. He encourages anyone with an interest or a passion to jump in and help wherever they can! Together, artists are stronger, and God's message can be spread far and wide.

More in this episode:

Chris grew up in church culture as a PK (Pastor's Kid.)
How Chris got into music from an early age.
Music felt like a calling, but he always had a difficult time finding his place in the world.
An email to David Parker changed Chris' life.
Being a songwriter with a publishing deal always felt like an excellent opportunity.
The difference between publishing v. recording.
Publishing helps you get established and get your songs out there!
What it is about songwriting and production that is so interesting to Chris as an artist.
Producing music is a form of ministry.
This newest phase of Chris' career is to develop and seek out artists he connects with.
The process of making music is as unique as the artists who write the music!
We really can help one another along the way.

Links:

Chris Online

Instagram and Twitter @sixarrowsmusic

Church House on iTunes, Spotify

Connect with me @DietzOfficial

Government 02: The 7 Mountain Strategy Feb 09, 2018

Show notes

What does it mean to stand at the top of the government mountain? Am I talking about a literal mountain or something else entirely? The people have spoken; I have listened, and now we are going to get a 10,000-foot view of the 7 Mountains. Each represents an area of our society and culture where leaders rise and influence the world we live in. I'm talking about our Religion, Arts and Entertainment, Business, Media, Education, Family, and, of course, Government. For good or for bad, the leaders at the top of these mountains have such an influence over our daily lives.

I believe that we can bring the Kingdom of God to fruition on this earth by spreading God's truth into these spheres of influence. Yes, we can change the entire world by transforming the 7 Mountains. More than any of the other areas of influence, the Government Mountain carries a high level of attention and power that cannot be denied. When we are smart with how we leverage our influence with God, we can win favor with those already at the top of the Government Mountain.

God is bringing his Kingdom here on earth. I want you to understand how to use your talents and gifts atop the Mountain to make that happen. God is moving! Be a part of the movement.

The seven mount strategy.

We want to influence the people at the top of the 7 Mountains.
Understand what goes on in each of the mountains.
What I believe a government should be.
How the other mountains have been recently impacted by the last election.
Why the Kingdom is concerned about the state of our government mountain.
Why I think the overlapping of spheres of influence led to Trump's election.
Taking our lessons from the parable of the talents, and the minas.
We are about to receive a wealth mentality.

Resources:

Website: Lance Wallnau

Purpose 88: Finding Confidence in Yourself Through Your Confidence in God with Natalie Schlabs Feb 07, 2018

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Sometimes, the next step we need to take to achieve our dreams becomes clear, but it's not so much as a step as it is a leap. Taking those big leaps of faith takes a lot of confidence, but what happens when you start losing confidence in yourself and what God has in store for your life? Small steps after a huge leap can go a long way towards building confidence, and that is why I have my cousin Natalie Schlabs on the show today.

I've known Natalie for almost her entire life, and it's been an incredible one so far. She's a singer-songwriter based out of Nashville, TN with talents and gifts in so many different avenues of creativity. Natalie is an incredible cook, a loving friend and wife, and an incredible musician. Despite all of these gifts, Natalie, like many of us, struggled to build up her confidence when she took a leap of faith and first moved to Nashville. Though she was confident it was the right move to make, Natalie was met with many challenges once she arrived.

The Nashville music scene is filled to bursting with incredible musicians. Natalie shares why it is so easy to play the comparison game, and how that rattled her confidence in writing music. Her story is filled with small, easy steps that you can take to start living our your calling. To all the young people out there feeling afraid to take a leap of faith, I think Natalie's story is going to resonate with you. We have much to learn from her faithfulness in spite of fear!

Along with Natalie's interview, you will learn how to get involved with Are You Real's first Online E-course! It's in beta mode right now, though we have some cool ways that the first 15-20 people can gain access to as we test it out. If you are looking to find your purpose and get launched onto a new path, you need to hear how to get in on this offer!

More in this episode:

Hear how to get exclusive access to the Beta Test of our new E-Course for $97, a $297 value!
Natalie shares her heart and her passion for music and food blogging.
Psalm 31:14-15 and a quote by NT Wright have been instrumental for Natalie in her current season.
Fighting pride and celebrating gifts.
Natalie explores why she decided to move to Nashville and pursue music.
Hear how Natalie fought to be confident while taking a huge step of faith.
Natalie shares why her love of people has been a huge asset to her industry.
Learn how to stay connected with all the cool things Natalie is doing.

Links:

Natalie Online

Natalie Schlabs

@NatalieSchlabs

You Are What You Love by James K. A. Smith

Business 03: 7 Principles of Success Feb 06, 2018

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God has called us to conduct our business with excellence. Does that mean he demands perfection? Absolutely not! Today, I want to show you how easy it is to shift your mindset and apply easy principles towards excellence. I know how difficult it can be to do everything with excellence when you are just starting out. You are understaffed or underfunded. You have tons of ideas and inspiration but haven't acted on them yet.

If this sounds like you, then you are in the perfect place to use my 7 Secrets to Business Success. Yes, these are the same secrets outlined in my book, but I believe in them so much that I wanted to share them with you today. If you are looking for practical wisdom that will transform your business, look no further than today's episode.

More in this episode:

I share how Bethel Music really is excellence in motion.
Take responsibility because the buck starts with you.
Seek council and wisdom. Be a servant-leader.
Act now. Don't get caught in analysis paralysis.
Learn from the past, but never allow yourself to dwell there.
You need to learn how to forgive.
Perseverance will carry you through any obstacle.

Links:

The Authentic Salesman

Success 03: A Modern Creator Builds a Lifestyle Business with Jacob Breeden Feb 05, 2018

Show notes

Jacob Breeden is an innovative and creative artist, "a maker of things and a storyteller." He's a working builder, sculptor, painter, and entrepreneur. He has over 15 years' experience in the world of art and holds a BFA in Sculpture from the University of North Texas. Jacob spent his early career as the Education Director of the Amarillo Museum of Art and as the Exhibitions Builder at the Discovery Center.

Jacob is currently the CEO of Process Art House and a founder and operations manager of Modern Creator. He's a founding member and artist's liaison of The Collective Heritage Lab and a founder and acting COO of Applied Comprehensive Therapies, LLC. He has won numerous awards and sold works of art to collectors all over the world. He has been commissioned to do work for hospitals, banks, and children's centers, and he's developed and installed large-scale projects in Nevada, Texas, and the UK. Jacob is more than an artist; he's a modern creator.

More in this episode:

Why should we care about the government?
Hear how Living Life By Design transformed my life.
Just as God exists in three parts, our Nations exist in parts.
Fathers Add Value encourages men to empower the fatherless around them, and it opened up connections for me in government.
A common working definition of The Kingdom.
Man was made for rulership.
We want to make the earth look like heaven.
Jesus has rescued us so that we can then partner with him in bringing the Kingdom to earth.
Solutions buy you a spot at the table.
What the statesman approach can do for us as we try to bring about government.
Why character development is so important.
You need a deep understanding of Kingdom principles.
Ask wisdom from God, and it will be given to you.
Live in a state of favor expectancy.
A statesman needs to have the skills of prophecy.
We need to be aware of the motivations and actions of others.
Earn self-awareness to unlock all the potential you will have as a statesman.

Links:

Are You Real

Living Life By Design

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