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And Now We Drink Episode 426: With Variety Itsol Oct 02, 2025

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Get ready for another rollicking episode of "And Now We Drink" where host Matt Slayer welcomes the animated and eclectic Variety Istol to the mic. Known for her adventures in the world of kink and fetish, Variety brings a whirlwind of stories, laughs, and unexpected insights. This episode dives headfirst into the wild tales of karaoke nights gone awry, including a memorable song choice that left a distinct mark. Variety opens up about her ventures into the world of BDSM with her hand-crafted "bitch suit" and enthralls Matt with tales from kinky parties and fetish balls, complete with thrilling escapades and daring fashion choices.

The conversation takes a twist into more reflective territories, discussing the challenges of being transgender in today's political climate, especially as a veteran navigating the complex landscape of gender-affirming care and rights. Despite the heavy undertones, Variety's humor and candid accounts of military life, unexpected run-ins with substances, and her views on societal norms keep the atmosphere lively. From unraveling the mystique of puppy play to the transformative power of hypnotic experiences, Variety is a beacon of openness, curiosity, and courage. Grab a drink, settle in, and join Matt and Variety as they explore the intersections of identity, kink, and the joys of living authentically on "And Now We Drink."

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And Now We Drink Episode 425: With Vic Lagina Sep 25, 2025

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In this latest episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer sits down with industry insider Vic Lagina for a candid and compelling exploration of the film landscape. Vic, who has spent nearly two decades in the business, shares the highs and lows of his career—his path to the industry and what prompted his departure. The conversation flows through a range of topics, from the challenges and controversies in the industry to the impact of new technologies like AI, which Vic believes could fundamentally change the way content is produced. He and Matt also delve into the personal—discussing the psychology of performers, Vic's own relationships, and the lifestyle choices that have shaped his journey. Vic is unflinchingly honest, offering insights into the ethical dilemmas faced by those in the industry, as well as his personal experiences with burnout and the pursuit of a meaningful post-biz life. His sharp humor and unfiltered candor provide an engrossing glimpse into the life of someone who's thrived and survived in an ever-evolving world. By episode's end, Vic's stories of resilience and reinvention inspire, leaving listeners contemplating the nature of success and fulfillment beyond the spotlight. Tune in for a dialogue that is as enlightening as it is entertaining, and be prepared to see the film industry through a lens you've likely never considered before.

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And Now We Drink Episode 424: With BarefootMamaMn Sep 18, 2025

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Matt Slayer welcomes creator and former child-protection investigator Jen—better known as BarefootMamaMN—for a raw, funny, and unfiltered ride from Midwest mom-tok weather reports to OF stardom. Jen opens up about building a brand as a barefoot hippie from a small town. She shares the moment she publicly revealed her OF and jumped from a couple grand to 30k in a month, why success is more marketing than s*x, and why boundary and consent talks are non-negotiable before any scene. It's not all laughs: Jen brings hard-earned insight from years investigating crimes , calling out systemic failures, trafficking realities, and why empathy—and not moralizing—saves lives. She also dives into the real risks creators face: stigma, banking and housing discrimination, leaks, impersonators, and DM scams. The personal stories are wild and human: a revenge hookup that spiraled into a years-long trauma bond, dating in a small town while being open about SW, becoming a grandma at 38, going vegetarian out of pure spite, "toxic d**k" rehab jokes. There's travel hacking, West Virginia algos, New Orleans ghosts, Minnesota deer stands, and yes—foot content with ranch dressing. Highlights

Smart, spicy, and sincerely empathetic—this episode is equal parts chaos and clarity.

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And Now We Drink Episode 423: With Serenity Cox Sep 11, 2025

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In this lively episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer sits down with industry sensation Serenity Cox for an unfiltered conversation that traverses the intricacies of nonmonogamy, the nuances of entertainment, and everything in between. Serenity, who transitioned from a career in healthcare to a thriving position in content creation, brings her unique perspective to the table, sharing insights on industry dynamics and personal growth.

Matt and Serenity dive into the cultural differences between Canada and the U.S., discussing everything from healthcare systems to the simple pleasures of Canadian life. Serenity's transition from nursing to the industry reveals enlightening contrasts and similarities between her past and current professions, including memorable and sometimes humorous anecdotes from her time in the emergency department.

Throughout the episode, Serenity candidly offers a personal glimpse into her relationship with her husband and the discovery of what works best for them. Listeners will appreciate the openness with which Serenity shares the evolution of her career and personal life, highlighting the importance of understanding and adapting one's personal journey.

With discussions that range from light-hearted moments to the deeper considerations of career and personal fulfillment, this episode is a testament to the diverse backgrounds and paths that bring people into the world of entertainment. Tune in for a conversation that's as thought-provoking as it is entertaining, promising listeners an engaging narrative that's unafraid to tackle both the serious and the sensational aspects of Serenity's life and career.

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And Now We Drink Episode 422: With Justine Jakobs Sep 04, 2025

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In this lively episode of "And Now We Drink," join host Matt Slayer and his dynamic guest, Justine Jakobs, as they dive into a whirlwind of entertaining and sincere conversations that promise to captivate and amuse. The duo shares personal anecdotes about the unexpected intersections of life, touching upon topics like the hilarity of rollerblading spills, the complexities of psychedelic experiences, and the balance of fitness with indulgence.

Justine isn't shy to discuss her journey within the industry, emphasizing the empowering aspects of creating art and the importance of authentic connections. With candid reflections and hilarious misadventures, she reveals her nuanced relationship with her work while advocating for positivity and consent in all interactions. Meanwhile, Matt contributes his own tales from the field, navigating the quirks and unexpected turns of his professional endeavors and personal adventures.

Listeners can also enjoy thoughtful discussions around societal pressures, the misconceptions associated with life choices, and the ongoing quest for personal growth and genuine human connection in a digital age. With the chemistry between Matt and Justine fully on display, this episode provides insights that are as enlightening as they are entertaining.

Whether you're here for the laughs, the life lessons, or the intriguing behind-the-scenes looks, grab a drink and settle in for an enthralling conversation that intends to leave you both enlightened and entertained.

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And Now We Drink Episode 421: With Dani Synclair Aug 28, 2025

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Get ready for another wild ride on "And Now We Drink," with your host, Matt Slayer, as he sits down with the dynamic Dani Synclair. In this lively and unfiltered episode, Matt and Dani dive headfirst into an entertaining mix of humor, life in the world of content, and the fascinating intricacies of being professionally mean to people.

Dani, a professional switch, reveals her unique career working at a dungeon, where she gets paid to be mean to people as part of her dynamic lifestyle. The conversation takes playful turns as the two share laugh-out-loud moments and banter about everything from naps and neurodivergence to the trials of real-world adulting.

Dani's honest reflections on personal and professional boundaries lead to a candid discussion on how she navigates her work and personal life—a balancing act of kink events, plushie collections, and sometimes, very unexpected vehicular mishaps involving helpful strangers.

Listeners also get a peek at what it's like being sought after in the industry, the nuances of safe play, and Dani's ambitions within prominent studios . Sprinkled throughout are hilarious anecdotes that underscore Dani's unrivaled ability to keep things both sassy and spontaneous.

Whether you're a long-time listener or a curious newcomer, this episode promises hilarity, vulnerability, and a tantalizing glimpse into the life of someone who can enthrall simply by being unapologetically herself. So grab a drink and tune in for an episode that's equal parts entertaining and enlightening.

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And Now We Drink Episode 420: With Taylor Nicole Aug 21, 2025

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In this electrifying episode of "And Now We Drink," host Matt Slayer is joined by the dynamic and magnetic performer Taylor Nicole. A conversation as unpredictable as it is intriguing leads listeners through a myriad of topics. Taylor candidly shares captivating stories from her experiences in the industry, including a wild tale of that offers a humorous yet insightful glimpse into her world. She discusses the shifting dynamics of the work landscape, the challenges performers face with modern content creation, and the impact of social media on their careers.

Matt and Taylor dive into personal stories, including post-relationship reflections, unexpected travel adventures, and even a surprising encounter with a cult leader. With disarming honesty, Taylor opens up about the realities behind the scenes, from navigating the intricacies of hooking up to the pitfalls of dating within the industry.

They also banter about pop culture staples, such as the quirks of late-night dining preferences and the endearing chaos of convention experiences. The episode wraps up with light-hearted discussions on everything from club security dynamics to surprising revelations about favorite travel destinations.

Listeners will find this episode a perfect mix of humor, candidness, and insider insights, giving a raw and real glimpse into lives less ordinary. Whether you're here for the wild tales or the astute industry commentary, there's something for everyone in this can't-miss conversation. Tune in, relax, and drink up as Matt Slayer and Taylor Nicole pull no punches on "And Now We Drink."

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And Now We Drink Episode 419: With Alexis James Aug 14, 2025

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In this latest episode of And Now We Drink, host Matt Slayer sits down with the spirited Alexis James for a compelling and laid-back conversation that is sure to entertain. Known for her candid viewpoints and openness, Alexis delves into a variety of topics with Matt, exploring everything from personal k**ks to travel ambitions.

As the episode unfolds, Alexis shares her unique take on relationships offering insight into her thoughts on commitment and her unapologetic love for s**ual freedom. The duo discusses the nuances of the industry, touching on the realities of Corn s*x versus real-life encounters, and Alexis's intriguing methods of maintaining excitement in her personal life.

Listeners will also be intrigued by Alexis's desire to explore new experiences, such as her aspiration to skydive and her fascination with travel. Her stories are vibrant and unabashed, offering both humor and reflection as she navigates through tales of past romances, awkward public encounters, and her vivid fantasy life.

Matt and Alexis's dynamic is both engaging and raw, providing an atmosphere where no topic is off-limits, whether it's the intricacies of navigating life in Los Angeles or the playful banter about what truly makes them tick. This episode is a thrilling dive into the mind of Alexis James and is sure to leave listeners both entertained and eagerly anticipating what she'll do next. Don't miss out on this electrifying episode of And Now We Drink!

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And Now We Drink Episode 418: With Wisconsin Tiff Aug 07, 2025

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In this episode of "And Now We Drink," join host Matt Slayer as he welcomes back the dynamic and candid Wisconsin Tiff for another engaging session filled with laughter, candid confessions, and intriguing insights into life in the entertainment industry. The conversation kicks off with Tiff's excitement about being back in Los Angeles and dives into her life experiences, from past indiscretions to new professional ventures.

Explore the complexities of Tiff's vibrant career, hear about her thoughts on relationships, and get caught up in her adventurous spirit as she shares plans for engaging with veterans in her projects. The episode doesn't shy away from the unique challenges she faces, such as dealing with unsolicited opinions about her work, and offers listeners a real glimpse into the life beyond the camera.

Tiff's adventurous side comes to life with her stories of hiking aspirations and her love for the outdoors, revealing a layer of personal ambition often unseen in her professional persona. The episode also highlights her fearless attitude towards challenging societal norms and personal insecurities, all while maintaining her authentic self.

Pour yourself a drink and get ready for a night of humor, authenticity, and a touch of the unexpected, as Matt and Tiff navigate topics that range from the hilarious to the heartfelt. Don't miss the chance to catch up with Wisconsin Tiff and her latest escapades in this unfiltered episode of "And Now We Drink."

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And Now We Drink Episode 417: With Codi Vore Jul 31, 2025

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Welcome back to another lively episode of "And Now We Drink," hosted by the ever-entertaining Matt Slayer, with this week's guest, the multifaceted Codi Vore. Join us as we dive into an engaging conversation that spans the nuanced world of entertainment from authenticity, the reality of fame, and the genuine struggles behind the scenes. Codi opens up about her journey, shedding light on the challenges and joys of her career and personal life. From dealing with unrealistic societal expectations and the volatility of social media, Codi discusses her experiences with poise and humor while bantering with Matt.

Codi and Matt delve into the often-overlooked aspects of the industry, exploring the importance of personal authenticity versus collaboration. They candidly discuss the challenges of navigating a career where personal branding meets the often harsh realities of internet culture. Codi's authenticity shines through as she shares her personal stories, including a powerful anecdote about her breast reduction journey and its impact on her career and life quality.

In this episode, you'll also hear a laugh-out-loud discussion about the intricacies of customized content and the potential absurdities that come with it, combined with insightful reflections on the ever-evolving landscape of digital engagement. This episode is a rollercoaster of laughter, earnestness, and a touch of irreverence as Codi and Matt skillfully blend candid life discussions with humorous observations. Tune in for a drink or two of knowledge, laughter, and maybe a little mischief with "And Now We Drink!"

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