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“Non-Traditional” Lifestyles: Moving in With My Boyfriend, Babies Before Marriage, and Long Distance Friendships (WWYBD?!) Oct 29, 2025

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Ep 250: In the catch up segment, Allison and Ceara share about their weeks at home. Allison had two pregnancy appointments, finished furnishing her apartment, is making progress on her baby registry / checklist, and is enjoying fall activities like baking cookies. Ceara just returned from a trip to 30A in Florida with her in-laws. She got to test out her new snorkel gear and had a memorable private sunrise yoga session.

In the WWYBD part of the episode, we answer questions about lifestyle choices that go against social norms, particularly regarding relationships, engagements, marriage, babies, and life stages. We also touch work-place boundaries, such as keeping drinking separate.

WWYBD (what would your bestie do) is where we answer listener-submitted questions. You can submit questions any time via our website, and then we pull questions to fit a specific theme.

TAKEAWAYS:

Friendship can remain strong despite different life phases.
Proximity plays a significant role in maintaining friendships.
Friendships formed in shared environments can be particularly strong.
You should remain authentic to your own values as often as possible.
Trust your own intuition before listening to other people.
Your happiness doesn’t need to be dimmed.
Open and proactive communication will help most situations.

QUESTIONS ASKED:

Do you guys feel like your friendship is just as strong now that you’re in different phases of life?
The social hierarchy at my work is all about who drinks the most/talks about going out the most and I’m not into it. Do I be my authentic self or play the corporate game with this and worry about being my authentic self outside of work?
What are your thoughts about living together before getting engaged?
How have you handled any negativity in regards to the “non traditional route” with marriage post-baby? We’re both firm in our choice and are so excited for what’s to come, but we know it’s going to come across our desk eventually!
I just found out my partner and i have different dreams of what “forever” together. ie, marriage vs. lifelong partners. call it quits?
Should I unfriend a long time friend on social media before I post that I got engaged ? Back story she has been with the same guy for 7+ years and has always wanted to get engaged. I’m trying to save her from the jealousy or anger that might arise from the news.

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Episode # 81 - An Honest Conversation About Drinking Pt. 2

Episode # 122 - An Honest Conversation About Drinking Pt. 3

Episode # 160 - Secret Hater Friends, Putting Labels on People and Ditching Perfectionism

Episode #202 - Open Relationships, Feeling Alone in Sobriety and Traveling Against Your Parents Will (WWYBD?!)

Episode # 232 - Living Life to the Fullest While Also Planning for Financial Stability and Future Goals (WWYBD?!)

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How To Keep The Spark Alive in Your Romantic Relationship Oct 22, 2025

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Ep 249: In this episode, Allison and Ceara reflect on their own long-term relationships and how they’ve been able to keep the spark alive through all of life’s peaks and valleys. We give our opinions on why we think distance happens in relationships, how to identify if a spark is worth rekindling, or if it’s time to go separate ways. We also share a ton of tangible tips to keep your relationship joy filled, love filled, exciting and inspiring.

In this catch up segment, Ceara shares about her trip to LA for a new freelance client which was off to a chaotic start but turned out to make a good story. Then she got to visit friends who live in LA and they went on a haunted hayrack ride. Allison gives a breakdown of her week, which entailed her usual routine activities, but there were also some unexpected exciting events such as getting her Dutch visa, finishing a project for her secondhand store, and her friend’s baby being born.

TAKEAWAYS:

Self-awareness is crucial for being a great partner.
Long-term relationships require intentional effort and maintenance.
Social media can create unrealistic expectations in relationships.
Emotional and physical wellness are key to a healthy partnership.
Regular check-ins and open communication strengthen relationships.
Understanding each other's love languages enhances connection.
Scheduling intentional time together helps maintain the spark.
Surprising each other with small gestures can reignite excitement.
Gratitude and positive reinforcement foster a supportive environment.
Continuous personal growth benefits both individuals and the relationship.

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Episode # 121 - How Our Core Values Can Lead To Conflict In Our Most Valuable Relationships

Episode # 130 - Finding Aligned Friendships and Activities To Do Together

Episode # 190 - Green Flags To Look For In Healthy Friendships and Relationships with Rachel Lovely

Episode # 222 - Relationship Real Talk: Ego Checks, Vulnerable Conversations, Financial Strain and Overcoming Insecurities

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Allison’s Store in Omaha - 1404 Collective

1404 Collective - Community Content Program

Baby Registry Unboxing on Allison’s Facebook - Part 1 and Part 2

TikTok Featuring Games for 2 People - Watch Here

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How Our Phones Impact Our Health and Well-Being (Opinionated AF) Oct 15, 2025

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Ep 248: In this episode, Allison and Ceara discuss the challenges of navigating phone boundaries, social media addiction, AI content creators, the unrealistic expectations of communication in a digital age, and the anxiety caused by being “watched” in public spaces. The conversation emphasizes the importance of finding joy in everyday life and introduces the concept of a dopamine menu, “hanging up the phone” and app blockers to help listeners engage in more fulfilling activities. We conclude with reminders to be intentional about digital consumption and to prioritize self-care.

In this catch up segment, Ceara shares an exciting update about landing a new freelance client and she will be producing a photoshoot with them next week. She is also preparing for an annual trip to Florida with her husband’s family. Allison shares pregnancy updates and the highlights of her 31st birthday celebrations such as pilates, a cacao ceremony, going to a movie, visiting a herbal shop, journaling, and hanging with Clay.

We both give curriculum updates as well. Ceara is crushing it with home-ec as she is cooking a lot and entered a chili into a cookoff with her friends. She’s also making progress on her reading list. Allison’s primary focus has been in planning her home-birth, learning about herbs, acupressure and making flower bouquets.

TAKEAWAYS:

Screen time can significantly impact mental health and well-being.
Setting phone boundaries is essential for maintaining mental health.
It's important to be aware of the content consumed online,
The pressure to respond quickly to messages can lead to stress and anxiety.
Surveillance in public spaces can create a sense of paranoia and fear.
Finding joy in real-life everyday activities is crucial for happiness.
Creating a dopamine menu can help individuals engage in fulfilling activities.
Self-care practices can be more beneficial than scrolling through social media.
Listeners are encouraged to reflect on their digital habits.

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Our Favorite Wellness Items Under $25 Oct 08, 2025

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Ep 247: In this episode, Allison and Ceara discuss their favorite affordable health and wellness items. We include a range of items from beauty, to eco-friendly home products, to oral hygiene, and items that support a good night’s sleep. We also share our honest thoughts about the toxic ingredients in many big name brands and products to steer away from.

In this catch up segment, Ceara shares about her trip to Austin, with highlights including seeing her sister, ACL musical festival and going to Comedy Mothership. Allison shares activities of her week including a craft market, getting Peaches pet passport, onboarding three new vendors at her shop and finally getting her brows done. She also reveals the name her and Clay chose for their baby boy.

TAKEAWAYS:

Affordable wellness items can significantly enhance self-care routines.
DIY wellness products can be both cost-effective and beneficial.
Hydration is crucial for overall health and can be enhanced with supplements.
Mental health practices, such as aromatherapy, can help manage stress.
Sustainable cleaning products contribute to both health and environmental wellness.
Investing in quality wellness items can lead to long-term benefits.

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Episode # 93 - WWYBD?! Save or Splurge Edition

Episode # 220 - Expensive Things That Are Worth It to Us

MENTIONS:

All Products Mentioned Linked On Our Website

Allison’s ClassPass Link with Free Trial Bonus Credits

Allison’s Amazon Storefront

Ceara’s Amazon Storefront

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Are You Afraid Of Letting Go? The Freedom in Releasing Oct 01, 2025

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Ep 246: In this episode, Allison and Ceara reflect on the changing season, as fall invites in the energy of release. We encourage listeners to embrace the natural ebb and flow of life, as the only thing forever constant, is change.

We discuss the importance of releasing old habits, emotions, identities, lifestyle choices and relationships that are no longer in alignment. We include personal examples, practical tips for letting go, and reflections on how to navigate the emotional challenges that come with change.

In this catch up segment, Ceara shares about a visit to her grandparents on the East coast. The highlight was going to a murder mystery play and spending quality time with them. Allison is making progress on her birth plan by watching documentaries, listening to birth story podcast episodes and heavily researching how to prepare.

TAKEAWAYS:

Letting go is essential for personal growth and making space for new opportunities.
The process of letting go can be emotional and challenging.
Identifying what to let go of can help alleviate feelings of jealousy, resentment, and negativity.
Fear of the unknown often holds us back from letting go
Mindfulness practices, such as journaling and breath work, can facilitate emotional release.
The end of one chapter is not the end of the story; it can lead to new beginnings.
Letting go can improve our relationships with ourselves and others.
Creating an action plan can help ease the transition of letting go.

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Episode # 163 - Radical Self-Acceptance, Feminine Energy, and Soul Work with Emma Marschall

Episode # 215 - Emotional Detoxing: How to Let Go of What’s Weighing You Down

Episode # 217 - Feel At Home Within Yourself to Cultivate Inner Peace and Stability

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Wedding Planning Hiccups, Pursuing Higher Education and Cozy Home Fall Tips (WWYBD?!) Sep 24, 2025

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Ep 245: In the catch up segment, Allison and Ceara share the highlights of their week for the first 20 minutes of the episode. Ceara went to Colombia for a Mizzou football game and is excited about getting her front porch redone. Allison had a lot of success finding items for her fall wardrobe at a vintage clothing market. We both share progress updates of our "curriculum" studies (tune into last week’s episode). Then we discuss the societal pressure of quick communication expectations due to the accessibility our phones create.

In the WWYBD part of the episode, we talk about the complexities of wedding planning in a way that avoids drama, the opportunity of going back to pursue higher education when you’re age 30+, and explore tips for creating a cozy home environment, emphasizing the impact of aesthetics, intention, feng shui and personal touches.

WWYBD (what would your bestie do) is where we answer listener-submitted questions. You can submit questions any time via our website, and then we pull questions to fit a specific theme.

TAKEAWAYS:

Balancing responsibilities can be challenging, but it's manageable with planning.
Investing in higher education is a great opportunity, especially with employer support.
Creating routines can help manage time effectively during busy periods.
Friendship dynamics can change, and it's important to navigate them thoughtfully.
Asking for help is crucial when juggling multiple responsibilities.
Learning and personal growth can happen at any stage of life.
Creating a cozy home environment enhances well-being and comfort.
Home decor and ambiance can significantly impact mood and comfort.

QUESTIONS ASKED:

A couple of months after we had set our wedding date we had found out that one of our friends set theirs the night before ours… I don’t want to burn a bridge but maybe it was a sign that we don’t need to be friends anymore?
Currently working at an awesome organization with a great tuition reimbursement program. I am thinking about going back to school to get my masters degree - and my employer would pay for 75% of it. Would love to hear how women are juggling life and school and work and home and family etc all at the same time?! This just seems like something I can t pass up.
How to make your home more cozy/a place you love being?

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Episode # 98 - How To Embrace Hygge and Make Your Home The Ultimate Cozy Vibe

Episode # 192 - WWYBD?! Synchronicities, Power of Thought, Flight Anxiety and Facing Your Fears

Episode # 197 - WWYBD?! Work-Travel Balance, Realities of Adulting, Leveraging Debt and Independence in Relationships

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Allison’s Curriculum and Syllabus - On Her Website

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How to Make Your Own Personal Curriculum Sep 17, 2025

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Ep 244: In this episode, Allison and Ceara talk about a trend on social media that’s all about creating your “personal curriculum” to follow your curiosity, tap into your inner child and romanticize learning after graduation. Intellectual wellness is one of the 8 dimensions of wellness (that we’ve talked about here many times) so this is a great way to tune into that energy! We share free resources, suggest various topics to study, ways to implement this idea, our current fall curriculums, and tips to stay accountable.

Developing your own class schedule should be fun and attainable because as the teacher, you can take this any direction that inspires or enriches you whether that’s hobbies, art, music, financials, literature, wellness, business, fitness, history or anything in-between.

In this catch up segment, we talk “low-spend September” and supporting small businesses. We share fun things to do in September like going to the apple orchard, a fitness challenge, and hosting tea parties with friends.

TAKEAWAYS:

Ongoing education is crucial for personal growth.
Creating a curriculum can help structure learning.
Seasonal changes can inspire new learning opportunities.
Support local businesses to keep money in the community.
YouTube is a valuable resource for learning new skills.
Having a dedicated learning space can enhance focus.
Engaging with friends can make learning more enjoyable.
Setting attainable goals is key to staying motivated.
Exploring different cultures can enrich your understanding of the world.
Accountability can be fostered through community and shared goals.

RELATED EPISODES:

Episode # 116 - Intellectual Wellness, Mindset and Self-Awareness w/ Dr. Saundra Shillingstad

Episode # 120 - Hobbies: Why They’re Important, Our Favorite Hobbies, and Ideas to Try

Episode # 164 - How Being A Lifelong Learner Will Lead To Continuous Growth In All Areas

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NYC Recap (Djerf Avenue Pop Up, U.S. Open, Travel Drama) and European Roadtrip Through The Alps Sep 10, 2025

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Ep 243: Allison and Ceara dedicate this entire update to catching listeners up on all the fun and exciting activities that happened in their lives over the last two weeks. Our summers have been incredible and this last week really topped off a wonderful few months.

Ceara recently got back from a NYC trip with her sister McKenna. They spontaneously attended the U.S. Open and tried the famous Honey Deuce drink. They also went to Matilda Djerf’s pop up event at the Djerf Avenue Townhouse and got to meet the Scandi-style queen herself. Ceara shares about a controversial video she made on her way to NYC that’s getting a lot of traction about airport theory so we discuss the different types of travelers.

Allison and Clay went on a road-trip through Germany, Austria and Switzerland to celebrate Clay’s 30th birthday. All credit to Clay for choosing the destinations. A highlight was Innsbruck, Austria and getting to take Peaches up the mountain in the gondola. After she got back to her apartment in The Netherlands, she started getting into the virgo season energy of organizing and decluttering. She attended a yoga retreat in Amsterdam and got to connect with fellow pregnant and new moms in attendance. Big progress was made in their visa paperwork as she finally received her BSN (Dutch social security number), a Dutch bank account and a Dutch iPhone.

TAKEAWAYS:

Allison discusses her excitement about attending a yoga retreat.
Ceara praises Matilda for her personality and connection with fans.
New York City has a unique energy that draws people back.
Allison shares her difficult quest for a pretzel in Germany
Border control in Europe is surprisingly lax.
Inspiring encounters can make a trip memorable.
The Values Bridge quiz provides insight to your values.

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MENTIONS:

Ceara’s Controversial Airport Theory Video

Allison’s Circumcision Video

Matilda Djerf and Djerf Avenue

Ceara NYC Recs: La Pecora Bianca, Pop Up Bagels, Van Leeuwen's

Caleb Simpson’s NYC Home Tours: $687 Tiny Apartment and Suzy Welch

Suzy Welch’s Values Bridge Quiz

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Back-to-School for Grown-Ups: Routines, Rituals, and Best Practices for a Seasonal Reset Sep 03, 2025

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Ep 242: In this episode, Allison and Ceara discuss the importance of getting organized as summer transitions into fall. They share personal experiences and tips on establishing routines, deep-cleaning, organizing, maintaining healthy habits, managing finances, and nurturing fulfilling relationships. Listeners are encouraged to embrace the back-to-school energy to reflect on their personal growth, adjust goals as needed, and finish 2025 strong.

TAKEAWAYS:

Embrace the back-to-school energy to get organized.
Creating a cleaning schedule can help maintain a tidy space.
Meal planning can simplify your week and reduce stress.
Regular financial check-ins can prevent unnecessary charges.
Building relationships in your local area is important for support.
Utilizing digital tools can streamline organization efforts.
Finding joy in routines can enhance overall well-being.
Taking inventory of your belongings can declutter your life.

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Episode # 98 - How To Embrace Hygge and Make Your Home The Ultimate Cozy Vibe

Episode # 156 - Home Health, Clutter Clearing and Space Alchemy with Ansley Emerson

MENTIONS:

Allison ClassPass Link with Bonus Credits

Airalo eSIM - Code CEARA3 or CEARA0270 for $3 Off

Allison Mandrn Laptop Bag - Code ALLISONW15 for 15% Off

Organizational Software - Click Up

Rocket Money

Free Library Card Language App - Mango

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Tips To Get Over A Break Up, Normalizing Therapy, and Small Solo Trips To Build Confidence (WWYBD?!) Aug 27, 2025

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Ep 241: In the catch up segment, Allison and Ceara share about their latest travels. Ceara had a fun friend-filled week. She went to Chicago for a wedding, shot her friend’s engagement photos, and did a 4 mile walk with a friend. Next week, Ceara and her sister are going to New York for two fun events so she’s looking forward to that.

Allison was in Omaha to check on her shop, see family, and get some paperwork done. Her highlight of the week was doing a professional maternity shoot at a studio. After she got back home to The Netherlands, she had a few lazy, restful days recovering from the long journey and jet lag.

In the WWYBD part of the episode, we answer questions about how to get over a breakup when you’ve been together for a long time and have children together, how to financially balance your own big life moments while supporting your friends' events as well, and some advice on how to get started solo traveling.

WWYBD (what would your bestie do) is where we answer listener-submitted questions. You can submit questions any time via our website, and then we pull questions to fit a specific theme.

TAKEAWAYS:

Catching up with college friends can be refreshing and uplifting.
Breakups require time and reflection to heal.
Keeping a journal can help process negative feelings after a breakup.
It's okay to say no to expensive trips or events if it's not feasible.
Friendship dynamics can shift during significant life events.
The Midwest offers great opportunities for solo travel and friendly encounters.

QUESTIONS ASKED:

Tips to get over a breakup? We were together for 7 years and have two kids. It became toxic and abusive so I know I made the right decision to protect me and my kids.
One of my friends is having her 30th birthday in Tulum. She’s been supportive of myself and our other friends who are recently married by attending our events. Unfortunately, because of all the destination weddings I’ve already committed to this year, I can’t financially swing her birthday trip and she’s really upset. Am I a bad friend?
You both have inspired me to try some solo traveling to get outside of my comfort zone! As a fellow midwest girly, do you have any travel recommendations in the midwest so I can start small?

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Episode # 85 - Solo Travel: Tips, Stories and Why It’s Empowering

Episode # 93 - WWYBD?! Save or Splurge Edition

Episode # 140 - I Lost My Job and Moved to Colombia: Solo vs. Group Travel, Being Authentic on the Internet and Ayahuasca Adventures with Kaylen of @KaylenDoesStuff

Episode # 171 - WWYBD?! Tough Love On Victim Mentality, Relocating Across The World and Growing Apart From Friends

MENTIONS:

Wholesome Midwest Travel Rec - Door County Wisconsin

Beautiful Autumn Travel Rec - Buena Vista, Colorado

Culture C Street Boutique Hotel in Springfield, Missouri

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