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That’s Not What Makes You a Mother with Whitney Port Oct 31, 2024

In this episode, I sit down with Whitney Port, beloved reality TV star from The Hills and The City, entrepreneur, and podcast host. Whitney opens up about her deeply personal journey with infertility, the pressure of public life, and the complexities of navigating anxiety and self-worth. Prepare for a candid, relatable, and incredibly inspiring conversation as we delve into her struggles and triumphs.

We discuss:

Navigating Infertility: Whitney shares her heartbreaking journey through five miscarriages, IVF, and her decision to seek surrogacy.
Surrogacy Process
Redefining Self-Worth: How Whitney balances her identity and self-worth beyond fame and public opinion.
Managing Anxiety: Insight into Whitney's personal tools for handling anxiety, from mindfulness to self-compassion.
Balancing Personal and Public Life: Reflections on maintaining authenticity and boundaries in the public eye.
Resilience in the Face of Loss: Whitney’s reflections on hope, healing, and finding strength in the face of grief.

And so much more!!! I also give you a fun intro about the date I am going on today :) enjoy!!!

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How To Make Him Fall in Love Oct 31, 2024

They say men control the world, but I say that women control the men.

On today's special episode, catch up with Violetta as she spill her latest intrusive thoughts and a halloween party gone sh*t—and then get ready for dating wisdom that flips the script on love and relationships. Get ready for insider secrets to the male's psych to get him obsessed.

We discuss:

The Power of Praise: Why giving a little ego boost makes him crave your attention.
Be His Queen—Silently in Control: How to stay in control of the relationship while letting him feel like he’s "the man."
Secrets from "Why Men Love Bitches" and "Men Are From Mars & Women Are From Venus": Tips that turn any date into the one you want.
Boosting His Self-Esteem: How to be his safe haven and keep him invested.
Mastering His Heart by Stoking His Ego: Make him feel like a hero—The knight-in-shining-armor metaphor and how men are motivated by feeling needed and appreciated.

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Get ready to take notes because these tips aren't just for anyone—they're for those who are ready to take back their power and get the princess treatment they've been longing for.

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HE’S NOT YOUR PERSON SIS - LISTEN TO THIS Oct 24, 2024

In this episode, we go all in on love, dating, and relationships—holding nothing back. If you're fed up with mixed signals, emotionally unavailable partners, or just feeling like you’re not getting what you deserve, this is the episode that will turn it all around for you.

What we discuss:

If you catch me doing THIS, then just KNOW I’m going through it and someone’s dusty a&& son p*ssed me the F off!
The best advice my mum gave me when it comes to heartbreak
3 questions to ask yourself in the beginning of dating
How your energy in the relationship reveals if they're right for you—and the kind of energy that signals they’re the one.
How to stop wasting time on people who aren’t showing up for you.
The key to a successful relationship: (hint: you need more than love)

And so much more!!

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This episode will help you finally break the cycle of toxic relationships and demand the love you deserve. Trust me, you NEED to listen to this one if you want to save your love life—or finally find your soulmate/your person.

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October Tarot Reading - Pick A Card Oct 15, 2024

Pick your colour, pick your path! In this special October tarot card reading, I’ve pulled out three different decks that predict the rest of your month—from your career to life to love! Each deck is tied to a colour that calls out to you.

Timestamps:

Green - 2:03

Pink - 12:51

Red - 21:16

Each colour holds a unique reading packed with guidance for the month ahead. So, which one is speaking to you?

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HITTING ROCK BOTTOM Oct 15, 2024

If you're feeling lost, stuck at rock bottom, unloved, unheard, unmotivated, or unhappy in your current situation—if you feel completely defeated, like you've lost your sense of purpose, and that things will NEVER get better—this episode is for you!

This is the wake-up call you've been waiting for.

Today I get personal on what hitting rock bottom taught me and how I pulled myself out, and how you can too.

We discuss:

How everything feels like salt, when you walk around wounded.
The truth about why some people have such a powerful impact on us—No they are NOT your twin flame.
How losing yourself can actually lead to a breakthrough.
The dangers of confiding in the wrong people during your weakest moments.
How to recognise when someone’s projecting their insecurities onto you.
How to protect your energy and rebuild your confidence.
And lastly, 3 things to remember when hitting rock bottom.

We end this heartfelt episode with some laughs, cringe quotes, and a random true story about my encounter with Eva Mendes that might surprise you.

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Trust me, you’re stronger than you think, and your comeback is about to be legendary. Don’t miss this episode and share it with your bestie—this might be the push you both have been waiting for! <3

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Decolonizing Trauma: Did You Choose Your Trauma? with Yemi Penn Oct 03, 2024

Instead of colonising why don't we DEcolonise today? Trauma that is!

Join me in this transformative conversation with global thought leader and TEDx speaker, Yemi Penn, as we dive into alternative approaches to healing trauma.

We explore powerful topics like:

Decolonizing trauma: What it means and how it changes your healing journey.
Bending your reality: How to rewrite your narrative and create a thriving life post-trauma.
Facing adversity and why cultivating a mindset of curiosity and rebellion is necessary
Breaking toxic patterns: Tools and practices to disrupt negative behaviors.
Embracing discomfort: How leaning into vulnerability and discomfort can lead to profound personal growth.

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Tune in for practical insights and empowering strategies to transform your pain into strength.

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ADHD Made Me Do It: My Worst Date Stories Sep 26, 2024

My most unhinged episode yet or at least in the top 5!

If you have ADHD or think you might or just want to laugh your a$$ off then this episode is for you.

From my worst date stories to my doctor drug testing me for a snow habit at 9am, to giving you a tarot card reading for that one burning question on your mind—this episode has it all! Don’t forget to subscribe and share with your friends. Love ya!

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The Lie: YOU ARE NOT ENOUGH Sep 26, 2024

Have you ever caught yourself thinking, "I’m not enough?" Today, we’re calling that out for what it is—the biggest lie you’ve ever told yourself, and the one thing holding you back from living the life you’re meant for.

This week, we’re kicking off a brand-new series! Every week, we’ll be debunking one LIE that’s been holding us back from living our best lives, and we’re starting with this episode.

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Today, we’re breaking down the three key drivers of this toxic mindset and debunking each one together. For every lie we uncover, you’ll get practical, actionable steps to help you step into your true potential. By the end of this episode, you’ll have the tools to rise above self-doubt and stop letting these lies define your worth.

It’s time to let go of the lies and step into your power.

TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 - 9:07 - Imposter Syndrome

How and why your mind tricks you into feeling like a fraud
Debunking the myths fueling self-doubt
Actionable steps to overcome imposter syndrome

9:08 - 24:32 - Social Comparison Theory

How and why comparing your life to others’ highlight reels only keeps you stuck
Debunking the myths that everyone has it better
Actionable steps to overcome social comparison

24:33 - 37:40 - Negativity Bias

How and why your brain is literally wired to focus on the worst
How to reprogram your brain for growth
Debunking the myths that everyone is out to get you
Actionable steps to overcome negativity bias

37:41 - 44:09

Powerful message/reminder that you are more than enough
Final steps to help you start becoming the best version of yourself—the version that already exists, but just needs to be unleashed.

Ready to crush self-doubt once and for all? Tune in now to begin your journey to self-worth and empowerment.

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Stop Struggling: The Real Path to Business Success With Ret Taylor Sep 12, 2024

Ready to uncover the dark, dirty secrets of starting a business? But first, Violetta catches you up on her $95,000 dentist bill (yes, you read that right), and the mid dude that made her an offer she almost couldn't refuse... ALMOST.

"Violetta is joined by Ret Taylor, co-founder of the wellness brand Ned, as they dive into the often overlooked, not-so-glamorous realities of starting and growing a business. From how banks can put your business on a hidden blacklist that could kill your dream before it even begins to the roadmap of how Ned managed to thrive in the Wellness space.

Exposed: The secret blacklist banks don’t want you to know about and how it can silently destroy your business.
Essential for new entrepreneurs: The three unmissable tips every new business owner MUST hear to succeed.
Stop glorifying the grind: Burnout isn’t a badge of honor. We’re rewriting the narrative on how to build a thriving business without sacrificing your mental health.
Mindset shift: Life happens FOR you, not TO you—how this powerful shift can unlock limitless potential.
Stand out or fade away: Why blending in is the death of your brand and how to make your business unforgettable.
Giving back: Discover how this brand is revolutionizing the industry by supporting farmers and leading with purpose.

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WHY MEN PULL AWAY - The Psychology of a Man's Mind Sep 12, 2024

Find out why this episode hit over 100,000 downloads on its first day—Tune in RIGHT NOW to learn the psychology of WHY MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!!! whether beginning, middle, or end--it seems to always happen at some point.

That is why Violetta is bringing you part two of one of her most viral episodes to explain the reasoning behind this unavoidable phenomenon and a 3 step playbook that guarantees he'll come crawling back in NO time!

In this episode, Violetta covers:

Reasons he pulled away according to male dating experts.
A 3 step playbook to get him crawling back:

"Surprise Him"
Mirror his actions
Detach completely in 24 hours

A guide for the girlies who got dumped.
A guide for the girlies getting the cold shoulder.

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Transform Your Dating Life in 5 Steps - Bad B*tch University Sep 02, 2024

Do you want to stroll into any room like you own it and have people hanging on your every word? Do you want to be so magnetic that the partner of your dreams can’t resist being drawn to you like a moth to a flame? And how about finally standing your ground and making sure no one ever overlooks you again, so you can start living the fabulous life you’ve always deserved?

Well, you’re in the right place because this episode is your ultimate guide to leveling up your confidence game in dating and in life with my 5 confidence hacks.

Welcome to BAD B*TCH UNIVERSITY, baby! This is the third of FOUR powerhouse episodes designed to change the way you've been dating, raise your standards, kick your self worth and self esteem into high gear, attract only the best, and unlock the NEW AND IMPROVED YOU!!!

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Manifest Miracles I Law of Attraction 432 Hz I Elevate Your Vibration Aug 25, 2024

Bonus episode - 3 hours of manifesting sound for anyone looking to elevate their vibrations and energy to better attract and manifest while sleeping or for anyone looking for frequency music to listen to while practicing gratitude or doing my manifesting techniques from last episode/other episodes.

This powerful track uses the 432Hz frequency as a base and continuously builds on itself, allowing you to elevate your vibrations and focus your energy on manifestation. Listening to this audio track or meditating at a frequency of 432 Hz can help you elevate your vibration and connect with higher states of consciousness necessary for manifesting miracles. You can use this tool to attract wealth, achieve financial freedom, gain education, or travel to luxury destinations.

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The power of your mind and the universe is within your reach, and by focusing on positive thoughts, elevating your vibration, and using the Law of Attraction, you can make your dreams a reality. Download this episode to save this sound and share with a friend.

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Become His Dream Girl - Bad B*tch University Aug 22, 2024

Welcome to BAD B*TCH UNIVERSITY, baby! This is the second of FOUR powerhouse episodes designed to change the way you've been dating, raise your standards, kick your self worth and self esteem into high gear, attract only the best, and unlock the NEW AND IMPROVED YOU!!!

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TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 - 13:12 - Catch up with Violetta:

How to circumcise a man
Female circumcision
Nipple piercings - good girl vs. bad girl.

13:13 - 46:05 - How to keep him obsessed:

How to attract what you want
Become everyone's dream girl
Learn the secrets to keeping his attention
Become more confident
Say goodbye to toxic relationships
Embrace your worth, set your standards high, and stop settling for anything less

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Are You Damaged Goods? - Bad B*tch University Aug 15, 2024

Welcome to BAD B*TCH UNIVERSITY, baby! This is the first of FOUR powerhouse episodes designed to change the way you've been dating, raise your standards, kick your self worth and self esteem into high gear, attract only the best, and unlock the NEW AND IMPROVED YOU!!!

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TIMESTAMPS:

First segment - Catch up with Violetta - 0:00 - 28:21

Get ready to pee your pants with today’s segment! Violetta discuss a bizarre news story that involves a pink Tesla and a man caught porking it, like it's just another Tuesday. She takes it up a notch and imagines a world where women acted like men for a day. She ends the segment with a trip down memory lane to her wild childhood —including the time she almost died (not clickbait) while her parents had no choice by to watch in sheer terror.

Second segment - Are You Damaged Goods? - 28:22 -54:25

Today we crush the myth of "damaged goods" once and for all. Violetta breaks down the four critical mistakes women make when dating under the pressure of that ticking biological clock. And gives you 4 crucial dating tips that will save you, so you can stop feeling like leftovers and start acting like the main course you are. We’re talking:

Do not make the mistake of dating when you are your lowest - you will accidentally pick up all the strays.
NEVER out communicate a man - how you're turning him off.
Don’t hop into bed thinking it’ll keep him—newsflash, it won’t.
Ditch the pity parties—your ex was trash, and he’s gone, so stop giving him airtime.. especially on your dates.
A little pep talk to close the episode that will uplift your mood and mindset when it comes to yourself and your dating life.

This is just the start, bestie. Bootcamp’s gonna be your best friend this month, with each episode hitting harder and empowering you more. Share this with your friends to reclaim your worth and level up!! so hit play and let’s get into it! 🔥

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How Men Fall In Love - A Step by Step Guide Aug 08, 2024

Ever wonder what really makes a man fall head over heels? Well, what if I told you it wasn't through your looks or even bedroom moves but instead it has to do with how much you PISS HIM OFF.

Well... kinda.

On today's episode we cover:

The Love Hormones: Women have oxytocin, the love hormone released during sex and cuddling. Men? They have vasopressin, their “monogamy hormone,” which kicks in when you stress him out!
Stress Him Out: Discover why a little stress is good for making your man fall for you.
Triggering Love: Learn about the stress hormones in men and how to activate them to your advantage.
Stages of Love: Uncover the three stages of how a man falls in love.
When Men Pull Away: Find out the real reason men disappear when things are going so well and what you can do about it.
Love Psychology: Dive into the psychology of love with 8 actionable tips to win his heart.

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Jana Love Island PPG Tell All Aug 01, 2024

Join me as I sit down with Jana from Love Island US Season 6 for an exclusive tell-all episode where she spills secrets from inside and outside the villa that will surprise you!

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TIMESTAMPS:

SEGMENT 1 - Let’s catch up! - 0:00 - 12:04

I discuss why stretching isn't for me, my childhood dream job, that time I applied for the CIA and helped the FBI with a case during the pandemic, and lastly my plans this past weekend.

SEGMENT 2 - A deeper dive inside Jana :) - 14:12 - 1:00

We deep into who she really is, the untold drama behind the scenes, what's next for her and Kenny and for PPG gang, her predictions for the reunion and who she's gunning for, and SO. MUCH. MORE. This is one episode you don't want to miss!

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How to Detach in 24 Hours Jul 25, 2024

When your man doesn’t value you, then he DESERVES to lose you. Want to teach him a lesson? Then tune In!

Sometimes detaching doesn’t mean goodbye forever; it means giving yourself the time to figure out what you want and deserve. Today’s episode is for anyone who:

Needs to reassess their relationship and feelings.
Wants to wake up a partner who's taking them for granted.
Is ready to walk away from someone they love.
Needs help with anxiety and detaching from stress over uncontrollable outcomes.

Let’s dive in.

In this episode, Violetta covers:

The law of detachment.
5 ways to detach.
3 steps to go from needing him to him needing you.
How to rewire your anxious thoughts in one night.
The best pep talk you need to hear!

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Manifest A New Life - LISTEN NOW Jul 18, 2024

STOP RIGHT THERE AND LISTEN TO THIS EPISODE RIGHT NOW!! Today, August 8th, marks the MOST powerful manifesting day of the year—the rare 8/8/8 Lions Gate Portal. Don't walk, RUN to listen to this episode on how to manifest everything you've ever wanted!!

I will be giving you FIVE manifesting techniques to do today and for the next full moon that will get you everything you ever wanted from goals to love. Please see below for timestamps for each one.

TIMESTAMPS:

0:00 - 6:06 - Intro to Lions Gate manifesting Portal 8/8/8

6:07 - 9:14 - Grocery List manifesting method ( manifest multiple goals)

9:15 - 15:22 - Letter to your future self manifesting method (manifest a new life in 6 months - 1 year)

16:33 - 19:12 - Love letter manifesting method (manifest your future soulmate)

19:13 - 23:07 - Whisper manifesting method (manifest a specific person to be OBESSED with you)

23:08 - 25:50 - Other simple manifesting techniques

25:51 - 28:35 - Manifesting mantras

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The Effects of Casual Sex With Couples Therapist Dene Logan Jul 11, 2024

Ready to uncover the truth about casual sex and reclaim your power? Tune in to get smarter in dating, reclaim your power and get back into your feminine goddess receiving energy. ✨

TIMESTAMPS:

First segment - Catch up with Violetta - 0:00 - 14:06

Get ready to pee your pants with today’s segment! Violetta dives deep into her most bizarre seggs dream that was so weird, she had to ghost the guy in real life. Then, she reveals her totally foolproof (or not) method for kicking boys out of her house. Spoiler alert: It works 0 times every time!

Second segment - Guest: Dene Logan - 14:07 -1:01:09

Couple’s therapist, Dene Logan join Violetta to discuss:

TAKING YOUR POWER BACK
The perils of masculine and feminine wounded energy.
Why that "mothering" vibe is actually masculine energy.
The impact of energy exchange through sex and why casual flings might be more than you bargained for.
Navigating the energy of fear vs. the energy of love.
How loving how someone makes you feel isn't real love.
The sneaky traps of co-dependency.
The ultimate self-harm: falling in love with someone's potential.
chemistry vs. compatibility.
Tips to reclaim your feminine energy.

Third segment - Benson Knows Best (answering YOUR questions) - 1:07:26 - 1:22:00

Dating a Manipulative Man: Why you should ditch the guy who's playing mind games.
Moving Past Guilt: Tips on self-compassion and letting go of past mistakes.
Being Liked but Not Pursued: Understanding why some men love the idea of you but don’t actually want to invest any time in you.
When’s the right time to break up
How to detach and get him to fall in love with YOU
Feeling Unloved: Why staying in a relationship where you feel unloved can do more harm than good.

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Transform Your Situationship Into a Relationship Jul 04, 2024

You don't get brownie points for going the extra mile for a man you met two weeks ago. You don't get brownie points for putting up with his disrespect or cooking for him a five course meal on the second date, because you want to show him that you are wifey material, even though he has never once reciprocated your energy.

So if you want someone to chase you, you have to treat them like a drug dealer treats their clients. You get them hooked and then you threaten to take it away -- Not with your words, but with your actions. Follow my 5 step guide, and they won't be able to get enough off you.

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TIMESTAMPS:

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Catch up with me over my breakdown, guess the surprise guest for next week, hear what I’m doing this weekend, and my plans for next month, and why podcasting isn’t for everyone.

SEGMENT 2 - 5 step guide to a relationship - 19:42 - 50:07

How to go from a situationship to a guaranteed relationship in 5 simple steps.

SEGMENT 3 - Benson knows best - 50:22 - 1:04:347

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Why a situationship breakup can hurt more than a 5 year relationship breakup
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Love Island S6: Drama & Psychology Breakdown Jun 27, 2024

Privet besties!! Today we take a break from Violetta's Russian tough love and present you with a fun deep dive episode into the juicy world of Love Island US Season 6! We're spilling all the tea on the July 11th drama and everything that has unfolded up to it. We break down how we got here and unpack all the makeups and breakups from the psychology side of it all the way to their zodiac signs. Who’s vibing? Who’s clashing? And who will make it outside the villa?? Grab your popcorn because Violetta has got all the answers you've been looking for! 🌴✨

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Date Smarter, Not Harder: 9 Game-Changing Rules Jun 20, 2024

Ready to flip the dating game on its head? 🔄 In this episode of Almost Adulting, I dive into the 9 game-changing rules that transformed my dating life from a stress-fest to a worry-free zone! Whether it's saying 'yes' when you'd usually say 'no' or learning the fine art of flying solo, these tips are your new dating playbook. Tune in to discover why talking to multiple men isn't just fun—it's essential, and why waiting for sex could be the best move you make. Get ready, because it's time to master the dating game the Violet Benson way!!

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Do You Think I'm Special? The Price of Perfectionism & Betrayal with Kaitlyn Bristowe Jun 13, 2024

Ever been told you're special as a kid and now you're a hot mess of perfectionism and OCD? Welcome to the club! In this laugh-out-loud yet deeply relatable episode, Violet Benson gets real with Kaitlyn Bristowe about the rollercoaster ride of wanting to be chosen, fear of aging, and betrayal.

In today's episode, we discuss:

The Upsides and Downslides of Being Told You're Special as a kid: What it looks like as an adult in your relationships and work.
Body Dysmorphia & Fear of Aging: Attaching worth to looks and struggling with the inevitable.
Perfectionism & OCD: The constant battle for everything to be 'just right.'
Mummy Issues: Deep dives into childhood wounds
The Hoffman Process: A therapy treatment that you might want to consider
Competitiveness with Your Partner: What's missing?
Relationship Betrayals: Kaitlyn spills never before discussed tea on her past relationship(s), why she felt betrayed, and the fears that linger on.

And so much more. Listen now for a mix of laughs, insights, and 'aha' moments!

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10 Things Emotionally Healthy People Do Jun 11, 2024

In this episode, Violetta gives you the "dummy'' guide to emotional intelligence by sharing some insight from Brianna Wiest's 101 Essays That Will Change the Way You Think. Get ready for some tough love and practical wisdom to boost your emotional intelligence.

What You'll Learn:

Embrace Pain: Why avoiding pain is holding you back and how to let it flow through and pass.
Pain’s Role in Happiness: Discover why pain is necessary for true happiness and personal growth.
Emotional Health Hacks: The ten things emotionally healthy people do that you can start doing today.
Feelings vs. Thoughts: The difference between how you feel and how you think you feel.
Pain and Happiness Connection: Understand why you need to accept pain to achieve happiness.
Hedonistic Treadmill: Why constantly trying to change your life doesn’t always make you happier and how to deal with it.

This episode is packed with insights that will help you understand and manage your emotions better, leading to a happier, more fulfilling life. Don't miss out on this thought-provoking episode and start your journey to emotional health and happiness.

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What He WON'T Tell You Jun 06, 2024

Hey Besties! Today, we’re diving into some of Violetta's favourite attraction principles from the ultimate dating bible - Why Men Love Bitches!

Ever wondered if there was any truth to men knowing right off the bat if they want to date you or just sleep with you? well guess what, there is! Today we uncover all the truths men DON'T want you to know, including the two categories men put women into and how you can navigate these to not only snag your dream man but also transform into that irresistible dream girl.

In this episode, we break down:

The two categories of women in men's minds
Key attraction principles you need to know
How to become his dream girl and get your dream man
What men don’t want women to know
Two things women does to make a man madly in love with her
How long should you wait before having s*x
how to snag your dream man
Sometimes A Man Deliberately Won’t Call Just To See How You Respond
Act Like a Price and You’ll Turn Him Into a Believer
and so much more!!!

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Love Magic: Manifest Your Soulmate Using 369 Method Jun 04, 2024

Hey besties! Ready to attract the love of your life? In this juicy episode of Almost Adulting, Violetta is spilling the tea about her personal life and then diving into the manifesting secrets behind Project 369: The Key to the Universe - Final Edition. This isn’t just woo-woo talk; it’s a step-by-step guide to manifesting your soulmate and living your best life.

Episode Highlights:

Vibe High: Get on the right vibration level to attract your soulmate.
Self-Love Magic: Learn why loving yourself is the key to manifesting.
Visualize & Feel: Picture your dream love and feel like it’s already yours.
Daily Rituals: Simple meditation and micro habits to supercharge your manifesting game.
Power Words: Harness the power of “I AM” to create your reality.
Call to Action: Practical, fun exercises to bring your desires to life.

Don't miss this episode—it’s your ultimate love manifesting cheat sheet! Tune in and let’s get you manifesting the love and life you deserve. ✨💕

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#1 Reason Why Couples Break Up May 30, 2024

In today's episode of Almost Adulting, Violetta Benson dives deep into Chapter 8 of John Gray's Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus. Ever wondered why your relationship feels like a never-ending cycle of miscommunication? Well, it's time to uncover the juicy truths about the different emotional needs between men and women. Violetta dishes on:

The #1 reason couples break up 💔
Why you're failing at dating 😬
why you're turning each other off
The six primary emotional needs that are required for a healthy relationship that will make or break it 😲
How to SAVE your relationship
How to get what you want out of your relationship while making your partner feel truly loved

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CBD Magic: Game Nights, Chocolate Shrooms & Life-Changing Transformations with CBDistillery's VP May 28, 2024

Ever wondered about the real difference between THC and CBD? Tune into this electrifying episode of Almost Adulting as Violetta Benson spills the beans on her unforgettable game night, featuring a magical mix of CBD and chocolate shrooms that made for the best night of her life.

Violet sits down with Ellese Symons, the powerhouse VP of Marketing at CBDistillery, to uncover her inspiring journey from battling chronic fatigue and fibromyalgia to finding renewed vitality with CBD. They also dive into groundbreaking sleep research, revealing the critical effects of sleep deprivation and how CBD can help you catch those essential Z's. Discover how these plant-powered wonders are transforming lives, one drop at a time.

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Secrets, Lies, and Alibis: Alex Hall Breaks Her Silence May 23, 2024

Get ready for an unforgettable episode of Almost Adulting! This week, Violet Benson is joined by Alex Hall, the star of Selling the OC, who’s here to spill the juiciest tea and set the record straight once and for all. From the cheating allegations to what really happened in Dubai and everything in between, it's about to get frosty.

In this exclusive interview, Alex reveals a side of the story that’s never been told before, dropping a bombshell about a mysterious third party. Whatever you think you know, trust me—it's so much WORSE.The truth is about to come out, and this Snow is about to melt once you hear what Alex has to say.

And just when you think you've heard it all, Alex also opens up like never before about her past, sharing deeply personal stories that will make you see her in a completely new light. This intimate and emotional conversation will bring moments of laughter and tears, showing a new side of Alex Hall you never knew.

So grab a chair and some popcorn, because you're gonna wanna sit down for this. xx

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Protect Your Energy: Avoid the Unhappy & Unlucky May 21, 2024

It's time to do some summer cleaning and dump those energy vampires you've been keeping around!!

In this eye-opening episode of Benson Bookclub on Almost Adulting, we dive deep into Law 10 from Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power": "Avoid the Unhappy and Unlucky."

Discover why the company you keep can make or break your life and success. I'll share not only the wisdom from the book but I also unpack the psychology behind this law and give you actionable tips to start TODAY to detox your social circle and elevate your life. Lastly, I share my personal insights on the importance of energy swaps - hint: who you allow inside of you DOES in fact leave a mark, and how to keep your vibe high.

Tune in and learn how to surround yourself with positivity, protect your energy, and attract success today.

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Love After Loss: A Journey of Hope and Healing May 16, 2024

Anna hathaway who?!? Nicholas galitzine who!?!? This TRUE STORY that I share today is about to become your new 'The Idea of You' favourite love story. It will have you in tears before you finish listening.

Join me in this heart-wrenching yet hopeful episode as we dive into the powerful TRUE STORY of a man who loses the love of his life in a tragic car accident. Battling the depths of depression and contemplating ending his own life, he is pulled back by the desperate plea of his young niece. Struggling to find purpose, he bravely shares his journey online, leading to an unexpected connection with a woman who has experienced similar grief. Through their shared pain, they discover a second chance at love. Anna Hathaway who??! Nicholas

In this episode, I also share a touching "Letter from Heaven," offering comfort and closure to anyone who has lost a loved one and yearns for one last goodbye.

And don’t miss out on "Benson Knows Best," where I tackle your burning questions with my signature blend of wit and wisdom. Today’s question: How long should you wait for someone who’s not ready for a relationship? How to tell if he's your twin flame? and more!

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Your Happiness Is a Problem May 14, 2024

On today's episode, Join your Russian big sis, Violetta as she unravels the tale of Buddha’s enlightenment and Disappointment Panda's brutal truths. She then explores if happiness is an algorithm we can crack or if we’re just wired to be a bit miserable.

Why do we suffer? Is pain necessary for survival? Are we all just masochists in denial? and why blaming others is the perfect cop-out!! Violetta then delves into how dissatisfaction is baked into our DNA and why the greatest truths in life are the hardest to swallow. From the brain’s take on physical vs. psychological pain to how solving problems (yes, even the crappy ones) is the secret sauce to true happiness, your big sis has got you covered.

Buckle up, because this episode is all about why your happiness is indeed a problem and what you can do about it.

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The Reason He's Not Choosing You May 09, 2024

Babes, stop trying to CHANGE HIM, did he poopy his pants??!? Girl chill.

Dive into this explosive solo episode where Violetta unravels the secrets of dating with 7 Game-Changing Dating Tips that will Transform Your Love Life forever!!

Learn why men pull away, how to spot early dating red flags, why he won't commit, and the real reasons he’s not choosing you. Violetta share personal stories of her recent dating experience, including why she cried at Stagecoach, and insights on how to tell where your relationship is really going... Plus, get the scoop on the type of girl you need to stop being to find serious love.

Don’t miss out—this is the game-changing advice you've been searching for!

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BEST Advice You'll Ever Hear May 08, 2024

Privet zychiky and welcome to a brand new PREMIUM episode on Wednesdays!

Today Violetta shares some life changing advice that will get you thinking and touch your beautiful heart and mind. From a letter to your younger self to boundaries to dating advice.

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Stagecoach Confessions: Stars, Drama, and Lana Del Ray May 07, 2024

Get ready to saddle up for an unforgettable adventure as your Russian big sis, Violetta, takes you through her first-ever Stagecoach experience on Almost Adulting! In this wild and insightful episode, Violetta shares:

The Patron house Crew included: Violetta, Kat stickler, Jason tartick, Kelsey Anderson and Joey graziadei from the bachelor, Georgia v, Erin falter, Nick dio, Nick norcia, Polly B and Alex Hall from Selling OC, and last but not least Lana Del Ray and Nikki Lane.

Meeting Music Icons: Hanging out with Lana Del Rey, Nikki Lane, Leon Bridges, J-Kwon

Unplanned Drama: Encountering a friend’s ex-fiancé and his new girlfriend, Bachelor drama with a side of bad first impression with the Selling OC girlies and how they made up. plus a blast-from-the-past hookup story involving a side of Gravy.

Awkward Encounters: Running into a friend’s ex-fiancé and his new girlfriend PLUS The man that ghosted her ends up performing at their house.

Favorite Moments: a blast-from-the-past hookup story involving a side of Gravy and meeting her new favourite person.

From celebrity run-ins to juicy house drama, Violetta brings you along for every twist and turn, complete with her signature tough love and wit. Tune in for an entertaining and heartfelt look at the festival, complete with all the lessons learned and laughs shared. Don't miss out on this ride—listen now for all the juicy details and unforgettable moments!

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Is It Love or OCD? With Dr. Patrick McGrath May 02, 2024

Unraveling Relationship OCD: A Deeper Look with Dr. Patrick McGrath

Is it just a quirk or could it be Relationship OCD? This misunderstood form of OCD often masquerades as simple jealousy or relationship ups and downs, but there's much more beneath the surface. In this compelling episode, we dive into the intricacies of Relationship OCD, exploring:

What exactly is Relationship OCD, and how does it differ from other types?
The fine line between normal jealousy and this form of OCD.
The impact of social media on our relationship insecurities.
Early dating behaviors: Understanding ghosting through the lens of OCD.
Strategies to support a partner dealing with OCD.
Navigating the complexities of OCD when re-entering the dating scene.
The effectiveness of Exposure and Response Therapy and its timeline for results.

Join us as Dr. Patrick B. McGrath, a leading expert in OCD treatment and author, shares his profound insights. Whether you're struggling with OCD, supporting someone who is, or simply fascinated by human psychology, this episode offers valuable understanding and practical advice. Learn to distinguish between love and obsession, and discover approaches that respect cultural sensitivities towards therapy.

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9 Types of Codependency With Mark Groves Apr 30, 2024

Hey Besties! Today, we're diving into the full length of the second half of Violetta’s eye-opening interview with Mark Groves. Get ready for more insights and surprises!

Are you more invested in your partner's life than your own Netflix queue? Do you find yourself constantly adjusting your mood thermostat based on someone else’s emotional weather? Buckle up as Violetta and Mark dissect what it means to be codependent, from obsessing over how others perceive us online to partnering up with someone who wouldn't cheer if you won the lottery. They will uncover the roots of codependency, explore the masquerade ball of personality masks—from the Perfectionist to the Damsel in Distress—and discuss why your life’s quality is basically the guest list of your personal relationship party. Tune in, and get entangled in the hilarious truths behind our relational binds!

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00:00 Intro
01:38 Is codependency a common challenge in many relationships?
05:15 We are overly invested in the outcomes of other people
09:38 How to identify codependency
11:55 We aren’t built to handle people’s perception of us online
15:56 Being in a relationship with a person who doesn’t celebrate you
22:35 What is the root cause of codependency?
28:03 The Perfectionist mask
32:09 The Savior mask
33:59 The Performer mask
36:32 The Playboy/Playgirl mask
38:52 The Good Guy/Good Girl mask
41:31 The Damsel in Distress mask
44:54 The Spiritual mask
47:11 The quality of your life is determined by the quality of your relationships
51:21 Where can you find Mark?

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Get Your Ex Back With Dating Expert Adrienne Everheart Apr 25, 2024

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes Adrienne Everheart, a certified dating and relationship coach & feminine energy therapist who specializes in connecting women to their authentic self and creating the loving relationship they desire.

In this sizzling session, Adrienne reveals the mystique of feminine allure and provides insightful strategies designed to empower women, whether they are healing from past heartaches or aiming to rekindle an old flame. Her advice is not just about attracting a partner—it's about igniting a deeper passion within yourself and radiating confidence. Whether you're mending a broken heart or setting the stage to lure back an ex with newfound allure, Adrienne equips you with the tools to confidently navigate the complexities of love and relationships. Join Violet and Adrienne for a transformative experience that will leave you inspired, informed, and invigorated to pursue your romantic endeavors with zest and wisdom.

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Episode Highlights:

00:00 Intro

01:49 How do I get my ex back?

02:27 Biggest misconception about dating today

05:44 Let the other person miss you

07:10 The 4 irresistible qualities men crave

15:05 What is love-starved?

19:06 Words that men love to hear

25:26 When should you say ‘Thank you’

29:23 The ‘easy to be around energy’

33:22 What does it mean to tap into your feminine energy

36:07 Women get preferences confused by boundaries

39:56 How do you express your expectation on the first date

44:00 The difference between soft and dark feminine energy

46:17 What does it mean to be in your dark feminine energy?

48:32 Is your soft feminine energy intimidating men?

49:42 Tap into your masculine energy

51:08 Then there is a third energy - neutral

55:05 How to drive men using your goddess feminine energy?

58:35 Healing from a breakup

01:02:12 You’re attracted to what you already have

01:05:45 How do you make him miss you after a breakup?

01:08:25 How do you get him back?

01:12:59 The ABCs to get him back

01:15:28 Putting your inner boy to work

01:17:37 A real story about a long distance relationship that worked long-term

01:21:14 How to get a man to chase you like he used to

01:27:23 “I am irresistible to men”

01:30:54 Show that you’re bored

01:32:52 How to make him keep loving you

01:34:52 How to protect your heart and not fall too fast

01:36:58 How do you love yourself?

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My Therapist Once Told Me... Apr 24, 2024

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In Case You Missed Me Apr 23, 2024

Hey Besties! This episode is all about the highs, the lows, and the hilariously unexpected. Violet opens up about feeling a bit down and explores why sometimes, despite everything, it just seems like things won't get better. She discusses the simple joys of being happy and the importance of being present in those moments. But it’s not all about the downs; there’s an up when she talks about getting sponsored to go to Stagecoach—and yes, she’s going solo! Tune in for an episode filled with humor, vulnerability, and the kind of honest chat you’d only share with your closest friends!

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00:00 Intro
02:20 Maybe I was feeling a little low
05:12 The most basic necessities we often forget
06:45 Why it feels like it will never get better
09:02 When I’m happy, I just take it in
11:49 I took edibles before watching Dune
16:43 I saw a Reddit post about me not going to Coachella
23:24 Getting sponsored to attend Stagecoach
29:07 I’m going to Stagecoach by myself!

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It's Okay to Not Be Okay Apr 18, 2024

Hey Besties! Today, let's try something a little different. Violetta challenges AI to give intriguing insights it might offer on our everyday dilemmas. From practical tips on mustering the courage to reach out and effective breathing exercises to manage anxiety to quick mood-boosting activities, discovering happiness, and the best life advice ChatGPT can offer. Whether you're searching for a laugh, a cry, or a moment of inspiration, this episode promises to be as enlightening as it is entertaining.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:19 Do you believe in God?
03:32 Why am I crying for no reason?
04:19 Getting advice from ChatGPT
09:18 How do you get the courage to ask for help?
12:13 Good breathing exercises when you’re anxious
18:09 Quick and simple activities to improve your mood
23:22 What do you do when you’re feeling down?
26:07 What to do when you feel stuck and exhausted
28:05 The best advice about life
30:52 How important is human connection?
33:32 Best advice about finding happiness

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How To Win An Argument Apr 16, 2024

Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading from Robert Greene’s The 48 Laws of Power - Law #9: Win Through Your Actions, Never Through Arguments. Discover why winning through your actions rather than arguments can lead to more meaningful victories and why saying less can actually get you more. Whether you're going through tricky social situations or just trying to get ahead in life, this episode is packed with wisdom to help you master the art of keeping it cool and collected. Tune in for less talk, more action!

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00:00 Intro
01:44 Win through your actions, not through arguments
14:42 Always say less than necessary

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Law of Attraction: Make Him YOURS Apr 11, 2024

Hey Besties! It’s 2024 and we’re done being nice girls. Violetta breaks down the SECRET to dating men - getting him to commit and learning the difference between a nice girl and a b*tch.

GIRLLL, all you ever did was take care of him, be nice to him, and put him on a pedestal, and now you don’t understand why you got dumped…well, maybe that IS the problem – you’re too nice! In this episode, Violetta teaches you how to stop being too available and how to become the b*tch that men will go crazy for. So get ready to be the main event and how you can make men work so hard for that front seat!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
04:01 What is a nice girl?
06:22 What is a b*tch?
07:13 Why do men prefer b*tches?
08:30 Become a prize
10:02 Men always want what they can’t have
13:53 Conditions to set when dating
15:51 The Madonna-Wh*re Complex
17:02 The difference between a nice girl, a woman who acts like a b*tch, and an actual b*tch
21:40 Men are scared to lose control and their freedom
23:21 Men want to feel that you chose to be with them

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20 Signs You're Doing Better Than You Think Apr 09, 2024

Hey Besties! Today is another Benson Book Club Tuesday! Let’s take another look at 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Ever catch yourself thinking, "I don't know what I’m doing with my life"? You're not alone! In this episode, we dive into 20 signs that you're actually doing better than you think. We'll explore what it truly means to lead a good life, challenging societal metrics and embracing the idea that a great life is made up of a series of small, meaningful moments.

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00:00 Intro

01:28 “I don’t know what I’m doing with my life.”

04:32 20 signs you’re doing better that you think you are

11:32 How do we measure a good life?

17:14 A great life a series of small moments put together

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How to Handle Conflict Apr 07, 2024

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Law of Attraction: Attract SUCCESS Apr 04, 2024

Hey Besties! Today, we discuss the PSYCHOLOGY, the SCIENCE, and the SPIRITUALITY behind Success along with a few calls to actions to make it happen for you!!

Let’s listen to some life lessons about what success truly means and unravel the paradox between failure and success, all with a dash of Violetta's flair. Discover actionable tips to halt self-sabotage and uncover traits common among successful people. We'll explore the synergy of passion and perseverance, why willpower isn't your only ally, the transformation from a fixed to a growth mindset, and how to ignite your motivation for success. Plus, don't miss our top tips for attracting success in your life!

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00:00 Intro

02:00 What does success mean to you?

03:28 The failure and success paradox

07:53 Tips to stop self sabotaging

10:14 Quantum physics

15:57 What do most successful people have in common?

20:16 Passion and perseverance

24:20 Don’t rely too much on willpower

28:08 Switching from fixed mindset to a growth mindset

30:30 Tips to get motivated to become successful

32:56 Top tips to attract success

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P DIDDY & RAYA - Violetta's Diary Apr 03, 2024

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts or CONFESSIONS with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.

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Get People to Like You Instantly Apr 02, 2024

Hey Besties! Today, for another reading session of Benson Book Club, we will take a peek into How to Win Friends & Influence People written by Dale Carnegie - a book about ways to make people like you, how to win people to your way of thinking, and how to change people without arousing resentment.

Together with Violetta, we get to hear practical tips on winning people over instantly, incredible stories of people who mastered the art of being likable, and how to arm yourself with six foolproof strategies to make a lasting impression and cultivate meaningful connections.

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00:00 Intro
01:26 How to make people like you instantly?
07:36 The story of Hall Caine
11:37 “This is our dream house.”
14:56 The judge who loves dogs
16:29 Famous people still crave a little recognition
22:33 Six ways to make people like you

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The Psychology of Self-Sabotage – Why Do We Do It? Mar 28, 2024

Hey Besties! We're diving headfirst into the complexities of self-sabotage. Why do we often self-sabotage? How do we snap out of the self-defeat funk? Embrace the beauty of failure, kick negative thinking to the curb, and discover 18 tips to boost your spirits. It's all about flipping the script, surrounding yourself with positive vibes, and quitting the blame game. Get ready to transform your perspective and sprinkle some fab into your life!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:20 Why do we self sabotage?
04:02 How to stop this cycle of self defeat?
07:05 Sometimes, failure is good
11:39 When we sink into negative thinking our brain seeks to confirm it
14:23 How do you stay motivated during hard times?
19:48 How to change your perspective
24:20 18 quick advice to cheer you up
28:18 Surround yourself with positivity
31:08 We often blame our circumstances

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When to Have S*x Mar 26, 2024

Hey Besties! Welcome to Benson Book Club! Today, Violetta will be reading a part of Chapter 19: When To Have Sex from the book Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L Lambert, and will be sharing her thoughts on when to take things to the bedroom, decoding men's real dating agendas, and identifying the tell-tale signs of true romantic victory. Ever regretted going too far, too fast? We're breaking it all down and guiding you to date on your own terms. Let's get real about romance, empowerment, and finding what truly clicks for you in the world of love!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:53 Chapter 19: When To Have Sex
03:28 “I wish I never had s*x with him.”
06:44 Why do men date?
09:58 What has he shown you?
13:14 Signs you’ve genuinely won a man over
16:33 Can you enjoy each others company without s*x?
19:19 Focus on what works for you

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4 Confidence Hacks To Transform Your Life Mar 24, 2024

Hey Besties! Welcome to episode TWO of Dating University available ONLY on the PREMIUM podcast.

Violetta is going to get real about everything from pimple patches to our 'pick me' girl pasts. It's all about embracing your fabulous self, finding that rock-solid confidence, and saying goodbye to people and habits that just don't spark joy anymore. And let's chat about relationships - why it's crucial to know what you want and how not to fall for those oh-so-tempting but totally empty flatteries. Remember, comparison is the thief of joy, especially when it comes to other women. So, let's believe in our own allure and walk this journey of self-love and empowerment together.

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What Your Attachment Style Says About You w/ Sarah Baldwin Mar 21, 2024

Hey Besties! Today, we get to listen to the second half of Violetta’s conversation with Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are not indicative of anything wrong, but rather everything being right with the person.

Violetta and Sarah will dig deep into what it means to have an anxious or avoidant attachment style, how to overcome it, and how it can potentially affect your current and future relationships. Discover how your nervous system is the puppeteer of your relationships, unravel the mysteries of anxious and avoidant attachments, and get the lowdown on why opposites attract but might not always stick. Learn the golden rules of relationship arguments, decode the dynamic dance between different attachment styles, and embrace the bravest steps towards love. Whether you're anxiously engaged or coolly detached, it's time to understand, set boundaries, and find out why, in the game of love, we're all wonderfully complex.

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Episode Highlights:

00:00 Intro

00:24 How does your nervous system affect your relationships?

02:04 How does Anxious Attachment style develop?

03:47 How does Avoidant Attachment style develop?

05:18 What should you do if you have avoidant attachment?

10:39 What should you do if you have anxious attachment?

12:39 Anxious and avoidant attachment attract each other

17:22 The golden rule: Two dysregulated people can’t solve an argument

20:41 Most common dynamic between anxious and avoidant people

21:37 We can be both avoidant and anxious

24:03 Why both avoidantly and anxiously attached people are often misunderstood

28:14 We need to learn to understand each other

30:04 A lot of us feel we’re so f*cked up

35:46 What is the bravest thing an avoidant person can do in a relationship?

37:26 Can an avoidant and anxiously attached person have a relationship?

40:56 Fear and excitement have the same somatic sensory response

44:32 The people we need to set boundaries will resist those boundaries the most

48:12 When to know that the other person is not yet safe for you to be in a relationship with

55:16 We all make sense and there’s nothing wrong with us

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INTRUSIVE THOUGHTS Mar 20, 2024

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.

Today we dive into sliding into dm's, my intrusive thoughts and lots more.

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From Lovers to Strangers - What Went Wrong? Mar 19, 2024

Hey Besties! Welcome to another Benson Book Club Tuesday! It’s been a favorite so we will discuss another chapter of 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Violetta dives into a heartfelt exploration of the transient nature of relationships, where we ponder the journey from being strangers to becoming lovers, and sometimes, strangers once again. This podcast delves into the gratitude we owe to those who've departed from our lives, the insights gained from lost love, and the realization that every encounter has its purpose, often serving as a lesson in our personal growth. Through stories and reflections, we uncover the essence of our connections, learning to appreciate every moment and person as part of our life's evolving narrative.

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00:00 Intro
01:47 How we go from lovers to strangers
04:50 We all start as strangers
05:59 Why should we be thankful for the people who left?
10:48 What do people who have lost love know?
19:16 The purpose of our relationships is…
22:49 One day, you’ll realize that they were just a lesson

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5 Signs Your Friendship Is Toxic w/ Jordyn & Alex (Mean Girl Podcast) Mar 14, 2024

Hey Besties! Let’s welcome Alex Bennett and Jordyn Woodruff, the duo behind the Mean Girl podcast. In the show, these two come together for honest conversations about sex, friendship, mental health, and living in the big city as outsiders.

Violetta, Alex, and Jordyn didn’t hold back as they talked about what makes friendships last, setting boundaries (because, hello, we need space!), and why growing apart might just mean you're growing up. Ever wonder how to navigate friendships when life stages change or how to detox from toxic pals? We've got you covered! Plus, get the scoop on making friends in your fabulous late 20s. Because, let's face it, friends are the family we choose, and it's never too late to add to your tribe!

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Episode Highlights:

00:00 Intro

01:36 How’s LA?

03:59 Do you make friends easily?

04:21 How has making friends changed over the years?

07:44 People who are able to maintain lasting friendships are green flags

09:51 Does it matter how long you’ve been friends?

15:31 How do you define a good friend?

18:07 Scared to rely on friends too much

21:29 Create boundaries with your friends

23:24 Friendships growing apart as you mature

32:36 If you’re not growing apart, you’re not growing up

35:20 Do you stay friends with your married friends?

39:42 Have you experienced a toxic friendship?

43:06 Choose your friends who will say your name in a room full of opportunities

44:28 Gossiping is false friendship bonding

48:46 If you constantly talk about other people and nothing else

54:51 How did you realize it was toxic?

59:30 She’s my BFF but she stole my ex

01:05:06 What did you learn from a toxic friendship?

01:07:31 How to heal from a friendship breakup

01:15:11 How to make new friends in your late 20s

01:16:43 You will continue to make friends your entire life

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Use a Man’s Mind Against Him Mar 12, 2024

Hey Besties! In today’s Benson Book Club, Violetta will take inspiration from Men Don’t Love Women Like You! by G.L. Lambert - a manual on how to stop manipulation, command attention, and be seen as a must have by any man. Let's take a look into men's true intentions in romance, separating truths from "D*ck Lies," understanding sexual significance, and uncovering why men pursue new conquests. Learn why you might be unknowingly auditioning for a role you didn't choose in the complexity of love and desire.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:49 Chapter 3: Dick Lies
05:52 How will he know if you’re a fling or not
08:05 S*x is everything and nothing
09:02 What does s*x mean to a man?
11:45 Why men chase after new p*ssies
15:00 Men claiming it’s not about s*x
21:17 Men don’t always pressure you to have s*x
25:17 Most women don’t realize the role they are playing
26:54 S*xual chemistry doesn’t disappear because you’re only talking
27:44 You’re being groomed for a placeholder position

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The Nervous System Explained w/ Sarah Baldwin Mar 07, 2024

Hey Besties! Today, we welcome Sarah Baldwin. Sarah is a Somatic Experiencing Practitioner and Trauma-informed Life Coach dedicated to supporting individuals in understanding their reactions, feelings, and patterns, emphasizing that these are not indicative of anything wrong, but rather everything being right with the person. She focuses on showing individuals that they are safe and can get unstuck, which leads to thriving and living the life they're meant to live.

Violetta and Sarah will unpack everything from why your nervous system might be more tangled than your headphone cords, to the truth behind why we sometimes mix up safety with danger. Ever wondered why your relationships feel like a soap opera? We've got the lowdown on that too. And for those moments when you're feeling more 'meh' than magical, we'll guide you through the maze of moods to find your way back to fabulous. So, buckle up and prepare to confront the uncomfortable with a heap of insight - because understanding your inner workings should never be boring!

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Episode Highlights:

00:00 Intro

02:00 How to tell if someone is emotionally regulated / dysregulated?

03:57 What is the nervous system & what does it have to do with emotional regulation?

10:25 Why is having a dysregulated nervous system so common?

12:05 The reason why we sometimes perceive safety as danger

17:04 What does dysregulation look like in relationships?

20:37 Can I always feel "good"?

21:51 The four primary states we go through

29:43 Is our nervous system attached to our childhood experiences

32:05 You're not your dysregulated reactions, and that's okay

35:50 Taking tolerable steps towards the things that scare us

36:04 How to confront the uncomfortable

39:25 You’re in the right track if you find it difficult to do

43:23 How to pull yourself out of unhappiness through regulation

46:39 Learning how to have safe confrontations

50:04 How to create a list that makes you feel alive

53:26 What are the best somatic practices to regulate our nervous system?

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BE SUCCESSFULLY DELUSIONAL Mar 06, 2024

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.

Today we dive into the TEXT that ENDED my toxic friendship, vision board update, and how to be successfully delusional.

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What Motivates Men to Commit Mar 05, 2024

Hey Besties! Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus: The Classic Guide to Understanding the Opposite Sex by John Gray. The book provides a practical and proven way for men and women to improve their communication and relationships by acknowledging the differences between them.

Today, Violetta will talk about the dynamics of motivation and love as she unpacks the secrets to motivating the opposite sex and explores the balance between love, responsibility, and boundaries. From understanding the importance of making a positive difference in someone's life to recognizing the fine line between need and neediness, Violetta dishes out her signature blend of wisdom and wit. So get ready to uncover the keys to fostering meaningful connections and navigating the ups and downs of modern romance.

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00:00 Intro
01:34 How to motivate the opposite s*x
09:54 When a man is in love, he’s motivated more
11:27 When a man doesn’t feel he’s making a positive difference in someone’s life
15:22 Many women today want time off, a time for themselves
21:51 A woman needs to recognize her boundaries
22:55 Step 1 - Motivation
23:56 Step 2 - Taking Responsibility
24:45 Step 3 - Practice
26:03 As man experiences limits, he is motivated to do more
28:38 The difference between needing and neediness
31:16 A man appears most caring when he is afraid

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Why He Doesn't Want You Mar 03, 2024

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.

Today we dive into how to change your perspective when it comes to goodbyes, people, being ghosted and when he doesn't want you - from the why to the how to the moving on.

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Loving Those Who Can't Love Us Back Feb 29, 2024

Hey Besties! For another Benson Book Club session, we’re going to dive deep into Why We Hold On Tightest on the Things That Aren’t Meant for Us from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Violet shares her candid insights on navigating the complexities of relationships - from moving on from unrequited love and why we often find ourselves drawn to those who can't reciprocate our feelings to invaluable advice on finding peace and self-love amidst the chaos of modern romance. It's time to empower yourself and begin your journey to emotional freedom.

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05:07 How to let go of the things that’s killing you inside?
10:22 You can't convince someone to love you if they don’t
19:21 How do you fall out of love with the idea of someone?
24:13 Why do we keep choosing people who can’t love us back?

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Feeling Ungrateful Feb 29, 2024

Hello and welcome to the Violetta's diary series available on my PREMIUM PODCAST!! Where I share my random thoughts with no cuts, no edits, no notes, no pre planning, no nothing. Just the two of us naked and honest with each other.

Today we discuss feeling ungrateful, creating a vision board, and large wieners jk maybe.

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She's a Narcissist w/ Scheana Shay (Vanderpump Rules) Feb 27, 2024

Hey Besties! Today, Vanderpump Rules cast Scheana Shay joins Violetta for an exciting and at the same time heart-tugging conversation. Throughout her time on "Vanderpump Rules," Scheana became known for her outgoing personality, dramatic relationships, and candid portrayal of her personal life on the show. In addition to her work on reality television, she has pursued acting and music endeavors. She has appeared in several television shows and films, as well as releasing her own music singles.

Violetta and talk about the complexities of childcare, the challenges of maintaining friendships, and a potential sneak peek of Vanderpump Season 11. Plus the duo spills the tea on lost friendships, potential redemption arcs, and the behind-the-scenes drama you won't hear anywhere else. On a serious note, bravely shares her experiences with postpartum OCD, the healing power of EMDR therapy, and the heartbreaking reality of pregnancy loss. It's a raw and vulnerable exploration of mental health, friendship dynamics, and the bittersweet journey of self-discovery.

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00:00 Intro
01:27 What’s one thing people misunderstood about you in the show?
02:30 How did motherhood change you?
04:13 What’s your biggest fear around getting help with babysitting your child?
07:06 Have you had support from other new moms?
07:45 What’s a question someone has never asked you?
08:30 “I’m never the favorite of this show.”
12:18 Hopes for Season 11
13:17 Losing a friendship of 15 years
17:09 Is the new season setting the stage for Sandoval’s redemption arc?
19:16 Are you the friend that flip-flops?
20:38 Figuring out a way to not breakdown in front of your child
22:24 Friendship pact with Katie
24:37 What can people look forward to this season?
26:05 Is Billie Lee in love with Tom Sandoval?
33:31 Postpartum OCD
39:39 EMDR Therapy
43:35 Pregnancy loss and traumatic labor
45:13 Severe intrusive thoughts
47:07 Signs of OCD before pregnancy
50:54 Thinking of death everyday

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You’re Not My Person w/ Kamie Crawford Feb 22, 2024

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta welcomes television host and producer Kamie Crawford. Kamie also hosts her successful podcast, Relationsh*t and MTV’s long-running reality-based documentary series “Catfish: The TV Show”.

Get ready to dive into all things fun and fabulous with Violet and Kamie. They chat about everything from what's currently keeping them busy to the importance of staying hydrated (because, let's face it, we need to keep those vibes flowing!). Plus, we'll dish on some seriously spicy topics, like the Stanley cup's wild ride through a car fire and the sinful indulgence of beignets. Oh, and don't worry, Bestie, we’ll let you in on some secrets too—like debunking those silly misconceptions about their social media persona and sharing the biggest lessons learned last year.

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00:00 Intro
04:04 What are you currently working on?
05:48 The importance of staying hydrated all day
06:40 The Stanley cup that withstood a car fire
09:18 Unhealthy food choices
11:48 Have you had a beignet?
15:06 What’s something most people don’t know about you?
20:05 What’s the most common misconception about you?
25:26 How are you when someone gets on your bad side?
28:57 What are you currently working to improve?
35:24 What’s the hardest lesson you learned last year?
37:37 Does your mom have a very thick accent?
40:27 What past experience that still resonates with you today?
48:15 What’s the worst thing that can happen?
54:41 What’s something you don’t want to repeat this year?
01:00:53 My social media is like my house…

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Love is Blind - Matthew is a Serial Killer Feb 20, 2024

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta will give us a quick recap of Love is Blind Season 6. Is Matthew just your average guy, or could he be hiding a dark secret? From navigating the rules of marriage with AD and Clay to exploring the dynamics of religious love with Brittany and Kenneth, we'll delve into the highs and lows of partnership. Buckle up as we dissect the correlation between love and lust with Jimmy and Jessica, and uncover the telltale signs of trouble in relationships. Whether it's recognizing red flags or learning to prioritize self-growth, this episode is packed with insights to navigate the rollercoaster of love and emotions.

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00:00 Intro
01:38 Is Matthew a serial killer?
07:55 AD and Clay - rules of marriage
09:59 Brittany and Kenneth - the religious couple
11:06 Jimmy and Jessica - correlating love with lust
14:55 When someone rejects you, leave
18:30 Jimmy’s red flags
24:16 Crying over the consequences of your actions
26:44 Chelsea, work on yourself and stop seeking validation from your partner
28:19 Who will walk down the aisle?

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Love is Not Enough w/ Mark Groves Feb 15, 2024

Hey Besties! The man behind the Create the Love is back! Mark Groves is a human connection specialist, speaker, writer, motivator, creator, connector and collaborator. As a bridge between the academic and the human, Mark invites people to explore the good, bad, downright ugly, and beautiful sides of connection.

What does it truly mean to find liberation in love? How do we reclaim our worth after it's been taken from us? Today, Violetta and Mark explore these questions and more, delving into topics like building self-trust, healing codependency, and navigating the emotional complexities of heartbreak. From learning to communicate our deepest emotions to embracing closure and letting go, each chapter of this episode offers profound insights and empowering strategies for navigating the highs and lows of love. If you’re looking for answers, this one's for you!

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00:00 Intro
02:43 Liberated Love
06:36 You’ve forgotten yourself in the relationship
09:46 They took your worth with them when they left
13:36 How do you build a high level of self trust?
17:42 How do you heal codependency?
19:46 The great disconnect
28:04 Learning self-regulation through co-regulation
35:14 Creating a space for you and your partner’s pain
38:47 The analogy of the burning house
42:57 Closing ceremony for an ended relationship
51:19 Communicate how to feel
56:16 Emotional triggers actually never go away
01:02:21 Does your partner get you?
01:04:27 The right person can’t come if you won’t let go of the wrong one
01:06:39 What does it mean when love is not enough?
01:10:52 Using the ides of love to bypass the pain
01:16:03 How do you get your ex back?

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16 Reasons You Don't Have Love Feb 13, 2024

Hey Besties! Ready to take a deep dive into the world of love and self-discovery? Today, for another episode of Benson Book Club, Violetta will read and ponder on the 16 Reasons Why You Still Don’t Have The Love That You Want from Brianna Wiest’s 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think. Whether you're relying on others to do the work for you or expecting love to change your life, we've got the insights to help you navigate the twists and turns of the heart. Discover how honoring your inner child, embracing kindness, and aligning your heart and mind can lead to deeper connections and self-fulfillment. Don't miss out on this enlightening journey to finding love within yourself and beyond!

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00:00 Intro
01:54 16 reasons why you still don’t have the love that you want
14:25 The most meaningful relationships are the ones in which we are reflective back to ourselves
16:47 Every relationship you have is with yourself
19:38 Be your own person and do what you can on your own time

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4 Ways To Self Love Feb 08, 2024

And no, not in the way you're thinking! Since this month is all about relationships, Violet decided to talk about the most important relationship you will ever have - the one with yourself. Today Violet gets super vulnerable and upacks some things of her own, while giving you guys her step by step guide she uses to practice self love. Besties, In order for us to have healthy relationships with others, we have to look inward and mend the relationship with ourselves.

And remember, never let a person show you twice that they don’t want you. If they want you in their life, they’ll treat you with kindness and love. If they want you to be part of their journey, they will want to spend their time with you and will always appreciate spending time with you. When they love you for who you are, you will never have to change. You will be loved just as you are, flaws and imperfections included.

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00:00 Introduction
02:37 Dating the male version of me
06:55 Set boundaries for yourself
10:19 Be self-aware
17:04 Know who you are
23:49 Change your perspective
35:00 My love letter to you

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Let Your Rage Fuel You Feb 06, 2024

They always say let go of your anger, let go of your pain, blah blah blah! But why doesn’t anyone talk about how using these “negative” feelings to your advantage to catapult you into your best season yet?

Hello, Besties! September is all about checking in with ourselves, our mental health, and with our goals. To kick things off Violet is back with another solo episode and she is NOT here to sugarcoat. In today’s episode Violet admits last month was very hard, filled with severed relationships and heartbreaks, but today she is Violet thankful. Thankful that it’s all in the past and she has now welcomed September feeling better, stronger, and fiercer. Today, she shares four tips that can help anyone struggling internally, going through difficult and seemingly impossible situations, and help turn the negatives into optimism and positive change. Besties, let's use our pain and rage to turn the page - and today you’re gonna find out how!

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00:00 Introduction
02:47 “I woke up this morning feeling blessed and thankful.”
06:40 There’s no timeline to how long you should take to heal
10:28 Ask yourself, “Is it working for me?”
14:18 It’s all in your head
17:07 Sit with rejection, get comfortable with it
19:31 Turn your resentment into your superpower

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Why Loneliness is Worse Than Cigarettes w/ Dr. Guy Winch Feb 01, 2024

Hey Besties! Today, we welcome author, psychologist, and speaker Dr. Guy Winch. Guy specializes in the field of emotional health and well-being. He has gained recognition for his work in advocating for the importance of addressing emotional pain and mental health. He has given popular TED Talks on subjects such as "Why We All Need to Practice Emotional First Aid" and has authored books, including "Emotional First Aid: Healing Rejection, Guilt, Failure, and Other Everyday Hurts."

Discover how to handle rejection without becoming your own worst critic and get inspired by Guy's own journey through fourteen years of rejection. From trust issues to self-criticism, we got your back with some real talk on navigating those tough moments. Learn the art of nurturing a supportive inner voice, practicing healthy self-reflection, and building emotional resilience. Plus, explore the fascinating world of emotional hygiene and the tools you need for a more resilient emotional well-being.

Dr. Winch's Recovering from Rejection and Failure program, made in collaboration with Mindbloom, is available now! Make sure to check it and start turning setbacks into wins.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:52 What are the most common emotions we experience when going through rejection?
02:58 Why do we stop trusting ourselves after a rejection?
04:33 Don’t become self critical when you experience rejection
06:11 How do you personally handle rejection and failure?
07:40 Getting through fourteen years of rejection
09:12 Having enough encouragement to keep you going
10:49 How do you nurture a more supportive inner voice?
15:42 What is healthy self-reflection?
18:17 It’s about falling down, it’s about getting back up
21:17 What is emotional hygiene?
24:46 What happens when you don’t practice emotional hygiene?
26:44 The tools you need to build emotional resilience
28:56 Is self-compassion a game changer when it comes to dealing with failure?
31:22 How do emotional wounds show up physically?
34:37 Why do people get stuck in loneliness?
39:28 Mindbloom: ketamine therapy for anxiety and depression
45:05 Common misconceptions of psychedelics
47:37 What are people most curious about psychedelics?
49:16 Change your approach to emotional well-being
50:00 The duration of ketamine treatment
51:10 Is ketamine treatment right for you?
53:26 What we don’t understand about heartbreaks
56:17 Heartbreak is a grief process
01:00:00 If you’re not feeling great, it’s not the best time to go online
01:04:14 Real connection requires slight emotional vulnerability
01:05:57 How can you make yourself happier?
01:09:34 The difference between being alone and chronic loneliness
01:11:12 Our emotional health requires effort
01:15:08 Check-in with yourself periodically

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Exceptions To Let Go In Ur 20’s Jan 30, 2024

Hey Besties! For another Benson Book CLub session, we are unpacking the fifteen expectations to let go of from the book, 101 Essays That Will Change The Way You Think by Brianna Wiest - a collection of the author’s most beloved pieces of writing. Some of these pieces have never been seen; others have been read by millions of people around the world.

This week, we're shedding the weight of unrealistic expectations and embracing the beauty of imperfection. From the myth of being meant for extraordinary things to the revelation that faults can be forgivable and attributes exceptional, Violetta breaks down the barriers that hold us back. Learn why the right person doesn't always come at the right time and why postponing your happiness is a recipe for dissatisfaction. It's time to let go, embrace the now, and set goals that truly align with your happiness!

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00:00 Intro
01:40 Fifteen expectation to let go of to live a good life
02:14 #1: You are mean to be extraordinary
03:11 #2: Your faults are more forgivable and your attributes are more exceptional
03:54 #3: You can outsmart pain
04:15 #4: You must let go of the expectation that love is something other people give you
04:57 #5: Feeling something deeply means that it’s meant to be
06:01 #6: If you work on yourself enough then you will not struggle anymore
06:13 #7: The idea that you can control what people think of you
07:56 #8: Hard work guarantees success
08:23 #9: The idea that your thoughts will change themselves when your circumstances change
09:03 #10: The belief that other people are responsible for your feelings
10:00 #11: Emotional intelligence is infallible composure
10:44 #12: The idea that the right person will come at the right time
11:21 #13: The idea that you can postpone your happiness or save it up
11:59 #14: Anxiety and negative thinking are just pesky irritants that you have to learn to avoid
12:33 #15: Focusing slowly on your own needs will make you the happiest
13:20 Good goals to set to enjoy what you have than chase what you don’t have

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Narcissists & Boundaries Jan 25, 2024

Hey Besties! Welcome to the second week of Benson Bootcamp, a boot camp specifically designed to help you become the best version of yourself, no matter how bad it hurts. It’s called BOOTCAMP for a reason, duh!

This week on Almost Adulting we’re having the difficult discussion about boundary setting. Though it may be hard, these realizations will not only be long-lasting, but also help you love yourself a little more. Violet tells an in depth story about her friend who possesses the fatal victim mentality flaw. Ya know, that kind of friend who never fails to make EVERYTHING about themselves, and when you finally cut them off your life becomes inexplicably better? Yeah, that type. But that’s what setting boundaries can do. It aids you in protecting your mental health, having inner peace, and taking control of your own emotions and thoughts even when you don’t have control over other people’s words and actions. Besties, if there’s one thing you take from this please let it be that you are NEVER selfish for setting boundaries and prioritizing yourself. You are your biggest advocate and supporter, now act like it!

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00:00 Introduction
00:53 Let’s call my friend Nicole
15:51 The main issue is my lack of boundaries
19:41 Everyone gets tired of pretending
21:00 When you start setting boundaries for yourself
25:09 “We never really know why people do what they do.”
27:13 We can choose to not be a victim

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TAP INTO YOUR DIVINE FEMININE Jan 23, 2024

Hey Besties! It is the fourth and final installation of Benson Bootcamp, and we’re ending on a note to set you up perfectly for the month of love coming up!

This week on Almost Adulting, you and Violet are diving into your divine femininity. What does this mean you ask? The divine feminine is the feminine aspect of the divine power that connects and binds the earth together. It is something we all have within us, and something that if channeled correctly, can open us up to so many things we are unknowingly evading ourselves from. While both masculine and feminine energy are present and necessary in all people, tapping into one's feminine energy can help further receptivity, openness, and vulnerability. In this episode Violet will discuss the pros of unleashing the various types of femininity and how leaning into their presence can assist you throughout your life. By the way, this is not to be confused with old school gender roles, or doing things just to attract a partner, but rather tap into an intimate side that is already within you. Enjoy the journey, Besties.

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04:14 We all have masculine and feminine energy
07:48 What you want is not what you attract
13:55 Be in your feminine divine energy
18:44 Your dark, seductive feminine energy
22:05 Your light, innocent feminine energy
25:43 Trusting the process of dating
26:08 Set standards and stick by them
29:43 They always see your worth

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The Truth About Brooke Schofield Jan 18, 2024

In today's episode, we throw it back to when Violetta got real with Brooke Schofield, co-host of Cancelled with Tana Mongeau. They spill the tea on Matt Rife's questionable dating tactics (seriously, bro?), but the conversation takes a deep turn as Brooke opens up about her challenging childhood with two drug-addicted racist parents. Brooke shares her journey dealing with borderline personality disorder, revealing the power of self-healing and finding stability through medication. It's a rollercoaster of real talk and genuine connection—tune in, Besties!

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Recreate Yourself in 3 Steps Jan 16, 2024

Hey Besties! Ever wondered how to turn your life around when you're feeling rock bottom? Need a boost when it all seems bleak? Well, it's Benson Book Club time, and today, we're delving into Robert Greene's "The 48 Laws of Power," specifically Law #25 – Recreate Yourself. Violetta kicks off by reading the juicy core of the chapter, then dives into why it's perfectly okay to hit the reset button when everything feels stuck. Spoiler alert: You're totally allowed to shake things up, start anew, and recreate yourself for a better, more badass version of you! Tune in for the inspiration you didn't know you needed.

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00:00 Intro
01:41 The 48 Laws of Power by Robert Greene
02:37 Law #25: Recreate Yourself
15:25 You are allowed to start over if you feel like it
18:19 Recreating yourself at the lowest moments is usually the most pivotal moment

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WHY MEN PULL AWAY Jan 11, 2024

WHY DO MEN ALWAYS PULL AWAY IN RELATIONSHIPS!?! whether beginning, middle, or end, it seems to always happen at some point. That is why Violetta did all the research written by men, re-read "Why Men Don't Love Women Like You" and "Men Are From Mars, Women Are From Venus" so you don't have to, TO GIVE YOU THE ANSWER YOU'VE BEEN WAITING FOR.

Today, Violetta is set on discussing the psychology behind a man's mind, the three steps to deal with the situation when a man pulls away, and how dating can be beautiful and perfect but it’s all rainbows and butterflies. It often comes with some form of conflict.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
00:46 I booked my parents a trip to Israel
03:05 When a man pulls away, it feels like a bad romcom
05:38 Reason 1: When they feel overwhelmed or uncertain about their feelings
06:26 Reason 2: Some men need space
07:18 Reason 3: They are unsure of the relationship
08:12 Reason 4: The woman is more invested in the relationship
09:41 Step #1: Do not go Britney Spears on him
13:53 Step #2: Do not chase him
15:01 Men and women do things differently
15:40 Imagine that your partner is like a stretched rubberband
18:20 Punishing a man when he pulls away is not the right approach
23:20 Step #3: Focus on yourself
33:17 Dating works but it always comes with some form of conflict

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Why We Love Difficult People Jan 09, 2024

In the 3rd installation of Benson Bootcamp, Violet covers a topic that we often avoid. Why do we love difficult people? This discussion is difficult because it often forces us to look inwardly, and see what unresolved issues we have - that are allowing us to believe that allowing these people to stay in our lives is okay. But it’s okay Besties, we’re gonna get through it together, because we’ve ALL been there.

This week on Almost Adulting, Violet starts off with the reasons why we likely fall for the wrong person, armed with a huge ego and a wounded inner child he never knew existed within him. That guy who gives you mixed signals and then leaves you hanging when they have their fun. While difficult people can be frustrating and draining, they also have the ability to help us become better versions of ourselves. And this is possible when we start to love ourselves a little more, see our own value, understand what we truly desire in life. Bestie, it’s finally time to drop that toxic relationship, friendship, or whatever it is. Do it NOW - you will only thank yourself later.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
02:38 Why do we love difficult people?
05:07 When we feel the lack of spark
08:27 The reasons why we’re attracted to the wrong person
11:59 Guys with daddy issues
18:56 The second boyfriend: a toxic guy
25:39 I thought love had to be achieved
28:00 Daddy Issues
35:06 Start loving yourself

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Manifest MONEY & SUCCESS with Hot High Priestess Jan 04, 2024

Hey Besties! Ready to level up and manifest some serious abundance this year? Violetta's got you covered as she dives into the magical world of manifestation, joined by the incredible Sarah Perl, aka @hothighpriestess on TikTok.

In this episode, they unravel the secrets of successful manifestation, exploring different methods and powerful mantras that can pave the way to your riches. Sarah, the poetic genius behind "From Within," shares her wisdom on turning your life around by reshaping your self-view and envisioning the future you truly desire. To sprinkle some extra magic, they wrap things up with a tarot reading for 2024, using three enchanting crystals. Grab your manifesting notebook, soak in those good vibes, and make 2024 your year of financial independence!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
03:24 You are the creator of you reality
11:14 The “I am Simply Deciding” method
15:51 Inspired action versus aligned action
18:25 Affirmations to say for 7 days to get more money
19:25 More manifestation mantra
22:13 How do you make a Vision Board?
25:28 The 111 portal this January
29:41 How the Love Letter method works
34:06 2024 reading for Amethyst

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How To Change Your Life (This Year) Jan 02, 2024

Hey Besties! Can you believe it's 2024 already? Time really knows how to sprint! So, as we dive into this fresh year, what better way to kick things off than with a real talk about turning the resolution game into actual life change?

In today's episode, Violetta serves up some serious wisdom on why that change we're craving might be playing hard to get. She unpacks the eight sneaky behaviors we unknowingly carry that slam the brakes on our success train. But don't worry, it's not all gloom and doom! Violetta wraps it up with her personal mantra for manifesting the life you truly deserve. Let's make 2024 the year we transform for real!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:31 People want to change their lives but not themselves
08:15 8 subconscious behaviors that keep you from the life that you want
16:39 What do you need to know about yourself first?
23:53 The manifesting mantra for the life that you deserve

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Cult Survivor: Children of God Dec 28, 2023

YOU CALL IT OCTOBER, I CALL IT CULT MONTH ON ALMOST ADULTING PODCAST!

This month focuses entirely on CULTS - where survivors of various cults will be sharing their stories and bringing awareness to the reality and prominence of these organizations.

This week on Almost Adulting Violet speaks with Celeste, a former member of the Children of God (now called The Family International). Children of God was founded in Huntington Beach, California in 1968 by David Berg, and was eventually dubbed by BBC as ‘hell on earth’. Celeste brings the listener on an emotional journey, giving vivid details of what life was like as a person born into Children of God, and her upbringing within the confines of the cult without sparing any details. Celeste then explains how she escaped, post-cult living, and her one wish for the people responsible for their heinous crimes.

TW: sexual abuse

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00:00 Introduction
00:37 What is the Children of God?
02:37 The biggest misconceptions about the group
03:44 Joining the cult
08:13 How do children spend their day?
12:40 The system
13:33 Very limited access to healthcare
15:00 What’s flirty fishing?
19:48 No limit around age or status
22:24 Earliest memory of sexual abuse
25:13 Sexual sharing
28:35 Is it easy to leave the cult?
33:58 Adjusting to the normal world
35:59 Growing up after leaving the cult
42:17 How do you view religion now?
46:17 Forgiving your parents
47:52 Reviving the cult
50:39 Reconnecting with other cult children

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MAKE 2024 YOUR YEAR - Using these Manifesting Mantras Dec 26, 2023

Welcome to the end of 2023 and the last episode of THE YEAR!! Today, Violetta says goodbye and helps you reflect on the past year that you had and figure out what you wish for next year. Violetta starts the episode with a huge announcement about more weekly episodes this coming year! She then discusses how to attract the energy you want, the signs to look out for from the universe, and angel numbers. Violetta ends the episode with manifesting mantras to say that will guarantee the best year ever!

Happy new year everyone and can't wait to see you besties next year!!!

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00:00 Intro
04:53 Be the energy you want to attract
07:51 Signs from the universe
1205 Angel numbers and what they mean
19:10 Manifesting mantras to use to manifest your dream life

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In My Slutty Pregnancy Era w/ Jackie Schimmel Dec 21, 2023

Today, Violetta is joined by none other than THE Bitch Bible extraordinaire, Jackie Schimmel. Jackie, a podcast queen and certified professional asshole, brings her unfiltered charm to Almost Adulting, sharing how she turned a solo experiment into a top comedy podcast sensation.

This dynamic duo doesn't hold back, getting raw and unfiltered in the nitty-gritty of handling hate comments without sacrificing self-esteem, the real deal behind manifestation (spoiler: it might not be what you think), and a crash course on surviving the turbulent waves of cancel culture. It's Almost Adulting meets The Bitch Bible – the perfect combo for a podcast episode that's bold, badass, and totally binge-worthy!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
00:41 Over indulgence of self esteem
03:01 When hate comments don’t affect you anymore
06:34 “I’m not an internet person.”
07:33 Why are pregnant women terrorists?
12:03 The Hitler joke
16:57 How did you become a podcaster?
21:51 The lucky girl syndrome
26:20 Low-key manifesting girly
26:54 The OG podcaster
29:09 Cancel culture
33:20 To be clear is to be kind
35:59 What is your journey?
38:42 The vocal fry
40:09 Are you a cool girl?
43:54 Dinner with model friends
47:22 My slutty pregnancy era
48:50 Makeup preference and fake freckles
52:58 Worst advice you’ve ever gotten
55:21 Best advice received in your 30s
57:57 Compliments for each others
58:55 Most embarrassing life experience
01:02:17 Embarrassing experiences with boys
01:06:00 How did you meet your husband?
01:11:12 We need a Mommy Issues IG
01:12:05 One advice to inspire all Besties

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SICK OF THIS SH*T Dec 19, 2023

Hey Besties! It's a trooper Tuesday here at Almost Adulting because, despite the sniffles and a touch of the flu, Violetta is here, powering through for all of you! She's got a pocket full of stories from the hills, where everyday encounters with crows, hawks, and even a rumored tiger (spoiler: it's a chubby cat) unfold.

But wait, there's more! Violetta spills the tea on her pet love affair with Charles, with tales of Charles #1, #2, and #3’s tragic and heartbreaking end. The current surviving pet? None other than Charles #4, also known as Pancakes! Get ready for a rollercoaster of animal antics and the heartwarming saga of Pancakes' eight-year reign in Violetta's home. Tune in for the laughs, love, and a glimpse into the wild side of living in the hills!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:35 Have you ever been so sick you thought you were going to die?
04:29 We aren’t rewarded for doing the work even when you’re sick
07:46 The weirdest, most vivid lucid dreams
08:34 Crows and hawks keep sh*tting on my balcony
16:39 Have you ever seen an owl walking?
17:13 Fun fact about deers
18:29 Woke up with something looking at me by the window
19:19 What else have I seen in the hills?
22:40 I think I killed a lizard
26:32 I tried to save a bird because I’m a good person
31:53 One day, my mom brought a live fish for us to eat
34:03 Charles number 3 was a snake
34:19 Pancakes is actually Charles number 4

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Hot Girls Have IBS w/ Katie Wilson Dec 14, 2023

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta sits down with BelliWelli founder Katie Wilson. Katie shares how her love for chocolate cookies and not being able to eat them during her pregnancy led to the creation of her very first product. When she shared it with her community, she realized there were so many girls with gut issues, even hot girls have gut issues.

Let's listen to Violetta and Katie go through the ups and downs of being a woman entrepreneur with gut issues dealing with growing a business, overcoming a health crisis, and becoming a rapidly growing brand.

What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:38 Did you personally have gut issues?
04:06 Signs that you have gut issues
06:37 Suffering from gut issues throughout pregnancy
09:53 How one chocolate chip cookie changed everything
11:18 Getting funding from angel investors
13:59 First packaging, deck presentation
17:20 Finding more investors
20:55 The greatest piece of advice
22:14 Things happened while preparing for the product launch
28:11 Everyone hated Stevia in the BelliWelli bars
33:17 How did you approach the product?
38:51 Building a company next to bunch of friends
39:48 Hot girls have IBS campaign
42:49 Secret sauce to successful billboards
50:25 Inspiring stories from customers
53:46 Talk about why something isn’t working rather than what’s working
57:40 What is keeping the business successful?
01:00:04 We love feedback!
01:01:47 BelliWelli is at Target

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Dirty Toilets & Harry Styles Dec 12, 2023

Hey Besties! How delulu can one get in the name of true love? How far will you go to be with the man of your dreams? That’s what one brave girl did to get the attention of her man (well, maybe not yet, but nothing’s impossible, right?)

Today, Violetta sits down for another Benson Knows Best. And what better way to start this episode than to interpret a dream about dirty toilets? Yep, there are people out there who dream about toilets, dirty bathrooms, and breaking down when they can’t find a clean one. And if that is not shocking enough, Violetta ends the episode reading a message from a fan who is in search of her one true love - Harry Styles. A woman can do anything to get her man, and we’re cheering for this girl!

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00:00 Intro
01:08 Do you look for things to validate your negative mindset?
04:27 “I keep dreaming about finding a clean bathroom but always end up in dirty toilets.”
16:09 He acted like I’m the obsessive ex to his new girl
33:22 I had a crush on a guy from the street and it turns out he’s Harry Styles

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The Psychology of YOUR Dreams Dec 07, 2023

Hey Besties! Dreamtime has never been this juicy! Violetta's diving deep into the dreamscapes you've sent her way, decoding the mysteries of your most bizarre dreams. Picture this – a dream where things get a bit too cozy with your own mom. Yep, you read that right! Violet spills the beans on what this dream is really trying to tell you. And then there's that persistent stranger, popping up like a recurring character in your dream saga. Violet's got not one, not two, but three possible meanings for you to unwrap! Get ready for a wild ride through the dream realm, where secrets are spilled, and meanings are revealed!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:44 Afternoon naps are important
02:49 Our minds solve our unconscious thoughts through dreams
04:32 I dreamt about having s*x with my mom
16:64 Dreaming about being followed by random men in a coat
20:29 I went to Jennifer Lopez to confide about a wedding with a man I do not know
26:16 The baby bear turned into a hot girl and we started to make out

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Benson Knows Best - P*rn Addict Dec 05, 2023

Hey Besties! Ready for some real talk? You're in for a treat with today's Benson Knows Best, where Violetta goes through your emails and serves up wisdom like only she can.

First up, we've got a complicated office romance that's leaving everyone tangled in emotions. Hold onto your hats for a guy who's just too nice for his own good, facing a string of heartbreaks. And, of course, we can't forget the spicy situation where a boyfriend's love for ahem adult content is causing relationship ripples. Violet's got the perfect blend of empathy, advice, and her signature humor to guide you through these tricky tales.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:56 How do I break up with him and separate our work and personal life?
04:12 “I was cheated on because I was too nice.”
17:25 My boyfriend like and watch too much porn and I feel disrespected

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How to NOT Become a Bridezilla w/ Kelsey Kreppel Nov 30, 2023

Kelsey is a comedian, actress, and content creator who gained popularity for her comedic sketches, vlogs, and collaborations with other influencers. She has a significant presence on platforms like YouTube and Instagram, where she shares a mix of humorous content, lifestyle vlogs, and insights into her daily life.

Brace yourselves for a chat that's as spicy as your favorite latte because Violetta is sitting down with the sensational Kelsey Kreppel! Curious about the love story that unfolded between Kelsey and her now-hubby, Cody Ko? She spills all the deets on the challenges of dating to the wild ride of becoming a full-blown influencer, the inside scoop on handling haters, the delicate art of oversharing (or not) on the gram, and trust me, you won't want to miss the side splitting story of her epic proposal. This episode is a vibe – a mix of love, laughter, and the unfiltered reality of life in the influencer lane.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
00:38 Welcome Kelsey!
01:17 What’s something people don’t know you can do?
03:11 Worst advice you’ve ever gotten
04:12 Moms always know when something is off about something
05:03 How did you meet your husband?
09:29 Taking notes of what people love
09:01 What people don’t know about Cody
10:37 What’s your favorite thing about your husband?
12:01 What’s his favorite thing about you?
14:44 What’s your sleeping habit?
15:21 What’s your most annoying trait?
17:03 Setting boundaries when sharing things online
21:04 How do you deal with online hate together?
23:38 Is it better not to respond to hate comments?
25:04 Sharing Cody with the world
30:09 If you can’t survive dating, you can’t survive marriage life
34:20 His proposal wasn’t a complete shock
38:29 Were you a bridezilla during the engagement?
42:51 What do you think about someone bringing a plus one at your wedding?
46:47 Trying to get pregnant and then getting pregnant
53:13 Don’t tell people about your baby’s future name
57:09 Where to find Kelsey

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My Scorpio Birthday Shenanigans Nov 28, 2023

Hey Besties! Guess what? Violetta just hit the big 3-5, and she's feeling fabulous! In today's episode, she's spilling all the tea about her unconventional birthday celebration. No Confession Corner or Benson Knows Best this time – it's all about Violetta and her epic birthday escapade.

Picture this: a day at the Huntington Library with the parents, a series of unexpected hiccups, and a plot twist that turns everything around. Violetta shares the highs, the lows, and the heartwarming surprise from her ride-or-die friends. And because she's the queen of adulting, she decided to take her birthday off work. But did it turn into a serene day of self-reflection? Nope! The aftermath involved a serious ice cream marathon and some well-deserved beauty sleep. Living her best life? Absolutely!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:02 Scorpios are the most underrated sign
04:34 Let me share how I spent my birthday
07:22 My parents and I went to Huntington Library
13:16 Gifts I got from my good friends
20:09 Your birthday should be the day you are most relaxed
21:33 I reached out to 12 of my favorite brands
23:47 My father’s gift is my favorite of all
26:08 Back to work mode a day after my birthday
30:19 By Friday, I slept and ate as much as I want

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The Psychology Behind Dreams Nov 23, 2023

Hey Besties! Ready to take a peek into the mysterious world of dreams? Violetta's got you covered in today's episode! From crazy coincidences to weird symbols, she's sharing her personal dream stories, including a surprise appearance by an estranged friend. Get ready for a wild ride as we break down the meanings behind those dreamy escapades.

Ever wondered why you're dreaming about knives, houses, or even pregnancy? Violetta spills the tea on dream interpretation, giving you the lowdown on what your subconscious might be trying to tell you. And for those late-night rendezvous with an ex who broke your heart, she's got the insights on that too! It's dream analysis, Almost Adulting style – fun, enlightening, and, of course, a little bit cheeky. Don't miss out on unlocking the secrets of your slumber!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
00:38 Falling out with my BFF
03:42 I dreamt about the end of the world
10:02 What does your dream mean?
13:09 Dreams about knives
14:50 Other dreams and their meanings
16:40 Dreams of being in a fight
18:15 Different dreams about an ex lover

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KEY LIME PIE S*X GONE WRONG - Confession Corner Nov 21, 2023

Hey Besties! Ready for another wild ride in the Confession Corner? Violetta's got the juiciest stories for you. Ever been on a date where you had to do some quick thinking, maybe tell a little white lie? Trust me, you're not alone! We're diving into those hilarious and awkward moments as they take unexpected turns.

And, oh boy, get ready for some spice! We're talking about turning up the heat in the bedroom, and yes, it involves food. From a delightful encounter with key lime pie that leaves you questioning cleanliness to accidentally turning a passionate moment into a bit of a bloodbath – these stories are wild, unpredictable, and oh-so-relatable. You won't believe where these confessions lead, but one thing's for sure – it's a rollercoaster of laughs and surprises.

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00:00 Intro
01:59 Story #1: He cut himself while opening my window on our first date
05:20 Story #2: Eating key lime pie from her p*ssy
10:14 Story #3: I scrapped his d*ck with my nails while I was about to clim*x
17:57 Story #4: I was broken up by him through his mother

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I Don’t Matter w/ Manon Mathews Nov 16, 2023

Hey Besties! Today, Violetta sits down with her good friend Manon Mathews. You know her – comedian, actress, social media maven, and soon-to-be mom! When you put two girlfriends with a penchant for humor together, what do you get? Pure comedic gold and a whole lot of real talk.

Manon spills the beans on everything, from those awkward moments of mispronouncing names to the origins of their middle names. And oh boy, we dive into the adventure of pregnancy – the lessons, the laughs, and the exciting future ahead. But it's not all giggles; Manon opens up about dealing with an ex who's basically a walking red flag, the rollercoaster of self-worth, and the importance of surrounding yourself with those who let you be your unapologetic self. Laughter, heartbreak, and life-altering decisions – this episode's got it all, and it's guaranteed to lift your spirits!

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00:00 Intro
01:02 Names easy to pronounce, middle name origin
03:59 One of us is pregnant
06:11 Favorite s*x position
06:40 S*x can help in child delivery
08:46 Who is Manon Mathews?
09:52 “I manifested this interview.”
14:26 How are you taking the pregnancy?
19:00 Lessons learned from becoming pregnant
21:30 What’s your zodiac?
23:17 Unexpected complications
25:21 Erewhon Shop
26:52 “He has accent? He must be my husband!”
37:29 He has been an attention-seeker all this time
43:13 Love bombing and red flags
51:43 There are good men out there
55:40 What’s motherhood for you?
59:00 Do you feel like a burden now?
01:05:59 Feeling like you don’t matter
01:10:00 Sometimes people just need to be heard
01:16:22 Being with friends you can be yourself
01:20:09 “Don’t just do something, sit there.” - pun intended

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Benson Knows Best: WOMEN’S S*XUAL FANTASIES Nov 14, 2023

Besties, let's talk real for a sec. Has social media thrown a wrench in the dating game? We're bombarded with models and influencers flaunting their 'perfect' lives, making a regular relationship seem like a unicorn. Today, Violetta is back with the latest Benson Knows Best episode – and trust me, you're in for a ride! From a DM-sliding dilemma to a tangled love triangle, and even a happily married gal crushing on a gym buddy – we've got it all. Tune in for the tea, the laughs, and maybe a reality check or two!

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01:58 The guy I’m seeing follows a lot of models and influencers on IG
07:41 How to know if he’s pulling away to get your attention or he just doesn’t like you?
11:00 Are crushes or attraction to other men even when I’m married normal?
15:37 He would gaslight me into believing that I’m crazy

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MIND BLOWING Facts About Dreams Nov 09, 2023

Hey Besties! Although Halloween is over, we are not done yet with the spooky feels. Today, we will talk about dreams - the good ones, scary ones, and even the weirdest story while having a dream.

Violetta shares how men and women experience and interpret dreams differently, facts about dreams that you have not heard of yet, and why one shouldn’t take anything from the dream world especially when it's handed over by a dead person. There are even fascinating inventions made from recalling past dreams. Together, let’s find out which type of dream you have had recently.

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00:00 Intro
01:51 I saw my grandma in my dream
06:31 Dreams have more meaning than you think
07:05 Men and women dream differently
08:34 Random facts about dream
11:54 First time I met my grandma in my dream
15:11 Mind blowing facts about dreams
17:16 More random facts about dreams
20:14 Cool inventions derived from dreams
20:54 Dreams that predict the future
23:41 People known to sleepwalk

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Confession Corner: I LICKED HIS BUTTH*LE Nov 07, 2023

Hey Besties! The juiciest, most jaw-dropping tales are about to unfold on the Almost Adulting podcast! In this episode, Violetta is sharing some of the wildest, most outrageous confessions she's ever come across.

From office escapades with a ahem unconventional boss to movie dates gone hilariously wrong, these stories will leave you gasping, cringing, and laughing all at once. It's a rollercoaster of dating debacles and unexpected encounters that will have you both shocked and entertained. If you're in need of some spicy tales to brighten your day, tune in to this sizzling episode where nothing is off-limits, and prepare to be thoroughly entertained!

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00:00 Intro
02:40 I hooked up with my creepy boss while he watches interracial p*rn
09:57 I went on a date with a guy who didn’t pay for my movie ticket
18:20 I met an ex-cult member who brings a bowling ball and I licked his butth*le
22:31 I slept with a guy who went to prison for k*lling five people

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10 Signs He's Cheating Nov 02, 2023

Hey Besties! It’s November and we’re going to start the month with the most requested topic - CHEATING.

In this episode, Violetta dives into the intriguing and often complicated world of relationships. She kicks it off by uncovering some intriguing signs that might indicate he's cheating on you. From suspicious behaviors to gut feelings, Violetta explores the clues that can leave you questioning your partner's fidelity.

It's a captivating exploration of the various factors, from emotional gaps to simple curiosity, that can lead people to make such complex and painful choices. If you've ever been curious about the intricacies of human relationships, the reasons people cheat, and how to spot the signs, this episode is your ultimate guide.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:05 Signs he is cheating on you
11:36 Why do people cheat?
16:25 What happens when you cheat on someone?
22:54 Don’t blame the other woman
24:16 Why does the people who hurt us mean the most to us?

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Confession Corner: THIEF OF JOY Oct 31, 2023

Prepare to be shocked because Violetta is diving deep into a collection of jaw-dropping confessions from the depths of Reddit. From the shocking tale of catching a girlfriend in the act with a so-called "friend" (on their own bed, no less!) to the heart-wrenching confession of accidentally causing harm to a best friend's baby, Violetta's reactions will keep you on the edge of your seat.

But it's not all doom and gloom – she's got an eye-opening story of road rage that ended with a twist involving a savvy lawyer. Throughout this episode, you'll experience the full spectrum of human behavior, from the darkest moments to unexpected redemption.

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00:00 Intro
02:48 I caught my girlfriend scr*wing my friend on our bed
13:29 I accidentally killed my best friend's baby
16:50 I’m a victim of road rage and got myself a good lawyer

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I’m Not Worth Anything w/ Tara Schuster Oct 26, 2023

Get ready for a delightful and insightful episode of Almost Adulting with Violetta Benson as she chats with the wonderful Tara Schuster! You'll be intrigued by the backstory of Tara's book title, "Buy The F*cking Lilies," and how it resonated with countless readers. They dive into the contents of the book, exploring chapters like "When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong."

Tara candidly shares her journey, highlighting the challenges of writing about her relationship with her father, offering valuable insights on self-improvement and setting boundaries. You'll discover how vulnerability has played a vital role in Tara's ability to connect with people, and how active journaling can transform your life.Her revelations about the far-reaching impact of our actions on the world will leave you with a profound sense of responsibility and the understanding that we're not here to merely suffer but to learn how to savor every moment of life.

Together, Violetta and Tara will inspire you to make the shift towards a positive and self-loving mindset. Tune in and soak up the positive vibes!

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00:00 Intro
03:10 The story behind Buy The F*cking Lilies book title
07:27 Why did it resonate with a lot of people?
10:38 Chapter: When Life Hands You Lemons, Stick A Pen In It And Turn It Into A Bong
14:08 The hardest chapter to write was the relationship with her dad
18:59 If we want to change for the better, we can
22:03 How can setting boundaries have a profound impact in your life?
27:53 You have to make you love yourself
31:37 How being vulnerable allowed you to connect with people
35:39 Complication after egg retrieval procedure
47:51 The benefits of active journaling
56:46 Mindset shift towards self improvement
01:05:20 Whatever you put out in the world affects everyone around you
01:06:31 We aren’t here to suffer, we need learn how to enjoy life

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My Life Is a DUMPSTER FIRE Oct 24, 2023

Hold onto your hats, Besties! It's been a rollercoaster of a week, and Violetta is here to spill the tea on all the wild and wacky adventures she's been on. From the quirks of getting paid in the entertainment biz (seriously, why does it take forever?), to some dental dilemmas involving root canals and plate implants (who knew teeth could be so eventful?), she's got stories that'll have you laughing, cringing, and shaking your head in disbelief.

But it doesn't stop there! Ever wondered what it's like when your Facebook account gets hacked? Well, Violetta’s got the lowdown on that too. Buckle up, because this episode is a whirlwind of anecdotes and unexpected twists that'll leave you wondering, "Is this real life?" So, join us for a hilarious and slightly chaotic ride through the ups and downs of Violet's week – you won't want to miss it!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
00:34 It’s just that type of week
02:55 Let me tell you about my week
05:57 Getting paid in the entertainment industry sometimes take months
07:52 Have you ever had plate implants?
12:37 Despite everything, why am I not crying right now?
16:12 Why did I need a new root canal?
19:13 And so, my Facebook account got hacked
27:43 Everything that happened, I did it to myself

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The Science of Anger: How To Move Past Resentment w/ Radhi Devlukia Oct 19, 2023

Besties! Buckle up, because today we're diving into all things love, personal growth, and relationships with Radhi Devlukia. Radhi is an influencer who shares recipes with her followers on social media and on her website.

Radhi gets candid about her journey from being a Daddy's girl to discovering wisdom in the Bhagavad Gita. Together with Violetta, she shares some of the best advice her dad ever gave her and takes you on a heartfelt exploration of holding onto anger and resentment. Let's uncover what it feels like to push boundaries on cultural expectations for women and explore the complexities of personal journeys in the shadow of successful partners.

And if that's not enough, we're digging into what makes a partnership thrive, how to handle conflict as a couple, and the fine balance between prioritizing your relationship and nurturing your individual growth. Radhi also talks about the fear of failure, the origins of feeling not good enough, and finding those beautiful connections with others. It's a rollercoaster of love, self-discovery, and embracing life at your own pace.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:13 Grateful for the loving people around you
02:45 Something most people don’t know about you
04:40 We forget to ask people how they are doing
06:06 Sustaining a positive attitude
08:41 Growing up, I was a Daddy’s girl
10:20 The Bhagavad Gita
12:13 Best advice from your dad
15:25 Holding onto resentment
17:41 Have you struggled to let go of anger and resentment?
20:26 When you feel invisible
24:09 Pushing the boundaries on cultural expectations for women
30:17 Figuring out your own journey when you have a successful partner
32:37 Having a supportive partner
35:58 We all function in our own pace in life
39:34 Do you have the fear of failure?
41:18 Where does feeling not good enough come from?
47:27 How do you connect better to others?
50:28 What's your definition of love?
54:30 Least favorite thing about yourself
56:17 How Radhi saw Jay at the beginning of their relationship
58:56 How do you handle conflict as a couple?
01:02:39 Difference between putting something first and feeling neglected
01:06:47 How do you make your relationship a priority?
01:09:45 Take time alone to figure yourself out

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LOVE IS BLIND REUNION Oct 17, 2023

Get ready for some juicy tea, because in this episode of Almost Adulting with Violet Benson, we're spilling all the Love Is Blind Reunion gossip! Violetta is serving up her unfiltered thoughts and hilarious commentary on the latest couple drama. With only two pairs making it down the aisle, she's questioning the notion of unconditional love and tackling the ever-important credit score conversation. From Lydia and Milton's heartwarming union to the surprising turn of events for Chris and Johnie, there's no shortage of opinions in this review. So, if you want the inside scoop on this season's most buzzworthy moments, this episode is a must-listen!

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00:00 Intro
02:10 Uche is an energy vampire
03:26 I’m on my period for 3 weeks now
04:54 Just look at their eyes to know if they're intoxicated
06:03 When couple worry too much about other couple’s relationship
07:46 Only two couples ended in a marriage
08:58 Izzy and Stacy didn’t make it to the wedding
14:12 Asking for an unconditional love from your partner is delusional
16:05 “Yes, credit score matters, Izzy!”
18:21 Happy ending for Milton and Lydia
22:53 Chris and Johnie didn’t end up together
24:08 Lydia did Aaliyah a favor
26:13 Stacy being a mean girl to Johnie
30:55 No one respects people who bring people down

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Homie Hopper w/ Amanda McCants Oct 12, 2023

Hey there, Besties! Well, we've got a treat for you today – and it's all about getting real and having a blast. Today, we welcome influencer and YouTuber Amanda McCants for a hilarious chat with Violetta.

So, ever thought about the fakest thing people might have noticed about you? You're not alone! We'll get to hear about Amanda's cameo in a Key Glock music video and that memorable first meeting with Violetta. It's a whirlwind of empowerment and support for rising talents, coupled with some zodiac sign insights and a deep dive into the influencer life. And, oh boy, get ready for the dating adventures, including setting up girls to date the guy she's dating! But there's more – Amanda's Vogue: 73 Questions experience is on the menu, too!

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00:00 Intro
01:56 What is the fakest thing about you?
03:34 Part of Key Glock music video
05:43 Violetta and Amanda’s first meeting
06:32 Diagnosed with being in the spectrum
07:46 Being helpful to other rising talents
11:09 Zodiac signs
13:29 How did the influencer life started
15:24 Putting your self-worth in someone else
19:46 Supporting for your ex’s new girl
22:54 Setting up girls to date the guy I’m dating
24:09 The Vogue: 73 Questions
31:41 Everyone is depressed
36:15 He gave me STI
41:51 It’s over, I’m done…
43:26 I always know what I want to do
45:43 Imposter syndrome
46:11 What it feels not to have social cues
49:46 Craziest job you had
54:54 Getting a lot of hate
58:11 Dealing with extreme backlash
01:00:41 The worst more embarrassing day you can laugh about
01:09:20 I like your teeth!

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Benson Knows Best: SENDING MY PARENTS TO ISRAEL Oct 10, 2023

Hey there, Besties! Ready to catch up on some fun and thoughtful moments from my life? Well, here we go! So, lately, I've been all about embracing spontaneity. I mean, life's too short to not do the occasional crazy thing, right? From wild adventures to trying out new hairstyles, it's been a whirlwind of excitement. But you know what they say, even your hair holds memories. It's like a little time capsule on top of your head!

Now, speaking of memories, I've stumbled upon some pretty awesome quotes lately that got me thinking about life in a whole new way. But it's not all about the philosophical stuff. I also surprised my parents with a fantastic vacation trip, and boy, that was something! On the family front, my dad's the ultimate pessimist while my mom, well, she's the eternal optimist. It's like living in a sitcom sometimes! So, if you're wondering why I'm all about staying open and vulnerable, despite life's ups and downs, stick around. There's a whole lot of candid conversation coming your way.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:42 What is the craziest thing that I've done recently?
06:14 They say your hair keeps memories
07:26 What’s a good quote you recently heard?
10:50 Surprising my parents with a vacation trip
13:32 You create your own reality
17:34 My dad is a pessimist and my mom is an optimist
19:50 Why do you need to be vulnerable and not shut yourself off?

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It’s Okay to be Self-ish w/ Apryl Jones Oct 05, 2023

Hey, Besties! It's a brand-new day and a fresh episode. Today, we've got a special treat for you as Violetta spills the beans on how she met the fabulous Apryl Jones, and let's just say, it's a story for the ages. But, it's not all fun and games – we're diving deep into the world of self-work and therapy. Ever wondered how to spot someone who's been on a journey of self-discovery? Violetta's got the inside scoop, and it's more insightful than you might think.

But wait, there's more! We're exploring the intricate realms of love – from redefining it to dealing with it as parents and beyond. We've got all the wisdom you need on co-parenting, dating again, and even dating in the public eye (oh, the drama!). Plus, you won't want to miss the best and worst love advice and the ultimate secret to attracting better things into your life. So cozy up and let's get deep and real with Violetta and Apryl!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
03:04 How Violetta met Apryl
05:12 You can tell when someone is going to therapy
06:46 What’s your definition of love?
08:50 How do you deal with your kids?
13:56 Forgiving your parents for not knowing any better
17:40 Not looking at anyone different
18:49 Reflect on your life, sit with yourself, and not play the victim
22:01 Have you ever done shadow work?
23:19 When you don’t love yourself enough
25:26 Always open to learning
28:31 Having children is much bigger than us
33:18 You have to be real and honest with yourself
35:56 How do you successfully co-parent?
38:35 How do you start dating again?
41:50 It started with an Instagram DM
45:58 Best and worst advice about love
48:25 Conscious dating when you have kids
51:55 Is it difficult to date in the public eye?
55:02 Privacy is still important because we’re all human
57:27 Do you forgive someone for yourself?
01:02:45 Learn how to see yourself first
01:07:48 How do you become more kind to yourself?
01:09:43 Choose to be a better human to attract better things in life
01:12:57 Three Questions with Apryl Jones

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Love Is Blind S5 - GASLIGHTER UCHE Oct 03, 2023

Hey there, Besties! Get ready to dive into another jam-packed review of Love Is Blind S5, Episode 5, 6, and 7. We're not just spilling the tea today; we're pouring a whole kettle of it!

Violetta talks briefly about last weeks' Thursday episode, 4 Steps to Love Yourself where she shares steps to help you embrace and adore the amazing person you are, because who doesn't need a little extra self-love in their life, right?

Love Is Blind fans, Violetta's got the latest scoop on who's walking down the aisle – and trust us, there are some surprises. Plus, we're dissecting the awkwardness between Taylor and JP and taking a closer look at relationships on the show. Is Lydia onto something, or is Uche playing with fire? And hold onto your Instagram accounts because we're talking about following (or maybe not following) random girls. Are your social media habits revealing more than you think? Tune in for laughter, revelations, and some good old-fashioned reality TV chatter.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:50 Four steps to love yourself
03:27 Love Is Blind S - who’s getting married?
05:29 Why are Taylor and JP so awkward?
12:16 When reality sets in for Izzy and Stacy
17:05 Lydia and Milton’s relationship seems very surface level
18:49 Is Uche gaslighting Aaliyah?
24:25 Maybe Lydia knew that Uche will be in S5
31:42 You’ll know a partner’s bad for you when…
34:41 Still following random girls on IG

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CHOOSE YOURSELF Sep 28, 2023

Alright, gather 'round, folks! We are ending September with this, "Choose to love yourself every single day." Yep, that's right, loving yourself should be as normal as your morning coffee.

Today, Violetta will share the four steps to amp up that self-love game. There are four steps you need in your life: setting up boundaries, becoming self-aware, getting to know yourself more, and changing your perspective. You've always got a choice. So, whether you're on a self-discovery journey or just need a little nudge to love yourself more, this episode is like a warm hug from your podcast pal, guiding you toward a brighter, self-love-filled future.

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01:21 Choose to love yourself every single day
06:05 Step #1: Start setting boundaries for yourself
10:21 Step #2: Be more self aware and know when to walk away
18:34 Step #3: Know who you are and be at peace with yourself
26:55 Step #4: Change your perspective, you always have a choice to have a better life

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Love Is Blind S5 - WTF LYDIA Sep 26, 2023

Hey there, Besties! Today, we are going to talk about the hype around Love Is Blind Season 5. It’s very unhinged so prepare yourself because we have a lot of catching up to do.

Violetta shares her insights on the Season 5's casts and how they come off after binge-watching the episodes. From the insecurities of Jared, who's projecting his size anxieties, to Chris, the golden retriever of the group who oddly sees himself as a playboy, it's a rollercoaster ride of personalities and self-perception.

Amidst it all, Lydia's unnervingly straight-faced comfort moment and her declaration that, "You are so much like me," add a sprinkle of intrigue to this entertaining exploration of youthful relationships. Buckle up for a podcast that's as quirky as it is relatable, as we navigate the fascinating world of 20-something love, one eccentric character at a time.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:07 How are these people in their 20s?
02:19 Jared - projecting his insecurities about his size
04:14 Chris - gives off golden retriever vibes but he thinks people he’s a playboy
06:11 Johnie - she feels she needs to chase people for love
11:58 JP and Taylor - the love of your life say, “I used to care about looks, but not anymore.”
13:38 Lydia is a walking red flag
18:43 Uche’s biggest deal breaker is dishonesty
19:47 Aaliyah lacks self awareness to take accountability for her cheating
22:45 Did Uche want Aaliyah to feel bad so he could drop the ball about Lydia?
23:54 When Lydia comforted Aaliyah with a straight face
26:14 Lydia: “You are so much like me.”

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I’m a Tough B*tch w/ Katie Maloney Sep 21, 2023

Hey there, Besties! We've got some intriguing insights as we welcome today's guest, Katie Maloney. Katie is an American television personality and actress who gained fame for her appearances on the reality TV show Vanderpump Rules. Throughout her time on Vanderpump Rules, Katie's personal life, including her relationships and friendships, has been a central focus of the show.

Now, let's get real. Violetta sits down with Katie as she opens up about her past, navigating a high-profile divorce, and finding self-love in the process. From the lessons she learned from reality TV to the heartaches and healing that come with breakups, she's dishing out the good stuff. And, of course, the big question: Can you really stay friends with an ex? You don't want to miss this one!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:07 There’s a lot people don’t know about me
02:16 What’s your go-to during a bad day?
03:14 Describe me in one word
05:10 What’s something you wish people would ask you more often?
07:36 What’s the hardest thing about starting a business?
11:21 Sandwich flavors
14:16 All about Vanderpump Rules
18:42 Watching the show and absolutely have no idea what’s happening
19:53 Taken highly out of context
21:15 Lesson learned from reality TV
24:30 Did compatibility issues cause the divorce?
27:47 It’s done and final
28:27 When did you realize that the relationship was ending?
31:06 Start loving yourself
33:32 I just had to go through the pain
36:05 How did you get through the breakup?
39:10 Put yourself first
40:03 Possible to be friends with your ex?
41:21 Outpour of love and support from fans
42:57 To feel seen, heard, and supported
49:06 Rapid questions with Katie

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Confession Corner: HE SH*T HIMSELF Sep 19, 2023

Hey Besties! It's Confession Corner Tuesday, and our OG social media girl Violetta is back with some juicy fan confessions. We got a guy who lied about his job and stopped communicating after they spent a night together and this guy accidentally sh*ting himself while getting a head. Surprise! Surprise! Men never learn. Buckle up, because when it comes to confessions, the drama never ends!

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00:00 Intro
01:39 Call #1: This guy I met on Tinder asked if size mattered
15:50 Call #2: He sh*t himself while I was giving him a bl*wj*b
21:21 Call #3: Dylan, you’re not a serious person about me being your sugar baby

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4 Steps To Greatness Sep 14, 2023

They always say let go of your anger, let go of your pain, blah blah blah! But why doesn’t anyone talk about how using these “negative” feelings to your advantage to catapult you into your best season yet?

Hello, Besties! September is all about checking in with ourselves, our mental health, and with our goals. To kick things off Violetta is back with another solo episode and she is NOT here to sugarcoat. In today’s episode Violetta admits life has its ups and downs and it hasn’t been easy, but today she is thankful and you will be too by the end of the episode.

Today, Violetta shares FOUR STEPS that can help anyone struggling internally, going through difficult and seemingly impossible situations, and help turn the negatives into optimism and positive change. Besties, let's use our pain and rage to turn the page starting today with this episode!

What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
00:55 Let’s take a moment to be thankful
03:44 Low moments are necessary to transform you
07:06 Step #1: Ask yourself, “Is this working for me?”
10:07 Step #2: It’s all in your head
11:06 Step #3: Sit with rejection, be comfortable with it
12:50 Step #4: Turn your resentment into your superpower
14:35 Correlation between anger and passion to succeed
17:43 Your mind will continuously believe what you tell it

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Benson Knows Best: SELLING OC Sep 12, 2023

Hey Besties! Today's a little different. We're kicking things off with some juicy dating tips, including the absolute must-ask questions to gauge if you're with Mr. or Ms. Right. Then, we're diving headfirst into a fun chat where Violetta talks about how she sees the characters of the Selling The OC cast. It might not be everyone's cup of tea, but it's still got that 'worth-watching' vibe!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:30 The 5 honest questions to ask yourself
04:30 Have you watched Crash Landing on You?
08:03 When you hear these three things on the first date, RUN!
10:32 Selling The OC - Tyler
14:03 Selling The OC - Jarvis and Rose
16:40 Selling The OC - Polly
17:10 Selling The OC - Alex Hall
19:40 Selling The OC - Brandy
22:59 Selling The OC - Austin and Tyler
25:16 The lack of empathy for others
26:14 Someone really hates Jarvis because…
27:13 It was an escort party

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The Idiot Guide to Divorce w/ Laura Clery Sep 07, 2023

TW: Discussion about eating disorder, alcohol and drug abuse, sobriety, and self harm

Ever wondered why you're not happy all the time? Well, you're not supposed to be! It's okay not to feel the sunshine every day, and sometimes, the cloudy moments are what make the sunny ones shine even brighter.

Today, Violetta welcomes Laura Clery, a comedian and influencer best known for her comedy sketches and vlogs about her day-to-day life on social media. Laura shares how she grew in popularity through her viral characters’ Pamela Pumpkin and Hellen Horbath, and later pivoted to documenting her day to day life in a comedic sense.

From the highs and lows of existence to the complexities of relationships and personal growth, each chapter delves into the real, unfiltered moments that define our lives; finding humor in life's little annoyances, or navigating the tumultuous waters of divorce. Join us as we laugh and ponder the human experience, one chapter at a time.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:05 You’re not meant to feel happy all the time
03:51 Do we look alike?
06:33 The birth of Pamela Pumpkin
09:01 Then Helen Horbath came to be
11:03 The failed pilot show, and then pregnancy came
13:23 Manifesting what you want in life
17:26 What’s driving me crazy right now
20:12 When taxes don’t make sense to you
21:22 Do you like talking to yourself?
23:43 A thousand random thoughts
28:51 I can’t imagine not existing…
33:26 Constant criticism about your looks
38:24 Competition is an illusion
40:39 Why are you getting a divorce?
43:23 Public breakup is never easy
48:38 Slowing down on work and prioritizing mental health
51:46 Implementing boundaries for inner peace
54:37 The human resilience in any situation
56:33 The effect of divorce on children
58:12 What do you do when you’re about to relapse?
01:02:21 You can only be strong for so long
01:05:21 The Serenity Prayer

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Confession Corner - IT WAS HIS BEST FRIEND Sep 05, 2023

Ever had those cringe-worthy moments that make you wish you could hit the rewind button on life? Well, we all do, and in this episode, we're diving headfirst into some hilariously embarrassing tales. From a power struggle in the education system to an intimate experience gone wrong that'll leave you in stitches. Oh, and don't forget the awkward moment you caught your dad staring through a slightly opened door while you were doing the deed. Yep, these stories are as real and relatable as they come. So get ready for some seriously entertaining, toe-curling moments that'll have you saying, "I've been there too!"

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00:00 Intro
02:03 Story #1: Overloaded teacher
13:12 Story #2: Disgusting, intimate experience
17:31 Story #3: Walked out while doing the deed
23:17 Story #4: The other guy was my crush

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3 Reasons You're Stuck In Life Aug 31, 2023

Changing your perspective is like putting on a new pair of glasses that reveals a whole new world. It's essential because our outlook shapes our reality. When we shift our viewpoint, we unlock fresh insights, untapped potential, and a realm of possibilities that were previously hidden.

Today, Violetta shares the three reasons why we remain stuck with where we are as well as the action steps we can take to move forward. From how our actions create our reality, how our emotions affect those actions, and the thoughts we have while taking action. It's all about shifting your mindset, and girl, you're about to crush it!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:40 The story you tell yourself
06:17 Phase 1 - Our actions create our reality
12:09 “Everything I’m doing, I chose to do.”
16:26 Phase 2 - Our emotions dictate our actions
20:09 Consumed by hatred
24:07 Do you want to be right or become free?
28:40 Phase 3 - Our thoughts affect our emotions
32:18 Positive thinking transforms your life
34:44 “Am I happy with the thoughts in my head?”

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Benson Knows Best: MEN AREN’T DUMB Aug 29, 2023

Breakups are tough but moving on can be even more challenging. Today, Violetta offers insights on becoming the IT girl when it comes to dating, post-breakup ways to move on from someone (based on real life experience), and some handy ghosting tricks for future use.

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00:00 Intro
02:01 The best revenge is to move on
05:40 How to be the It Girl?
13:05 Ways to let go and move on
19:02 Ghosting tricks

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From Toxic to Soulmates w/ Fiachra "Figs" O'Sullivan Aug 24, 2023

Have you considered the difference between what people want versus what they truly need in relationships, and how does this understanding impact your approach to forming connections? This introspective exploration can have a profound influence on how you approach building meaningful bonds.

Today's guest is Fiachra "Figs" O'Sullivan. Figs is the creator of the Empathi method and the certification process for Empathi coaches. His life’s mission is to help couples feel more connected.

Violetta and Figs unveil the impact of childhood experiences on your ability to love and how self-sabotaging patterns might be holding you back and decode your attachment style and learn how taking responsibility for your actions and emotions can transform your connections. Whether you're seeking self-growth or hoping to form healthier bonds, don't miss out on this empowering conversation that peels back the layers of love, relationships, and healing.

What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:14 Are you in a toxic relationship?
04:15 What can we do about a toxic partner?
06:23 When you’re in a threatened vulnerable state
08:02 Are you in a system together?
13:36 When in your reality your partner is hurting you
16:14 How childhood experiences affect our ability to love
17:56 Self-sabotaging patterns
19:49 The natural fear to fall in love
23:31 Struggling to open up
25:25 Know what’s your attachment style
29:18 Taking responsibility of our actions and emotions
33:21 Both need to show up for each other
36:28 Foster empathy for yourself and others
42:31 The gray area on first dates
47:36 Here’s what you should focus on when dating
50:07 Finding healing through forming relationships
55:31 What is a co-dependent relationship?
01:00:48 Doing self work to not attract what you lack
01:04:19 Glorification of people protecting themselves from getting hurt
01:07:29 What people really need is not what they want

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Confession Corner - BLAME THE KIDS Aug 22, 2023

Ever wondered about the hidden stories that weave the tapestry of human existence? Brace yourselves, because in this episode, we're peeling back the layers and delving into stories that challenge our perceptions, tug at our emotions, and remind us of the complexities that make us undeniably human.

Today, Violetta is back with another batch of Reddit confessions. From sacrificing parental rights to confronting the aftermath of a child's devastating lie about assault, and even exploring the unexpected dynamics of sibling relationships, get ready to listen through emotions that are as intense as they are relatable and somehow insanely eye rolling. Get ready to be moved, captivated, and reminded that beneath the surface, we're all navigating our own stories that shape who we are.

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00:00 Intro
01:43 Story #1: I was asked to give up my parental rights
13:19 Story #2: A child lied about being assaulted by his mother’s boyfriend
20:35 Story #3: My older brother and I were sleeping together

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Body Shaming & Setting Boundaries w/ Sasha Pieterse Aug 17, 2023

Welcome back, Besties! Have you ever wondered what lies behind the facade, the moments that define us beyond the spotlight? It's a natural curiosity to wonder about the authentic stories that unfold in the quieter corners of our lives. Beyond the glamorous exterior that we often project to the world, there are those raw, unfiltered moments that truly define who we are – the struggles, triumphs, and personal revelations that shape us in profound ways.

Today, Violetta welcomes Sasha Pieterse - American actress, singer, and model who gained significant recognition for her role as Alison DiLaurentis on the popular TV series "Pretty Little Liars."

The duo dive into an intimate conversation that's all about embracing authenticity, overcoming challenges, and finding strength within ourselves. They offer a rare glimpse into the dynamics of fame and authenticity, the art of gracefully handling criticism, and insights into building trust and finding strength amidst motherhood. Let's celebrate vulnerability, growth, and the power of communication.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:44 Most people don’t know about you
04:53 Fulfilling moments in the industry
06:35 When roles rub off on you in real life
11:09 Do you miss Pretty Little Liars?
13:16 Starting young in the industry
15:58 Advice for your younger self?
16:44 How do you handle criticism
19:52 Diagnosed with PCOS
26:59 Every woman had different needs
30:48 Have people around you can trust
31:57 Physically and mentally stronger as a mother
36:13 You can’t be another person
39:57 Your purpose should be what you love doing
44:00 Remember people as a whole, not just the positives
47:37 Talking is important even when it’s not fun

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Benson Knows Best: UR A PLACEHOLDER Aug 15, 2023

And we're back! Hold onto your hats because we've got a whirlwind of exciting stories and insights to share with you in another Benson Knows Best episode.

Violetta excitedly shares how she unexpectedly crossed paths with her 'future' husband just last weekend. But that's just the tip of the iceberg! And she's peeling back the layers of being a "placeholder" for someone else and learning how to read in between the pages and know your worth in your partner's future plans. Plus, men often categorize the women they meet. In what category do you fall under? Listen up and find out!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:20 I ran into my future husband this past weekend
09:19 What is one thing you will never do again?
10:52 Men and women look for different things
12:41 You’re just a placeholder
20:19 Three categories men have for the women they met
20:31 Where do I buy my clothes?

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Why Heartbreak Hurts So Much Aug 10, 2023

How often do we find ourselves tangled in misconceptions about love, and what impact does this have on our relationships? Could redefining our understanding of love lead us to more fulfilling and authentic connections?

As we navigate this emotional landscape, Violetta is up for a candid conversation that dismantles these misconceptions and leads us toward a more profound understanding of love's essence. It's time to bid farewell to those who don't see our value and make space for the ones who do. Let's take a look into the practical steps to mend our wounded hearts and how fall in love with ourselves once again. Afterall, it's a journey of rediscovery, embracing our worth, and rekindling our self-love flame.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:11 A man’s interest only grows in time, not disappear
05:12 The biggest mistake we make is the idea of love
07:38 Close your door to someone who won’t love you
10:21 We lie to ourselves and think they’re the right person
13:14 Who hurts more after the breakup?
16:12 How to get over a heartbreak?
20:28 Why does heartbreak hurt so much?
24:11 Fall in love with yourself again

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Confession Corner - I DARE YOU Aug 08, 2023

Hey there, gorgeous souls! Hold onto your seats as we unveil the raw and riveting stories for another Confession Corner. We're here to dish out the juiciest details and sizzling discussions.

Violetta gets candid on the complexity of relationships and emotions with the intricacies of postpartum depression and its impact on a relationship, a confession involving sibling rivalry, perceptions, and the pursuit of fairness. But we're not stopping there! We're peeling back the layers on the intoxicating world of friendship and attraction and those moments that make your heart skip a beat.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:01 Confession #1: I cheated on my wife while she had postpartum depression
12:10 Confession #2: My sister Angela is obsessed with making me the bad person
20:34 Confession #3: I ended having a crush with one of my guy friends

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UNHINGED w/ Hannah Berner Aug 03, 2023

As your go-to gal for all things fun and motivational, I'm sharing with you today the conversation I had with Hannah Berner in her podcast, Berning in Hell.

In this episode, Hannah and I dive into the humorous world of pet allergies and discuss the empowered choice of not having s*x by choice. From navigating emotions around watching prn to the empowering journey of reclaiming virginity, we're here to embrace every aspect of ourselves! We'll share some vulnerable moments, from the impact of getting off birth control to potentially losing hearing, reminding us to stay resilient. And, of course, we'll talk about the power of laughter and funny skiing stories that'll leave us in stitches!

It's time to live our best lives, Besties – you're in for a treat!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
03:42 I’m so allergic to my cat…
07:24 By choice, you’re not having s*x?
14:56 Working on your people-pleasing habits
18:05 When something bad happens, find the fun in it
23:43 How does watching p*rn make you feel?
26:40 Are you a v*rgin again?
28:10 Why did you get off birth control?
31:23 I could potentially lose hearing in left ear
37:57 The happiest times in your life isn’t always about a milestone
44:59 Let’s talk about some funny skiing stories

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Benson Knows Best - WAKE UP Aug 01, 2023

Welcome back, Besties! It's a brand new Benson Knows Best episode. Get ready for exciting announcements and juicy discussions as we dive into some burning questions from you guys!

In this episode, Violetta is keeping it real with a candid conversation about hormones that haven't gone back to normal, the complexities of love and relationships as we address some questions you guys sent including how to get over a guy friend you developed feelings for – trust me, we've all been there, a possible narcissistic prick, who keeps you around for their ego boost, and a break down of why some men treat us poorly and how to break free from that cycle of disappointment.

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00:00 Intro
02:10 I have a few announcements
04:09 Make sure to check in with your friends and family
06:31 My hormones have not gone back to normal
13:07 Question #1: How to get over a guy friend you developed feelings for?
17:57 Question #2: Is he a narcissist prick who’s trying to keep me around to make him feel better?
28:08 Question #3: I’m at a loss as to why men treat me so badly?

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Manifest Him BACK with Hot High Priestess Jul 27, 2023

Welcome, lovely souls to an enchanting podcast episode filled with the captivating realms of manifesting and tarot card reading. From debunking misconceptions about manifesting to unlocking the secrets of a powerful practice, we'll delve into the art of embracing abundance and love in our lives.

Today, Violetta is joined by Sarah Perl a.k.a. Hot High Priestess. Sarah is a tarot card reader, manifestation coach, TikToker, and an entrepreneur. The duo will show us how to properly manifest your desires and tap into your intuition while also exploring the mindset required for a fulfilling practice, the irresistible love letter method to make someone obsessed with you, and some laughter as they recount hilarious stories from their teen years.

As they venture into the divine practice of tarot card reading, they will unveil the basic principles behind this mystical art and even conduct love readings for the fabulous listeners. With insights into breaking old patterns and the empowering whisper method, let's manifest our wildest dreams and unleash the magic within.

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00:00 Intro
01:23 How did you get into manifesting and tarot card reading?
04:54 What's one thing you wish the people understood better when it came to manifesting?
06:29 How do you manifest properly?
07:54 How can you tap into your own intuition?
13:28 What mindset do you need to be in before practicing manifestation?
17:52 Walk around with an identity that would make people treat you better
19:38 How do you get someone obsessed over you?
23:29 What is the love letter method?
24:33 Give them a chance to think about you
28:17 Affirmations for the next 21 days to attract abundance in your life
29:27 Funny story when I was 13 years old
32:29 What are the basic principles behind tarot card reading?
33:33 Let’s do love reading for the listeners
39:58 Love reading for Violetta
46:30 Is it working for you to repeat old patterns?
47:18 What is the whisper method?

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Confession Corner - EMOTIONAL NEGLECT Jul 25, 2023

Hey, Besties! Welcome to another Confession Corner episode! Let's talk about something important – emotional neglect. It's something many of us may have experienced without even realizing it. Emotional neglect happens when our feelings, needs, and emotions are consistently ignored or invalidated, leaving us feeling unheard and unseen. It can be tough, but remember, you are not alone in this.

Violetta shares her personal story with her friend and how the act of opening up to that friend unplugged so many pent up emotion, highlighting the importance of talking about feelings and embracing vulnerability. We will explore the impact of taking accountability for everything and the power of vulnerability in strengthening our connections. Crying becomes a powerhouse tool for emotional healing as we validate our emotions. Plus, find reassurance that time heals all wounds and love will find you again.

Get ready to embrace your emotions, love yourself fiercely.

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00:00 Intro
02:24 Taking accountability to a fault
06:38 How can you tell when someone cares?
11:18 Channeling your anger onto the wrong things
15:02 How can people learn to love you when you’re not letting them in?
19:29 Adam from Reddit said: “Scientific facts imply that crying is actually healthy.”
23:06 Do you still think about the ex that you left?

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Shadow Work: 5 Steps to Healing Yourself & Your Relationship Jul 20, 2023

Get ready for a transformative and heartwarming journey with your caring big sister, Violetta. In this empowering podcast episode, we'll explore the magical world of shadow work, where hidden thoughts and desires reside. Join us as we uncover the top three places to encounter your shadow self and learn how relationships serve as mirrors for personal growth. Embrace the power of self-awareness and engage in an inner dialogue to face your shadow with compassion and curiosity.

We'll travel back to our childhood to understand the root of our shadows and explore the four most common patterns of childhood wounds. Through integration and acceptance, we'll celebrate our wholeness and emerge stronger, wiser, and more compassionate than ever before. So, cozy up, my lovely sisters, and embark on this empowering journey of self-discovery and growth. Your big sister is here to guide you every step of the way!

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01:39 The shadow is where we keep our most hidden thoughts and desires
02:06 What is shadow work?
04:18 Top 3 places you will meet your shadow self
09:47 There’s nothing worse than trying to work on yourself but people kept blaming you
12:08 When we're dating people, we end up holding a mirror to ourselves
17:58 First step is to acknowledge the existence of the shadow
19:31 Second step is cultivate self awareness
22:34 How do we bring our shadows to the surface?
23:17 Third step is face your shadow and engage in an inner dialogue
28:00 Fourth step is to do a childhood analysis and meet your inner child
30:34 Four most common patterns of childhood wounds
33:24 Fifth step is integrating the shadow and embracing compassion and acceptance

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We got ROBBED in St Tropez Jul 18, 2023

Surviving a break-in is like being catapulted into an action movie you never auditioned for. In that moment, time seems to stand still as you navigate a maze of emotions - fear, shock, and a newfound appreciation for every breath you take. It's like a wake-up call that shakes you to your core, reminding you of the fragility of life and the resilience that resides within you. Despite the chaos and uncertainty, surviving that harrowing experience empowers you like nothing else.

Today, Violetta is going to share what transpired during her recent trip to St. Tropez. The energy is electric as she tries her best to get close to her newfound friends and then realizing that despite the initial connections, something feels off. From worse to worst, the house she had been staying with the group had been robbed! The realization hits like a tidal wave - the house had been robbed. But amidst the trauma and the missing personal belongings, there's a glimmer of gratitude. She's safe, unharmed, and reminded of the irreplaceable value of life.

St. Tropez may have thrown unexpected twists her way, but she's determined to let this experience shape her into a woman who cherishes every moment, holds onto what truly matters, and never takes her safety and well-being for granted.

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00:00 Intro
02:19 The seven of swords from the tarot card
04:49 Meeting new girlies in St. Tropez
05:35 And the gossip started
08:40 She dropped her glass on my foot
11:53 The girls I partied with last night think I hate them
15:24 No one has power over you, except yourself
17:50 The more I wanted to hang out with the girls, the more I was told to stay away from them
19:01 I walked into the house, the alarm didn’t go off
21:14 We found out there were two break-ins in the house
24:54 No one asked if I was okay and I thought I didn’t get robbed
29:29 I finally realized that I was robbed
33:23 I learned a lot about myself during the St. Tropez trip

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Let's Talk About It w/ Anna Kai Jul 13, 2023

Step into a world of dating wisdom, gorgeous! In this eye-opening and empowering episode, we're diving headfirst into the realm of relationships, self-discovery, and personal growth. Get ready for a rollercoaster ride of emotions as we navigate the complexities of love.

Today, Violetta sits down with dating expert Anna Kai. Anna's insights transcend the conventional narratives surrounding dating and offer a deeper understanding of the barriers to authentic connections. With a keen eye for patterns and a compassionate approach, she sheds light on the common obstacles that prevent individuals from forging fulfilling relationships.

From recognizing red flags and embracing our self-worth to understanding the importance of effective communication, this episode is a guidebook for the modern woman seeking fulfillment in her relationships. We'll delve into the power of intuition, the significance of relationship labels, and the transformative journey of healing from childhood trauma. Along the way, we'll share personal stories of heartbreak and growth, debunk myths surrounding singlehood, and empower you to embrace new beginnings.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:48 The most common question you always get asked?
04:05 We fight to make up not to break up
05:31 Don’t ignore the red flags
08:43 How do you stop being that girl that guys wanted to date but not commit to?
11:52 Do you now like relationship labels?
13:57 How would you know if someone is serious about you?
17:16 5 things that can save you from ending up with the wrong guy
18:26 All your friends and family hate him but you don’t see it
20:03 Why do you keep other ‘platonic’ relationships around?
22:32 Childhood trauma
26:13 “Okay, I’m done chasing these guys.”
28:44 You need to be dumped by the man you love to become the woman you deserved
35:49 Leaving the man you love for the man you deserve
43:03 Why do some women remain single?
47:30 Every breakup is actually just the beginning of another chapter of your life
52:41 He didn’t change, he just stopped pretending
55:47 Why you should not accept his apology
01:02:26 Every guy that dumped you, led you to the guy are with right now
01:04:22 Best/worst advice you've gotten

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Is Hookup Culture a Lie? w/ Farha Khalidi Jul 11, 2023

Hey, Besties! Today, we welcome back Farha Khalidi for part two of the conversation I had with her last week. Get ready for candid conversations, personal stories, and the sparks of intellectual curiosity as we delve into the realms of love, self-worth, and communication.

From debunking misconceptions surrounding OnlyFans to exploring the complexities of dating in the digital age, this episode dives into various intriguing chapters. It celebrates the power of communication, challenges harmful ideologies, and delves into controversial topics such as the Red Pill movement and cannibalism laws. With personal stories, insightful discussions, and a touch of controversy, this episode empowers listeners to embrace their authenticity, honor their boundaries, and foster understanding in a world filled with assumptions and judgment.

Get ready to be inspired, uplifted, and encouraged to unleash your inner warrior as we embark on a journey of self-discovery and empowerment.

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00:00 Intro
01:21 What is the most common assumption from people?
02:54 What made you decide to wait?
04:50 What does your virginity mean for you?
15:26 Losing my virginity during high school
20:16 TikTok and OF
22:07 Misconceptions about OF
26:34 Being a virgin and doing OF
29:03 Would you date a guy who has slept with lots of women?
31:08 Dating a guy chatting with a OF model
33:53 Guys going to strip clubs
35:19 How do you define p*rn addiction
37:52 Do you have a good relationship with your parents?
41:40 Would you lose your V-card for money?
42:45 Red Pill movement
48:23 Dealing with hate
52:24 Do men have lizard brains?
55:13 Did you know that cannibalism isn’t illegal in some states?
56:22 Sharing of passwords
01:03:08 They are not you, so communicate
01:08:43 Sharing of location

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Redefine Your Self-Worth w/ Farha Khalidi Jul 06, 2023

Welcome, Besties, to an episode filled with thought-provoking discussions and empowering insights that'll leave you feeling empowered and ready to conquer the world. Introducing Farha Khalidi, a TikToker, comedian, and OnlyFans model known for her political comedy videos where she combines her comedic talents with a political edge to create content that challenges commonly held conservative beliefs.

First up, Violetta and Farha talk about her guest appearance on popular manosphere podcasts such as the Whatever Podcast and Fresh&Fit where she fearlessly confronts the hosts' purportedly problematic and sexist viewpoints. The duo challenge the notion of basing our value solely on our bodies and encourage a holistic approach to self-acceptance and discuss the art of reading between the lines, trusting our intuition, and making informed decisions.

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00:00 Intro
00:16 Red Pill community
07:16 What made you join these podcasts?
12:19 They are nicer on the show, period!
14:05 How they think they can get women
18:11 My ex just wants me to stay at home
23:27 Get to know his mom
27:40 Empathizing with their struggles
29:32 The main purpose of the Whatever podcast
32:53 Would you have sex without emotional attachment?
38:53 Basing your value on your body
41:09 Is the third date the default?
45:03 Pay attention to the signs

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Are YOU Happy? w/ Adelaide Kane Jul 04, 2023

Hey there! We've got a lineup of juicy topics that'll leave you wanting more as we say goodbye to June. Adelaide Kane is back for a part 2 of the amazing conversation she and Violetta had last week.

First up, Violetta asks Adelaide to reveal the one thing most people don't know about her. The duo also talk about what makes them happy these days, their egg freezing journey and the body changes that no one talks about after the egg extraction, the pros and cons of birth control, and so much more! Get ready to glow, babe, because this episode is all about women!

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00:00 Intro
02:08 What’s the one thing most people don’t know about you?
04:28 One question you get asked a lot?
05:00 Are you happy?
07:37 What’s your happiest moment this year?
11:55 Egg freezing journey
18:54 Lack of information on the reproductive process
22:43 Getting off of birth control
24:23 Body sensitivity to medication

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I AM GOD w/ Adelaide Kane Jun 29, 2023

Get ready to close out the sizzling month of June, also known as Hookup Month, with a bang! We're bringing you a very special guest who's ready to spice up the conversation and take us on a journey of passion, connection, and unforgettable moments.

The gorgeous Adelaide Kane joins Violetta today for heartfelt conversations and empowering messages. The pair talk about how you can chase your dreams while still making time for yourself and those special people in your life, how love evolves, grows, and surprises us along the way, and how love is love but we're here to celebrate all the beautiful colors of the rainbow.

Also, both of them will explore how life's twists and turns shape us, guide us, and lead us to incredible moments of growth and happiness. Trust the journey, babe, and know that every step has a purpose.

So, grab your favorite cocktail, turn up the heat, and join us as we bid farewell to June in the most unforgettable way.

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00:00 Intro
01:35 Maintaining balance between work and personal life
08:20 Friendship time
16:42 When your friends are sharing, check in first
20:39 Have your definition of love changed?
26:55 What’s your love language?
39:27 Keeping your relationship private
45:09 Let’s talk about sexual preference
49:24 Coming out and how people reacted
59:48 No pressure when the platform isn’t monetized
01:03:48 Being more perfectly imperfect
01:11:05 Everything happens for a reason

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Benson Knows Best: WHEN TO GIVE UP Jun 27, 2023

Hey there, Besties! For our last episode of the hookup month, let's dive into the bittersweet journey of letting go. We know, it can be extra tough to let go when you're caught up in the heat of the moment. Trust your instincts and know that you deserve a love that ignites passion and brings you joy. It's all about finding the courage to embrace your worth, celebrate your fabulous self, and create space for the unexpected.

Violetta shares a story of loss and heartache, where we explore the raw vulnerability of sudden loss, to the emotional weight that comes when a family member falls ill. She also talks about the trap of comparison and helps you break free from that toxic cycle. Join us for a packed episode filled with helpful insights, self-love reminders, and positive vibes to leave you feeling unstoppable.

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00:00 Intro
02:52 Story of the day: He’s father suddenly passed
13:37 Don’t sit there and blame yourself
15:06 It takes a toll on you when a family member gets sick
19:44 How you’re feeling about a situation is valid
24:26 He just wasted your time
28:47 With time, you’ll start comparing yourself to other people

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DATING SURVIVAL GUIDE Jun 22, 2023

Your go to guide on how to survive the first 3 months of dating and turn it into a committed relationship!!

What are the pros and cons of those thrilling first stages of dating? It's common to experience feelings of uncertainty, anxiety, and even fear of rejection. The pressure to make a good impression and the ambiguity of early intentions can also add to the mix. Well, let's take a closer look.

Today, Violetta explores the mixed emotions that come with the exciting yet nerve-wracking journey of the beginning stages of dating. From the thrill of new connections to the underlying fears and insecurities, the common struggles of anxiety, doubt, seeking validation, withdrawal, and battling our own insecurities to the value of authentic connection, how it can lead to a fulfilling and lasting relationship, and challenging the perception of negative emotions and highlight their potential for growth and transformation.

Tune in to this enlightening episode as we navigate the ups and downs of dating, uncover the lessons that relationships teach us, and explore how vulnerability and communication can lead to authentic and thriving connections.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:44 The beginning stages of dating is fun but also scary
05:01 The biggest teachers are those who didn’t truly love us
06:29 There’s no perfect partner, but a person who truly wants to be with you will stay
08:53 We are the worst narrators of our own lives
11:29 Pause and ask yourself, “Why am I reacting like this?”
16:41 Instead of pushing your partner away, communicate
19:08 Our reactions are hurting our partner as well
24:59 Negative emotions can be helpful
26:39 A healthy relationships happens when you show up for each other

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Benson Knows Best: SOULMATES & VULNERABILITY Jun 20, 2023

Hey, Besties! Let's talk about the magic of vulnerability when you're diving into the world of dating. I know, it can be a little scary to let your guard down and show your true emotions, but trust me, it's worth it! Opening up and being vulnerable allows for a deeper connection and a chance for someone to see the real you. It's about sharing your fears, dreams, and even those adorable quirks that make you, well, you.

Today, in another Benson Knows Best episode, Violetta it's important to keep an eye out for those sneaky red flags that might signal potential trouble ahead as you venture back into the dating scene, how to give yourself time to heal and reflect if you find yourself in a relationship that didn't end horribly but just didn't work, and how by embracing vulnerability you create a safe space for both you and your potential partner to truly connect on a deeper level. Remember, the end of one chapter opens the door to new and exciting possibilities. You've got this, gorgeous!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:36 They’re probably not really that into you
04:45 Red flags in the beginning of dating
09:27 Why should we become vulnerable and not shut off?
17:06 How to move on from a relationship that did not end horribly?
23:11 What does it mean when he tells you that he’s rooting for you?

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Act Like a Prize - Get Him OBSESSED Jun 15, 2023

Hey there, Besties! Let's talk about something that's super important: knowing your worth and becoming the ultimate prize, not just some side chick. You deserve to be cherished, adored, and treated like the queen you are. So, girl, don't settle for being someone's afterthought or hidden secret.

Today, Violetta is here to tell you that instead of wasting time telling guys about how badly you were treated by your ex, it's time to focus on yourself and your own value. Love yourself fiercely, more than anything else in this world, embrace your flaws, celebrate your strengths, and never settle for anything less than you deserve. When you radiate that self-confidence, trust me, the right guys will flock to you like bees to honey. So, go out there, strut your stuff, and let everyone know that you're a woman who deserves nothing less than the best!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:16 Here’s why you should always be the leading lady in your own story
05:27 Don’t tell them how sh*tty your ex is
07:59 How do you view yourself as a prize?
11:30 The mistake you’re always doing
13:57 Change your perspective: You’re the price
15:42 Real interest does not peak, it only rises
17:54 Dating is a journey of self discovery and growth
19:04 Remember, love yourself fiercely

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Confession Corner: THE OTHER WOMAN Jun 13, 2023

Hey, Besties! Welcome to another Confession Corner stories. Today, Violetta shares another round of stories that tells how a woman’s childishness caused her boyfriend to leave her on the side of the road, another who’s blaming her bestfriend for her marriage falling apart, and lastly, a wife who’s guilty of cheating on her dying husband. Hear the stories fresh and be the judge!

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00:00 Intro
03:04 Story #1: He left me on the side of the road and I deserved it
07:52 Story #2: To my pick me *ss bestfriend who ruined my marriage
14:40 Story #3: My husband is going to pass away to get back at me

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The Science of Orgasms: A Guide to Unlocking Your Pleasure w/ Emily Morse Jun 08, 2023

Loving your own body plays a crucial role in relationships and intimacy, especially when it comes to sex. When we struggle to embrace our bodies, it can create self-consciousness and insecurity in the bedroom. These feelings can hinder our ability to fully let go and enjoy intimate moments with our partners. However, when we cultivate self-love and acceptance, it empowers us to be more confident and comfortable in our own skin. This newfound confidence not only enhances our own pleasure but also fosters a deeper connection and trust with our partners, leading to more fulfilling and intimate experiences together.

Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes a favorite returning guest, Emily Morse. Emily Morse is a well-known sex and relationship expert, host of the popular podcast "Sex with Emily," and author of the upcoming book "Smart Sex." With her expertise in psychology and human sexuality, she's all about helping people create stronger connections and more fulfilling experiences in their love lives. Emily's podcast is a trusted resource for honest advice, and now her book is set to provide even more wisdom and insights into the world of smart and satisfying sex.

Together with Emily, Violetta talks about loving and being comfortable with your body, communicating your desires to your partner, oral sex, the use of lubes, the importance of foreplay, and how to stay present and focused during sex.

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00:00 Intro
01:42 Growing and learning to love your own body
03:37 Why are you not turned on?
05:03 You’re responsible for your own pleasure
09:28 The biggest misconception when it comes to sex
12:07 Foreplay starts outside of the bedroom
13:32 Communication is a lubrication
14:45 Masturbation as a mindfulness practice
17:09 Tell your partner how you want to be loved
19:07 Prioritize your pleasure
21:50 Be comfortable with your own body
27:04 How to tell your partner to get down on you?
29:44 “Men are frying pans and women are slow cookers…”
30:54 Insecurity
32:47 Rebranding anal sex
40:23 G-Spots and squirting
46:34 Stay present and focused during sex
49:08 When your partner goes soft
50:51 Confidence in bed is sexy
52:08 Sex transformation story
55:03 Mutual Masturbation
56:15 Let’s talk about lubes
57:58 Five Pillars of Sex IQ
1:04:09 The best oral method
1:06:21 Effect of childhood traumas
1:10:19 Scheduling intimacy
1:14:10 Take control of your sexual health & pleasure

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Benson Knows Best: MEN DON’T MARRY Jun 06, 2023

Welcome, Besties! June is Hookup month so we’re going to be talking a lot about relationships, relationship advice, and so much more!

Today, Violetta is back with another episode of Benson Knows Best where she will answer some of your questions. First, she will talk about some of the personal questions she received over DM, and then she’s going to discuss why men come back after breakup, why they end up marrying someone else, and why some of the people that we meet are just lessons we need to learn along the way. They were never meant to stay.

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00:00 Intro
01:47 Reasons why I’m feeling happy today
04:57 Today, I’m going on a date…
09:57 What is your strange habit?
13:28 What skill are you terrible at?
15:35 What is the best advice you recently received?
17:02 What’s a great book you’re currently reading?
18:03 What’s on your mind currently?
23:12 The reason why they come back after leaving you
24:59 Sometimes, they’re just a lesson
25:57 Men marry when they are ready
27:30 Speak about your issues, don’t hold it in

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Energy Vampires w/ Daniela Melchior Jun 01, 2023

Why is it crucial to invest time and effort in individuals who recognize your true worth? The answer lies in the profound impact that such people can have on your personal growth and development. When you surround yourself with those who appreciate and understand your value, their presence serves as a catalyst for your own self-belief and confidence.

Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Portuguese actress and Suicide Squad star Daniela Melchior. The duo talks about the time when Daniela had to pretend to be Violetta’s ex-boyfriend begging for her attention, why it’s best to move on from someone who can’t appreciate you, and how real energy exchange is.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:15 Get to know Daniela Melchior
04:14 She pretended to be my ex-boyfriend
11:54 Every person you meet is an experience
14:54 People who let you down don’t deserve your time
16:20 Energy exchange is real
23:05 That one narcissistic friend
26:25 Why do we neglect our boundaries?
31:24 We’re both people pleasers

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Confession Corner - I LIKE MY COUSIN May 30, 2023

Welcome, Besties! We are back for another confession corner episode. And for the final episode of the mental health month, we will listen to another batch of reddit stories.

Today, Violetta sits down to listen to and share a piece of her mind on some stories which includes a father who’s feeling resentful towards his children after divorce, a woman in her prime striking a deal with his boyfriend after she found out he cheated, and this girl who’s madly attracted to her already married cousin. There’s more to these stories so stick around!

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00:00 Introduction
02:37 Halloween is my ‘it’ holiday
04:30 Story #1: I started to resent my children
10:19 Story #2: I developed a massive crush on my cousin
13:49 Story #3: Is she breaking up with me?
21:00 Story #4: My cheating ex
25:52 Story #5: Making money off of your cheating boyfie

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5 Mind Games Narcissists Play - The Psychology of a Narcissist May 25, 2023

Welcome to our closing episode for the mental health month! We are often drawn to narcissists due to a combination of complex psychological factors. Their charismatic charm, confidence, and seemingly larger-than-life presence can initially captivate us. Unfortunately, this attraction often leads to a painful cycle of manipulation, emotional abuse, and neglect, as narcissists prioritize their own needs above all else.

Today, Violetta starts the episode by defining what is a narcissist and the characteristics to look out for. She proceeds with enumerating the different mind games narcissistic people often do to trick us into believing they genuinely care and other character traits to help us spot if we are dealing with one. And finally, she ends it with the most common reasons why many find narcissistic people attractive.

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00:00 Intro
02:13 Let's talk about the narcissist in your life
05:53 Five mind games narcissists play
17:46 A story about a narcissist
21:12 Other things to look out for
24:28 Reasons why you keep attracting narcissistic people

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Benson Knows Best: GET UR POWER BACK May 23, 2023

Welcome to another Benson Knows Best! Dealing with a painful breakup can be an arduous and emotionally challenging experience. To navigate this difficult time, it is crucial to prioritize self-care and emotional healing.

Today, Violetta is back and this time she’s going to talk about how to deal with a guy who used to make you smile but is now losing interest in you. She will also share a story from a caller who is grieving a massive breakup and what you can do to heal from the heartbreak and get your power back.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:05 Update on the guys I kissed during the Kentucky Derby
03:33 How to respond to a guy who’s losing interest?
08:35 Men from my past have been showing up
12:05 Story #1: Grieving a full on breakup
18:46 Tips on how to heal from a breakup
20:36 Story #2: He was obsessed with me one day, he pulled away the next day
24:28 Change your perspective when talking about yourself

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Our Pain is Our Purpose w/ Mari Llewellyn May 18, 2023

TW: Self harm

Why is self-love crucial for a fulfilling life? One answer lies in the transformative power of healthy living. Embracing self-love means nourishing our bodies, minds, and souls with the care they deserve. When we prioritize our well-being, engaging in regular exercise, consuming nutritious foods, and practicing mindfulness, we cultivate a profound connection with ourselves.

Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Pursuit of Wellness host and Bloom Nutrition founder Mari Llewellyn. Mari’s journey to self betterment started when she finally decided to heal her body and mind through consuming a healthy diet and the continuous pursuit of wellness. She also shares her episodes of self harm, dealing with shame, and why showing up for yourself is the best form of self love.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:28 Leading an unhealthy life during college
05:56 Self harm
09:43 Creating a life full of positivity
11:40 Triggers and self harm episodes
13:25 Self value
14:54 Dealing with shame
18:20 Advice for your younger self
20:33 Living a mediocre life
27:49 Shedding weight and getting fit
29:49 Showing up for yourself
31:08 PCOS
36:38 Hormonal healing
39:43 Founding Bloom
42:58 Just keep trying

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Confession Corner - KENTUCKY DERBY May 16, 2023

Welcome back, Besties! Today, Violetta is back with another Confession Corner episode. But this time, she will be sharing her experience when she attended the Kentucky Derby 2023. From her flight, hotel accommodation, and getting some Influencer VIP experience to making out with two guys and not ending up having s*x with both of them because this girl decided to become a celibate. There’s more to this trip than just watching the race so tune in to find out more!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
03:11 How did I get into the Kentucky Derby?
10:48 I missed my ghost hunt trip
15:24 Day1 of the derby
21:18 Gala night
26:32 Hot and heavy make out
30:02 He made it a point to be around me the whole time
38:11 I went to the Jack Harlow party
39:19 The sexual attraction was intense
41:43 My flight back home got delayed
48:09 One thing I did not enjoy in the event

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Change UR Perspective: GHOSTED May 11, 2023

Welcome back!! This is part 2 of the Change Your Perspective week, where we talk about changing your perspective as part of mental health month! This past Tuesday, we discussed how we can view 'situationships' differently. SO TODAY, we will be discussing GHOSTING.

Today, Violetta gives us a different perspective on the question commonly asked, “WHY DID HE GHOST ME?” Aside from breaking down the reasons why ghosting happens in a lot of relationships, Violetta also shares tips to turn the tables around and make him chase after you, instead of you chasing after him.

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00:00 Intro
02:16 Why did he ghost me?
03:54 There’s a few reason why someone ghosts you
06:42 People take a gamble when they leave you
10:03 Make up possible scenarios in your head
14:48 Three simple ways to get over a heartache
20:22 It’s not actually about the person who left
22:31 Listen to that music that hits different

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Change Your Perspective: SITUATIONSHIPS May 09, 2023

Welcome to a brand new Benson Knows Best episode!! This week is all about changing your perspective as part of the second week of mental health month! We're starting the week with discussing situationships and ending the week with ghosting.

Today, Violetta talks about letting go and saying goodbye to the person you think was for you but was never the right person for you to love. We will hear the story of a 2-year relationship and how the woman struggled to let go of a man who loved himself more than her. Listen in to find out the truth about painful goodbyes and why doing it now is better than later.

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00:00 Intro
02:27 I was seeing a man for 2 years but he never committed
11:58 My mom got cheated by her first husband
15:08 Why doesn’t he want me?
17:46 Goodbyes can feel less painful when…

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How To Master Your Emotions w/ Jay Shetty May 04, 2023

We often project our limits onto other people because it can be difficult to recognize and confront our own limitations. By projecting our limitations onto others, we may feel a temporary sense of relief or justification for our own shortcomings. However, this type of behavior can be harmful both to ourselves and those around us, as it can limit our personal growth and prevent us from seeing the full potential in others.

Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes the one and only Jay Shetty. Jay Shetty is a New York Times best-selling author, podcaster, former monk, and motivational speaker. He spent several years as a monk in India, where he learned about mindfulness, meditation, and spirituality. Jay's work focuses on personal development, mindfulness, and self-improvement. He also hosts a popular podcast called "On Purpose with Jay Shetty," where he interviews various guests on topics related to personal growth and spirituality.

Together with Jay, Violetta opens the door to being more in-tune with yourself as she and Jay exchange ideas on the limitations we set on ourselves and for others, understanding the different forms of love, why our fears can be defined as unformed boundaries, and how to connect with people with vulnerability and openness.

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00:00 Intro
02:15 The journey that took 10 years and the transition had different phases
05:08 When we start putting timeline and deadline on where we’re at
06:13 What’s the worst advice you’ve ever received?
07:52 “We project our limits onto other people.”
10:46 The three cancers of the mind
12:45 The way we change our feelings
16:23 The best advice you’ve ever gotten
21:36 When you're starting out, make a lot of quick decisions and move fast
28:19 The two lies you can tell yourself
33:35 What happens when you carry around unforgiveness
36:13 We shouldn’t devalue other forms of love
38:46 Is unconditional love realistic?
41:26 Develop our ability to love as a skill
46:16 Fear is just an unformed boundary
50:05 Being alone is a great time to get to know yourself
53:08 Win or lose together
58:52 It’s about both of you wanting for it to work
01:03:41 The 8 Rules of Love
01:06:19 Perfection does not exist
01:08:35 Connect with the people who want to connect with you

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Confession Corner - REDDIT INCEST May 02, 2023

What's the craziest Reddit story you've heard? There are so many wild tales on the platform, from heartwarming and uplifting to downright bizarre and unsettling. Whatever your taste is, there's no shortage of jaw-dropping stories to be found.

Today, Violetta’s childhood bestie, Kylie, is back! And this time for another Confession Corner - Reddit stories. The girls sit down and react to stories about the accidental discovery of an 11-year old affair of a mom with her husband’s friend, incest in different forms and perspective, and discovering that the doctor whom you confided in your most embarrassing s*xual acts with a girl turned out to be that same girl’s father.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:06 Story #1: My mom’s 11-year affair with dad’s friend
06:51 Story #2: My older brother and I had been sleeping together
09:33 Story #3: My boyfriend thinks all women are men’s property
13:31 LifeHack #1: How to reduce the number of homeless people in your area?
14:15 LifeHack #2: How do you avoid an annoying call?
15:33 LifeHack #3: Save business cards of people you don’t like
15:44 LifeHack #4: Buy the cheapest ticket ticket available
16:32 LifeHack #5: How to block your spouse from getting a divorce attorney?
17:34 LifeHack #6: How do you make the perfect lie?
18:10 Story #4: I cheated on my wife and she has postpartum depression
25:00 Story #5: What’s the most shocking thing you experienced upon meeting your bf/gf’s parents?
27:08 Story #6: My friend Steve’s b*nging his girlfriend and her family

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How I Stayed At A 50M Dollar House Apr 25, 2023

Staying at a billionaire's house? That's a dream come true! But girl, don't forget to show your finesse and charm while you're there.

Today, Violetta shares a few updates about her life. She starts off with the post-surgery experience after she had her eggs extracted successfully, how it affected her mentally, and what no one tells you about post egg freezing. Then, she talks about her recent trip to Mexico where she stayed at James Packer’s $50M house for a weekend - the place, the view, the food, the fun - bombastic side-eye!

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00:00 Intro
02:19 I recently finished freezing my eggs
08:52 My friend called and said, “Do you wanna go to Mexico with me?”
18:24 I don’t normally go on vacation
20:37 I got to meet the billionaire
23:32 Would you rent it for $35,000 - $40, 000 a night?
28:53 How do you finesse staying at a billionaire’s house?
31:57 Other features of the house

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That Time I Did M*th with My Bestie Apr 20, 2023

There's something special about growing up alongside someone who knows you so well and has seen you through all of life's ups and downs. Childhood best friends are the ones who stick with you through thick and thin, who know your secrets and your dreams, and who always have your back.

Today, Violetta is joined by her childhood best friend, Kylie Gerber. The duo are all about good laughs and toothy grins as they reminisce childhood experiences, from dating the most toxic guys and crying over horrible breakups to crazy high school drama and throwing a massive party that went out of hand.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:59 How did we meet and become friends?
11:55 What most people don’t know about me?
14:31 What's your favorite high school memory experience?
20:54 We always sneak out and go to Denny’s
23:22 My favorite memory of Kylie
29:03 Kylie’s also my first kiss
30:04 Funny or embarrassing moment from childhood
34:17 My favorite memory of Kylie, which I wasn't even there
35:51 Here is something my best friend taught me
42:48 When we started dating our second boyfriends
46:16 “Give her space.”
48:21 Have you ever had an embarrassing moment you still cringe about?
49:07 Another funny story with Kylie
51:50 The secret to a lasting relationship
59:53 Our second biggest fight

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Confession Corner: FAMILY DRAMA Apr 18, 2023

Life is like a game of Jenga, you never know which block is going to make the whole thing come crashing down. One minute you're on top of the world, and the next you're wondering how you ended up in a pile of rubble. But that's the beauty of life, isn't it? The unpredictability keeps things interesting and makes every day a new adventure, or in some instances, a misadventure.

Today, Violetta listens to brand new stories from Reddit. One talks about falling in love with his student ten years younger than him while the other is about a 70 year old grandpa who gets tangled in what’s probably the most unrealistic opportunity when he meets with a 20-year old babysitter one evening. The stories just keep getting wild so stick around and see how intense these stories can be.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:32 Story #1: The accidental death of Ronald Opus
06:52 Story #2: She was 13 and I was 23
14:45 Story #3: The jealous snaky best friend
20:56 Story #4: My 70 year old grandpa’s game

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The Downfall of Casual Sex w/ Lainey Molnar Apr 13, 2023

Have you ever found yourself trapped in a cycle of self-hate, unable to escape the negative thoughts and feelings that consume you? It's a painful and difficult place to be, but it's not a permanent one. With time, patience, and effort, you can break free from the grip of self-hate and learn to love yourself fully and completely.

Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Lainey Molnar - a digital artist with thousands of followers online who draws women empowerment comics to liberate women from the immense societal pressure and to help all of us heal and grow through (self-)love, kindness, and acceptance.

Violetta and Lainey share their most vulnerable experiences starting from growing through a long phase of self-hate that became debilitating, self-doubt that made you feel less and ugly and unworthy of love, to the double standards of hookup culture and breaking free from an abusive relationship.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:59 “I live all over the world…”
05:50 How do you say it in Hungarian?
06:49 When did you start illustrating women's issues?
09:33 Advocating for women’s rights
13:49 How can you tell you’re existing in your feminine energy?
19:00 Don’t hate yourself too much
22:29 Your inadequacy demon
28:14 I used to be an extremely unhappy, self-hating person
33:57 We can’t just deal with the happy things
37:16 Three downsides of hookup culture
44:04 Deciding to be a celibate
50:50 Keeping yourself safe thru casual sex
55:03 Mentally, sexually, and physically abusive partner
58:00 Getting out of an abusive relationship
01:02:49 Being able to recognize the red flags

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MY EGG FREEZING JOURNEY Apr 11, 2023

Egg freezing is an increasingly popular option for women who want to preserve their fertility and have children later in life. By freezing their eggs, women can extend their reproductive lifespan and increase their chances of having a healthy pregnancy in the future.

Today, Violetta shares her incredible egg freezing journey - from doing an extensive research about the pros and cons of the process and finding the right doctor to day one of prepping her body before egg collection and the changes she’s been through. She also answers the most common questions from women who are interested in egg freezing.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:52 My egg freezing process
06:29 When you aren’t ready to have kids yet
10:09 I’m still taking Adderall
10:27 The cost
11:21 Why freeze your eggs?
12:38 Doctor visit
14:35 The shots
16:51 Things you can’t do
19:35 Emotional mood
20:37 The worst injection
24:05 Vitamins
24:30 Other side effects
24:42 Why do we not moan when doing an ultrasound?

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Manifest Your Soulmate - Love Letter Method Apr 06, 2023

Manifesting the love you deserve starts with knowing your worth and setting clear intentions. Take the time to reflect on what you truly want in a relationship and focus on the positive aspects you want to attract.

Today, Violetta shares how she manifested the ideal guy she wanted to date through the love letter method. This method of manifesting what you want, although silly-sounding at first, is worth a shot. Who knows, the partner you’ve been looking for might be that guy you met at yesterday’s dinner party.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:02 Manifesting - The Love Letter Method
04:49 How can you look for a partner when you hate men?
10:07 “The love letter I wrote a few months back…”
14:21 You deserve love
18:43 Setting an intention and getting obsessed over someone

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Confession Corner: REDDIT CHEATERS Apr 04, 2023

This month, we jumped into Reddit and picked out the most WTF confessions.

While the act of cheating can take many different forms, the underlying motivations and consequences of cheating remain consistent across all situations. One of the primary reasons why people cheat is a lack of satisfaction or fulfillment in their current situation.

Violetta is back and ready as she sits down to listen to some of the most unbelievable and somehow outrageous relationship confessions on the internet. From men complaining about their wife’s weight just right after she had given birth to cheating men who seem to have never learned their lessons, these confessions will leave you sighing in disbelief!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
02:04 Confession #1: She loves me
05:02 Confession #2: Her body is not the same as before
10:41 Confession #3: She gained a lot of weight
18:56 Confession #4: She ruined the movie experience

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EGG FREEZING - What You Need to Know w/ Dr. Shanin Ghadir Mar 30, 2023

Have you ever wondered what it's like to struggle with infertility? Infertility affects millions of people around the world and can be caused by a variety of factors, including age, genetics, medical conditions, and lifestyle choices. Coping with infertility can be a lonely and isolating experience, but it's important for those struggling to know that they're not alone.

Today on Almost Adulting, Violetta welcomes Dr. Shahin Ghadir. As a founding partner of Southern California Reproductive Center, Dr. Ghadiris board-certified in both Obstetrics and Gynecology and Reproductive Endocrinology and Infertility. He is currently an assistant clinical professor in the department of Obstetrics and Gynecology at the David Geffen School of Medicine at UCLA and at the Keck School of Medicine at USC.

Dr. Ghadir debunks the most common myths about egg freezing, the truth about infertility in women and men and the causes behind it, and what it takes for an IVF pregnancy to succeed.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:45 Fertility affects both men and women
02:28 The most common infertility causes
04:09 Biggest myths in the use of birth control
05:15 Infertility in men
07:20 Fertility is different for every woman
08:18 Choosing to delay having children
10:49 Myth #1: It’s only for women who wants to delay motherhood
17:47 Myth #2: You need to freeze a lot of eggs
19:23 Myth #3: Frozen eggs last forever
20:25 The success rate of egg freezing
27:26 The average cost of the entire process
28:42 The biggest side effects
31:14 Success stories
33:47 Which couples are a good candidate for IVF?
33:24 What is IVF?
38:39 Who undergoes IVF?
39:17 Is IVF unethical?
40:19 Emotional impact of IVF on couples
43:27 Helping women ovulate

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I'm Struggling Mar 28, 2023

How can one navigate the difficult and emotional process of dealing with grief and family problems? Coping with grief, conflicts with family members, or other familial issues can be emotionally draining and can take a toll on an individual's mental health.

Today, Violetta sits down to share a very personal situation that she and her family are currently going through. No light-hearted moments, no well-thought advice. Just raw and vulnerable moments with her during this difficult and challenging time.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:35 Something’s wrong with my mom…
09:12 Don’t hold back from sharing when you’re struggling
11:27 We were all doing our best not to cry…
16:40 We all have bad days and you’re not alone
20:10 The hardest thing we do when we’re grieving
21:49 You’ll never know when is your last time with someone

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She's a 10 BUT... w/ Trevor Wallace Mar 23, 2023

Have you ever wondered if height really matters? According to one wise mom, what men lack in height, they make up for in other ways. But is it enough to make a difference?

Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome internet personality, comedian, and podcast host Trevor Wallace! Violetta and Trevor start their conversation with a random but hilariously funny game, the rapid fire questions. Then, the duo talk about situational dating scenarios where they pitch in their thoughts and opinions with a little bit of p*rn talk on the side, sexual preferences, and the do’s and don’ts of casual and long-term dating.

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00:00 Intro
02:50 I’m like a Kardashan but I wasn’t in the front line
04:36 What do people don’t know most about you?
06:30 Let’s do Rapid Fire Questions
14:05 Why can’t we tickle ourselves?
15:51 Where is the cl*toris?
18:37 What should girls do when you’re licking her down there?
19:40 Do you get things faster with *9?
21:18 You're on a deserted island, what will you bring?
23:24 When you go back in time…
23:59 Is it safer to drink your urine or saliva?
25:35 What comes first: cereal or milk?
28:14 She’s a 10 but…
52:26 Suspicion - the biggest turn offs for guys
53:05 Is physical attraction everything?
54:38 What’s your biggest icks?
56:25 What is the most obvious sign that he likes you?
01:01:46 Biggest red flags to look out for
01:06:57 Porn is like a fantasy land
01:09:43 What keeps you up at night?
01:10:37 Have you learned anything now that you’re thirty?

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Confession Corner: "LOVE" KINKS Mar 21, 2023

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!

Have you ever had a sexual experience that left you in stitches? Well, you're not alone! We're all about sharing the most hilarious and unforgettable tales of sexual misadventures.

Today, Violetta is joined by her friend Steeven Zuleta for another round of funny sex stories. From a breakup s*x that turned out to be a weird kink your partner never told you about to accidentally farting on your partner’s face while he’s eating you up! We got all sorts of fan stories you won’t get enough of. So tune in and laugh with us!

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00:00 Introduction
04:40 Story #1: We decided to have breakup s*x
25:04 Story #2: He was eating me and I farted!
30:56 Story #3: I didn’t wipe all the way and we we’re having a doggy

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Is Marriage Worth It? w/ Hannah Berner Mar 16, 2023

Whether you're an introvert who needs alone time or a social butterfly who thrives on interactions, there's no one-size-fits-all approach to dating.

Today on Almost Adulting,we welcome back internet personality, comedienne, and podcast host Hannah Berner! Violetta and Hannah explain why guys with addiction problems are the best partners because they love deeply and intensely but can be unhealthy and unsustainable in the long run and how emotional stress and pain will eventually affect your body and your overall well-being. The duo encourages listeners to figure out their own ways of dating and relationships that work for them.

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00:00 Intro
01:55 Would you give Dan Bazarian a bj?
04:01 Calm dudes have big d*ck energy
05:58 What happened to your arm?
10:19 When you’re a good people pleaser
16:32 No one cares for your internal struggles
19:00 Emotional pain leads to physical pain
21:50 What else people don’t know about you?
22:35 Happiness is also a passing emotion
25:14 Surprising things when you date a sober guy
27:06 What’s married life like?
31:00 When you don’t realize you’ve been ghosted
34:40 The dumbest thing you can laugh at now
41:01 Tips to dating
43:24 Guys who love licking you down there

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Benson Knows Best: HE GHOSTED YOU, Now What? Mar 14, 2023

Hey Besties! Welcome back to another Benson Knows Best Q&A session. What would you do if you were ghosted by the person you thought was into you?

Today, Violetta discusses how clinging to one another is an important part of intimacy, but only if it's a two-way street, the importance of self-awareness in relationships and how our reactions can impact their outcome, and why you need to raise your standards and not settle for being valued solely for your looks.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
02:03 Exciting updates!
03:36 This is what happened in my recent trip
14:34 Is it wrong to be clingy?
18:39 We don’t have a label
22:41 He ghosted you and then he comes back

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Overcome Shame, Having Kinkier S*x w/ Todd Baratz Mar 09, 2023

Why is talking about sex in the early stages of dating such a challenge? Could it be the fear of rejection or judgment? Or maybe it's those pesky societal norms telling us to keep things hush-hush.

Today on Almost Adulting, sex and relationships therapist Todd Baratz is back! Violetta and Todd explores the ways to break down societal norms and overcome the shame associated with sex, practical tips for having open and comfortable conversations about sex with potential partners, how pornography and media influences our views about sex, and offers insights on navigating this sensitive topic with your partner. If you're ready to take your sexual relationships to the next level, don't miss out on the latest insights and expert advice!

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00:00 Intro
01:55 I went to this event last night…
04:18 Do not be too bothered by the society’s standards
06:05 How do you get past s*xual shame?
07:35 Why is it difficult to have initial conversations about s*x?
13:04 Should you disclose your s*xual history to your current partner?
15:44 Have conversations about your expectations right at the beginning
23:25 Sexual chemistry versus attraction
26:07 How do you bring back attraction?
33:57 How movies and p*rn have influenced our views about s*x
37:16 Fact: Not everyone can org*sm
42:24 Do you expect your partner to not watch p*rn?
46:45 When is watching p*rn considered detrimental?
52:32 When should you discuss kinks?
54:17 How soon should you open up about having a child?
57:57 How necessary is your kink for you?
01:00:16 Expressing discomfort about kinks isn’t offensive
01:02:56 Skills is a skill you constantly practice
01:07:04 The relationship you have with yourself in s*xual relationships

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Confession Corner: BAD S*X ft. Francesca Farago Mar 07, 2023

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!

This week, we are going to feature bad, worse, and funny s*x stories. And since we couldn’t get enough of the revelations and teas spilled last Thursday, Francesca Farago is joining us again today!

Join Violet and Francesca as they react to fan stories about getting infection over a forgotten tampon, from getting embarrassed over v*ginal farts to getting horrified over your partner accidentally sh*tting on the bed, and finding out that pushy guy you dated was actually a gay p*rn star. Listen in to find out how these stories played out!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:08 Story #1: Queefing and sh*tting on the bed
10:34 Story #2: It’s the size of a pinky
18:56 Story #3: Turns out he was a gay p*rn star
23:48 Story #4: I thought I lost my nuva ring
27:26 Story #5: The forgotten tampon
39:09 He booked another girl in the next room

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I’m NOT the Villain w/ Francesca Farago Mar 02, 2023

Hey Besties! We’re finally done with the love month where we sat down with known personalities and influencers in the dating and relationship realm as they shared tips, guides, and signs to look out for with your next partner.

Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome model, content creator, businesswoman, and reality TV show Francesca Farago. Violetta and Francesca bares all by talking about Francesca’s truth and how she was portrayed as the ‘villain’, the conflicting relationships that stirred negative reactions from the viewers, and what really happened behind-the-scenes of the hit TV show Too Hot to Handle. More tea is about to spill to stay tuned to find out more!

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00:00 Intro
01:32 Are reality shows heavily edited?
02:27 On and off relationship
05:20 Mental health issues in reality shows
06:45 What are commonly asked questions?
09:17 Why was I lied to?
11:17 The secret big player on the show
16:24 Relationship with Dom
27:41 What’s one thing you wish you didn’t do on the show?
30:12 “I thought we were on better terms…”
32:25 I used to drink heavily
35:21 The Kissing Challenge
36:56 Too much honesty can be negative sometimes
40:31 What's up with Damian?
42:28 Watching you and your ex
45:12 It wasn’t just for me
51:47 Taking care of your mental health
54:37 Are you friends now?
59:46 “I’m actually really nice.”
01:01:03 What are you currently working on?

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Benson Knows Best: HOLLYWOOD SECRETS Feb 28, 2023

Welcome to another episode of Benson Knows Best!

This week, due to public demand, we’re going to be sharing a few top Hollywood secrets you’d never find out through the media. The keyword being top secret, no name dropping anything. Just facts that are common in the industry but not open to the public.

Today, Violetta sits down to answer questions you guys sent in. She’ll start with 8 Hollywood secrets that are so shocking you’ll start to wonder how they were able to keep them hidden from the radar of the public eye. She answers a few more questions about keeping your emotions in check and more tips on how to harmlessly flirt with a guy and get him getting interested in you. Interested to know more Hollywood secrets? Tune in and be the first to know!

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00:00 Introduction
05:17 Question #1: 8 best kept secrets in Hollywood
21:58 Unknown facts about me
29:31 Question #2: How do I not become a bitter person?
36:47 Question #3: How can you make a guy chase you?

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Diet Culture Exposed w/ Sarah Landry Feb 23, 2023

Hey Besties! Love month is almost over. And as we come close to the end of February, let’s wrap it up with self love!

Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome body confidence advocate, speaker, writer, and host of The Papaya Podcast, Sarah Landry. Violetta and Sarah focus on self-love as an essential aspect of our emotional, mental, and physical well-being. They share their thoughts on how we can develop a positive self-image, improve our relationships with others, and reduce stress and anxiety by cultivating self-love. Rebuilding self-confidence can be challenging but taking small steps such as practicing self-compassion, setting realistic goals, and celebrating small accomplishments can help us regain a sense of empowerment and self-assurance. Listen in because it’s never too late to start loving yourself more!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:07 What was your original last name?
03:37 Self love before anything else
06:57 Physical manifestation of anxiety
11:15 We have to listen to others as well
13:46 Losing 100lbs
19:09 A woman’s body changes throughout her life
27:31 Body insecurities
31:51 Love is an action
34:03 Your body is majestic
39:40 S*xless pregnancy
44:54 There wasn’t a lot of thinking about ‘me’
46:07 You can’t build the same house again
49:20 Your partner as your best friend
56:04 It’s okay to ask for help
01:00:02 Divorce is always on the table
01:02:17 The biggest lessons learned
01:05:19 Childhood dream
01:11:00 Learn to love yourself while loving someone else

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Confession Corner: HORRIBLE DATES 3 Feb 21, 2023

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER - PART 3

Hey Besties! this month's confession corner is all about your WORST first dates! We couldn’t get enough of last week’s drunken first date stories about hilarious, shocking, or just the worst ever you’re starting to have second thoughts about dating.

Today, Violetta and her childhood friend Bree are back with another batch of horrible date stories. One includes giving the guy multiple chances despite the barrage of red flags in the hopes that it will somehow ‘get better’ in the end. The other ended up getting ditched for another girl in the bar. Listen up as the girls pitch in their own stories of worst first dates and some pieces of advice on how not to end up with a bad date!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Intro
01:24 Hoping for a better date until the end
06:37 One time I had a bad date…
11:28 We dated for 48 hours
14:56 He was a virgin
24:54 What it means when they say, “You’re so high maintenance?”
29:33 Sexual dancing with another girl
33:57 Do FaceTime before you date
44:54 Average boyfriend penis is for marriage
50:54 Stay away from s*x workers online

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Grow In Love w/ Nick Viall Feb 16, 2023

Hey Besties! Happy Heart’s Day! It’s Valentine’s week so it’s only natural that we talk about being in love and experiencing these strong feelings with the right partner.

Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome back celebrity heartthrob, best-selling author, esteemed host of The Viall Files podcast, and adored member of Bachelor Nation, Nick Viall. A year ago or so, Violet and Nick talked about dating advice from a man's perspective. This time, their conversation revolves around growing in love instead of staying in love, the value of being consistent throughout the relationship which people don’t talk about a lot, how trust and open communication, despite sounding cliché, is the ultimate key to a lasting love! All these and of course making each other a priority works too! So listen in to find out more simple yet realistic love advice!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
02:09 The love story
05:43 Try to make it work
07:41 Those times we felt the most
09:20 What did she DM?
11:35 Feeling unsure
14:37 Building emotional connection
19:11 Feelings change
22:30 Making each other a priority
26:17 Growing in love
28:23 Trust and communication
35:24 Do you want a life partner?
38:11 Situationship
40:19 Meet and greet with family & friends
42:15 Grocery store rule
44:31 The biggest red flag
47:44 I like you, BUT…
52:25 Choose your partner everyday
56:17 Being cheated on
01:00:55 Be an old school lover

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Confession Corner: HORRIBLE DATES 2 Feb 14, 2023

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER - PART 2

Hey Besties! this month's confession corner is all about your WORST first dates where you call in with YOUR hilarious stories -

Today, Violetta and her childhood friend Bree sit down to listen to some of your horrible date stories. Specifically the ones that include a drunk and/or drugged story that ended up in a failed date and for some, an actual relationship. Listen as these two besties from high school give their best drunk perspectives while also catching up on their new techniques of ways that they masturbate.

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What to Listen For:

0:00 Intro
2:05 Bree got a Lexus in high school
7:20 Bree loves sex
11:20 Take a shot of 1942
11:49 Caller #1
17:22 Caller #2
20:08 Samantha from Sex and the City
23:52 First time I ever masturbated
25:23 Caller #3
26:40 Trip to Mexico
30:10 Caller #4
38:00 How to Virgos show love
42:00 Ending

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Secure The Ring w/ Patti Stanger Feb 09, 2023

Hey Besties! In the second week of the LOVE month, we will focus on dating - when to know when you’ve found the right man for you.

Today on Almost Adulting, Violet is once again joined by Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger. There is no stopping the two from going deep into the dating game. They discuss how success can affect the relationship depending on who’s more successful, turning casual dates into serious relationships (that can potentially lead to engagement, and eventually marriage), how a man’s attitude is dependent on whether he’s found the ‘right’ girl for him, the ups and downs that comes with dating, and so much more!

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00:00 Introduction
04:03 Securing the ring
08:44 You own a home and you’re successful
13:57 Cheating
15:30 Casual to serious dating
24:27 Don’t live together if you’re not engaged
28:40 When he decides to marry you
31:44 The switch
34:54 Attachment style and love language
40:29 The man is consistent, the boy is not
45:36 They will be romantic for the right girl
49:40 Men bond through emotions and consistency
55:16 Not everyday is perfect
59:01 Sex magic
01:06:02 When you can’t see a future with someone
01:08:50 A pair and a spare
01:15:19 The motherly partner
01:19:06 When you know you’re the deal
01:21:07 A restart or a negotiation?
01:25:59 Tips to better dating life

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Confession Corner: HORRIBLE DATES Feb 07, 2023

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!

This week we’re diving into our worst first dates ever because well…everyone has one.

Join Violet as she listens and reacts to all of your most cringeworthy, hilarious, and unbelievable tales of dating disasters. From spending the night in the hospital to getting pegged with a pool ball, we've got it all. So grab a glass of wine, sit back, and be glad it wasn’t you who had to endure any of these disasters.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:29 He shattered glass and injured himself opening a window
06:43 I got a DUI
14:41 No offense to you, women are disgusting
21:01 He asked me to pay for dinner
25:10 Because I said no to sex, he messed up my birthday
31:12 The secret to his curly hair

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Why We Love Unavailable People w/ Mark Groves Feb 02, 2023

Hey Besties! Welcome to the month of LOVE! This month we will be diving into everything relationships so you know what that means…the good, the bad, and the unavoidable ugly

To kick off love month on Almost Adulting Violet is joined by human connection specialist and friend of the show, Mark Groves! Mark is the founder of Create The Love movement and is a self-described ‘emotional translator’. Together the two focus on the painful topic of why so many of us are not only consistently drawn to unavailable people, but spend so much time being caretakers and trying to ‘fix’ them. Violet and Mark then deep dive into the baggage many of us carry and explain how so many of us unknowingly exist in an emotionally dysregulated response state - which may explain an issue or two in your relationship. Besties, we’re kicking off love month strong with things you NEED to be aware of, but it’ll feel good in the end. Can’t have the good without weeding out the bad!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:04 Why are people emotionally unavailable?
04:03 Signs that tell you’re emotionally unavailable
09:58 Different people bring our different attachment styles
15:34 Dating is not black and white anymore
20:02 You have to learn discernment
22:53 Dating is a sorting process
26:20 Taking the caretaker role
30:04 Dysregulated response state
36:11 A regulated and secure person
38:19 You need to express your thoughts
42:00 You are the five people closest to you
43:00 Should you stay or leave a relationship?
46:02 Be the creator of your life
50:02 Venting out or seeking advice?

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Benson Knows Best: MIXED SIGNALS Jan 31, 2023

Hey Besties! It’s the last Tuesday of the month, so you know what that means! To close this month Violet gives us a special Benson Knows Best episode, featuring a Q&A session where she reads messages from you all and gives the life changing advice that we all need.

This week Violet channels her inner MUA influencer and finally lets everyone in on her skincare and hair routine. Next, Violet dives into the many questions you all sent in and does NOT hold back. From relationship struggles, to what he REALLY means when he sends you mixed signals, and even a special challenge Violet reveals at the end of the episode that she will be doing with you. That’s what Besties are for right? Don’t forget to send in your questions so you can be featured on the next Benson Knows Best and get some much needed advice from your big sis, Violet!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:37 What’s your skincare / makeup routine?
05:21 The mix signal is confusing
09:46 I had no idea he’s a divorcé
12:49 She’s 30 and she doesn’t have a job
20:01 Setting an intention or wanting something so bad
23:36 How do I date when I detest men?

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Confession Corner: SUGAR BABIES 2 Jan 24, 2023

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!

This week is a continuation of CC: SUGAR BABIES, where Violet will be sitting and reacting to ALL of your risque (and risky) sugar baby endeavors. Sit back and relax because things are about to get a little crazy besties.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
02:18 What if you are this guy’s karma?
08:00 “Sir, I’m just trying to get paid!”
09:13 “I knew his daughter!”
15:07 Don’t recommend that your sugar daddy should go to therapy
21:16 “He liked the way my ass moved.”
23:23 “I’m not sleeping with them, period.”

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Get Him OBSESSED - Water Signs Jan 17, 2023

Today, due to popular demand, Violet starts the episode with the worst to easiest zodiac sign to date followed by everything you need to know on how to attract an AIR SIGN MAN and get him hooked!!

She dives into how to attract a PISCES, CANCER, & SCORPIO (in that order) men. Signs this man likes you, what he’s looks for in a lady, what he dislikes, and the most n least compatible matches with him.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:34 What it’s like to date a Pisces/Cancer/Scorpio man
04:09 Worst to easiest zodiac sign to date
12:03 The Water Signs
13:34 The Pisces Man - the most anxious zodiac
24:41 The Cancer Man - the most emotional zodiac
33:04 The Scorpio Man - the deepest and most secretive zodiac

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Confession Corner: SUGAR BABIES Jan 10, 2023

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER!!! Hey Besties, Happy New Year! As promised, we are bringing back an exciting episode series this year. And so, the long wait is over. It’s finally here!

Today, Violetta and Kiana sit down to listen to several fan stories. To spice things up a bit, we will be hearing from sugar babies and their experiences with their sugar daddy (or daddies, for those lucky enough to have more than one). From avoiding having s*xual contact and not getting reimbursed for a Bahamas trip to a 75-year old cocaine-user grandpa and getting mind-blown through skull fucking, these stories just keeps coming!

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00:00 Introduction
01:02 Story #1: “I’m just trying it out.”
06:34 Story #2: “Oh, skull fucking?”
12:35 Story #3: “I didn’t get reimbursed for the trip.”
20:26 Story #4: “My 75-year old sugar daddy.”
24:04 Story #5: “I currently have 2 sugar daddies.”

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Being Delusional WORKS Jan 05, 2023

Happy New Year Besties! Welcome to another year of Almost Adulting!

To kick off 2023 we’re starting the month with FOUR consecutive Benson Bootcamps. These boot camps are specifically designed so you start the year off strong with help from none other than your big sister, Violet! Now are you ready for your best year yet?

In today's inaugural Benson Bootcamp, we’re setting the tone for this year! How are we doing that? By being DELUSIONAL. And no, not the kind of delusional that your ex-best friend was, but the kind that is going to change your life for the better. Today Violet deep dives into the mindset that she has sworn by from a young age. A mindset that she credits for all the success she’s obtained thus far. By implementing teachings such as the law of assumption, frequency illusions, and being straight up delusional about the life you see for yourself, there is no one who can knock you off your pivot or deter you from the life you’re creating for yourself. This is YOUR year Bestie, now go take it!

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03:24 Write down what you want
05:02 When should you be delusional?
10:03 The law of assumption
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16:13 “I wanted to be rich…”
22:23 Think of that one person who’s living their best life
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26:18 Do this exercise with a friend
27:51 Everything comes in three

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Get Him OBSESSED - Air Signs Jan 03, 2023

WELCOME TO THE FIRST TUESDAY EPISODE OF 2023!!

Today due to popular demand, Violetta starts the episode with some breakup advice and the best revenge to take! Followed by everything you need to know on how to attract an AIR SIGN MAN and get him hooked!!

Violetta dives into how to attract a LIBRA, GEMINI, & AQUARIUS (in that order) men. Signs this man likes you, what he’s looks for in a lady, what he dislikes, and the most n least compatible matches with him.

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PETE DAVIDSON Dec 29, 2022

GOODBYE 2022 and hello a new promising and better year!! HELLO 2023

Get inspired with this short episode by learning what do to manifest the best year of your life like I did.

Fast forward to minute 35 for a quick one minute manifesting mantra to repeat to yourself every day to manifest the best year yet!!! THANK ME LATER BESTIES.

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DON’T Send That Text w/ Robert Greene Dec 21, 2022

Hey Besties! To conclude Mentor month, we have a continuation of last week's interview with the illustrious Robert Greene! Again, Robert is the author of 6 New York Times bestsellers including the infamous The 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction. So get your pen and paper out, we’re taking notes

This week on Almost Adulting Robert takes a deep dive explaining the difference between deception and lying by telling us stories from his past and how through trial and error he learned some of his greatest powers. Violet and Robert also teach tactics to help us not overreact, and some extremely valid reasons as to why you should NOT send that text…at least in the moment. Finally, Robert tells us the honest truth about why when people show us their true colors the first time, we need to believe them. This applies to that guy you don’t wanna get rid of too! These lessons are the perfect way to end the year and get us ready to take on the next - and this is gonna be the best year yet. Happy Holidays Besties and stay safe! See you in 2023!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
00:23 The power of deception
05:27 Envy and people wanting someone from you
07:46 Why is the book “48 Laws of Power” popular in prison?
09:39 The worst advice became the best advice
13:58 Deception vs. lying
18:40 When someone’s mask falls off
22:03 Advice for people in the workspace
28:33 It’s difficult for women in the workplace
30:39 Study of human behavior
34:44 Be patient
36:45 Train yourself to not react right away
39:51 For people in power and leadership
43:16 Be okay to admit you’re wrong
46:20 The one book Robert would want you to read
48:32 Your real power & using your weakness as your strength
50:49 Gaining power from respect vs. fear

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Manipulation vs. Mastery w/ Robert Greene Dec 15, 2022

Hey Besties! To continue mentor month, this week on Almost Adulting we are joined by yet another legend, Robert Greene! Robert is the author of 6 New York Times bestsellers including the infamous The 48 Laws of Power and The Art of Seduction.

Together Violet and Robert go through some of the most important lessons in his iconic books and unpack the TRUE meanings behind them - regardless of any ‘bad press’ they may have received. Throughout the conversation Violet and Robert drop gems about how to further your trajectory in life: from learning how to see behind the ‘mask’ people put on for others, to finding your true purpose (even if that means failing). Finally, Robert speaks on what he feels is his most important lesson taught in the 48 Laws of Power, and how you can apply it to your life and reap the benefits. Get your notebooks out Besties, we’re taking over the world in 2023!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:13 How it all started
04:19 Observing people closely
08:40 Is The 48 Laws of Power evil?
14:11 The Law of Five
16:23 The Laws of Human Nature
19:19 We aren’t born with boldness
23:42 Russian heritage
26:29 Do you need manipulation to succeed?
28:52 Think of other people's interest
31:55 Being shy/introspective is not a bad thing
38:56 How to re-assess yourself this new year
44:36 We suffer when we choose the wrong things
48:06 Be less interested in yourself and more interested in other people
51:41 You’re born unique

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Get Him OBSESSED - Earth Signs Dec 14, 2022

WELCOME TO TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES!!

Want to get an Earth sign obsessed with you???? Look no further than today's brand new episode of how to attract a Taurus, Capricorn, and a Virgo.

On today's episode, Violet is presenting a zodiac series for the rest of the month! Every Tuesday this month, she will be introducing 3 new zodiac signs and how to date them. How to attract them. How to play them. What they like and not like and their best matches.

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I Saw A UFO w/ Nick Pope Dec 08, 2022

Hey Besties! We are officially kicking off mentor month! There’s no better way to end the year than with words of wisdom from icons to send us into the new year right, so let’s get into it!

This week on Almost Adulting Violet is joined by Nick Pope. Nick Pope is a journalist, media commentator, and former lead of the British Government's Ministry of Defence, where he was responsible for investigating UFO phenomena. The two talk about EVERYTHING UFO’s! From places with the most sightings, why the government may or may not be hiding their findings from the public, and how soon we may find out the truth about extraterrestrial life and what that means for us. Although it may not be like the movie ET, there is definitely something out there. Besties, put your thinking caps on and tune in!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
00:51 Is there life outside of Earth?
04:02 The amount of information that can be disclosed
05:15 What was the project trying to accomplish?
06:26 The place with the most UFO sightings
07:25 The silliest questions/concept about UFO
10:32 Wildest conspiracy theories
13:10 Is there a time difference between planets?
14:24 Parallel universes
20:07 Potential attacks from aliens
23:18 What would they look like?
28:10 Media’s perception of UFO’s
31:11 Alien abductions?
35:16 How does collaboration work between countries?
38:02 There is life elsewhere
41:35 Most famous UFO sighting
44:43 Proudest life accomplishments
48:32 What’s the smartest thing you can ask?
51:00 Would you live on an alien planet?
55:24 What are you currently passionate about?

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Get Him OBSESSED - Fire Signs Dec 07, 2022

WELCOME TO TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES!!

Want to get a fire sign obsessed with you???? Look no further than today's brand new episode of how to attract an Aries, Leo, and a Sagittarius.

On today's episode, Violet is presenting a zodiac series for the rest of the month! Every Tuesday this month, she will be introducing 3 new zodiac signs and how to date them. How to attract them. How to play them. What they like and not like and their best matches.

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From Veganism to Vaginas w/ Sophia Miacova Nov 29, 2022

HEY BESTIES AND WELCOME TO TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES!!

Did you know there are different types of vagina canals?? Listen to today's episode to learn which canal you have and which pecker is your perfect match.

On this episode, Violet is joined by Sophia 'Miacova' Esperanza where they also discuss, being vegan & an environmentalist, vaginas, reasons why we stay in a controlling toxic relationships, and when it's time to let go.

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Proof of Afterlife w/ Theresa Caputo Nov 24, 2022

Hey Besties! To conclude Scorpio month, we’re welcoming a very special guest. Today on Almost Adulting we are joined by Long Island Medium star, New York Times best-selling author, and the host of the Hey Spirit! podcast, Theresa Caputo. Theresa has been seeing, feeling, and sensing spirits since she was four years old. During today's episode Theresa explains that she is getting a certain feeling, which leads to Violet receiving a full reading where she gets to communicate with her grandmother on the other side. Lastly, the two talk about Theresa’s experience doing live shows, her most memorable readings, and dealing with non-believers. Besties, listen with an open heart and mind, there may even be someone trying to communicate with you from the other side.

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00:00 Introduction
01:04 Sensing / seeing spirits since four years old
04:08 Debilitating anxiety
05:39 What about non-believers?
08:34 Did you not get to say goodbye?
25:57 Why do you think you were chosen to have this capability?
27:30 What happens when you’re channeling spirits?
28:52 Did you have a bad experience with spirits?
31:09 Are people always accepting of your readings?
34:40 What’s your most memorable reading?
40:25 Come as you are with no expectations
41:45 Do not use a ouija board
43:04 Some people don’t want to communicate with spirits
44:44 The murder-suicide reading
46:15 Profiting off of the gift
47:18 What can people expect in your live shows?

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R U AN EMOTIONAL MASTURBATOR? ft. U Up? Jared & Jordana Nov 22, 2022

Are blowjobs really more intimate than sex?

This week Violet is joined by Jared Freid and Jordana Abraham, the hosts of U-Up; a modern dating podcast presented by Betches. During this episode, they discuss all things relationships, sex, and how to get over an ex.

This hilarious trio will dive into how the pandemic has changed the dating scene, dating 101 from a male's perspective like why do men text daily but don't try to see you??? the answer will surpise you!! and lastly, they even cover how Jordana conjured the man of her dreams. YOU DON'T WANT TO MISS IT!!!

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Dancing With The Dead w/ Steve Gonsalves Nov 17, 2022

Hey Besties! To continue Scorpio month we’re getting into some paranormal activity! Today on Almost Adulting we are joined by paranormal pioneer and main cast member of the hit series Ghost Hunters, Steve Gonsalves. Steve has over 20 years experience and has been an integral part of numerous successful paranormal shows, thus bringing paranormal activity to the forefront of the world. Together he and Violet dive into what it takes to make a career of ghost hunting while also uncovering some jarring truths about ghost-tivities that would turn ANY skeptic into a believer. Violet also shares an intimate moment about when she was contacted from the other side where in that very moment it may have saved her life. Besties, whether you’re a believer or not, listen with open ears and make a decision for yourself - you might realize some things you’ve been ignoring.

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00:00 Introduction
01:13 Paranormal Investigation: How it all started
02:33 Are ghosts real?
03:21 First paranormal activity experience
10:44 You should fear the living more than the dead
11:47 Working with psychics and mediums
13:22 Paranormal investigators versus ghost hunters
15:43 Dealing negative and dark energy
18:51 Catalysts for paranormal phenomenon
20:09 Do you do an exorcism?
22:47 There’s no definitive proof
25:17 The basic devices paranormal investigators use
32:23 After my grandmother passed away…
35:10 What’s the most memorable Ghost Hunter experience
44:22 Ghost hunting safety tips
48:25 We always continue no matter what
50:41 The scariest experience so far
54:20 Is the Hollywood sign haunted?
55:15 Are hauntings based on…?
58:08 Everything in the universe is measured by 3 things
59:02 Can ghosts travel?
01:00:08 Can ghosts attach themselves to someone?
01:04:28 Reaffirming religious beliefs
01:09:45 Do you carry sacred items

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Fake Butts & Anti Semitism w/ Dr. Nazarian Nov 15, 2022

IT'S VIOLET'S BIRTHDAY!! and on today's episode she is joined by award-winning plastic surgeon, Dr. Sheila Nazarian! They discuss all the celebs who are getting work done and lying about it, unrealistic beauty standards, recent trends, and the one procedure you SHOULD ABSOLUTELY NOT get done.

They then dive into the rise of anti semitism, reasons behind it, and share their family history and different backgrounds on how they both immigrated to the US.

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We’re All Gonna Die Nov 10, 2022

Hey Besties, it’s SCORPIO MONTH! This month we’re getting into everything supernatural, keeping things a little spooky, and of course - we’re starting it off with an episode all about ME! AKA, your favorite Scorpio.

This week on Almost Adulting we’re getting vulnerable. Today Violet is sharing some of her heaviest guilt she’s been carrying since her teenage years. She starts off with an Adderall horror story of what went from a quick self care moment, to a 2-hour long masturbation sesh leaving her cramped and wobbly. Next, Violet opens up about the yearly existential crisis surrounding her upcoming birthday, and the insecurities about marriage and children that she’s been brushing off as she turns a year older. Finally, things take a more emotional turn as she recounts the story of finding out about her grandmother's cancer, and unpacks things she wishes she’d done differently - which is something we ALL can relate to. Life goes on, but life is short Besties. Reach out to your loved ones and cherish every moment with them, you never know when it’s your last.

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00:00 Introduction
02:44 It is Scorpio month
03:42 What makes me jealous of other podcasters
05:27 My mother came up to me the other day…
06:30 I want to bring back Confession Corner
08:04 When you take Adderall
11:45 This tweet from KC
12:58 My birthday is coming up
17:46 When you stop having common things with your friends
23:03 I’m turning 34 and I need to be honest about it
24:14 The helpful negative emotions
28:19 We all have a last time we’ll ever see someone
34:04 When parents keep things from you to protect you
39:20 Thinking back of old memories

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SIGNS HE'S CHEATING Nov 08, 2022

HOW YOU GET HIM IS HOW YOU LOSE HIM SIS PERIODTHHHH

Today Violet dives into SIGNS he's cheating on you girlie, reasons he's cheating, what it feels like to get cheated on, why it's so hard to move on, and the reason why we stay.

Violet ends the episode with reasons why he's so cold after he cheats, why cheaters keep in touch, the damaging emotional effect it has on future relationships, and tips to fixing a broken heart and moving on.

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I am NOT Joining Scientology Nov 03, 2022

As promised to finish up cult month/October, we are bringing back last week’s anonymous guest and Scientology survivor for a part 2 continuation of last week's episode! and this time, we are focusing on some of the negative aspects of it.

Today, on Almost Adulting, we’re continuing where we left off, but diving into the most current conspiracies and rumors surrounding Scientology. Violet and the guest unpack the mystery of Shelly, the current leader of the Church of Scientology, David’s Miscavige’s previously active and visible wife who has suddenly disappeared from the limelight. Naturally this leads to the question: are Scientologists turning a blind eye on what’s really happening inside the organization? And what is their rule about same sex marriage, porn, and s*x outside of marriage that makes anyone almost abandon their freedom once they become part of the group? Our guest will break down all of this, and fill us in on where the people of Scientology truly believe Shelly is and what David’s latest whereabouts are. Tune in Besties!

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00:00 Introduction
00:09 Shelly - the missing wife
09:34 Why do people choose to stay in cults
10:51 How Scientologist view the rest of the world
14:54 Would you consider joining Scientology?
15:29 If David isn’t the current leader
20:01 Is it a real religion?
21:22 Why does religion always get mixed up with money?
22:17 Not pro-gay marriage?
26:24 Celebrities have no idea what’s going on inside the org
28:21 They monitor your internet activity
30:01 You gotta be married to have s*x

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You Were Inside of Me w/Nick Viall Nov 01, 2022

WELCOME TO VAULT ARCHIVES TUESDAY!! With our special guest, NICK VIALL!

Today, we pulled one of the first episodes Violet ever recorded that she kept hidden all this time but TODAY we decided it was time to share with the world.

On this episode with Nick Viall, they discuss, what Nick looks for in a partner, being a Libra, their definition of love, finding love, soulmates, the rules of s*x, and going through a heartbreak. Consider taking a shot every time Violet breaks into a nervous laugh or unsuccessfully tries to flirt and you'll be blacked out by the end of this episode :) ENJOY!

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I AM JOINING SCIENTOLOGY Oct 27, 2022

It’s finally the last week of October and to cap off the Cult month, we get an exclusive interview with a former member of Scientology who is related to Ron Hubbard, the CREATOR of Scientology.

Today, on Almost Adulting, for security and personal reasons, we are keeping the guest’s identity anonymous. The guest talks about how she grew up in the church and lived her childhood in a compound that housed church members, the day to day experiences, and what it was truly like to be part of the group. The discussion continued on with explaining how the ranking system required members to ‘donate’ more to have access to high profile members, co-Scientologists use networking to elevate their position in society, and the scheme to ostracize members considered underperformers because they fail to help the church grow by recruiting more people. The shadiness behind the glamorous front just keeps getting uglier so tune in to watch Part 1 of this 2-part interview.

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00:00 Introduction
00:49 Why did you decide to share your story today?
02:02 What is Scientology?
03:25 Common misconceptions about Scientology
05:21 The compound
06:46 Why was the cult created?
08:05 Humans are not meant to be worshiped
13:52 First job within the cult at the age of 6
17:33 Day to day in the compound
23:51 The emotional struggle when you leave
27:11 Can anyone join Scientology?
31:24 If you’re not contributing to it, you’re against it
36:56 Have you met Tom Cruise?
38:33 Why do you need more money?
40:38 What about reincarnation?
42:31 Levels, rankings, donations
48:41 Leaving the church
57:36 What are your current views on religion?

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The Kardashian Kult Pt. 2 Oct 25, 2022

Hey, Besties! Today on Almost Adulting, we welcome back MJ Corey (@kardashian_kolloquium) to continue their conversation about the Kardashian family and how they continue to stay relevant to this day. Violet and MJ go straight into discussing how Kylie has emerged from her sisters' shadows and built an empire for herself. The pair also discuss the Kardashian's rebranding strategy centered around how they look and the power they have as a family rooting on their differing personalities and businesses they built from it, and the simplistic language the family uses that's easy to digest and reproduce. They also exchange ideas on the effect of the hate culture and why people ended up copying the people they tend to hate and how one can become either the victim, the hero, or the villain in someone else's narrative.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
00:23 What did Kylie do differently?
06:03 The marketing is on the body
09:49 There are certain people you can’t cancel
16:11 What’s interesting about the Kardashians
18:37 Here’s how they attract and keep people interested
21:33 It’s a life performance
26:01 Why do people need to worship others?
28:15 Define sadomasochism
32:17 How hate become essential
34:02 Speaking simplicity
37:04 The thing they have for black men
42:17 Drawing the lines when involving the kids
47:13 Do you need to have beef with anyone?

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The Kardashian Kult Oct 20, 2022

For the third week of the cult month, we’re going to do things differently. In a special 2 part episode, this week we will be looking deeper into the Kardashian conglomerate with a different lens and focusing on how their success is anchored on controlling their narrative, building an ever-evolving empire, and remaining uniquely influential.

Today on Almost Adulting we welcome MJ Corey! MJ, better known as kardashian_kolloquium on TikTok, is a writer and psychotherapist from Brooklyn. She gained starpower on social media by applying media theory and postmodern philosophy to the entire Kardashian family, their reality show, and their overall impact on society through critical thinking. Violet and MJ begin the conversation by defining what postmodernism is and how it equates to celebrities becoming commodities as opposed to civilians. They then move to discussing how the Kardashians are at the top of a modern cult wherein their influence gives them the control over the media and set trends that are both impactful and life changing - far beyond Instagram and fashion. The two also exchange thoughts on the current state and definition of “celebrity”, how our subconscious has been so deeply penetrated by the media, and this culture of hate that is both beneficial and disadvantageous to any celebrity and/or influencer. Part 2 coming soon…

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00:00 Introduction
01:56 Applying different philosophies and theories to the Kardashian family
02:56 What is postmodernism?
06:32 What is media theory?
10:47 The reality they want people to see
15:20 The Kardashians are a cult?
23:27 It started with the infamous sex tape
31:49 Humans are not used to being worshiped
33:57 Using media to propagate and idealized idea
37:28 Reality TV is the a commodification of everyday life
39:19 How impactful real time tweets are
43:10 Everyone has the right to control their narrative
48:05 Repetition and imitation are the essence of social media
50:08 Was it a lucky time to dominate social media?
54:12 The more people hate you, the more you matter
01:02:20 Content come in fast
01:05:13 Curated on hate

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Why You've Been GHOSTED Oct 18, 2022

GHOSTED IN OCTOBER? HOW FESTIVE!!

Today's Tuesday episode, Violet dives into winning a job interview, why people who hurt you pretend like you're the bad person, what to do when you've been ghosted, what it feels like, why you didn't see it coming and why it hurts so much, steps to move on, and the type of person that ghosting affects the MOST.

Violet then ends the episode with some research behind this topic, a discussion about the effects of loneliness, getting rejected, ruminating, having low self esteem, and the importance of building emotional resilience for a better quality of life.

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Cult Survivors: NXIVM ft. Sarah Edmondson and Nippy Oct 13, 2022

Continuing with cult month, today we are diving into the world of NXIVM where we welcome two survivors turned whistleblowers of a very famous cult masked as an MLM company. NXIVM became widely known during their high profile RICO case involving celebrities, billionaire heiresses, and the FBI.

This week on Almost Adulting, Violet speaks with Sarah Edmondson and Anthony “Nippy” Ames, hosts of A Little Bit Culty podcast and former members of NXIVM. Founded by Keith Raniere, NXIVM posed themselves as a self-improvement group, only to later be exposed as a “sex cult” by extorting, sex trafficking, and implementing force labor upon its members. Sarah and Nippy open up about the details of how they were lured into NXIVM, what it was like on the inside, and the horrifying secrets they discovered after Sarah was forcibly branded. Sarah and Nippy tell the story of how they were integral to the downfall of NXIVM and the arrest of its leaders. The couple is also recently featured in HBO’s The Vow, a documentary diving into the world of NXIVM, and Sarah is also the author of Scarred: The True Story of How I Escaped NXIVM, the Cult That Bound My Life.

TW: sexual abuse

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:06 What is NXIVM?
02:24 All cults have a mission of ‘saving the world’
07:54 “That will not happen to me.”
10:28 Why is it important for cults to isolate themselves?
12:38 NXIVM is a personality cult
17:22 How did it become an MLM cult?
23:39 Ranking within the cult
27:56 Feeling guilty for recruiting people
33:04 The women sub-group: DOS
42:12 When women take advantage of other women
45:11 Triggering the downfall of the cult
48:10 Removing the branding
49:56 Are there any people right now that should be in jail?

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Right Person, wrong Time - The Truth Behind It. Oct 11, 2022

Today, Besties, Violet is taking a break from discussing cults because ya'll couldn't even go 2 weeks without falling apart and needing your big sis for advice!! so Violet is here for the rescue with today's AMAZING episode all about the truth behind "right person, wrong time"

Depending what you take from today's episode, for those who decide to walk away from their situationship, Violet softens the blow by finishing the episode, with 9 steps to get over someone, even if you never actually dated!

The 9 steps are:

1 . Cut communication

2. Cry, like a lot

3. Get a hobby

4. Don't react to anything

5. Get your ass out of the house

6. Find yourself a rebound

7. Forgive your ex

8. Trust that time heals

9. Forgive yourself and LOVE YOURSELF

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CULTS: INTRO Oct 04, 2022

WELCOME TO CULT MONTH ON THE PODCAST!!

On today's short episode, Violet walks you through the cults we will be covering this month along with trigger warnings before we fully dive in starting this Thursday.

Violet Covers NXIVM, Children of God, The Kardashians, and Scientology.

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Can A Player Change? w/ Neil Strauss Sep 29, 2022

Besties, throughout September we covered all things personal growth and really checked in with each other. So the best way to end this month is by talking to Neil Strauss, a ten-time New York Times best-selling author. His books, The Game and Rules Of The Game, for which he went undercover in a secret society of pickup artists for two years, made him an international celebrity and an accidental hero to men around the world. Though this sounds a little questionable, the topic here is GROWTH, which is exactly what’s displayed here today.

This week on Almost Adulting, Violet and Neil begin the conversation by diving right into the controversy of his best selling book, The Game. Violet asks Neil to dive deep to help people understand who he was at that time and unpack the chokehold the book had on society. Of course, this isn't an Almost Adulting episode if the two didn’t talk about relationships. Neil explains why divorce was one of the best things him and his ex-wife could have ever done, leading them to having an amazing relationship today. They also discuss the common mistakes that often lead to breakups, how to move on from said breakups, and why a cheater will remain a cheater unless they mention these specific words…tune in Besties!

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00:00 Introduction
02:40 This is how lonely I’ve gotten
04:41 See you guys again at Hollywood Improv!
08:25 I get to experience being 15 years old again
11:39 The Game
17:32 What’s the dirtiest advice?
19:20 Non-violent communication
22:37 If you’re both not ready, it’s not going to happen
24:22 Getting drawn to people familiar to you
27:32 Work on yourself and improve your emotional intelligence
28:42 Can a player change their ways?
31:37 Both partner have to make the relationship work
34:12 A relationships isn’t a failure if it ends
36:18 How to create a happy relationship?
37:32 How do you move on from a relationship that didn’t work?
39:20 When you see your partner like a parent
43:28 How do you overcome being the villain?
45:35 The cheating ex
46:54 Do you believe cheaters can change?

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Reality Is For Losers Sep 27, 2022

BE DELUSIONAL.

Today Violet teaches you to choose yourself first, whether it's being delusional that everything will work out or changing your perspective on what you reality is. Violet believes that every day you have a choice. So TODAY why not choose to be delusional??!! and choose to change your life.

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Lies Our Brain Tells Us w/ Amy Morin Sep 22, 2022

When going through a tough time the most annoying thing in the world is everyone seems to have all the advice on what you “should” do, right? Well you’re not alone, but the reality is that sometimes these things recommended to us are actually things we should be doing - but before we can even fathom doing them, we have to drop our bad habits.

Besties, welcome Amy Morin to Almost Adulting! Amy is a licensed clinical social worker, college psychology instructor and psychotherapist, and responsible for one of the most popular Ted Talks of all time. Today Violet and Amy start the conversation by unpacking the often stressful topic of habits - how we form them, stick to them, and what we can do when we accidentally break our positive habits. The duo dives into what our bad habits say about us, and the importance of breaking them in order to create good ones. Through this, Amy teaches that mental strength and mental health are actually two entirely different things, and how the lies that our brain tells us affect us on a much deeper level than we realize. Finally, the ladies discuss a topic that life never prepares us for: grief. Though grief is something no one can avoid, it’s never something anyone is ready for. Through Amy telling her story she learned coping mechanisms that truly changed her life, and that EVERYTHING always relates back to one thing…habits. Whether it be maintaining good ones, or breaking bad ones, habits can be HARD, so give each other grace and tune in to discover the tools you didn’t know you needed.

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00:00 Introduction
01:38 How long does it take to break a good habit?
05:45 The way we respond to breaking a habit matters
07:39 It’s just a bad choice, you’re not a bad person
08:40 When you’re stuck in the pity trap
12:50 Moving on with life without feeling guilty
17:17 Too much social media can trigger envy
20:34 Three kinds of destructive beliefs
23:27 Start challenging your underlying beliefs
27:00 It’s up to you how you respond to people
30:54 It’s okay to be honest with your struggles
33:32 Not everything is up to chance
36:05 We only hear the end game of every success story
38:41 Just set doable goals a day
41:29 Do you believe in toxic positivity?
45:14 Improving your mental strength

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Our Breakup Saved Us w/Nazanin Mandi Sep 20, 2022

Welcome to Tuesday's Vault Archives and to the 3rd week of September on the podcast!!

On this episode, Nazanin comes on and shares things most people didn't know about her, from her insecurities, to how bad days, to how she overcame her eating disorder, and how being a child of divorce affected her outlook on love.

They then dive into her definition of cheating, the ups and downs of her and singer/songwriter Miguel's relationship from a much needed breakup to how they make long distance work, dealing with jealousy, handling "Instagram hoes", busy schedules, her love non negotiables, and how they keep the spark alive after 17 years.

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Dreaming is a Privilege w/ Barrett Pall Sep 15, 2022

Though we all come from different backgrounds and realities, we are all dreamers. No matter the hardships faced or the obstacles thrown in our way, that doesn’t mean we should be cruel and harsh to ourselves. We can dream multiple dreams even when we can only realize them one at a time.

Today we welcome Barrett Pall to Almost Adulting! Barrett is a humanitarian and professional life coach to CEOs of fortune 500 companies, celebrities, Middle Eastern Royalty, and everyday incredible humans - because that is what we all are. Today's episode is opened by a conversation about Barrett finding his voice through the trials and tribulations of his life, which led him to become a major advocate for the LGBTQ community and underprivileged communities. Based on his life experiences, Barrett explains how he was always a dreamer and teaches tools to help practice constant gratitude and mental awareness, regardless of how dark the world may seem at times. Finally, the duo discusses why setting boundaries for yourself especially when using social media is a must, the importance of taking care of yourself so you are able to take care of others, and how we always have a choice of how we approach life and our dreams. Besties, sometimes the going gets tough, but you are never alone - tune in to find out why!

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00:00 Introduction
01:05 Advocating for the LGBTQ community
05:12 You have nothing to apologize for or explain yourself
06:58 Were you always this positive?
08:27 You get to choose if you need to change yourself
11:18 Getting obsessed over others sexuality
18:16 Stay open for change in all ways
22:43 It’s about connection for a lot of people
24:48 Queer men can do everything a straight men can do
26:24 What money?
29:00 No one needs to be babied anymore
30:02 Safety practices when using social media
34:28 How do you set boundaries?
38:09 To dream is a privilege
45:22 Take care of yourself first
48:10 How do you give back to others?
49:12 When you feel you don’t fit in
55:35 Hike your own hike

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So You're an ALPHA Female... w/ Simone Milasas Sep 13, 2022

WELCOME TO TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES :D

Today we cover navigating life as a strong woman, from getting that promotion to having the love that you deserve. Here's how you can have it all.

This week Violet is joined by innovative business leader and author, Simone Melisas. Together they discuss how to dominate in both business and relationships. Simone shares her personal stories and how they’ve influenced her life not only professionally but also personally. She lets us in on her past relationship and how finding a good balance and compromising helped her have a better relationship and ultimately being able to look introspectively.

By the end of this episode you’ll learn how to put yourself first, and most importantly make the life you've always dreamed of, become a reality.

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How To Manifest: A Guide w/ Robert Zink Sep 08, 2022

You might believe in it, you might not - but today you’re going to learn that manifestation is real.

No, you’re not just gonna think about a million dollars and it’s gonna appear in your account, sorry. But you will learn the importance of daily practices and application of the art of manifestation, in order to receive the greatness you deserve in your life.

Continuing the month of personal growth on Almost Adulting, today we welcome Robert Zink. Robert is a modern day businessman, successful life coach and mentor who teaches astonishing things in the area of personal empowerment, career enhancement, and the law of attraction. Violet and Robert believe in the power of manifestation and how it can truly change our lives. They begin the conversation by defining what manifestation is and how we can attract positive things. Next, Robert explains the three steps to successfully attracting the person you’re interested in, how we always attract people that are like us - whether we’re aware of it or not. Finally, the duo discusses the thin line of when wanting something so badly can turn into an obsession - and how to balance this line in a beneficial way using manifestation. Be ready to receive your blessings Besties, they’re coming very soon!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:01 What is manifesting?
03:23 Start attracting positive things
06:26 Is there a wrong way to go about manifesting?
13:37 Can people feel when you’re not over them?
14:18 Take them off the pedestal
17:25 A relationship is like a good money tip
20:39 Anything we manifest, we feel and we see
23:45 Hanging on to the hurt and anger
25:28 Can someone accidentally manifest harm to others?
28:17 We attract who we are
31:52 How can one manifest in their sleep?
36:42 Joining the program
41:41 A story of manifestation
44:21 When does it become an obsession?
47:58 Can anyone just manifest strongly?

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Start Manifesting Your Life Sep 02, 2022

Do you have the tissues ready? 'cause it's about to get EMOTIONAL. Today I present to you my three-part Manifestation audio diary. Each section is very close to my heart so listening carefully.

Do you feel like you've lost track of your dreams? That your life has become so mundane that it doesn't bring you the joy you once had? If the answer is yes, this episode is made especially for you. During this episode, I talk about how important it is to never lose track of your dreams, how to manifest the life that you want for yourself, and blocking negative energies that other people might put upon you.

Never let anything or anyone get in your way because you are beautiful and you are loved. Make sure to remove yourself from situations that instead of adding value, make you question why you're even involved.

You are a light in this universe and don't ever let anyone tell you otherwise BADDIES!

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Attachment Theory w/ Mark Groves - Vault Archives Aug 30, 2022

Welcome to TUESDAY'S VAULT ARCHIVES every other Tuesday!!

Today we have a fan favourite join the show, fellow podcast host Mark Groves from Create The Love Podcast. He interviews Violet about her life as they discuss attachment styles, relationship, your inner child, self worth, dating, depression, and more!!!

Sit back and enjoy because this is one interview you don't want to miss!

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Trick Yourself Out Of Low Self Esteem w/ Guy Winch Aug 25, 2022

Sometimes the hardest part about dealing with a breakup, isn’t always the breakup. It’s figuring out how to overcome the feeling of failure and low self esteem that can come shortly after.

To wrap up breakup month on Almost Adulting, today we welcome licensed psychologist Guy Winch! Guy is a leading advocate for integrating the science of emotional health into our daily lives, workplaces, and education systems. He is also the author and co-host of the popular podcast, Dear Therapist. In this episode Violet and Guy give us the hard truth about why we often blame ourselves when a relationship falls apart, how chronic loneliness (backed by science) is detrimental to our wellbeing, and even the types of text message you can send to get the answers you want! Finally, Violet and Guy dive into the age old issue of actions vs. words and what you need to do if you’re stuck in this situation. Besties, emotions are overwhelming, but we can all use some help sometimes. Tune in to this episode for some help we all need.

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00:00 Introduction
00:47 The importance of emotional aid
04:35 What happens when people are lonely
11:59 Low self esteem
14:19 You alone can’t save a relationship
16:03 Why do we feel guilty when a relationship fails?
19:54 The first 5 minutes into the date
23:22 “You deserve better…”
26:00 How can somebody build emotional resilience?
27:32 Complaint versus confrontation
29:40 Anxiety is not an immediate threat
35:05 Different friends fulfill different functions in our life

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Surviving A (Friendship) Breakup Aug 23, 2022

WELCOME TO VAULT ARCHIVES EVERY OTHER TUESDAY!! Violet is backkkkk babyyy with another short solo brand new Tuesday episode!!

On this episode Violet, discusses friendship breakups, why we struggle with them, and how to cope with losing a friend.

We start with a Q&A on feeling lost, letting go, and a weird habit of Violet's that no one knows about but It sure is smelly! She then dives into why friendship breakups are so painful, tips on moving on, and a recent experience of hers.

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To The Ride or Die Besties (LIVE SHOW SPECIAL) Aug 18, 2022

The ones who know more about you than your own family, the ones you call in an emergency and know they’re gonna pick up, and the ones that you know no matter what, they have your back for life.

In today's special edition episode, Violet takes the stage for the first ever live recording of Almost Adulting. Recording live from The Hollywood Improv, Violet gets real about how she developed true confidence, the power of manifesting, and friendship breakups. Since Violet was joined by all of her besties that came out to see her, she invited some on stage to share their stories about friendship breakups - because nothing brings people together more than talking sh*t about their old friends! Finally, Violet explains the 5 signs that you have a ride or die bestie in your life and how important it is to nourish those relationships even during hard times. Real friends are hard to come by, hold on to them tight Besties!

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00:00 Introduction
06:42 Are you always this confident?
12:57 This is a toxic advice…
14:38 My friendship breakup story
18:30 We create our own reality
22:44 Last year, I liked a boy…
32:14 Let’s dive into friendship breakups
39:31 “Why do you think bad things keep happening to you?”
40:55 Signs of toxic friendship
51:00 Signs you have a ride or die bestie
56:49 Reasons why friendships can feel like a breakup
01:10:01 Another friendship breakup story

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Ghosted Horror Stories - Confession Corner Aug 16, 2022

Get in besties, we’re getting ghosted.

Welcome to TUESDAY'S CONFESSION CORNER! The Confession Corner is a bi-monthly installment where you guys get to anonymously call VIOLET, and have a chance to be featured on the show!

For today's Confession Corner we’re getting GHOSTED. Don’t be shy, it’s happened to the best of us. Today you will hear Violet react and dissect your craziest ghosting stories - but don’t worry she made sure to include her own too and we promise it'll make you feel better about yourself after hearing it LOL

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There’s No Fairytale Ending w/ Todd Baratz Aug 11, 2022

It can be a hard pill to swallow, but you can’t also become the person you want to be if you’re stuck in the past. There’s no fairytale or storybook ending if you don’t fix what’s within, but that doesn’t mean you have to do it alone!

Today we welcome sex and relationships therapist, Todd Baratz! Todd has devoted his entire life to wellness as he actively works against all formalities, traditions and diagnosis. Together Violet and Todd discuss the importance of intimacy negotiation in a relationship, identifying self sabotaging behaviors, and how to fill emotional voids. The two also deep dive into the myth of being “relationship ready”. The truth is, there’s no such thing. Relational love leads to self love. Besties, sometimes the real breakup you need is with your old patterns and behaviors.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:02 What it means to start therapy at 10 years old
05:03 “I literally just said your partner has fantasies…”
08:07 Couple issues tend to come from personal trauma
10:17 Our relationships are emotional
14:02 Everybody deals with relationships at different pace
15:35 Self-sabotaging
18:45 Why are we drawn to emotionally unavailable people
22:23 How can you tell if someone is emotionally unavailable?
23:25 When should you walk away?
25:23 Lies that we hear about relationships
27:11 It’s normal to sit with your feelings
30:03 How do you deal with uncertainty?
32:29 The pressure to succeed with relationships
35:39 Where’s the line between feeling and thinking?
37:56 Stop blaming people about your feelings
46:41 Feeling the victim all the time
39:38 Why does language matter so much?
43:47 Self discovery happens, it’s not a rush
46:39 Being the victim constantly
50:01 Can you still be in a relationship while still working on yourself
52:27 Good habits to make yourself feel better

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From Ghosted To Begging U Back Aug 09, 2022

Welcome to another TUESDAY EPISODE!!! A short and sweet episode vault episode to get your week started!

We are in the 2'ND WEEK of Breakups/cheating month so figured today we are diving into manifesting and getting ghosted!

The first 15 minutes we'll dive into manifesting tips and methods of getting back the life you want with or without your ex while the rest of the episode, we'll briefly dive into why you've been ghosted, how to get him to beg for you back, how to get over it and how to move on.

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You Will Never Be Blessed w/ Kamie Crawford Aug 04, 2022

And sometimes…we just need to hear the cold hard truth. Kidding. But when you only focus on the negative things in life, you don’t realize that that’s all you’re allowing your life to be. We all deserve the most beautiful things in life, and sometimes tough love from your bestie is exactly what you needed to hear.

Today we welcome TV host, podcaster, and Sports Illustrated model Kamie Crawford to Almost Adulting! Violet and Kamie, instant besties and Scorpio sisters, start off the conversation by talking brutally honestly about some of their own faults, and even their friends. They discuss how their delivery may not always be the best, but it may just be a Scorpio thing. They also talk in depth about Kamie’s life post her 5-year relationship, how NOT having a rebound after a breakup is a painful part of growing up, the two forms of cheating, and which of them is truly worse than the other. The truth hurts besties, no matter which way you put it.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:48 If you’re arguing with a Scorpio
03:59 Something that most people don’t know about you
08:15 What is your love language?
14:15 Getting too sensitive
18:13 Changing yourself to make someone love you
22:59 Who’s more jealous in your relationships?
27:15 Define cheating
32:50 Cheating in marriage
36:15 “I remember my first boyfriend…”
39:01 Ending a 5-year relationship
43:40 The hardest part of a breakup
46:42 “I don’t have a problem playing the villain…”
51:31 What’s something you'll never put up with again?
56:34 Taking accountability for what you did wrong
59:57 Unrealistic expectations about finding a partner
01:03:18 “You’ve just known him for two days!”
01:07:52 Do you still believe in love?

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Winning a Breakup - Playbook Aug 02, 2022

Welcome to another TUESDAY EPISODE!!! A short and sweet episode to get your week started!

Today, Violet answers some of your silly questions and then dives into some tips on winning a breakup like the bad b*tch that you are!! From how to leave them dumbfounded when they try to dump you, like an actual step by step playbook, to what to do post breakup.

Follow this guide, and they will be running back to you in no time!!! but hopefully by then, you won't even want their stinky a$$ back anyway. ew.

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He’s Wasting Your Time w/ Patti Stanger Jul 28, 2022

Read it and weep besties. It’s the truth. Stop wasting your time over a boy who just wants you around to boost his ego, to do his bidding, and to make himself more attractive to other women. Boys are just now learning how to live without their mom doing their laundry for them, let alone know a thing about commitment yet. Boys will keep you waiting and play mind games with you, and the LAST thing we’re doing is putting up with it any longer.

Today, we welcome Patti Stanger back to Almost Adulting. As a third generation matchmaker, Patti founded the Millionaire's Club in January of 2000 after serving five years as the Director of Marketing/Special Events for Great Expectations, the oldest and largest dating service in the U.S. Given her expertise in matchmaking and Violet’s experience in dating men, the duo talks about the male logic while dating, why successful women have higher standards and don’t consider marriage in their early twenties and why we should always keep a three-man rotation. Violet and Patti also discuss the effects of poor parenting, the real reason why men take advantage of the woman emotionally, and the many complicated aspects of dating while technology is evolving. You’re gonna want your pen and paper out for this, everything you’re about to hear is FACT.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:04 We all can’t be Kim Kardashan
06:20 Why do we pick who we pick?
08:26 If you give a man too much of anything
14:52 Dating a boy versus a man
18:09 You want to know what their intentions are
22:05 If you allow yourself to be used
25:51 Is giving an ultimatum a good idea?
28:46 You get the ring when you have self respect
32:07 Why do we give our hearts too quickly?
35:17 Be realistic with your standards
40:19 Cheating is not the end, check other options
46:30 Love bombers are mostly nacissists
49:05 Red flags vs green flags
52:44 The effects bad relationships have on kids
57:21 How do you handle the high’s and low’s?
01:00:32 Why are you wasting time?
01:06:37 Being able to do other things
01:10:11 Do I have to calm down my intensity to not scare off men?
01:13:01 What’s the best advice you’ve received?

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Confessions of A Sugar Baby PT 2 Jul 26, 2022

Besties, you are in for a TREAT! PART TWO!!!!

Welcome to the CONFESSION CORNER! The Confession Corner is a brand new installment where you guys get to anonymously call ME, and have a chance to be featured on the show!

Today we are continuing with part 2 to last week's Confession Corner where we talked all about SUGAR DADDIES. Yep, the good, the bad, and the…wrinkly? Today you will hear me react and dissect your stories from ALL of your sugar daddy escapades. It is about to get WILD and I’m so excited to hear from you guys.

Violet also includes a VERY spicy story about a prominent figure in Hollywood who has a thing for considerably younger women…the tea is piping hot this week.

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Confessions of A Sugar Baby Jul 19, 2022

Besties, you are in for a TREAT!

Welcome to CONFESSION CORNER! The Confession Corner will be a bi-monthly installment where you guys get to anonymously call ME, and have a chance to be featured on the show! This is an entirely new concept and something I have been working on for a little bit now that will be released on Tuesdays bi-weekly!

For our very first Confession Corner we’re talking all about SUGAR DADDIES. Yep, the good, the bad, and the…wrinkly? Today you will hear me react and dissect your stories from all of your sugar daddy escapades. From getting your butthole licked in a public coffee shop, to the masochist who wanted her to dress up in a Nacho Libre wrestling suit and beat the sh*t out of him - it is about to get WILD and I’m so excited to hear from you guys. Make sure to pay attention to my stories on @VioletBenson and @AlmostAdulting for YOUR next chance to be featured on the Confession Corner!

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Hoe Life 2 Wife Life w/ Hannah Berner Jul 14, 2022

They say you can’t turn a hoe into a housewife, but we’d like to think otherwise.

At some point in our life, whether we are at the height of our career or living our best single lives, we all want to find that one person we can spend the rest of our life with, right? That one true love we all grew up hoping to find one day. I mean, at the very least, who doesn’t want to be with the best partner and have the best s*x at the drop of a dime?

Besties, today we are joined by Hannah Berner! Hannah is the host of two extremely successful podcasts Giggly Squad and Berning In Hell, a standup comedian, reality TV star, and now here with us on Almost Adulting! Today Violet and Hannah waste no time getting into things beginning with Violet calling out Hannah for not inviting her to her wedding! Hannah then goes into detail about her transition from hoe life to wife life, what it’s like dating (then marrying) an older guy, falling in love with someone you least expect to fall in love with, and why you should look for a partner that takes ugly photos of you. The two superstars also talk about the harsh realities of their professions and why checking in with yourself mentally is SO important. This episode is jam packed with hilarious stories and advice so sit back and listen up!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
02:26 The first time I saw you…
04:01 Oh, cults?
06:38 Let’s talk about weddings
11:05 Would you date an older guy?
15:47 What people don’t know about me…
19:25 When people hurt other people
23:24 What’s your definition of happiness?
28:11 When you open up and stop pretending to be someone else
30:44 Loving someone you didn’t imagine ending up with
34:55 Going to the extremes, being emotionally unavailable
39:29 What is the purpose when you post on social media?
44:24 What about love that scared you the most?
47:38 Compatibility in marriage
53:47 This is how the chase starts
56:15 Being loved even at your lowest
01:02:18 One person can’t be your everything
01:06:30 Has your definition of love changed over the years?
01:09:48 What I like about his d*ck…
01:11:50 How does it feel to have a life partner?

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Vault Archives - R U Emotionally Unavailable w/ Empathy Therapist Figs Jul 12, 2022

WELCOME TO VAULT ARCHIVES EVERY OTHER TUESDAY!! Where I share previous episodes or never before aired episodes from the vault that never made it on the show. Good or bad, you decide!

Your toxic relationsh*t may actually have a chance IF you listen to this episode

Today I have Empathy therapist Figs on the podcast where we discuss, Types of empathy, the importance of having empathy for yourself, becoming the one you've been waiting for, our coping mechanisms, what your partner is really feeling but not saying when you fight.

We then dive into turning your toxic relationship back into love, attachment styles, being emotionally unavailable, self sabotaging, reaching true intimacy, and why it's so hard letting go of a relationship where the other person has moved on.

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Define “Relationship” w/ See The Thing Is Podcast Jul 07, 2022

Hey, Besties! It’s the first Thursday of July and this month, we are celebrating relationships! My favorite topic because I am OBVIOUSLY so good at them! So get comfortable because we’re about to get uncomfortable! This entire month we’re discussing love, partnerships, the different types of partnerships, and unpacking all the good, bad, and the ugly that comes with them! But before we get into that, Violet gives a quick life update and tells us about her recent rendezvous to Greece, where she planned on sight seeing and ATVing, but…all she got was c*caine and ket. Better luck next time!

See the thing is, we’re ALMOST Adulting. Never said we were all the way there yet! Today, we have Bridget Kelly & Mandii B, hosts of the See, The Thing Is podcast - and with Violet joining the mix, we’ve found the trio you never knew you needed! In this episode we’re covering it ALL. From being the other woman, being the cheater, why or why not we plan on getting married, and even childhood trauma that shaped how we approach relationships in our adult lives. Violet, Bridget, and Mandii start the conversation off hot by diving into the various types of relationships, from the most traditional types, to the polar opposite. With varying opinions on basically everything, this episode is sure to open your mind to some things you definitely have never considered before. The trio also discusses living as modern day women (who’s independent and doesn’t need ANY man - but may want one!) and where men stand when in a relationship with self-sustaining, self-providing, successful career women. We’re starting this month off hot besties, so get ready!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
03:21 My “amazing” vacation in Greece
12:43 Compartmentalizing relationships
13:53 Do you believe in marriage?
17:53 Is a healthy polyamorous relationship sustainable?
22:39 When you cheated on your partner…
27:00 How does it feel like to cheat on someone?
28:41 The perfect partner?
37:24 As a modern day woman
42:19 Is it so strange to have so many friends?
46:23 Don’t discount your education completely
51:30 Successful women set the bar high
52:37 What are the 3 things you look for in someone?
56:17 Should you forgive your parents for not being perfect?
58:50 Dating a man with children
01:05:58 You don’t need to agree but stay respectful
01:11:05 You can tell when someone goes to therapy
01:13:16 Living with the truth of who you really are

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Relationship to RelationSH*T ft. Jessica Baum Jun 30, 2022

Are things ever going TOO well so your brain forces you to mess it up?

Trust me, you’re not alone! As part of our human nature, we yearn for genuine love and affection. We tend to gravitate toward relationships that will reinforce our need for affection and validate our feelings. We always search for someone who can be there with us when we feel lost and helpless, and someone who can embrace us even when we feel unworthy of love. Sounds simple enough right? But if all of that is true, why do all of my relationships keep turning into relationsh*ts?! Well today besties, we’re getting some answers.

Today, we have Jessica Baum. Jessica is a psychotherapist, author, thought leader, relationship coach, and founder of the Be Self-full® - a company that provides tailored coaching services, helping women empower themselves. Out of the four relationship attachment styles, Violet and Jessica put their focus on the Anxious and Avoidant style and why people who possess these attachment styles are easily drawn to each other. So if you’re wondering why things can be going GREAT only for your brain to shut down and force you to run away, you’re about to find out! Don’t worry, you’re not as messed up as you think you are. The duo also talks about how love bombing, despite its negative connotation online, can be pleasantly genuine, how to set healthy boundaries for you and your relationships, how we actually CAN get addicted to a person, and why we are responsible for our own anxiety. We’re unpacking A LOT today - but whatever it is you do, do NOT text your ex after this. So hit play and listen up!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:09 What’s your attachment style?
06:42 Avoidant and anxious styles both fear intimacy
08:14 Anxious-avoidant dance
12:52 Genuine love bombing
15:22 Partner with someone who could stay calm for you
19:39 How can you help a partner with anxious attachment style
26:33 Setting boundaries without hurting other people
29:17 From really good to really bad relationships real fast
30:41 Why do we tend to self-sabotage?
33:33 How is the nervous system related to our relationship?
35:26 Is it possible to get addicted to someone?
38:50 What is a healthy chemistry like?
40:59 Anxious people are responsible for their own anxiety
43:19 How do you recognize an unhealthy pattern in your love life?
47:45 What does it mean to be “Be Self Full”?
50:37 Self full is all about love

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Vault Archives - The Hardest Part About Dating w/ Amy & Jack Jun 28, 2022

WELCOME TO VAULT ARCHIVES EVERY OTHER TUESDAY!! Where I share previous episodes or never before aired episodes from the vault that never made it on the show. Good or bad, you decide!

On Today's episode, we close hookup month on the podcast and pride month with my favourite humans who are also part of the LGBTQ+ community, Amy Ordman and Jack Doge.

We start the episode with coming out stories before diving right into zodiac signs, the rule of thumb for dating, how to not get affected with being ghosted, our love for toxic people, why we push people away, love at first sight, why you shouldn't change for someone, myths about gays and lesbians, vageens insecurities, seggs seggs seggs, wild stories and butthole pics, and open relationships in the gay community.

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I'm Single, You're a Father w/ Alex Papiccio Jun 23, 2022

What’s your craziest hookup story? And don’t leave out the juicy (or gross) details!

It’s probably one that involves a first date, dinner, alcohol, and some intimate moments that are either hilariously funny or morbidly disastrous. Whatever your story is, I don’t think it can even come close to the one you’re about to hear today. What about the time your boyfriend cheated on you, only for the girl he cheated with to end up pregnant? Today we’re talking about the things that should definitely be told to a therapist, but are honestly way funnier to tell on this podcast.

Today, we have Alex Papiccio! Alex is a social media personality, a comedic soul, a recurring guest, and one of Violet’s dearest friends. With their already developed chemistry, Violet and Alex dive straight into their hilarious hookup stories, Alex’s extremely hot boyfriend how their s*xual activities have significantly changed after living together, tips on how you can score a sugar (or splenda!) daddy, and why women need to stop doing “wifey” duties when they only have the “girlfriend” title. I know that one may have stung a bit, but it’s a reality check that we ALL need to hear sometimes. This episode is jam packed and will have you in tears - happy tears that is! Tune in now, besties!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:12 “My boyfriend of 5 years cheated on me…”
10:28 Have you gotten an STD?
12:57 Tips on how to score a Splenda Daddy
19:48 Do you still get ready from d*ck appointment?
25:21 Setting boundaries for your alone time
29:26 Are you scared?
31:43 What’s your craziest hookup story?
45:12 Do you need sex toys or not?
48:26 What’s a pillow princess?
53:04 Doing wifey duties when you’re not even the girlfriend
59:39 What do you think about female best friends?
01:07:00 Work on your best self first

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Confession Corner - Netflix & Disappointment Jun 21, 2022

HERE ARE 3 SIGNS The D Is Smol </3 AND 3 WAYS TO TELL THE D IS HUGE! / This is probably one of the most hilarious episodes yet, no cap.

WELCOME TO CONFESSION CORNER BESTIES!!!!

Your weekly short bonus episode every Tuesday where I will be featuring YOU GUYS, the listener's, wild stories or questions surrounding the current month's topic. (you can submit stories/questions weekly via a call in number on the podcast instagram that I will be sharing this week! don't miss it)

Episode time stamps:

0:00-4:32 - I deliver some bad news. Kinda...

4:33 - 7:41 - Netflix & disappointment phenomenon - 3 signs the D is small

7:42 - 12:09 - Sign #1 (Dry humping test)

12:10 - 15:34 - Sign #2 (Too dirty to write it out on here)

15:35 - 18:45 - Sign #3 (Godly woman)

18:47 - 23:23 - 3 ways to tell if the D is packing (100% backed by research science. Kinda)

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Vault Archives - Single & Rejected w/ Remi & Alisha Marie Jun 19, 2022

WELCOME TO VAULT ARCHIVES EVERY SUNDAY!! Where I share previous episodes from the vault that never made it on the show. Good or bad, you decide!

On this episode (from 2019), Remi Cruz and Alisha Marie join me to discuss being single, feeling rejected, getting cheated on, and how to win a breakup even if you never actually dated.

We end this episode on a hilarious note where I share fan's first date horror stories from a pop Ziplock bag to sh*tting yourself in front of your date. lol. It's gonna be a sh*t show! Pun intended.

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Hollywood's Secret Sex Society w/ Biggest S*x Club Owner Lawner Jun 16, 2022

Let's talk about sex baby! Sex PARTIES, that is…

Sex parties, are they a common thing now? Or are they still considered ‘don’t ask don’t tell’ events that are exclusive to a VERY select community? We think we know what these parties are all about from the outside looking in, but you’re about to find out what really goes on behind the scenes. In today's episode Violet gets the inside scoop on Hollywood’s most elite members and what they do to fulfill some of their darkest fantasies. We’re still not sure if money can buy you happiness, but we have confirmed that it definitely can buy you your own 50 Shades of Grey experience.

Today’s guest Damon Lawner is the founder of world renown sex club, Snctm, a private members club hosting erotic black-tie Masquerades, dinners, and classes specializing in fetish & erotic arts. Violet and Damon dive deep into the private world of Snctm events, while also discussing celibacy, masturbation, the art of the orgasm, and how to reach your sexual nirvana. Violet makes sure to get ALL the juicy info you need to know so tune in now!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
00:39 What is Snctm?
03:38 First experiences with sex
07:23 It’s a created playground to live out everything
09:33 Do you find yourself to be very sexual?
13:37 A lot of girls don’t orgasm through sex
16:20 It’s like Cinderella’s glass slipper
19:36 My kids found out about Snctm
23:48 Doing some phases of celibacy
25:55 “I like the person I’m slowly becoming.”
29:40 Connecting with someone and giving your full self
35:03 Masturbation and orgasm-drunk
36:16 Your first BDSM experience?
40:07 Self respect versus self-awareness
47:34 We are the worst narrators of our own stories
50:11 Rigorous application at Snctm
55:24 The wildest parties are happening in…
58:33 “I tried m*th the first time I came to the US…”
01:00:33 Saying YES and NO to someone’s application
01:02:28 Craziest sex stories in the club
01:07:35 Sex clubs aren’t really male dominated
01:10:07 Oh orgies
01:14:46 “Yeah, that’s your experience.”
01:18:12 Rope tying demo

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Surprise, I'm Not Perfect Jun 09, 2022

This just in... Violetta Elaia Benson isn't perfect!

We all get tired. We all make mistakes. And we all mess up. It’s normal because it is in our nature to not get things right the first try. It’s okay to not be okay when you don’t feel okay.

Hello, Besties! Today, I’m sharing an acupuncture session turned therapy session where I was told holding in my emotion is stressing my body out! And speaking of stress, the interview with Bella Thorne came out last week. Before the interview, I had one of the worst days of my life, it made me breakdown afterwards. And I was being hard on myself, which I shouldn’t be doing. So, if you want to know what this is all about and how I was trying to stay alive the whole time, hit that play button!

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00:00 Introduction
03:12 The acupuncture session
07:51 What happened two weeks ago?
10:55 Before the interview with Bella Thorne
18:21 And then the camera stopped recording
21:46 Programming your brain when to have a breakdown
28:59 Take your mental health walks
33:27 Imagine our life as a little play
38:40 Setting boundaries and prioritizing yourself

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B*tch it's Bella Thorne Jun 02, 2022

“Our society makes victims feel like villains.”

Final Episode of May’s Mental Health Month

People deal with childhood trauma differently just as the horrible experience is different for every person, for every victim. The only consolation that victims have is a support system that is always there for them, that is present with them when their overwhelming feelings arise and when painful memories are triggered. It is in our support group that we can learn to accept what happened, live through it, and move on with life. But what if we don’t have that kind of support group?

Today’s guest is actress, model, singer, and songwriter Bella Thorne. Warning: We are discussing sensitive topics and our way of dealing with these issues may not be what people might expect. Nonetheless, we get to listen to how a victim and a survivor of sexual abuse grew up to be a forward-focused person, always working hard to make a name for herself, and is now open about her experiences with dating and relationship struggles.

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:17 Something weird most people don’t know about you?
04:53 How did you get into acting so young?
10:17 When you’re feeling a little hateful
13:05 “She must have an easy life…”
17:16 Losing your father at a young age
22:37 Coping with a losing a loved one
27:43 We don’t get enough support from our system
35:54 The long-term effects of sexual abuse
41:41 Talking about your trauma
48:40 Crazy things I did with my sister
54:37 Non-negotiable when it comes to dating
57:23 What's the worst day you've ever been on?
01:08:25 How do you break up with someone?
01:10:32 What are you currently working on?

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What I Learned This Week - Toxic Friendships PT.2 May 31, 2022

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Life After Cancer w/ FabFitFun CEO Daniel Broukhim May 26, 2022

“What does worry do for you?”

Episode #5 of May’s Mental Health Month

It’s heartbreaking to learn that someone you know is battling cancer. But, there is nothing more devastating than finding out that you have it. Things begin to crumble and the future seems bleak. Uncertainties will haunt you and possibilities of the future will only bring sadness, anxiety, and depression. It’s a battle for your life, one that can make you feel like you’re on the losing end.

Today’s guest is Co-CEO & Co-Founder of FabFitFun, Daniel Broukhim. Daniel bravely shares his battle against cancer, how he landed in the ER and later found out about his condition, the inner turmoil he had to go through amidst a flourishing business, and the importance of a good support system that helped him throughout his journey. Now, he is nearing his second year of being cancer-free!

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What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:31 Diagnosed with the big C
16:24 “I was too weak to work, at a certain point.”
18:22 How do you support a loved one with cancer?
24:37 Everyday is a good day in your life
28:39 Is taking psychedelics helpful?
34:39 How cancer can threaten masculinity
38:04 Are men at higher risk of having major depressive disorder?
42:13 Consider the mental health of your support system
43:58 Did you have deep regrets?
45:59 How did you celebrate being cancer-free?

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What I Learned This Week - TOXIC FRIENDSHIPS May 24, 2022

WELCOME TO WHAT I LEARNED THIS WEEK - 5 SIGNS YOU'RE IN A TOXIC FRIENDSHIP

A 5 minute bonus episode for my besties that don't do podcasts or have the time! EVERY TUESDAY!!

This week I give you pt.1 of 5 signs you're definitly in a toxic friendship. A 5 minute pep talk that will OPEN YOUR EYES.... from your big sis, aka me, Violet Benson. :)

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Your Man Needs Therapy w/ Traver Boehm May 19, 2022

“Emotion knows no time.”

Episode #4 of May’s Mental Health Month

Men are emotional creatures too! They can cry, they can feel pain, they can be weak, and they can become vulnerable. BUT society is telling them not to do any of this. Society is telling them to hide their emotions to stay masculine. They are being deprived of the chance to properly process their emotions.

Today’s guest is Traver Boehm, the man behind the UNcivilized Men’s Movement and the author behind Today I Rise and Man UNcivilized. Traver shares his reasons for creating the UNcivilized Men’s Movement, why men are used to suppressing their emotions and the damage it causes, and how you can encourage the men in your life to get help when they need it.

What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
00:52 What does it mean to be an uncivilized man?
06:27 Having intimacy is an emotional nourishment
07:53 What is the UNcivilized Men's Movement?
10:05 Is that a real fear for men?
14:21 The Marlboro Man Paradigm
19:21 Men have higher suicide statistics
27:45 Men struggle to navigate around their emotions
33:32 One of the lies men were told
35:14 The category for a ‘nice’ guy
39:08 How can you be there for your male friend?
43:34 Allow other people to have their own space
45:20 Can you ask your partner to go to therapy?

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What I Learned This Week - He Ain't The One May 17, 2022

WELCOME TO WHAT I LEARNED THIS WEEK - He Ain't The One

A 5 minute bonus episode for my besties that don't do podcasts or have the time!

This week I learned the truth about right guy, wrong time. So here's a 5 minute pep talk that will change your LIFE.... from your big sis, aka me, Violet Benson. :)

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Prioritize Ur Healing B*tch PT.2 w/ Mark Groves May 12, 2022

"What makes love so valuable is the grief that is accompanied with the possibility of losing it."

Episode #3 of May’s Mental Health Month.

All right, Besties, it’s time for part 2, and the title says it all – today’s episode is all about healing! Breakups are never easy, but you need to stop chasing someone who doesn’t want you and choose yourself. Choose yourself first. Love yourself first.

Mark Groves is back on the podcast today, and he shares his tips for recognizing when someone isn’t right for you, how to spot patterns in your dating life, and how trust can be rebuilt after it’s been broken. Pull out a pen and paper and take some notes - they might just change your life.

What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
01:28 This “I wasn’t enough!” lens
05:42 Stop chasing someone who isn’t chasing you back
06:46 When you feel like you can’t openly share your emotions
09:10 How do you know someone is right for you?
17:19 Awareness of your patterns when dating
23:49 Relational outcomes are separate from our self worth
28:19 There is no psychological safety in conflict
33:04 Forgiveness is earned, trust is rebuilt
39:05 “I should be looking at the pattern with my mother”

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Prioritize Ur Healing B*tch PT.1 w/ Mark Groves May 10, 2022

Episode #2 of May’s Mental Health Month.

"It's always the people that never loved us that teach us the most about love."

If you’ve lost yourself in your last relationship, let me hand you the roadmap to finding yourself again.

In today’s episode, Human Connections Specialist, Mark Groves, teaches us all about prioritizing yourself and your healing after a breakup. If you’re not over the last guy that ghosted you, it’s okay because neither am I. The only thing that’s not okay is not loving yourself. I know, it’s easier said than done. But remember, pain might occur in a relationship, but so does healing.

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I Don’t Want To Be Sad Anymore May 05, 2022

In honor of May's #MentalHealthMonth, we open the month with a dear episode of mine where I cover all sides of depression and my own battle with it.

On today's episode, I share one of the darkest times of my life. As I choke up and cry, I share my painful story of shame, battling clinical depression 6 years ago, and how I almost didn't think I'd survive. I also discuss the difference between being sad, feeling depressed, and having actual clinical depression.

PERSONAL MESSAGE TO MY BESTIES OUT THERE:

Please know that you are not alone, you are loved, and I'm so proud of you for getting out of bed today! The pain you are feeling won't last forever... I promise. The sun will rise tomorrow and we will try again. <3

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I’M A BEAST PT.2 w/ Nicole Behnam Apr 28, 2022

Hey, Besties! Welcome to Part 2 with Nicole Behnam. Now that we’re done talking about CRYPTO, NFT, and the confusing jargon for dummies, let’s move on to how you can excel in a toxic, manipulative workplace and setting boundaries for yourself at work. And let’s not forget how having a good MENTOR can help improve your career. If you get the chance, get one!

And then, we also cover the highs and lows of relationships, being okay with showing emotions and expressions of love, why LOVE BOMBING isn’t gonna work, the RED FLAGS of future bad behavior in your partner, and many more love and relationship lessons from two women who’s seen and been in bad and crazy relationships!

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NFT Crash Course PT.1 w/ Nicole Behnam Apr 26, 2022

And I’m back! Last week I talked about how Daddy Issues was created and how a career shift changed my life. Today, we’re pivoting to something interesting that most rich guys are investing in, CRYPTO currency!

I sit down with Nicole Behnam, a Crypto, NFT, and Tech investor and advisor to discuss the very basic fundamentals of NFT and crypto, the jargons that are a bit confusing but totally cool when you learn and understand them, and the ins and outs of moving your money around the space.

Yeah, it’s a lot to take in but I promise, you need this in your life. You gotta learn about Web 3 and where to invest your money.

What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
02:16 How Nicole and I met
06:19 NFT: Non-fungible token
13:47 Owning an NFT on a block chain
15:02 What is a block chain?
25:24 All emotions are valid, all reactions are not
35:21 How can you buy an NFT?
40:39 Where to invest in crypto?
49:45 Let’s talk about Discord
54:10 The true believers build during a bare market

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How Daddy Issues Was Born Apr 21, 2022

Before anything else, let me put this out here, THIS episode talks about BULLYING in the office space and losing yourself in the process because the BULLIES made you believe that you’re supposed to take it all in.

Last week, we talked about how to succeed in life and get THE dream job. Today, we will focus on WHY it’s okay to ditch your dream job when it’s making you miserable and unhappy. I started Daddy Issues because I was bullied and even though this alter ego is a completely different person, she is happy. She conquered her world and she thrived in the social circles she wanted to be a part of.

So yes, Bestie! You can do it even if others think you can’t. Believe in what YOU can do!

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4 Lessons to Success Apr 14, 2022

Hey Besties! We got another 2-part Solo episode. This time though, we will talk about serious stuff, like life lessons, getting a job, and having a career. Surprise! Surprise!

High school didn’t have any notable academic achievements but I did have a degree in Accounting and studied business law undergrad. Why am I talking about this? Well, the LIFE LESSONS I’m going to talk about is to show you how a high school underachiever got an internship with the District Attorney’s office, got a new job position created in an accounting firm, and got to compete with overly qualified men for a promotion. You gotta work that ass, bestie!

As my Dad had said to an 11-year-old Violet, “All you will have is your education and your career. So you better think smart and you better start now!”

What to Listen For:

00:00 Introduction
02:40 Sometimes, it’s really nice to feel appreciated
03:46 I was invited to a Coachella private party
06:43 This is my theory about short men…
08:54 On to more celebrity news
12:31 Let me tell you about this British guy
16:33 That’s how bad I was in school
24:23 Lesson #1: How to get a YES
30:16 Lesson #2: When you hear a NO, find a way to get a YES
36:39 Lesson #3: How do you perfect an interview?
43:06 Lesson #4: How do you get a promotion

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Identity Crisis Apr 07, 2022

After the steamy 2-part episode with Dr. Emily Morse, let’s pivot a little bit and talk about life updates! Let’s talk serious, adulting stuff!

So, I start the episode with finally answering why I had to leave behind TOO TIRED TO BE CRAZY for a new podcast name, the personal issues I had to address with my Daddy Issues persona, convo with my mom, and exciting DEALS and PROMOS in the podcast for you guys!

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Life’s Too Short For Bad Sex w/ Emily Morse (PT2) Mar 31, 2022

It's time for PART 2, b*tches! :) We ended Part 1 with how to give your man a good head and the #1 Oral Method to make a girl cum.

Now listen up as Emily shows me the best way to find the REAL G-Spot. We end the episode with tips to not c*m too fast, hilarious fan sex stories and how I ended up in the ER after fingering gone wrong.

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Life’s Too Short For Bad Sex w/ Emily Morse (PT1) Mar 24, 2022

From getting your taco licked to c*mming EVERY time, this week’s episode is SO good, I’m giving you TWO parts. Welcome to part 1 besties :)

I begin the episode with Benny Blanco & lil dicky’s party, why it’s not cool to be a mean girl, and how to have a better week with my Better w/ Benson segment.

I then have Renowned sex therapist Emily Morse join us to teach you how to cum over and over again, so take out your notepad and get ready to take some notes. We discuss how to, love your body and vageen, get your man to go down on you, tips for giving a wifey blowie, facts vs myths about sex, the #1 ORAL METHOD THAT WILL MAKE YOUR GIRL CUM EVERY TIME, and more!!!

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I Never Said That!? w/ Remi Bader Mar 17, 2022

Women have been struggling with weight shaming and adapting body positivity because of the misconception that there is only one body type that’s perfect. Truth is, women are built differently and we all need to learn how to appreciate the body we have and wear it with utmost confidence!

Today, we welcome Remi Bader. Remi went viral in 2020 for posting realistic trys and hauls that I used to watch, and they were hilarious, where she basically showed the reality of buying clothes online when you don't have the same body type as the models on the website. Since taking over TikToK, Remi has made a name for herself in the fashion world, and even just signed with Victoria's Secret Pink as a brand ambassador and size consultant.

What to Listen For:

00:52 Everyone knows everything
02:07 Getting started on TikTok
04:51 A good brand with a variety of sizing
08:14 Losing weight and getting a backlash
11:14 Built big doesn’t mean you always support body positivity
17:38 Dealing with hateful comments
18:58 How did the Victoria Secret deal happen?
23:21 When did you start loving your body?
24:43 Confidence in the bedroom and intimate moments
27:20 Parents need to learn when not to say anything
30:11 Funny guys are easier to talk with
31:08 Future plans and projects
32:20 Do people get your sense of humor?

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How To Cum Every Time w/ Emily Morse Dec 23, 2021

Sex therapist / author / friend of the podcast EMILY MORSE returns to answer all of Violet's hard hitting questions LIKE: Do some guys cause UTIs? How do you awaken your vulva? Is not giving oral a deal breaker? Can anyone become a deep-throater? How do you reduce your gag reflex? Should you taste yourself before sex? AND How many orgasms can you have in one sitting???

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Life Changing Therapy Advice w/ Lori Gottlieb Dec 16, 2021

The advice I wish I got years ago… This hour will change your perspective baddies, I guarantee it.

Stop getting trapped in your own prisons, learn how to KNOW yourself, KNOW your partner, and make the right changes to start your new life chapter. Author and Therapist, Lori Gottlieb joins me this week with the most life changing adviced we ALL needed to hear. It's time to transform into the NEW YOU.

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We're ALL Bad At Dating w/Mark Groves Dec 02, 2021

Ever wonder why you're SO bad at dating? you're not alone. We ALL are and on this episode we reveal why. Joined by human connection specialist, Mark Groves, Violet goes DEEP into the psychology of human behavior and relationships. This week we're going on an in-depth analysis unpacking as to why we do the things we do while in love and while looking for love. Don’t worry, it’s been scientifically proven that love is basically a drug - so remember that stupid thing you did for your awful ex? It wasn’t your fault…you were under the influence! Even Beyonce's been Drunk In Love. Mark also elaborates on the various attachment styles we nurture from young ages and how they carry into our adult lives. Try not to get in your feels too much, and you have to PROMISE you won’t text your ex after this. You’re too tired to be crazy anyway! CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS FROM TODAY'S EP: Billie Razors: It’s just $9 to get your starter kit PLUS FREE shipping at MyBillie.com/tootired Headspace: For a free one month trial go to Headspace.com/tootired European Wax Center: Visit waxcenter.com and book your reservation today — your first wax is free! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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This is part two of my two part episode with the beautiful Stallone Sisters, Sistine and Sophia! We continue talking about who I liiiikkee right now and can’t stop thinking about, we also talk about who Sistine and Sophia are dating, plus a discussion on our zodiac signs, and why it's SO important to know everyone's love language, including your family.

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Dating & Self Sabotage w/The Stallone Sisters Nov 18, 2021

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HEY BADDIES!! This is part one of my two part episode with the beautiful STALLONE Sisters, Sistine and Sophia! We cover all the practical skills for women looking to date, our dads, MY REAL NAME, setting my friends up with my leftovers, zodiac signs, signs if you’re actually into someone or not, and what your erotic blueprint says about you and your partner.

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Blow & Intimacy Issues w/Hannah Berner Nov 11, 2021

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Sharing Their Strange Addictions w/ Devon & Sydney Carlson Nov 04, 2021

On this episode, Violet is joined by Devon & Sydney Carlson to discuss relationships, conquering depression, and strange addictions. Be sure to download now to hear how these two sisters went from having sibling rivalry to being BFFs, and of course, naked boyfriends! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Whiskey Dick is a Myth Oct 21, 2021

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Are women really to blame for men's erectile dysfunction? I THINK NOT

For this week's episode, Violet is joined by Justin Dubin. Justin is a Urologist, specializing in men's health. During this episode, Violet and Justin dive deep into misconceptions revolving around sex, and some very interesting facts you probably didn't know about UTI's.

This very interesting episode would not be complete without a very in-depth conversation about Viagra and Porn Stars. Intrigued? Just listen and all your doubts will be answered!

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Are You Emotionally Unavailable? W/ Empathy Therapist Figs Oct 07, 2021

Your toxic relationsh*t may actually have a chance IF you listen to this episode. On this episode we discuss, Types of empathy and having empathy for yourself, becoming the one you've been waiting for, coping mechanisms, what your partner is really feeling but not saying when you fight, and the type of lover that you are, We dive into turning your toxic relationship back into love, the type of love you're attractive, being emotionally unavailable and reaching true intimacy, self sabotaging and why it feels safer to be alone, which attachment style you are based on your childhood trauma, We end with the attachment style you are based on your childhood trauma, why its so hard letting go of a relationship where the other person has moved on and so much more!!! For more information on licensed therapist Fiachra "Figs" O'Sullivan, his free quiz, courses, or therapy, VISIT EMPATHI.COM See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

From Side Chick To Main Chick w/Patti Stanger Sep 30, 2021

I don’t cook, I don’t clean, but let me tell you how I got this ring! This week Violet is joined by Millionaire Matchmaker Patti Stanger and she has A LOT to say about your dating game. Tired of being the side chick? Well, Patti teaches you how to become the main and only chick in his life. Patti teaches us specific words and tools you can use to secure the ring, the difference in love languages, and EXACTLY when you should know that it's time to MOVE ON. Ladies, stop wasting your time and heed ALL of the advice in this episode, it’s game changing. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Hi, I'm An Emotional Wh0re Sep 23, 2021

Hi, my name is Violet Benson and I'm an Emotional Whore.

Violet's audio diaries are back by popular demand! Do you have a notebook ready? Because, you will WANT to take notes. Today Violet has three diary entries, where she dives deep into a personal story that she's NEVER TOLD BEFORE, how to keep a man, and when you should "hang up the phone"

Whether you have been tied up in a toxic relationship, and just coming into the realization. Or you feel you are not being appreciated enough. Just remember YOU are the only person that can dictate who you are, and you should not give anyone the power to do so!

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Sugar Daddies & Low Standards w/ Alex Papiccio Sep 16, 2021

Comedian / Influencer / YouTuber ALEX PAPICCIO shares how to get ALL the sugar without the daddy - dating older vs younger men - ignoring red flags - dumb things guys do on first dates - why liquid courage doesn't always help - and the craziest things we've ever done to impress a guy!

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Never Lose An Argument Again w/ Chris Voss Sep 09, 2021

In Los Angeles, the dedicated podcaster who investigates these vicious felonies are members of an elite squad known as Too Tired Too Be Crazy. These are their stories…

JK - it’s just our fearless leader Violet. Today the queen is back and joined by former FBI lead international kidnapping negotiator, Chris Voss. Violet learns pretty much EVERYTHING there is to know about winning a negotiation. Turns out everything in life is negotiable, and we're here to teach you how to do it.

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I Don't Wanna Be Sad Anymore Sep 02, 2021

In honor of September's #SuicidePreventionMonth today's episode covers depression because doesn't it sometimes just feel like everyone's depressed??? Well... it's because everyone probably is.

On today's episode I share one of the darkest times of my life. As I choke up and cry, I share my painful story of shame, battling with clinical depression 5 years ago and how I almost didn't think I'd survive it. I also discuss the difference between being sad, feeling depressed, and having actual clinical depression.

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Truth or Hoax n Stalker Ghosts w/ Chris Medina Aug 26, 2021

Are love and success really in the future? Or is it all just a big hoax? Today Violet sits down with the self-proclaimed "Howard Stern of psychics" Chris Medina. They talk about how Chris knew he had a special gift, different types of magic, and stalker ghosts that end up watching you 24/7! CAN WE SAY SPOOKY!?! This episode obviously wouldn't be complete without a reading! Chris gives Violet a reading and there are many surprises in her very near future.... Let's just say that a new love interest is looping around and she must dump her current guy. Whether you're a believer or not there is a little something for everyone in this episode. THIS PODCAST EPISODE WAS BROUGHT TO YOU BY Fboy Island streaming now on HBO Max!! Don't forget to subscribe and follow us on @tootiredtobecrazy on IG :) See you next Thursday baddies! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I Am Transgender with Corey Rae Aug 13, 2021

On this episode we start with getting to know Corey Rae and her journey as the world’s first transgender prom queen, the movie she’s working on, the one thing you should NEVER ask a transgender person, and horror dating stories before and after transition, Corey then goes into a detailed explanation of her transition from her childhood to her transition physically and emotionally, (including hormone blockers, hormone replacement therapy, body dysphoria, sex therapy, gender dysphoria, surgery, voice and facial feminization, tracheal shave, and more). We end the podcast with all questions you ever wanted to know, from sex, to orgasms, to when she finally felt like herself, being stealth, pronouns, finding herself, and learning how to love yourself inside and out. For more information: http://www.coreyrae.com/ https://itgetsbetter.org/ https://www.thetrevorproject.org/ https://transgenderlawcenter.org/ https://suicidepreventionlifeline.org/help-yourself/lgbtq/ https://www.betterhelp.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

WHOREible Decisions In Ur 30's w/ WeezyWTF Jul 29, 2021

Sometimes you just have to speak your mind and let it all out... for your passion for cheese and eating out... not necessarily in that order.

Violet is joined by Weezy, the cohost of the controversial and rebellious podcast, Whoreible Decisions. Together they dive into a HILARIOUS conversation from sex to cheese and everything in between..

This power duo will make you laugh, cry, and feel empowered to be in your 30's! They are 30, thriving, and comfortable in their own skin; from having confidence around any man, to their p*ssy lips lol, to being a BOSS A$$ RICH B*TCH!

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Is Your Vagina Normal? with Dr. Nazarian Jul 15, 2021

Today's episode is all about BIG P*SSY LIPS ENERGY!! Including my own since I share 22 pics of my taco with Dr. Nazarian to get her professional opinion on my beef curtains. On this episode, Sheila Nazarian joins me, an award-winning plastic surgeon and one of the top vaginal/ labiaplasty surgeons in Los Angeles, to discuss EVERYTHING VAGINA. We cover every myth and all of your questions; you'd be surprised by some of the answers.We get down and dirty on what is considered a "normal vagina", "outtie" vs "innie", why one labia side hangs lower than the other, bad odor down there, how shaving can cause discoloring, vageen changes after pregnancy/hormonal changes, tucking in your labia, porn star vag, getting wet, discharge, how a larger labia's provides higher sexual sensation and so much more!!!Dr. Nazarian also shares some plastic surgery horror stories, different non-invasive/invasive procedures you should consider, and SPOILER ALERT she says I have a barbie vagina so TIME TO WIFE ME UP BOYS!!!!Follow Dr. Sheila Nazarian at @DrSheilaNazarian on Instagram and check out her site https://nazarianplasticsurgery.comFollow me at @VioletBenson & @Tootiredtobecrazy and don't forget to subscribe!!! New episode every Thursday!! Pls rate and review!!!Full video is uploaded to youtube every Friday on www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Too Hot To Handle w/Carly Lawrence Jul 08, 2021

Cockroaches weren't the only thing drawn to Chase on this season of Too Hot To Handle.... Cue in, Carly Lawrence.

Netflix star, Carly Lawrence, from Too Hot to Handle season 2, joins Violet on a tell all sit down on EVERYTHING that actually went down on camera and off camera. She spills the tea on being SINGLE(ISH), who she is currently dating (you heard it here FIRST), and whether or not the door is fully closed on Chase.

The girls also discuss body insecurities, overcoming them, intimacy issues, what's next for Carly, and SO much more!

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Why You're Not Cumming With Emily Morse Jul 01, 2021

Emily Morse is back!!! And we start with, celebrating that I finally had sex!!!, why you're not cumming, why lube is everything, passing gas during sex, what's considered normal fluid in the bedroom, and how I realized I had a yeast infection in the middle of sex.We dig into period sex, hot tub sex, a method for great shower sex, tips for good sex for a smaller pipi, and the #1 ORAL method that gets your girl to cum every time.We end with masturbating, what it's like to date a boss ass bish, open relationships, how to be a good kisser, and nibbling on the ears n neck. Thank you,Violet BensonInstagram: @Daddyissues_ & @VioletbensonTwitter: @Daddyissues__Snapchat: DaddyissuesLAYouTube: VioletBensonFacebook: VioletBensonOfficialSite: DaddyissuesLA.com See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Emrata, Postpartum, and Buttholes w/ Claire Holt Jun 24, 2021

Rule Number 1: Never stalk your ex’s...unless it’s your friends ex and she needs your FBI skills.

Violet is joined by Australian actress, mom, and overall baddie Claire Holt! Together the two get DEEP (pro tip: never take a Polaroid of your butthole). Claire let’s us into her world elaborating on some of her darkest moments and how she saw the light at the end of the tunnel. We also find out that Emrata has Violet blocked on Instagram for no apparent reason and that Claire isn’t afraid to hold her tongue. This episode is jam PACKED. WARNING: a tissue is recommended for your tears of both sadness AND laughter.

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B*TCH MOVE ON Jun 17, 2021

On this episode, Violet gives you 9 steps to get over that fuckboy that's ruining your life and answer some of your questions like, 5 things you don't know about her, being rejected, and how being 'Daddyissues' has actually affected her love life in a negative way.

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The Life of a Porn Star w/ Pressure The Entertainer Jun 10, 2021

BBC's, Double Penetration, feet fetish, and Creampies! Just normal conversation topic over here.

This week Violet is joined by adult film star Pressure! Together the two unpack ALL there is to know about the adult film industry from a black straight males perspective. They also discuss MANY different types of kinks, tips for you in bed, AND the perfect trick you may need to give head just a little bit better! P.S. If you need threesome advice, LISTEN NOW!

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CONFIRMED: Still Toxic w/ Harry Jowsey Jun 03, 2021

And just like that…trouble in paradise! AGAIN. Are we shocked?

Violet is joined by superstar Harry Jowsey and therapy is in SESSION! Violet gives us a NEVER before seen side of the heartthrob! In this week's episode Harry opens up and lets us into his entire life, FAR beyond Tik Tok. From rural Australia to internet stardom, Harry has had an INTENSE 24 years of life.

Of course, Violet gets to the juicy stuff where we hear HIS side of the drama regarding America’s favorite couple. Will Harry and Francesca reconcile for the 800th time? Will Harry break the internet with a new girlfriend? Will Harry have the highest viewed TED talk of all time thanks to Violet unpacking his trauma? Find out on this week's episode, coming to a For You Page near you!

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Are We Still Toxic? W/ Francesca Farago May 27, 2021

Left my ex bish cuz’ HE toxic…

This week Violet is joined by her beautiful bestie Francesca Farago! Together the two are tanned from their recent vacation to Mexico and ready to spill some MAJOR TEA. The girls take us on a minute by minute journey of their entire trip that is SO in-depth that you’re gonna feel like you were wasted (or on shrooms like Violet) on the beach with them.

Francesca fills us in on ALL the deets about her infamous relationship with Harry Jowsey, her relationship status, and gives us the exclusive and most recent update that you have NOT heard anywhere else.

Violet also tells us about her vacation-bae and how you truly can find love in the most hopeless places…like at a restaurant in Tulum while you’re already ten tequila shots deep. Even though he devolves into hopeless-bae and forgets she exists the very next day…but hey! It wouldn’t be a true vacation romance without some pain, right?

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The Streets Are Calling w/ Alex Papiccio May 20, 2021

If you’re wondering if you’ll ever retire from the streets, have no fear! Alex is here!

This week Violet is joined by not only a fan favorite, but one of her dearest friends, Alex Papiccio. Together these two are a HOT MESS. No seriously, things are getting chaotic. Alex gives us a major life update by announcing that she has OFFICIALLY retired from the streets. But don’t worry, she’s recounting ALL of her h*e memories, to ensure us that we’re not alone. With Violet and Alex, NO topic is off limits. From taboo fetishes, to spitting in mouths, to f*cking at Disney World - these two don’t miss a beat. We also get some hot role playing tips, a step-by-step tutorial on how to bleach your butthole, and even a brief health class discussing STI’s. This is gonna be an earful, but in the VERY best way.

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CANCEL ME I DARE YOU w/Heather McDonald May 06, 2021

So you’re considering leaving your entire life behind, packing all your stuff, and moving to LA to become the next Tana Mongeau…well you MAY want to reconsider. It’s not as easy as it seems. This week Violet is accompanied by pop culture connoisseur, Heather McDonald. Heather is famously known as an actress, comedian, author, and host of hit podcast Juicy Scoop with Heather McDonald. Together the two unpack ALL things problematic within Hollywood. Nepotism? Grooming? Creepy managers? Cancel Culture? Violet and Heather have stories for DAYS. Tune in as the two SPILL the ins and outs of the entertainment business and even expose some of your favorite childhood memories. Sorry, but it needed to be done. Throw on your oversized Mary Kate & Ashley sunglasses and turn the volume up, we’re going to Hollywood. CHECK OUT MY SPONSORS: Apartments.com: Need a new pad?! Find your new home at https://apartments.com European Wax Center: Visit waxcenter.com to book your reservation today and check out the new line of products — remember, your first wax is free! Lelo: Explore your desires without shame with LELO Enigma. https://lelo.to/EnigmaxViolet See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Everyone's Annoying w/Nick Viall Apr 29, 2021

On this episode sexy bachelor, Nick Viall joins me and gives us stellar dating advice from a man's perspective that we're all dying to know but are to afraid to ask!! from how to tell if he even likes you or is just using you, getting what you want in the relationship, finding the one, love bombing, getting over a breakup, and so much more! We also discuss The Bachelor Matt James, me sliding into Bachelor contestants dm's and getting rejected, to his turn on and offs in bed and other sex stuff :D Nick literally changed my whole perspective on dating after this episode!! Follow Nick on IG @NickViall and check out his podcast Viall Files every Monday! Don't forget to subscribe and follow @tootiredtobecrazy on IG! see you next Thursday baddies!! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sex Stories, Older Men, & STD's w/ Hannah Berner Apr 22, 2021

My guest this week is a standup comedian, cast member on Summer House on Bravo AND host of her podcast Berning in Hell, Hannah Berner! We kickoff the episode by talking about d*ck. Curved d*ck to be exact. She shares her experience with different d*ck sizes and why bigger isn't ALWAYS better! We discuss what marriage d*ck means, my wide set vageen, the one lie every man has told you that you fell for, and tips on dating an athlete. We then get into scorpios and Leos, why older men are the move, signs you’re about to get ghosted by the nice f*ckboy, how to have that X factor that will get all the boys coming back. We end the podcast with normalizing STD’s and Hannah shares a bunch of embarrassing drunken sex stories with the class like the time she farted on a man while he was eating her out… and that’s not all! Tune in and don’t forget to leave a review when you’re done. <3 Follow Hannah on IG at @BeingBernz and check out her Berning In Hell podcast. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

I Can't Be Gay! With shannon beveridge Apr 15, 2021

On this episode I have Shannon come on and discuss everything LGBT from coming out, accepting herself, dating boys, when she realized she was gay, dealing with hate, We also confront myths and misconceptions about lesbians, we discuss sex from scissoring to anal to toys, battling depression, and being an ally for the LGBT communityFollow Shannon at @NowThisIsLiving on Instagram, Youtube and TwitterFollow me at @violetbenson & @Tootiredtobecrazy and don't forget to subscribe!! Watch this episode on my youtube channel athttp://www.youtube.com/c/daddyissuesLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoicesLearn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Love, Sex, Boys & Feelings w/ Kiana Ledé Apr 08, 2021

“I know that you're superwoman but even superwoman is only one person. You need people sometimes… and that’s okay." On this episode, the talented Kiana Ledé joins me to discuss our zodiac signs, growing up mixed, her music and what inspires her, losing our virginity, sex, second chances, the harm in dating potential. We also address, what we look for in a man, masturbating, feelings, boys, payback on a cheating ex, and our first time opening up on our experience with sexual assault. We then get into love, how your thoughts become reality, learning to love yourself and changing your perspective on dating, boundaries, and how to get what you want. We end the podcast with a discussion about mental health, Kiana's battle with bipolar disorder, her recent depressive suicidal episode, and how she got better. National Suicide Prevention Lifeline: 800-273-8255 Check out Kiana's album Kiki and follow her on Instagram at @Kianalede Don't forget to subscribe and @TooTiredToBeCrazy on Instagram and I'll see you next Thursday!! <3 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Reasons We Date Toxic Ppl W/Demi Burnett Mar 18, 2021

Demi Burnett from The Bachelor Franchise joins me on this episode as we talk about everything from toxic relationships to childhood trauma to our love for masturbating! you're not gonna wanna miss this one! Timestamps: 0:00 - 25:00 - We discuss Demi’s breakup, our relationship fears, toxic relationships - our addiction to high n lows, why we stay, what draws us, our dating pattern, how to let go, and steps to loving yourself again. 25:00 - 47:43 - Demi opens up about her complicated relationship with her mother from physical abuse, neglect, her mother being incarcerated, and forgiving an absent parent for not being there. 47:43 - 1:11:31 - We end the podcast like two drunk girls in the club bathroom n gush how much we love each other, our love for masturbating, tips on cumming during sex, Demi’s love for getting eaten out, and advice on how to love your vageen. Follow @Tootiredtobecrazy on Instagram and don't forget to subscribe! See you next Thursday! <3 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Get In Bed With Hasan Piker Mar 12, 2021

On this episode I have woke 6'4 bae, Hasan Piker open up on how he lost 80 pounds, found courage to talk to girls, overcame his insecurities, found love, and dated a porn star.We then discuss Leo traits, what men want, whether guys care about a girl's labia, sex, eating ass, open relationships, f*ck buddies, and toys, We end the podcast with fear of rejection, being vulnerable, coming off overbearing, and the struggle to find love with you don't love yourself. Follow Hasan at @HasanDPiker on Instagram & HasanAbi on TwitchFollow me at @violetbenson & @Tootiredtobecrazy and don't forget to subscribe!! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

THAT b*tch w/ Christine Quinn Mar 04, 2021

This week I have Christine Quinn, the star of Netflix’s hottest show, Selling Sunset and you better listen up because she spills all the show’s tea, dick sizes, tricks for bagging a millionaire plus being cheated on??

We also get into the wedding drama you've been DYING to hear about, Christine’s issues with Chrishell, being blocked on socials, the real reason why her dad didn’t walk her down the aisle and why she doesn't like to watch her wedding on the show!

I loved chatting with Christine, she may be everyone’s favorite Selling Sunset villain but in the real world she’s a total boss bish!

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Give Love Without Fear w/Jojo Feb 25, 2021

Today's guest is the beautiful and talented singer, JoJo!! We start the episode with the weirdest thing sbout us, my hookup with a girl this weekend, and her 3some experience, She relays an important message about the ugly side of the music industry that involves 'grooming' young girls and the importance of knowing the boundaries of consent. She then addresses why she cheated on her ex, the damage of cheating, why we cheat, and forgiving yourself. We end the podcast with, why the hell we sometimes feel the need to bring up our EXES in CURRENT relationships, why we self sabotage, and the benefits of wellness, therapy and self-care. Check out Jojo's newest album "Good To Know" and follow her on Instagram @iamjojo Don't forget to subscribe and leave me a review with your dating questions!! and I'll see you next Thursday! Resources: https://www.samhsa.gov/find-help/national-helpline SAMHSA’s National Helpline – 1-800-662-HELP (4357) 1-800-662-4357 See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Only Fans w/ Lena The Plug Feb 18, 2021

She's just this ferocious slut that masturbates all the time or so you think.... She's actually so much more. Lena The Plug joins me as we discuss how she got into porn, being both a youtuber and a pornstar, f*cking her boyfriend on camera, origination of the name Lena The Plug, crazy fan stories, her childhood and growing up in a strict Armenian household. We the move into how she lost her virginity, the first time she watched porn, loving her body, the porn industry, her sexuality, what she looks for in a girl, and the difference between Only Fans, Patreon, Live cam sites, and Premium Snapchat, and which one she’s on. We end the podcast with sex, sex, sex and more sex from loving anal, toys, size really does matter, what makes her cum, eating a girl out, eating ass, threesomes, queefing, common myths about pornstars, having a roast beef p*ssy and even getting gonorrhea. Love Wellness: Find Do It All Wipes at lovewellness.com/violet and get 20% off your order with promo code violet Manscaped: Get 20% off plus free shipping with the code VIOLET at Manscaped.com Follow Lena Nersesian at @LenaThePlug on Instagram and youtube. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Living The American Dream w/Kristina Schulman Feb 12, 2021

On today's episode I first discuss the power of manifesting and how I manifested my current life. I then have Kristina Schulman on, as she opens up about her childhood as an orphan in Russia and being adopted by an American family that took her in and moved her to the US. You will laugh, you will cry, this will be one inspiring episode. Follow Kristina on Instagram at @kristinaschulman and the podcast @tootiredtobecrazy See you next Thursday BADDIES!!! See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Being A Mother Changed Me With Milla Jovovich Feb 04, 2021

"It was like giving birth and having an abortion at the same time" Mila says during the interview. We first start the episode with speaking Russian, her current obsession, DIY home tips, the reality and struggles of being pregnant, and her marriage including breaking up for almost two years.We dive into growing up with an abusive alcoholic father, being an immigrant, the moment she had to grow up, keeping the romance alive by having sex in the closet and laundry room, how being a mother changed her, having an emergency abortion while 4 1/2 months pregnant, the worst depression of her life, and how she survived it.We end the podcast on a lighter note with playing a baby shower game, what weapons she hides next to her bed, her current film Paradise Hills that's out in theaters now, and Monster Hunter that comes out in 2020. Follow Milla at MillaJovovich on Instagram and watch out for her new movie, Monster Hunter in theaters next year. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Taking Control of Your Destiny With Adelaide Kane Jan 28, 2021

I sit with this Aussie bombshell and we discuss everything from partying to how she started to what inspires her to when drinking becomes a problem and why she stopped to all the way to her regrets with her last relationship.Adelaide opens up for the first time about why her last relationship ended, her regrets, and her current love life as we cry and laugh through this episode. See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

We Never Had Sex with Logan Paul Jan 21, 2021

On this episode with Logan Paul, we discuss that time I tried to bang him, Logan's type, Japan, depression, James Charles, cancel culture, and my embarrassing drunk texts. We then get into a more serious discussion like the first time Logan touched a wiener, our most embarrassing sex stories, and what everyone's been dying to know... who's d*ck is bigger - LOGAN or JAKE?!?! Which team are YOU on!?! Length or girth?We end the podcast with final thoughts on sending nudes, f*cking on the first date, going through your partner's phone and what it means when he watches your IG story but doesn't call (spoiler alert: It don't mean sh*t).Follow Logan at @loganpaul and check out his podcast, Impulsive!Follow me at @violetbenson & @Tootiredtobecrazy and don't forget to subscribe!! New episode every Thursday!Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sex, Daddy Issues & Fetishes w/Sofia Franklyn Jan 14, 2021

On this episode, Sofia Frankly, host of Sofia With An F podcast joins me as one of the most requested guests! We cover reverse cow girl, and a "how to" guide to cum when on top and in the "cat" position.

We get into the do's and dont's of dating apps, our daddy issues, thoughts on f*cking on the first date, fetishes, and the gluck gluck 9000.

We end the episode with tips on eating the p$ssy, Jay Alvarez, bleaching our butth0le, biggest boner killer, and friendship breakups!

Make sure to catch me on Sofia's podcast "Sofia With An F"! Don't forget to subscribe, rate, and review!!

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Are you dating a F*ckboy? Jan 07, 2021

Welcome to the first episode of Too Tired To Be Crazy - a hilarious podcast brought to you by me, Violet Benson (creator of @daddyissues_ )!!Today we're talking about my insane dating life and even crazier mind. So grab a bottle of wine and some tissues because you're about to get on an emotional rollercoaster called "He's wasting your time 2019". On this episode, we discuss our own f*ckboy experience, answer your questions, and give advice on how to end a toxic cycle and love yourself.Don't forget to subscribe and tell a friend!!Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

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