12 Steps to Change

Step 2 Hope Jun 12, 2024

Addiction is a b!t

Step 1 Honesty- Jay and Brad get honest about why we have been on break May 29, 2024

We are back...again after a LONG break. We get honest as to why. You will not want to miss the next three episodes.

Anti - Mormons Prey Upon Addicts with Midnight Mormons Apr 19, 2023

The Midnight Mormons invite Jay and Brad onto their show to talk about our podcast

Do people prey on addicts ? Mar 22, 2023

Would you pay this guy 5 grand to tell you to just drink in moderation ? Is this a scam or a genius ?

Returning home early from a mission.....and the journey back out Jan 31, 2023

This is not a 12 step drop... but the principles of getting honest, honest confession and a strong support network gets Curren back out on his mission. Maybe worth sharing with someone you know who is or may want to help someone going through this.

Married to an addict....Part 2 with Lexi Jan 18, 2023

Part two with our guest Lexi. Everyone loves Lexi and she is back to talk about her growth with Alanon and doing the 12 steps to help herself. Lexi and Jay have been married for over a decade and they share how they use the 12 steps to help keep in recovery but keep their marriage healthy. They are everyone's favorite couple to party with You can buy Alanon Works book here: https://amzn.to/3ISasXD You can buy the Myth of Normal here: https://amzn.to/3IK8hoT You can buy Healing Through Christ workbook here: https://www.healingthroughchrist.org/

Married to an addict.......in recovery with LEX Jan 14, 2023

Everyone loves Lexi and she is back to talk about her growth with Alanon and doing the 12 steps to help herself. Lexi and Jay have been married for over a decade and they share how they use the 12 steps to help keep in recovery but keep their marriage healthy. They are everyone's favorite couple to party with You can buy Alanon Works book here: https://amzn.to/3ISasXD You can buy the Myth of Normal here: https://amzn.to/3IK8hoT You can buy Healing Through Christ workbook here: https://www.healingthroughchrist.org/

Recovery songs with Jay's Addiction Jan 05, 2023

2023 Episode two. Brad and Jay introduce a new segment called "Jay's Addiction" and we review some songs about recovery and talk more about step 1.

The Pandemic almost ruined my recovery.. Dec 29, 2022

After a two year break, Brad and Jay are back with The Next Step Podcast. The pandemic disrupted a lot of things, including Jay's recovery. We recap what happened and what helped Jay used the "Next Steps" to find relief. Buy the books talked about in the show: Alanon Works : https://amzn.to/3IcOsWS The Myth of Normal: https://amzn.to/3jzsPpE The equipment we use: Audio: https://amzn.to/3WO3Gpl Video: https://amzn.to/3hZmVNS Thank you to @MIDNIGHTMORMONS and @thoughtfulfaith1948 for doing the heavy lifting of LDS apologetics.

The Next Step Pod 8.1. Step 1 getting honest Feb 15, 2020

We are back 1! we will do 20 in 20. 12steps

The Next Step Pod 6.4 Ask Addict Therapist Part 1 - 10:14:19, 4.49 PM Oct 15, 2019

We are back with another episode. This one has been on the hard drive for a few weeks. But with some sickness, injuries, general conference, trips and our own busy and crazy lives... it took us a while. Thank you for being patient. This weeks Ask the Addict is with Janet Kennedy. 30 years of sobriety and a LMFT. Find her at. http://www.janetkennedylmft.com/ Send us an email/DM/message on 12stepstochange for some "ask the therapist questions.

The Next Step Pod 6.3 Spouse Support - 8:7:19, 8.25 PM Aug 08, 2019

If you like us, will you consider a small donation ? https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate.php President Nelson's speech at the NAACP https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4JpIyW2S-WA

The Next Step Pod 6.2 Jay And Lexi Pre Surgury - Step 2 Hope Jul 17, 2019

Want to help the podcast ? https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate.php Lights out in NY- OCMCO Lit the world with song: https://newyork.cbslocal.com/2019/07/14/manhattan-blackout-carnegie-hall-millennial-choir-and-orchestras/ Laguna Niguel Stake and Tijuana Mexico Stakes combine for youth conference: https://www.facebook.com/12stepstochange/

The Next Step Pod 6.1 Brian Part 3 - 6:26:19, 9.16 PM Jun 27, 2019

https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ Shocking Bracelet: http://www.fox5ny.com/news/trying-to-quit-smoking-or-fast-food-this-bracelet-will-literally-shock-you-out-of-a-bad-habit?fbclid=IwAR1BFp_5Ygm9lIN0rEqAQfnn-vYpK1BU6CkoSRvM4rDk27QpGjxKnsZzZNE Help us talk with Alex Boye https://www.eastidahonews.com/2019/06/alex-boye-reveals-how-he-overcame-a-major-pornography-problem/?fbclid=IwAR3NhpxNnbtWs0J4twqvMztvT-siZ-dfAKoq9rDrm1CVCW5TGIXTL2zpWHM Like, Share, Support the show.

The Next Step Pod 5.12 Some church news and listener questions May 15, 2019

Want to support the podcast ? https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ News from here: http://www.ldsliving.com/ Find a 12 step meeting with ARP at arp.lds.org other 12 step meetings: • AA – Alcoholics Anonymous • ACA – Adult Children of Alcoholics • Al-Anon/Alateen, for friends and families of alcoholics • CA – Cocaine Anonymous • CLA – Clutterers Anonymous • CMA – Crystal Meth Anonymous • Co-Anon, for friends and family of addicts • CoDA – Co-Dependents Anonymous, for people working to end patterns of dysfunctional relationships and develop functional and healthy relationships • COSA – an auxiliary group of Sex Addicts Anonymous • COSLAA – CoSex and Love Addicts Anonymous • DA – Debtors Anonymous • EA – Emotions Anonymous, for recovery from mental and emotional illness • FA – Families Anonymous, for relatives and friends of addicts • FA – Food Addicts in Recovery Anonymous • FAA – Food Addicts Anonymous • GA – Gamblers Anonymous • Gam-Anon/Gam-A-Teen, for friends and family members of problem gamblers • HA – Heroin Anonymous • MA – Marijuana Anonymous • NA – Narcotics Anonymous • N/A – Neurotics Anonymous, for recovery from mental and emotional illness • Nar-Anon, for friends and family members of addicts • NicA – Nicotine Anonymous • OA – Overeaters Anonymous • OLGA – Online Gamers Anonymous • PA – Pills Anonymous, for recovery from prescription pill addiction. • SA – Sexaholics Anonymous • SAA – Sex Addicts Anonymous • SCA – Sexual Compulsives Anonymous • SIA – Survivors of Incest Anonymous • SLAA – Sex and Love Addicts Anonymous • SRA – Sexual Recovery Anonymous • UA – Underearners Anonymous • WA – Workaholics Anonymous

The Next Step Pod 5.11- Step 11 and ask the Addict with Reed talking about weed Apr 25, 2019

SMILE- We have a new episode up ! And it will make you happy ! https://www.studyfinds.org/key-to-happiness-smiling-more-frequently/?fbclid=IwAR2_AYWJvw4XaIRmdA_pz4Zus1iTI16D_eHsAaiacxhdxM8y5-RnAI1X2q8 Is weed harmful to teens? https://www.amenclinics.com/blog/4-ways-cannabis-harms-the-teenage-brain/?fbclid=IwAR2p5j5wm431OS0aIooVA35-dDL_VThJyEDC0yAYh2EextmqVaRSpHySRLs Ask the Addict with Reed. From professional skateboarder to addict to sobriety.

The Next Step Pod 5.10 Treehouse - 3:20:19, 7.01 AM Mar 21, 2019

Tree House Recovery: Costa Mesa, California https://treehouserecovery.com Tree House Recovery PDX: Portland, Oregon https://treehouserecoverypdx.com https://www.newswise.com/articles/mental-health-issues-increased-significantly-in-young-adults-over-last-decade?fbclid=IwAR1lHSw9GxWV9Ysu9PcX4lsIltDGTEUw50Givx-2ExNCS_AhTtcBT4fMlmE https://www.theguardian.com/lifeandstyle/2019/mar/11/young-men-porn-induced-erectile-dysfunction?fbclid=IwAR2W0Y0EO2Oq1cANuIBrRFcg1RfOZwB5Az6nC4zhHkmeloXQ6ZJWY_dXFQo Treehouse Recovery: Facebook https://www.facebook.com/Tree.House.Recovery/ Instagram https://www.instagram.com/treehouserecovery/

The Next Step Pod 5.9 - listner questions & comments and always improving Feb 28, 2019

https://www.cnn.com/2019/02/09/health/arizona-porn-public-health/index.html https://www.deseretnews.com/article/900057603/byu-police-decertified-by-state-utah.html https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/

The Next Step Pod 5.10- Pornography Addiction for women Feb 07, 2019

http://www.ldsliving.com/Latter-day-Saint-Therapist-If-Your-Spouse-Cheats-and-Repents-Are-You-Obligated-to-Forgive/s/90137?fbclid=IwAR1L4-sPajQ_mmYWbMswWkgR57LZ97OdtsJ99-9PzkxDgyZ_TavXXoEJTNM https://wisemindhealthybody.com/ursula-herrera/drinking-one-diet-drink-daily-can-triple-risk-of-dementia-stroke/?c=jer&utm_term=jer&fbclid=IwAR1YF4oRUcWDzv62kOnwrsOz1zQUKuW_THgo_KAMvrAZk0gaNBGZeVLoh_0

The Next Step 5 -9 Restitution and Reconciliation- Jay and Xander 6 years Jan 10, 2019

Check out Leading Saints: https://leadingsaints.org/category/mp3/ Check out the map showing overdose locations https://themindunleashed.com/2018/12/opioid-crisis-700000-americans-dead.html?fbclid=IwAR2pg3pTFZqtb9bpynvpM8T9dLLBA2ml1FWlggcHmZcVesHwlHMBXdLsfaE

The Next Step Pod NSP Townhall Dec 19, 2018

The Canyon Club https://canyonclub.org/meetings To find an ARP Meeting near you: arp.lds.org To find an Al-anon Meeting near you: https://al-anon.org/al-anon-meetings/find-an-al-anon-meeting/

The Next Step Pod Light The World - LDS Podcasters Dec 06, 2018

Light the world Podcast Compilations. http://www.lnstake.org/interfaith-light-the-world/

The Next Step Pod 5.8 - Round table discussion with spouses of addicts (in and out of recovery) Nov 16, 2018

Do you enjoy the podcast ? Do you want to donate to help keep it going? https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ "Here's the bottom line," she says. "Using less social media than you normally would leads to significant decreases in both depression and loneliness. These effects are particularly pronounced for folks who were more depressed when they came into the study." https://www.sciencedaily.com/releas…/2018/…/181108164316.htm How Alanon Works https://www.amazon.com/Al-Anon-Works-Families-Friends-Alcoholics/dp/0910034265

The Next Step Pod 5.7 - Sponsor Roundtable--> Listener questions Oct 31, 2018

It would be pretty sweet if you donated to the podcast: https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ http://www.ldsliving.com/6-Myths-Latter-day-Saints-Often-Tell-Themselves-About-Our-Beliefs/s/89223?fbclid=IwAR3F6njYd66jhS6Ic1fB7nd02Q1HNAdYJrm8p58l_GZloklY4dpET3yg98k https://www.militarytimes.com/off-duty/military-culture/2018/10/26/the-militarys-obsession-with-energy-drinks-is-contributing-to-ptsd-study-finds/?fbclid=IwAR3r-zXxWbHTbSYF1rk2KaJ8kTHvx8e51yoE-oWwm4ovSIa_-7VIfWrmMPM https://www.npr.org/sections/health-shots/2018/10/30/662127406/when-adolescents-give-up-pot-their-cognition-quickly-improves?fbclid=IwAR3Fp_TVM7oUpR4pGJMavOPZH0iiKm3lkBWl62pZy5Z74GVxfXZGC18IW6c

The next step pod 5.6 ---> wife or Ryan (podcast 5.5) Oct 12, 2018

Help support the podcast. ? https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ Watch/Listen/Read conference on your commute https://www.lds.org/general-conference?lang=eng

The next step pod 5.5- Confession--->ask the addict with a love and sex addict Sep 23, 2018

News with Brad and Jay Step 5 Share by Marvin Ask the addict with Ryan who describes himself as a Sex and Love addict. https://www.desertsolace.com/

The next step pod 5.4 ----> Ask the addicts and Lexi about a lot of church news Aug 30, 2018

This episode we gathered Lexi (wife of an addict) and Marvin (addict in recovery and a facilitator), both frequent guests on the show about the plethora of chruch and addiction news. We then drop Jay's share on step 4 Based upon demand by our local ARP group, we started recording Brad's Group Leader close and dropping that into the podcast. Please give us reviews on what ever podcast app you use, it helps more people find us.

The next step pod 5.3 Step 3 Trust in God--->>> Ask the food addict Aug 08, 2018

Do you follow us on Facebook ? https://www.facebook.com/12stepstochange/ Do you want to donate to the podcast ? https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ News: Shawn Weiss - Mighty Ducks to Mighty Fall https://people.com/crime/mighty-ducks-shaun-weiss-arrested-for-drugs-mugshot/ Don't hide your recovery under a bushel: https://www.facebook.com/LDS/videos/10156466209306550/?hc_ref=ARTW6MCXq42OC9p7VhvhJpSlVFr0L1Wnyuh_om9jvUXz_L53d_L4EKtfI8b9y1s0I3E Breaking law of chastity (even if not Mormon) can make you feel sad ? https://www.studyfinds.org/study-pcd-men-experienced-sadness-after-sex/ Art Bell death: https://www.reviewjournal.com/local/local-nevada/radio-host-art-bell-died-of-accidental-drug-overdose/

The next step pod 5.2 - Brad and Jay extended discussion about news and testimonies Jul 24, 2018

Brad and Jay talk about recent news and go into an extended discussion about testimonies, temptation and using the 12 steps to change. http://www.dailymail.co.uk/health/article-5933317/Sex-addiction-mental-health-disorder-declare-World-Health-Organization.html https://www.facebook.com/MormonNewsroom/?hc_ref=ARSyAKAcCX9DesGulnyZxCcSJ7Lm_CYINQ7qzXnVWqFgJd5ZmKFL7CUmMR96_WKeXmQ&fref=nf

The next step pod 5.1 ---> Honesty and personal apostasy Jun 20, 2018

Has this podcast helped you or one you love ? Maybe you could become a supporter: https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ NEWS: new Hymnal ? Submit your suggestions: https://www.deseretnews.com/article/900022000/major-revisions-to-lds-church-hymnbooks-coming-soon-will-add-global-flavor.html Can yoga inflate your ego instead of control it ? https://qz.com/1307380/yoga-and-meditation-boost-your-ego-say-psychology-researchers/ Step 1 Share Brad talks with Jay about people leaving the church. He shares his struggle with church culture and teachings and how he exercised his faith. If you have doctrinal questions this is a good resource to really learn the whole story: https://www.fairmormon.org/ The views expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not represent the LDS church or LDSFS

The next step pod 4.12 - Bryan recounts journey from rebelious teen to temple Jun 13, 2018

Like this podcast ? Please donate: https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ News: http://universe.byu.edu/2018/06/05/some-mormons-substitute-sugar-addictions-for-other-addictions-1/ http://www.good4utah.com/news/local-news/youth-who-fasted-from-social-media-report-feeling-happy-/1232052016 Jay Share Ask the Addict with Bryan. Bryan returns to the podcast. Hear about how his journey has been on coming back to church, relapse and going to the temple.

The next step pod 4.11 ---> Listener Questions May 26, 2018

If you want to help support the Podcast: https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ NEWS: https://www.mirror.co.uk/lifestyle/health/bad-news-sausage-bacon-booze-12585028 https://www.dailywire.com/news/31052/walsh-parents-get-your-kids-snapchat-and-then-get-matt-walsh Step 11 Share by Marvin: https://addictionrecovery.lds.org/steps/11?lang=eng Brad and Jay answer listener questions.

The next step pod 4.10 Daily Accountability ---> Jay drives someone to treatment May 02, 2018

Step 10 Podcast (4th time around). News Links: http://www.ldsliving.com/Why-Women-Struggle-with-Pornography-Too-5-Ways-to-Talk-with-Your-Daughter-About-It/s/88213 https://www.prnewswire.com/news-releases/new-cigna-study-reveals-loneliness-at-epidemic-levels-in-america-300639747.html 75 Talks by President Nelson: https://ableday.org/70-day-president-nelson-study/ Follow us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/12stepstochange/

The next step pod 4.9 Restitution- Brad and Jay interviewed by Peculiar People Mar 15, 2018

Want to help us ? https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ This weeks news: Why would the bishop restrict us from taking the sacrament ? https://www.facebook.com/LeadingLDS/posts/2029320857108389 Miracle device to curb withdrawal symptoms ? https://www.ksl.com/?sid=46279065&nid=148&title=device-helping-opioid-and-heroin-addicts-through-withdrawal-symptoms Brad and Jay were honored to be interviewed on the Peculiar People podcast. You should really listen to their podcast as well instead of wasting so much time on Instagram/twitter/facebook and be uplifted by some amazing people. https://www.thepeculiarppl.com/podcasts/

The next step pod 4.8-->Seeking forgiveness-->Ask the addict with Neil Mar 08, 2018

Do you think we are making a difference in people's lives ? Do you feel like making a small donation to help offset the costs ? www.thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ This weeks news we talk about physical withdrawal symptoms of prescribed opioids: www.facebook.com/pg/12stepstochan…ef=page_internal President and Sister Nelson to speak: www.deseretnews.com/article/9000121…-for-youth.html Jay's Share- Ask the Addict with Neil. Neil's wife was interviewed on Episode 3:10 User-876249599 – The-next-step-pod-310-daily-accountability-ask-the-spouse-of-a-pornsex-addict You can read more about their journey on www.mintarrow.com as well as score some sweet deals.

The next step pod 4.7- Humility----> Why self identify as an addict ? Feb 25, 2018

Has this podcast helped you or one you love ? Maybe you could help keep it going by going here: https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ News: Massive ancient cities found in South America: http://www.patheos.com/blogs/danpeterson/2018/02/laser-scanning-reveals-lost-ancient-mexican-city-many-buildings-manhattan.html#E6w5qDPMXE6wAoYh.01 Steven Tyler talks about recovery and attending 12 step meetings: http://www.mauinews.com/news/local-news/2018/02/steven-tyler-im-very-grateful-for-being-sober/ Jay shares about step 7 Ask the addict with Xander and Jay on the power of identifying as an addict (if you are an addict) Are you an alcoholic? https://www.aa.org/pages/en_US/is-aa-for-you-twelve-questions-only-you-can-answer Drug Addict ? https://www.na.org/?ID=ips-an-an-IP7 Sex Addict ? https://salifeline.org/how-do-you-know-if-youre-a-sex-addict/

The next step pod 4.6 ----Listener Questions and Jay talks about the "shooting Star Effect" Feb 08, 2018

Want to support the podcast ? https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ We open up this episode talking about when Brad made Jay stop by the rehab he first got sober in. See the video here: https://www.facebook.com/12stepstochange/ Smart Phone Addiction: https://www.wired.com/story/phone-addiction-formula/ Step 6 Share by Jay https://addictionrecovery.lds.org/steps/6?lang=eng Ask the Addict: Listener questions Jay talks about the "Shooting Star Effect". Thank you for listening.

The next step pod 4.5 Brad, Jay and Xander talk Relapse Jan 25, 2018

You like the podcast? Want to help support it ? https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ News Talk: Vaping: https://drugfree.org/parent-blog/the-teen-vaping-trend-what-parents-need-to-know/ ADHD drugs following path of Opiods https://www.jsonline.com/story/news/investigations/2016/09/10/abuse-adhd-drugs-following-path-opioids/89939590/ Step 5 Share with Marvin Ask the Addict with Jay and Xander about relapse

The next step pod 4.4. Ask the addict with Jordan- ARP helped me get sober and join the church Jan 17, 2018

Want to help keep the podcast alive ? https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ President Nelson announced as new Prophet, Seer and Revelator: https://www.lds.org/church/news/new-first-presidency-speaks-to-members-worldwide?cid=HP_TU_16-1-2018_dPFD_fCNWS_xLIDyMAST_&lang=eng Step 4- TRUTH https://addictionrecovery.lds.org/steps/4?lang=eng Ask the addict with Jordan. Jordon started attending ARP as a non member. Listen to her journey to find recovery, a testimony of the Book of Mormon and to being sealed in the temple to her husband.

The next step pod 4.3-- Good, Better, Best of ARP meetings with Leading LDS Jan 11, 2018

Happy New Year ! Brad and Jay talk about the death of President Monson and President Nelson. https://www.lds.org/youth/article/11-things-you-didnt-know-about-president-nelson?lang=eng https://www.lds.org/church/leader/russell-m-nelson?lang=eng Jay Share Ask the Addict is replaced with a webinar Brad did with Leading LDS www.leadinglds.org This is a great episode to share with: Stake Presidency, ARP Group Leaders/Facilitators or High Counselors.

The next step pod 4.2. --->Step 2 Hope---> Ask Lexi about spouses doing 12 Steps Dec 11, 2017

Do you enjoy the podcast ? Can you do us a favor ? Rate us on Itunes, write a review, refer a friend, donate, send us an email/dm... https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ This weeks news: https://www.mormon.org/christmas/light-the-world-feed President Trump visits SLC https://www.mormonnewsroom.org/article/church-leaders-to-visit-with-us-president?__prclt=dDQrfyfU Colton Satterfield leaves Monster Energy https://www.vitalbmx.com/news/news/Citing-Religious-Reasons-Colton-Satterfield-Leaves-Monster-Energy,9183

The next step pod 4.1---> Light the World Nov 22, 2017

This weeks news we talk about: Ryan Sheckler getting sober and his testimony of Jesus Christ: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h2o4Bj8KOHo Elder Ballard at BYU Elder Ballard answers questions about LGBT rights, pornography and more http://universe.byu.edu/2017/11/14/elder-m-russell-ballard-responds-common-questions-young-adults/ Light the World Calendar: https://www.lds.org/media-library/video/light-the-world-25-days-of-service?lang=eng Step 1- Honesty share with Jay Ask the Addict with Jay, Brad, Matt, Darin, Xander and Greg

The next step pod 3.12- Step 12 Service---> Nate talks missionary to Heroin Nov 15, 2017

You like what you hear ? Consider supporting us with a small donation- Help us keep the podcast alive. https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ Why do we use "Chips" in our ARP meetings ? Read up on the tradition of chips here: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sobriety_coin Some new bumper music for us ? https://mark-abernathy.bandcamp.com/album/what-fair-one-is-this We sent him an email asking for permission. Waiting to hear back... ARP Step 12 https://addictionrecovery.lds.org/steps?lang=eng Ask the Addict with Nate Nate talks about coming home from a mission early. The embarrassment and shame involved with this. He opens up about how this lead to drug/alcohol experimenting which lead to a heroin addiction.

The next step pod 3.11--> Personal Revelation. Convert to Cocaine...ask the addict Nov 08, 2017

Want to help support the podcast ? https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ Changes to Full Time Missions: http://www.mormonnewsroom.org/article/mormon-missionary-changes-2017 Why Ben Gravey got sober (a non member): https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=znCkApHXhc4 Step 11: https://addictionrecovery.lds.org/steps/11?lang=eng Ask the Addict with Marvin. Marvin is a convert to the church who became addicted to cocaine...hear his inspirational and hope filled story. If you need some great photos taken- hit him up: http://www.kimblephotography.com/

The next step pod 3.10 --> Daily Accountability--> Ask the spouse of a Porn/Sex Addict Oct 25, 2017

If you want to help support the podcast: https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ This weeks news Brad and Jay talk about the drug called sugar: https://aeon.co/essays/sugar-is-a-toxic-agent-that-creates-conditions-for-disease The scary truth about what is hurting our kids (and adults): https://www.yourmodernfamily.com/scary-truth-whats-hurting-kids/ Step 10 Share by Jay: https://addictionrecovery.lds.org/steps/10?lang=eng Ask the Addicts Spouse with Corrine: Corrine talks about her experience with the 12 steps of ARP and how her husband is in recovery from pornography addiction. She shares how she hated ARP to being one of its biggest advocates. The opinions expressed are those of the individuals who expressed them. This podcast is not affiliated with the LDS Church or LDSFS.

The next step pod 3.9- Restitution and Reconciliation---> Listener Questions with Jay and Lexi Oct 11, 2017

Our website: https://thenextsteppodcast.com/ If you want to help support the podcast and help us travel and spread the word of ARP: https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ News: http://www.foxnews.com/us/2017/10/07/florida-moms-overdosed-on-heroin-while-their-newborns-were-in-backseat-police-say.html https://www.usatoday.com/story/news/politics/2017/10/05/opioid-epidemic-getting-worse-instead-better-public-health-officials-warn/732192001/ Step 9: https://www.lds.org/media-library/video/2012-12-009-step-nine-restitution-and-reconciliation?lang=eng Listener Q and A with Jay and Lexi Message us if you have a question !

The next step pod 3.8 --Forgiveness- Ask the Addict with Xander/Greg Sep 25, 2017

This week news we talk about BYU now selling Coke products. https://www.google.com/search?q=byu+sells+coke&ie=utf-8&oe=utf-8 LDS Church buys Book of Mormon Manuscript: https://www.deseretnews.com/article/865689273/LDS-Church-buys-printers-manuscript-of-Book-of-Mormon-for-record-35-million-from-Community-of.html Follow the Brethren: https://www.lds.org/liahona/1979/09/follow-the-brethren?lang=eng Step 8 Share with Jay Ask the Addict with Xander and Greg. Both recovering addicts who recently started their own meeting in their stake. Both have been on the podcast before but now share their progress and experience with starting a new ARP meeting. Here is the official guide to administer ARP Meetings. https://addictionrecovery.lds.org/bc/content/arp/content/Volunteers/Admin%20Guide/ARP_2016AdminGuide_PD10000241.pdf?lang=eng

The next step pod 3.7 Humility - 1 Year Anniversary Show Sep 14, 2017

Should we keep doing the podcast ? We discuss our decision... Want to support the podcast ? https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ Louisiana Governor praises the Mormons: "I Have No Doubt God Sent You Here" http://www.ldsliving.com/Louisiana-s-Governor-Praises-Mormons-I-Have-No-Doubt-God-Sent-You-Here/s/83083 Do you have a Smart Phone Addiction ? https://www.bloomberg.com/view/articles/2017-08-29/i-m-winning-my-battle-with-smartphone-addiction http://www.cbs8.com/story/36281221/man-arrested-for-stealing-car-causing-disturbance-at-church-near-mission-valley Step 7 share by Jay Jay and Brad recap their favorite episodes of the last year.

The next step pod 3.6 Change of Heart- Pornography Addiction Aug 11, 2017

Consider Supporting The Next Step Podcast ? https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ This weeks News: The Book of Mormon Play in Utah- The church responds http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/lds-church-book-of-mormon-ad_us_5984e33ae4b08b75dcc6f7cc General Authority is Excommunicated: http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865686362/LDS-Church-leaders-release-excommunicate-Elder-James-J-Hamula.html Hyrum Smith's Book: http://www.deseretnews.com/article/595053452/Utah-businessman-now-back-in-the-fold.html https://www.amazon.com/Inevitable-Misery-Optional-Hyrum-Smith/dp/1609071611 Ask the Addict with Pornography Addiction.

The next step pod 3.5- Confession- Becky Celebrates 12 months Sobriety Aug 04, 2017

If you enjoy this podcast, would you consider supporting it by a small monthly donation ? https://thenextsteppodcast.com/donate/ NEWS: National Emergency on Opiods https://www.washingtonpost.com/news/wonk/wp/2017/07/31/white-house-opioid-commission-to-trump-declare-a-national-emergency-on-drug-overdoses/?utm_term=.25b1301fd357 Americans too "drugged out" to work: https://www.axios.com/many-americans-are-too-drugged-out-to-work-2467304330.html Elder Holland retraction: https://ldsmag.com/elder-holland-withdraws-church-news-missionary-story/ Step 5- Confession We catch up with Becky who just celebrated 12 months of sobriety. We talked with her about 9 months ago when she reached 3 months of sobriety.

The next step pod 3.4---> TRUTH and Co-Dependence with Kelley Jul 22, 2017

Chester from Linkin Park Dead http://people.com/music/chester-bennington-dead-suicide/ Russian Volunteers (Not Missionaries) http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865685237/Russian-court-rules-against-deportation-of-Mormon-volunteers.html BYU Idaho Professor Fired http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865685087/Instructor-says-BYU-Idaho-fired-her-for-a-Facebook-post.html Step 4 Truth Ask the Addict with Kelley www.codependentmormon.com www.coda.org

The next step pod 3.3- Trust in God- Leading LDS Interview Jul 06, 2017

Brad and Jay return from Mexico and give a short news report. https://www.fairmormon.org/blog/2017/06/18/testimonies-twelve-year-olds http://www.mormonnewsroom.org/article/mormons-around-the-world-country-newsroom-websites-july-1-2017 Jay shares his step 3 We post the interview of Brad and Jay by Kurt Francom for his podcast Leading LDS. https://leadinglds.org/ Their mission is to: Enhance leadership ability and capacity of lay religious leaders in order to accelerate the mission of The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints.

The next step pod 3.2- Step 2 HOPE- We talk with Courtney about compulsive eating Jun 21, 2017

This weeks news we discuss: Mysterious illness caused by weed: http://www.kktv.com/content/news/Mysterious-illness-tied-to-marijuana-use-on-the-rise-in-states-with-legal-weed-408565045.html Carrie Fisher's death linked to drug use: http://www.latimes.com/local/lanow/la-me-ln-carrie-fisher-autopsy-report-20170619-story.html 14 M lethal doses of Fentanyl seized: http://fox5sandiego.com/2017/06/20/14m-lethal-doses-of-fentanyl-seized-in-lemon-grove/ Step 2 of ARP (found at arp.lds.org) is about HOPE We sit down with Courtney and discuss her addiction to compulsive eating. Are you a compulsive eater ? Take the test here: https://www.nationaleatingdisorders.org/screening-tool Over Eaters Anonymous: https://oa.org As always, the opinions expressed here are those of the hosts and guest and do not represent the LDS church or LDS Family Services. Find an ARP meeting to attend by clicking here: Arp.lds.org

The next step pod 3.1. Honesty- Trevor talks about finding sobriety from Pornography Addiction Jun 07, 2017

Honesty is the Best Policy and the first step to find sobriety. Tiger Woods- http://www.wptv.com/news/region-n-palm-beach-county/jupiter/golfer-tiger-woods-arrested-on-dui-charges-in-jupiter Chris Cornell- http://www.blabbermouth.net/news/chris-cornell-should-never-have-been-exposed-to-the-medication-ativan-says-dr-drew/ 13 Secrets everyone keeps ???- https://www.indy100.com/article/secrets-psychologists-keeping-secrets-13-5-real-ones-7761806 Step 1 Share by Jay Trevor talks about coming to grips with his Porn/Sex addiction and his experience with SA (Sex Addict Anonymous) and ARP.

The next step pod 2.12---> Service and "My Husband is a Porn Addict" May 31, 2017

Jay detoxes from Social Media... Is Social Media the new nicotine ? http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/bill-maher-social-media-drug-dealers_us_5916a78ce4b0031e737dd975 LSD Church and Scouting: http://www.heraldextra.com/news/local/faith/as-dust-settles-on-lds-church-decision-questions-arise-on/article_61768c8a-adc7-52b4-bc85-0a9eeff22bb0.html https://www.lds.org/youth/ymactivities?lang=eng Will you wear the Bro-Romper ? http://www.esquire.com/style/mens-fashion/news/a55081/romper-for-men-romphim/ Jay shares his experience with Step 12- Service Jay and Brad sit down with Jen, whose husband is a porn addict. Thank you for listening- please take a minute to rate us on Itunes, Sticher or Soundcloud. The opinions expressed are those of the hosts/guests and do not represent the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints or LDS Family Services.

2.11 Personal Revelation and LDS Girl in Recovery May 16, 2017

Is social media addicting ? We think so and so do a lot of other people. http://www.huffingtonpost.com/entry/bill-maher-social-media-drug-dealers_us_5916a78ce4b0031e737dd975 Anonymity and AA http://anonpress.org/bb/foreword.htm Step 11- Personal Revelation. https://addictionrecovery.lds.org/steps/11?lang=eng Ask the Addict with Jenae- The LDS Girl in Recovery @ldsgirl_inrecovery Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests and do not represent LDS Family Services or the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints. This podcast is not affiliated with the church, though we fully believe in its teachings.

2.10- Daily Accountability May 03, 2017

SHARKS !!! Sharks are in the water in Southern California http://www.sanclementetimes.com/san-clemente-beaches-remain-closed-sharks-spotted-pier-trestles-capo-beach/ Discussion on Depression/Anxiety and medication. Jay has shares some of his strong opinions from his experience: http://religionnews.com/2017/04/25/mormon-women-and-depression-revisited/ Step 10 Share from Jay Ask the Addict with Brian. Brian started smoking weed and drinking heavily in high school. He walked back into church a few weeks ago after about 15 years of separation. Listen to his story of hope. The opinions expressed are those of the persons who shared them and do not represent The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-day Saints, LDS Family Services. We are a group of brothers and sisters who share our faith and hope in recovery and share what we have learned along the way.

2.9---> Restitution and Reconciliation. Ask The Addict with Xander Apr 27, 2017

http://www.ocregister.com/2017/04/25/orange-county-drug-alcohol-deaths-soar-82-percent-with-accidental-opioid-overdoses-the-primary-cause/ http://www.ldsdaily.com/church-lds/church-release-heartbreaking-music-video-still-soul-highlight-addiction/ Need answers to those "tough" questions about the restored gospel ? https://www.fairmormon.org/ Step 9 Share by Jay Ask the Addict with Xander

The next step pod 2.8- Seeking Forgiveness and ask the Gay RM Apr 11, 2017

This week we talk about General Conference, Step 8 and we talk with Tristan the Gay RM. Watch/Listen to General Conference here: https://www.lds.org/general-conference/?lang=eng We talk with Tristan Foster @the_gay_r.m thegayrm.blogspot.com Here are some links we talk about in the podcast: https://mormonandgay.lds.org http://northstarlds.org http://www.ldsvoicesofhope.org Find an ARP Meeting: arp.lds.org This podcast is not affiliated nor endorsed by the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints, the opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests.

The next step pod 2.7 - Humility Mar 30, 2017

This weeks news: Caffeine like Cocaine: http://www.theinertia.com/health/heres-proof-that-caffeine-is-kind-of-like-cocaine/ Word of Wisdom and Caffeine: http://archive.sltrib.com/story.php?ref=/sltrib/news/54797595-78/church-drinks-caffeine-lds.html.csp http://www.mormonnewsroom.org/article/mormonism-news--getting-it-right-august-29 Parrots on Heroin: http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/world-news/parrots-flying-high-drugs-annoying-10073428 Mormon teen on the Voice: http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865676561/LDS-teen-wins-battle-round-on-NBCs-The-Voice.html Ask the Addict with Jay talking about Humility

The next step pod 2.6 Step 6 Change of Heart--> From addict to Surf Champion Mar 17, 2017

Yoga/Crossfit/Surfing the new religion for millennial's ? http://www.pbs.org/newshour/bb/millennials-havent-forgotten-spirituality-theyre-just-looking-new-venues/ Mormons viewed more favorably today according to this poll: http://www.sltrib.com/home/4946342-155/americans-view-muslims-mormons-more-favorably NFL Players hooked on pain killers ? Shocking story here: https://www.washingtonpost.com/sports/redskins/nfl-abuse-of-painkillers-and-other-drugs-described-in-court-filings/2017/03/09/be1a71d8-035a-11e7-ad5b-d22680e18d10_story.html?utm_term=.1222d222a6dc Ask the Addict with WSA National Surf Champion Jeff Jessee.

Next Step Pod 2.5 Step 5- Confession Mar 10, 2017

The real reason for opioid epidemic ? http://www.vox.com/science-and-health/2017/3/2/14781304/anna-lembke-opioid-epidemic Cocaine use on the rise ? http://www.businessinsider.com/colombia-top-cocaine-producing-countries-record-production-2017-3 Apostolic Warning ! https://www.lds.org/ensign/2010/06/things-as-they-really-are?lang=eng Jay shares his experience with step 5 Ask the Addict with Mike and Jay.

The next step pod 2.4 Step 4 -->Truth Mar 01, 2017

One thing every Mormon should understand before they go inactive: http://mylifebygogogoff.com/2017/02/mormon-less-active.html Snail Venom for pain ? http://www.rdmag.com/article/2017/02/marine-snail-venom-replace-pain-killers Thank you letter to drug addicted parents: http://www.mirror.co.uk/incoming/teenager-who-spent-childhood-watching-9728563 Jay shares about step 4- Truth In this weeks Ask the Addict we invite Lexi (Jay's wife) back into studio to ask her more questions about discovering her husband was a drug addict and those first few months in recovery.

The next step pod 2.3 Trust in God (step 3)- From Tragedy to Recovery Feb 17, 2017

From tragedy to recovery: The story of how one man's faith brought forth a miracle out a his darkest hour. You will not want to miss the "Ask the Addict" segment in this podcast. This weeks news: https://www.lds.org/prophets-and-apostles/unto-all-the-world/a-banquet-of-consequences-the-cumulative-result-of-all-choices?lang=eng https://www.lds.org/prophets-and-apostles/unto-all-the-world/a-banquet-of-consequences-the-cumulative-result-of-all-choices?lang=eng

The next step pod 2.2 - Sex Industry to Relief Society Feb 09, 2017

President Boyd K. Packer has taught: There is no habit, no addiction, no rebellion, no transgression, no apostasy, no crime exempted from the promise of complete forgiveness, Ensign Nov 1995." This weeks "ask the addict" we talk with a former sex worker and addict in recovery and her amazing conversion to the gospel. This week in News: http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865671881/Mormon-attack-ads-to-air-on-Utah-TV-after-correction.html http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865672755/LDS-Church-First-Presidency-to-hold-rare-news-conference-at-10-am.html http://abc22now.com/news/local/31-suspected-overdose-deaths-in-the-miami-valley-since-friday

The next step pod 2.1 Feb 02, 2017

Anniversary Show- ~12 weeks ago we started this podcast thinking a few people in our weekly meeting would enjoy. We have listeners from all around the world and we are pleasantly surprised. THANK YOU. This weeks news: http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865671741/Elder-Oaks-urges-all-Church-members-to-defend-religious-freedom.html https://www.lds.org/religious-freedom?lang=eng https://www.lds.org/religious-freedom?lang=eng Step 1- Honesty Share by Jay

The next step pod 1.12 Jan 22, 2017

This week in news: George Michael dies of overdose ? www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-31…shuts-away.html New Apps to help live in recovery: pittsburgh.cbslocal.com/2017/01/16/wr…th-addiction/ DJ Kaskade the Mormon: www.deseretnews.com/article/8656710…-next-week.html Jay's share on the 12th step. Ask the addict with "James".

The next step pod 1.11 Step 11 -Personal Revelation and Pornography Addiction Jan 17, 2017

This week in News: How much do Mormon leaders make ? http://www.sltrib.com/home/4800350-155/how-much-do-top-mormon-leaders Average Pastor Pay: http://www.christianitytoday.com/pastors/2007/september-online-only/what-pastors-get-paid.html Sister Nelson's 4 truths of love and marriage: http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865670713/President-Russell-M-Nelson-urges-young-adults-to-be-true-disciple-of-Jesus-Christ.html Jay's share on Step 11 Ask the Addict: "Jon" shares about his life long addiction to pornography and how he over came this through the 12 steps of ARP. Opinions expressed are those of the hosts and its guests and do NOT represent the LDS church or LDS family services. To find an ARP meeting go to: arp.lds.org

The next step pod 1.10 Daily Accountabilit Jan 10, 2017

****We are sorry for poor sound quality in this episode. We have adjusted our microphones and upgrades a few things. Future episodes will be much better. PLEASE LISTEN TO THIS STILL --->>its an amazing episode. **** This week in News: New mutual theme: http://www.deseretnews.com/article/865669976/2017-Mutual-Theme-challenges-youth-to-Ask.html How does Social Media affect our mood ? http://www.cbsnews.com/news/social-media-children-teens-tweens-less-happy/ Early substance USE predicts addiction. https://www.addictionnow.com/2017/01/04/early-substance-use-forecasts-grim-future/ To learn more about the steps or find a meeting go to: lds.arp.org The opinions expressed are those of the hosts and guests. They do not represent the LDS church or LDS Family Services.

The next step pod 1.9 Step 9 Jan 02, 2017

This weeks podcast we give a pre- Christmas surf report Talk about some church news Jay shares his experience with Step 9 Are you enabling an addict ? We talk about the 10 ways loved ones enable addicts.

The next step pod 1.8 Step 8 Forgiveness Dec 16, 2016

In this weeks new: The dismal surf report More deaths by drug overdoses than by guns: http://www.cbsnews.com/news/drug-overdose-deaths-heroin-opioid-prescription-painkillers-more-than-guns/ 4 Mormon Habits to copy: http://www.medicaldaily.com/4-mormon-health-habits-copy-even-if-youre-not-lds-church-member-405829 Share Goodness: https://www.lds.org/youth/video/sharegoodness?lang=eng Jay shares his experience with step 8. Ask the addict with James. His teenage experimentation turned into an addiction after he was married with children. NOTE: opinions expressed here are those of the hosts and guests and do NOT represent the LDS church or LDS family services. If you want to find an ARP meeting go here: arp.lds.org If you cannot find a sponsor in your meetings go here: arpsupport.org

The next step pod 1.7- Humility Nov 26, 2016

This week in news we invite Lexi to talk about some recent news articles: Overdose Pictures: http://www.nbcnews.com/storyline/americas-heroin-epidemic/viral-photos-drug-overdose-victims-expose-pitfalls-fighting-addiction-n677456 Brother Brandon Flowers of the Killers: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4PF0h7oqUEQ Thankful for Cancer? http://www.ldsliving.com/LDS-Woman-with-Rare-Cancer-Shares-Why-She-Is-Thankful-for-Her-Diagnosis/s/83789 Step 7 Share Ask the Addict with Xander an addict in recovery.

The next step pod 1.6 Change of Heart- Step 6 Nov 16, 2016

This week in News Frank Jackson- Duke University chooses not to serve a full time mission. Has the church faced a mass exodus ? Jay shares his experience with step 6 Ask the Addict: Brad talks with Lexi the spouse of an addict.

The next step pod 1.5 Step 5 - Confession Nov 06, 2016

This weeks podcast has special co-host Mike. Mike is an addict in recovery who brings insight into step 5 Confession. What is the LDS churches' position on legalization of pot as well as euthanasia? (we talk about this during this weeks news. Ask the Addict with Mike.

The next step pod 1.4 Step 4- Truth Nov 06, 2016

This week we talk about Jay being invited to give a Red Ribbon say no to drugs speech at Laguna Beach High School. Jay shares step 4 Ask the addict.

The next step pod 1.3 step 3 Same Sex Attraction Nov 01, 2016

This weeks episode focuses on the recent update to the website Mormonandgay.lds.org found at http://www.mormonnewsroom.org/article/official-update-mormon-and-gay-website We talk about step 3 We have Ask the Addict with "Steve" who is an addict in recovery who also has same sex attraction.

The next step pod 1.2 - Step 2 Oct 24, 2016

This episode 1.2 where we discuss Step 2 of the 12 Steps to Recovery. Brad and Jay give their highlights of October General Conference Jay Shares his experience with Step 2 Ask the Addict The opinions expressed are those of the hosts and their guests. They do not represent LDS family services or the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.

The next step pod 1.1 Step 1 Oct 18, 2016

Episode 1 for The Next Step Pod. You learn more about Brad and Jay as they interview each other. What is a Queba ? http://www.urbandictionary.com/define.php?term=queba A bit of church news Step 1 https://addictionrecovery.lds.org/steps/1?lang=eng We close with Ask the Addict- Jay Opinions expressed are of those of the hosts and guests and do not represent LDS family services or the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.

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