Becoming the One Podcast

Are You Worth The Work? Aug 13, 2021

Are you worth the Work? During this Episode, Sloane Crawford and co-host Cee Choice announce that they are this year's Pray For You Future Spouse Hosts. Join them as they go in-depth on what the PFYFS challenge means to them and singles worldwide!

As this year's host, Sloane and Cee want to personally invite all BTOP listeners to the PFYFS Challenge as their plus one with a special perk! Listen now for a special BTOP BONUS!

This challenge was created by TOU Co-founders Jamal and Natasha Miller! For 5 years, they've been walking singles through wholeness, purpose, and marriage. Officiating marriages for Christians single worldwide, they have successfully transitioned chritaisn from single to married. The challenge begins on August 16th - 20th. Join the challenge at PFYFS2021.com

Season 4 Episode 11: Dating Chronicles Recap with Sloane Crawford Jul 26, 2021

Welcome back to this last and final episode 4 family! We are so sad to say goodbye, but we’ve had such an amazing season!!

Our gracious host, Sloane, is recapping the highlights and her biggest takeaways.

There are so many aspects of dating, And dating as a Christian, adds another layer of complexity. So this season, we wanted to focus on the dating phase by getting some insight into what it means, how to date God’s way, and talking to real live Christians who are out there and doing it.

Things have changed so much over the years. We’ve gone from arranged marriages to dating apps, and many of us are still learning to navigate through all of the culture shifts. We wanted Becoming the One Podcast to help answer some of these hard questions and give insight to Christian singles.

“Sometimes we tend to look at the beginning of a thing and the end of a thing. But, the meat of it is in the middle — the actual process."

And, that’s a wrap, ladies and gentlemen! We are so grateful that you joined us at Becoming the One Podcast, Season 4! We are going to miss you! Make sure you check out The One University and enroll today! Follow us on Instagram @Theoneuniversity — and as always, keen on BECOMING!

We’ll see you next season.

Season 4 Episode 10: Dating Chronicles Part 4: Dating Post Promiscuity with Laterras R. Whitfield Jul 19, 2021

Today we’re going to tackle the challenges of living pure after promiscuity! So many of us are dealing with the residual effects of a lustful past, and we wanted to help our listeners with this candid discussion. We want you to know that you are not alone!

Joining us today, we have Laterras Whitfield. He is a TOU member and a man of God who opens up and shares his journey to freedom. In our culture today, the term promiscuity is typically assigned to women, and men who sleep around are considered more desirable or ungettable. But we know that God holds all of his children to the same standards.

“Honesty is telling the truth when a question is asked, but transparency is telling what they don’t even know to ask.”

You can follow Laterras on YouTube at “Dear Future Wifey” or on Instagram @Laterrasrwhitfield!

We hope you’ve enjoyed this episode of Becoming the One Podcast with our lovely host Sloane Crawford! Make sure you subscribe and join us here every Monday. Lastly, follow us @theoneuniversity on Instagram, and if you haven’t yet, join TOU now!

Season 4 Episode 9: Dating Chronicles Part 3: Dating Smart with Valerie Williams Jul 12, 2021

In today’s episode, we’re going to talk about Dating Smart with our special guest, Valerie Williams! Many of us have experienced abusive and manipulative relationships because we haven’t learned the healthy way to love. There is a stigma attached to domestic violence that makes victims shy away from getting help, but it could be a matter of life or death.

Valerie is a Speaker and Author, and she runs a non-profit organization called Love Smart. Here is a bit of her story and why she feels so passionately about this topic.

Don’t just be a survivor, be an overcomer and live beyond what happened!
You can follow Valerie Williams on Instagram and Facebook at Lovesmartinc and check out her websites www.lovesmartinc.org and www.valerielwilliams.org to connect.

We hope you’ve enjoyed this episode of Becoming the One Podcast with our lovely host Sloane Crawford! Make sure you subscribe and join us here every Monday. Lastly, follow us @theoneuniversity on Instagram, and if you haven’t yet, join TOU now!

Season 4 Episode 8: Dating Chronicles Part 2: Dating After Divorce with Rob and Brittany Badgett Jul 05, 2021

As you know, Becoming the One Podcast talks about all things dating, and today we wanted to help out our divorcees.

Dating after divorce can be really scary. You’re mourning a marriage and getting to know yourself all over again. But, when you are ready to get back out there, you’re going to need some tips and support along the way. Well, we’ve got you covered!

Joining us today, we have Rob and Brittany Badgett! Rob was married before Brittany, and he shares how, after being single for five years, he was able to heal and prepare to remarry.
We hope you enjoy this episode of Becoming the One Podcast with our lovely host Sloane Crawford! Make sure you subscribe and join us here every Monday. Lastly, follow us @theoneuniversity on Instagram, and if you haven’t yet, join TOU now!

Season 4 Episode 7: Dating Chronicles Part 5: Dating After 40 with LaWana Wilson Jun 28, 2021

Today we’re talking to the 40 and up club!! We want to give a voice to all of our members here at TOU and highlight the various dating perspectives. Things change with time and experience, and we understand that this isn’t a one-size-fits-all scenario.

Joining us today is LaWana Wilson. She is 49 and fine! S an author and a speaker, she emphasizes the importance of maximizing your single season. LaWana is out here mingling and patiently waiting for the one while becoming the one.
We hope you enjoy this episode of Becoming the One Podcast with our lovely host Sloane Crawford! Make sure you subscribe and join us here every Monday. Lastly, follow us @theoneuniversity on Instagram, and if you haven’t yet, join TOU now!

Season 4 Episode 6: Dating Chronicles Part 1: Dating and Deconstructing with Briana Whiteside Jun 21, 2021

If we’re going to build a healthy marriage one day, we’ve got to start with some deconstruction!

Negative mindsets and false narratives have got to go if we’re ever going to connect and relate to others in a real way. Our amazing host, Sloane, is very transparent about being shallow in her past relationships. In this episode, she is determined to refocus on what’s important and change her perspective on meeting the ONE.

Joining us today, we have Dr. Briana Whiteside! Former TOU student and Chicago native who grew up entirely around single mothers! She shares her story and how she has been able to tear down some old ways of thinking in order to move into what God wanted to do in her life.
You can follow Dr. Briana Whiteside on Instagram @thebookofbriana.

Make sure you subscribe to Becoming the One Podcast; we’re on every Monday! And, follow us @TheOneUniversity on Instagram.

Season 4 Episode 5: Christian Dating 101: Sloane's Biggest Takeaways Jun 14, 2021

This episode is going to be a bit different. Our lovely host, Sloane Crawford, reflects on the first half of the season, and she’s announcing some exciting news for what’s up next for BTOP!

For the rest of Season 4 of Becoming The One Podcast, we’re going to dive into some Dating Chronicles.

Yep, we’re talking to real people to hear their stories and what they’ve learned on their journey to becoming the one. Each guest will share their experiences with us and give some tips and advice on dating well. We hope you’re ready because it’s going to get good!!
The first half of Season 4 was jam-packed with valuable nuggets to help our listeners to understand dating and dating well. Now we’re ready to move forward into the Dating Chronicle series featuring amazing guests — stay tuned!

Also, be sure to subscribe to our podcast; we’re on every Monday! And, follow us @TheOneUniversity on Instagram.

Season 4 Episode 4: The Do’s and Don’t of Dating with Kait Warman Jun 07, 2021

This week we have another special guest, the dating guru herself, Kait Warman, everyone!!

Kait is a single woman and a dating coach living in Southern California. She completely understands what it’s like to date today and is determined to walk us through it all as she also navigates this single season in her life.
You can follow Kait Warman on Instagram, @kaitness, or @theheartofdating and catch her podcast, The Heart of Dating, on all major media platforms. She also wrote a book called “Thank You for Rejecting Me,” available now.

Also, be sure to subscribe to our podcast; we’re on every Monday! And, follow us @TheOneUniversity on Instagram.

Season 4 Episode 3: Is Dating Biblical? With Dr. David Burrus May 31, 2021

Today we’re unpacking some common misconceptions about godly dating!

As Christian singles, we tend to keep our eye on the ever-elusive prize…That is, getting to the altar. But, what does Kingdom-minded dating look like? And what does the word have to say about this?

Joining us, we have Dr. David Burrus, Christian relationships expert, here to help clarify! Dr. Burrus says that his mission is to help unmarrieds know what God is saying about dating and relationships and how they can get it right!

BTOP host Sloane shares her reluctance to dating because while she aims to date God’s way, she feels like love is an emotional minefield. So, she starts this interview off with the burning question: Is dating biblical?

You can follow D. Burrus on IG @davidburrusglobal on Facebook @The David Burrus Academy and check out his website.

Be sure to subscribe to our podcast; we’re on every Monday! And, follow us @TheOneUniversity on Instagram.

Season 4 Episode 2: What is Dating? With Jamal and Natasha Miller May 24, 2021

Welcome back to this week's episode of Becoming the One Podcast with our NEW host — Sloane Crawford! Today we have an exciting discussion lined up with our founders, Jamal and Natasha Miller.

We’re diving into the definition of dating and what it looks like for modern-day singles. Jamal and Natasha are experts in the dating and relationship space. They’ve learned a lot while building TOU and helping singles become the one. So, get ready because today we came to set the record straight on dating!
Follow Jamal and Natasha Miller on...
Instagram: @jamalmiller | @natashaannmiller
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/jamalmillerlive | https://www.facebook.com/natashaannmillerlive

Subscribe to our podcast; we’re on every Monday! And, follow us @TheOneUniversity on Instagram.

Season 4 Episode 1: The D-Word! With Amanda Ross and Sloane Crawford May 17, 2021

Welcome back to Becoming the One Podcast!

Wow!! Can you all believe that we’re already on season 4?!?

Our co-host, Amanda Ross, is back and… in a RELATIONSHIP!! She recalls her single season and the faithfulness of God as she gushes over her new beau. Things are looking up, and they are hopeful for their future together.

Amanda is here today with a special announcement. With much excitement and anticipation, Amanda introduces Ms.Sloane Crawford, former TOU grad, current MMG team member, and...our new BTOP host!

So, who is Sloane? Listen to this episode and find out.

We hope you’ll enjoy this episode of Becoming the One Podcast with our lovely hosts Sloane Crawford and Amanda Ross. Share this with your friends, subscribe, and join us here every Monday. We want to hear from you, so make sure you comment and let us know what you think. Lastly, follow us @theoneuniversity on Instagram, and if you haven’t yet, join TOU now!

Pray For Your Future Spouse: Am I Ready for the One? Aug 18, 2020

Ah, the question of a LIFETIME.

You don't need us to tell you that marriage is a big deal. You already know that who you decide to marry is one of the most — if not THE MOST — important decision you'll ever make in your life. Who you marry can determine the course of your life...not to mention your ability to reach your heavenly potential and fulfill your calling in the earth. Wow.

Marriage is something many of us want...but how do we know we're actually ready for such a big decision, commitment, and sacrifice?

If you're wondering whether or not you're ready for the one...if you want to know what to look for when that time comes...or you have someone in mind who's processing these questions right now...today's episode is for you.

PLUS, our BIGGEST online event of the YEAR is right around the corner...it's the FREE 5-Day Pray For Your Future Spouse Challenge! Over the last 5 episodes of Becoming the One, we've taken a hard look at some of the most pressing questions around marriage and finding "the one." If you want more of this, look no further...go snag a spot in the FREE 5-Day Pray For Your Future Spouse Challenge now!

(P.S. Registration doesn't *officially* begin until next Monday, but if you're reading this...you'll be one of the first to sign up. See you inside!).

Pray For Your Future Spouse: How Do I Know They're the One? Aug 11, 2020

One of the questions we've ALL asked ourselves is...God, how do I know this person is "the one"?

It's probably safe to say that too many of us have found ourselves "blinded by love," thinking that God has sent us a blessing...when in reality, they were nothing but a straight COUNTERFEIT. So, if the devil knows what we WANT...but God knows what we NEED...how do we determine if the person we're with or the person we're interested in is actually "the one" — according to God's best?

Give this episode a listen to find out, and don't forget to share, like, and subscribe for more!

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Pray For Your Future Spouse: Is There Only One Person for Me? Aug 05, 2020

QUESTION: Do you believe in "soulmates"? Do you think that God created one man for one woman...and no other?

This is a killer topic, and if it's something you've been asking yourself...this week's podcast episode is for you! The Becoming the One team dive into the concept of soulmates, and work through the idea that there's only ONE person for each of us. It's a good one, if we do say so ourselves.

Give this episode a listen, and if you like what you hear, leave us a review! (Or share with your friends, spread the word on social media, or all of the above *wink wink*).

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Pray For Your Future Spouse: I've Been Single for So Long, Am I Called to Celibacy...? Jul 29, 2020

Hey fam! We are SO excited to bring you today's episode, as this question is one we've received from at LEAST 57 people (and counting)...

"If I've been single for so long...does that mean I'm called to celibacy?"

Y'ALL. If you've EVER ONCE in your life wondered this, today's episode is for you. This is for the single people (the "never dated," the "always a bridesmaid," the "divorcees," the single parents, and everyone in between). Because, even though it feels like it...a long waiting game doesn't mean you're called to a lifetime of celibacy.

Check out this week's episode for more — and then don't forget to leave us a review, give us a like, and share us with your friends!

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Pray For Your Future Spouse: Why Should I Keep Praying? Jul 21, 2020

Becoming the One Podcast FAMILY! If you've been rocking with us for a while, you know that our FAVORITE. TIME. of the YEAR is just around the corner...it's our free 5-day Pray For Your Future Spouse Challenge!

And we're doing something a little special this year to celebrate: We're giving you MORE #PFYFS content than ever before, starting with this week's episode of Becoming the One. Today, we're here to answer the question we know is pressing (especially now, mid-pandemic)...

"Why should I keep praying?"

We're diving into the struggle that is unanswered prayer, especially when it comes to praying for your future spouse. If this sounds like you (or someone you know), don't be afraid to dive in and soak this one up. It's so, so good.

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Lie #4 About Being Whole: You Will Arrive Jul 14, 2020

Have you ever felt like you're only going to be ready for marriage once you FINALLY have *this* much in your bank account...or when you FINALLY have your book launched...or [insert life goal here]...?

Or have you ever thought, "Maybe I'll just never be ready...and marriage isn't for me."

Welcome to this week's episode of the Becoming the One Podcast, where we are ANNIHILATING the lie that you will ever actually "arrive." Because, the thing is, we'll always be growing, we'll always be healing, we'll always be maturing and learning and developing as individuals.

So, there's no such thing as an arrival point, despite what much of society will try and make you think.

Tune in to hear more about the "arrival point" misconception...and what it means for your future marriage! Want more of the Becoming the One Podcast? Join our Facebook Group for the Saved & Singles of our community!

Lie #3 About Being Whole: You *Can't* Identify Wholeness in Another Person Jul 07, 2020

Hey family! Welcome to another installment of our mini-series, "The 4 Biggest Lies About Being Whole." Today, our CEO Jamal Miller, and Director of Programs Amanda Ross, tackle the huge misconception that you *can't* identify wholeness in another person...

...because we believe otherwise! We have the mind of Christ, and God has given us discernment in order to guard our hearts and protect our minds (especially as we enter a vulnerable sea to navigate...like dating in the 21st century. It can get crazy out here!).

Check out this week's episode, and don't forget to like, share, subscribe, and leave us a review on your preferred listening platform!

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Lie #2 About Being Whole: Your Dirty Past Destroyed Your Future Jun 30, 2020

Welcome to the third installment of our mini-series, "The 4 Biggest Lies About Being Whole." Today, we're tackling the big misconception that your DIRTY past DESTROYED your future.

First off: That is a straight up LIE from hell, and we want to break this down so that you have a full understanding that God's grace really does reconcile you to Him (and it doesn't disqualify you from having a healthy future, including a healthy future marriage). Whew. Take a big sigh of relief, then put in your headphones and tune in.

Check out this week's episode, and don't forget to like, share, subscribe, and leave us a review on your preferred listening platform! Want to learn more about Becoming the One? Join our Facebook Group, the Saved & Single community, open to anyone looking to learn how to do relationships God's way. Click here to request access now!

Lie #1 About Being Whole: You Can Heal Yourself Jun 23, 2020

We have a very special mini-series inside the Becoming the One Podcast, and we're kicking it off with today's episode: "Lie #1 About Being Whole." Welcome! We're so happy to have you joining us!

Over the next 4 weeks, we're going to dive into the 4 biggest misconceptions about what it means to be "whole." This is something we've seen both within and without the Church, and we want to equip you with the truth around wholeness — both for your current self, and your future marriage.

Tune in to hear from today's hosts, Director of Programs Amanda Ross and Director of Content Sophie Sturdevant, as they tackle this first big lie.

Don't forget to share, subscribe, and leave us a review if you like what you hear! Or, if you want more of Becoming the One exclusive content, join us in our Saved & Single community on Facebook!

An Intro to the 4 BIGGEST LIES About Being Whole Jun 16, 2020

So, there's something we need to talk about. It's the idea that wholeness = perfection, and the only way that we can ever have healthy, life-giving marriages is to come into them whole (or perfect).

And this is a total lie. We're seeing more and more — both in and out of the Church — an unrealistic expectation around wholeness. Welcome to a mini series called The 4 Biggest Lies About Being Whole.

Over the next month, we're going to be breaking down these lies that are causing harm to us, regardless of our relationship statuses. Because, the thing is, it's so good for us to get healthy, work on our shortcomings, and walk purposefully before we ever get married...but we're still human. And we'll only ever see perfection — or ultimate, total wholeness — on the other side of heaven.

Check out this week's episode (the first of Season 3!) and don't forget to share, subscribe, and leave us a review! Want more? Join our Facebook group, where we have weekly discussions around each episode with like-minded believers from around the world!

All Our MIC-DROP Moments From Season 2 (Plus, What to Expect Next!) May 26, 2020

Welcome to the final episode of Season 2 of the Becoming the One Podcast! Today, we have special guest host Sophie Sturdevant, our director of content and communications, on with us to break down some of our team's favorite moments, and big themes, from each of our 10 episodes this season.

From our fist guest speaker (Jules the Explorer!) to our second (Susie Miller!), to some of our most-shared episodes yet (like the "Top 3 Reasons You're Still Single" and the sneaky symptoms of serial monogamy), this season was a blast. We laughed, we cried...and we can't wait for more.

Which brings us to the latter half of this episode: everything you can expect next! We have our most exciting season yet, dropping in two weeks, and although we can't give you *all* the details, we can give you a little sneak peek, just as a "thanks for joining us on this journey."

Don't forget to subscribe, share with your friends, and — of course — leave us a review if you like what you hear!

The HIDDEN Blessing in a Season of Relational Isolation May 19, 2020

Have you been asking yourself things like, "If I'm in quarantine, how am I EVER going to meet somebody? It was hard enough before?!"

Or "This season makes me feel stagnant. Can I even fulfill my purpose like God wants me to right now — or am I stuck here?"

Then those are some great questions. But, thankfully, we have a wise WORD from our host for this week's episode, Jamal Miller, here to discuss the HIDDEN blessing in a season of relational isolation (which, to be transparent, is an existing video from late 2019, but MORE RELEVANT than ever, thanks to COVID).

Tune in to hear from Jamal about why isolation — though challenging, stretching, and just plain HARD — is actually a huge (but hidden) blessing. Because there's more than meets the eye...and GOD is still working. Amen?

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The Top 3 Reasons You're STILL Single May 12, 2020

Have you ever looked around and thought, "Dang. Everybody AND their momma is in a relationship...why am I still single?"

Firstly, you're not alone. We get asked this question ALL the time, from people in every age group, from every background, and from all around the world. Of course, maybe God is still preparing you (or your spouse) for the benefit of your (future) marriage, but there are 3 reasons you probably haven't considered...

Tune in to this week's episode of the Becoming the One Podcast to discover more from our host and founder of The One University, Jamal Miller! This is a throwback — one of our most-watched YouTube videos of all time, but remains as relevant as ever.

Give it a listen, share with your friends, and don't forget to leave us a review if you like what you hear! And, if you're looking for a place to connect, join our facebook Group for the Married & Young and Saved & Single people of our worldwide community!

The Therapy Stigma: Why Counseling is Controversial But Crucial to Your Personal Development May 05, 2020

Think that counseling is only for "other" people? Have you ever considered that it might actually be crucial to YOUR personal development? Regardless of your childhood, your story, your past...counseling could very well be the missing piece to your growth and maturity.

But, of course, it comes with a stigma. *Especially* in the Church. Why?

Welcome to this week's episode of the Becoming the One Podcast, with beloved guest speaker Susie Miller! Our host Natasha, alongside Susie, break down the stigma around counseling, life coaching, mentorship, and the like, as well as why seeing a professional is actually a necessity for some seasons of your life.

For more, find Susie at susiemiller.com, or here on Instagram!

The "S" Word: How to View the Hardest Part of Marriage as the Best Part Apr 28, 2020

Welcome to the latest episode of the Becoming the One Podcast, and this week, hosts Jamal & Natasha Miller are tackling...

The "S" WORD! And nope, it's not what you think (if you were thinking "sex"). We're talking about SUBMISSION in marriage. Now, we know this is a tough subject, both inside and outside the church — "submission" has a lot of heavy, and very negative, connotations, that have played into skewed relationship dynamics.

Tune in to hear from this powerhouse couple, and founders of The One University, about their take on submission. You'll walk away from this episode with a greater understanding of this biblical term, and with a healthier perspective on what submission according to the Bible truly means.

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Solo Travel 101: How to Travel Well as a Single Apr 21, 2020

Alright, fam! We KNOW this message is coming at you at just the right time. As we look forward to breaking free from quarantine and isolation, may we suggest planning a trip?

You don't need a significant other to make the most out of travel. In fact, you don't need to plan around anyone to travel well...take a cue from today's episode of the Becoming the One Podcast featuring our FIRST EVER guest travel expert, Juliette Bush, also known as Jules the Explorer!

She's coming in hot with tips and (safe) strategies to travel well as a single. If you're wondering where to go, what to plan for, and how to make sure you travel solo safely, this episode is for you.

Be sure to join our Facebook group if you want more of this on a weekly basis, and be sure to go follow Jules on Instagram here!

Serial Monogamy: Why It's Not as Innocent as You Think Apr 14, 2020

Serial monogamy is an interesting topic, especially in the church. Often assumed to be "innocent," serial monogamy is the act of moving from one serious relationship to the next. If you or someone you know always has a boo thing...you *might* be a serial monogamist.

Why is this harmful? What prompts us to go from one relationship to the next? What are the implications? And how do we grow out of serial monogamy (and step into healing, freedom, confidence, and healthy relationships for LIFE)? We want to help you get there, based on personal experience...because we know that learning how to be content in your singleness is a must in order to be content in marriage.

Welcome to episode 4 of season 2 of the Becoming the One Podcast with hosts Amanda Ross and Sophie Sturdevant. Want more? Join our Facebook Group (our Saved & Single community) of like-minded men and women of God!

Can I Leave Now?: 3 Reasons You Need Married Friends as a Single Person Apr 07, 2020

What's up Becoming the One family! Welcome to episode 3 of season 2, in which hosts Jamal & Natasha Miller are discussing the WHY behind having married friends. Yep, as a single person.

It's deeper than just surrounding yourself with like-minded people and believers. We need to pursue friendships with people in varying stages of our life — so we can glean from, or teach, and always point each other back to Jesus.

This episode is for singles, of course. BUT it's also for our married couples (because, couples, the singles need your wisdom, encouragement, and friendship). This is the Church. This is humanity.

Tune in to today's episode, and if you like what you hear, click subscribe, share with friends, comment, and leave us a review.

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Get Out the House! Plus Ideas That Won't Make You Cringe Mar 31, 2020

Welcome to episode 2 of season 2 of the Becoming the One Podcast! Now, before you dive right in, this episode requires a disclaimer. We recorded this before the current state of things (as in, the coronavirus pandemic and mandate to stay at home), but listen in for some ideas to GET OUT THE HOUSE...

Right now (yes, today)...as well as post-coronavirus. We know how difficult it can be to get up and out of the house when work is strenuous, you've had a long week, and making new friends or going out on dates feels exhausting...or just plain impossible. Our incredible team of hosts, Jamal & Natasha Miller, alongside Amanda Ross, have some killer ideas.

Tune in, and don't forget to subscribe, share, and leave us a review!

Always a Bridesmaid: The Dark Side of Contentment Mar 24, 2020

Welcome to Season 2 of the Becoming the One Podcast, where hosts Amanda Ross, Jamal Miller, and Natasha Miller help you reshape your mindset about singleness, thrive in your current season, and prepare for your future marriage.

In this episode, we're diving into contentment...the good, the bad, and the ugly. Because, the thing is, contentment isn't a relational issue (it's definitely not a singleness issue); it's a spiritual issue. If you're not content in your singleness, you won't be content in your marriage.

Yes, you'll have a spouse. But until we learn how to truly and completely be satisfied with God right where we are, we will always find fault in our current season. Whew!

Tune in to hear what our hosts have to say about contentment as a single man or woman, and if you want more of us, join our Facebook Group for the Saved & Single community of Married & Young!

Sneak Peek (!): Season 1 in Review and What to Expect in Season 2 Mar 10, 2020

Wow! Isn't it incredible we're already nearing the end of Season 1 of the Becoming the One Podcast? In the last 6 weeks, we dove into everything from emotional soul ties to online dating to ghosting to celebrating Valentine's Day while single (and actually enjoying it).

In episode 6, we're recapping our favorite moments from our pilot season...and then, we're giving you a sneak peek into what we have up our sleeve for Season 2!

Of course, this won't be everything we cover. But we'll guarantee that every conversation will be raw, transparent, honest, and probably (in the midst of it all) insanely hilarious. Because that's dating in 2020, right?

Follow our host Amanda Ross on Instagram to get to know her, and if you want more of our content, join our Facebook Group for the saved and single community of The One University, our podcast sponsor!

2 Misconceptions Singles Make About Marriage With Jamal & Natasha Miller Mar 03, 2020

Who would know better about marital misconceptions than married powerhouse and co-founders of The One University, Jamal & Natasha Miller! Welcome to episode 5 of the Becoming the One podcast, in which our beloved hosts tackle 2 of the biggest lies singles believe about marriage.

In fact, one of them *might* be the reason you're still single, even if you're ready for marriage!

We don't want to give anything away...but we'll give a little sneak peek: There's no such thing as a soulmate. Tune in to discover more — you just might be surprised!

Want more from Jamal, Natasha, and The One University? Join our Facebook group, specifically to the Saved & Single community of The One University! And then find Jamal and Natasha on Instagram to follow more, and get a peek into the Miller family's life!

Emotional Soul Ties: How to Guard Your Heart in Opposite-Sex Friendships Feb 25, 2020

Think that physical intimacy is the only way to form a soul tie? Think again, family! Welcome to episode 4 of the Becoming the One Podcast, with hosts Jamal Miller and Amanda Ross...this is one you cannot miss!

Tune in to hear a very personal (and vulnerable story) from our beloved Ms. Ross, as she shares about en experience getting caught up in an EMOTIONAL soul tie. (Yep, you heard that right.)

Sound familiar? Jamal will walk us through some personal development and applicable tips for moving forward healthily...also based on personal experience in his own journey of healing from an emotional soul tie. Praise God for redemption, amen?

Want more? Join our Facebook Group for the Saved & Single community of The One University!

And then don't forget to follow Jamal and Amanda on Instagram for more encouragement and spiritual insight.

What's OK and What's Not OK?: Dating Apps, Ghosting, and Women Shooting Their Shot With Sophie Sturdevant Feb 18, 2020

Welcome to episode 03 of the Becoming the One Podcast!

Alongside our powerhouse host Amanda Ross, we have Sophie Sturdevant — our director of communications — on with us today to talk through all things single season (especially those controversial topics, like dating apps, ghosting, and whether or not women can "drop the hanky" or "shoot their shot").

Tune in to hear some funny (and embarrassing!) stories, like when Sophie ghosted a young man of God and was called out for it. You'll walk away from this episode more equipped to navigate this strange modern dating world. And that's all we really want, right?

For more, join our Facebook group specifically for our singles community: https://www.facebook.com/groups/mysavedandsingle/

And follow Amanda on Instagram @hellomsross, and Sophie @sophiesturdevant — they're always down to connect!

Single Doesn't Mean Sick: How to *Actually* Enjoy Valentine's Day Feb 11, 2020

Welcome to the second official episode of Becoming The One Podcast! We are so excited to dive in with hosts Amanda Ross and Natasha Miller, especially around Valentine's Day, to cover this episodes theme: SINGLE doesn't mean SICK.

We know that, as a single, it can be real easy to get — and stay — all up in your feelings around Valentine's Day. But, we're here to remind you WHY this day for lovebirds, typically, also provides you an opportunity for some real self-love, too. Cheesy? Maybe. But it sure is real.

We'll teach you how to really, authentically, enjoy this day as a single — or at *least* not hate it.

Enjoy! And don't forget to leave us a review!

Pilot Episode - Welcome to Becoming the One Podcast Feb 06, 2020

In this episode Amanda Ross alongside Jamal and Natasha Miller discuss why God led us to launch the Becoming the One Podcast and what you can expect from the show.

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