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Ericka Bozeman, aka BOZE is a Twitch streamer and YouTube creator who covers true crime stories and the psychology behind them.
We chat about how to spot the subtle signs of various personality disorders and potential for future criminal behavior. How childhood experiences shape our tendency to attract narcissists and other dangerous personalities into our lives and our own personal experiences in escaping the influence of those dangerous people.
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00:00 Intro
00:30 Understanding True Crime and Personality Disorders
02:50 Red Flags and Signs of Potential Violence
05:55 Survival Strategies in Dangerous Situations
08:47 Childhood Influences on Criminal Behavior
12:02 The Impact of Maternal Relationships on Male Aggression
14:45 Navigating Emotions: Anger, Sadness, and Social Anxiety
18:10 The Complexity of Trust and Self-Doubt
21:13 Manipulation and the Seeds of Self-Doubt
29:19 The Complexity of Love Expressions
32:12 Red Flags in Relationships
35:08 Childhood Influences on Adult Relationships
39:39 The Struggle of Emotional Patterns
43:05 Understanding Creator Personalities
47:04 The Fascination with Histrionic Traits
55:01 Exploring the Psychology of Attraction
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Andrew Callaghan is the host of Channel 5 news YouTube channel. He’s a fearless journalist whose open and unorthodox approach has gotten him into some crazy situations as well as created friction with the mainstream media
We talk about the roots of political radicalization and how to heal it, the differences between the psychology of the right and left, and Andrews experience of Americans at their most beautiful and most extreme.
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00:41 Understanding America: A Unique Perspective
03:53 Cultural Appropriation and Authenticity
06:49 Political Polarization and Identity
09:31 The Psychology of Radicalization
12:37 The Role of Personal History in Politics
15:32 Curiosity Over Judgment in Conversations
18:32 The Influence of Media and Power
21:44 National Identity and Mythology
24:48 Reparations and Systemic Change
27:50 Emotions in Political Extremes
30:41 The Narrative of Power in Politics
36:34 The Interconnection of Significance, Security, and Connection
38:51 Radicalization and the Role of Media
41:28 The Impact of Family Interventions
43:20 Navigating Radicalization and Mental Health
45:09 The Importance of Family Over Politics
46:32 Understanding Human Connection in Healing
48:43 Legal Challenges and Personal Responsibility
50:58 Fear, Risk, and the Influencer Lifestyle
53:23 Channel 5: Growth and Business Model
56:56 The Evolution of Content and Audience Engagement
01:00:41 Future Aspirations and Global Correspondents
01:02:52 Finding Your Unique Path and Overcoming Fear
Martha Beck has earned a Harvard PhD in Psychology, written multiple New York time bestselling books and from them became Oprah's life coach. But her path there required her to lose nearly everything.
It started when she committed to spending a full year telling NO lies. That led to her revealing her horrific abuses at the hands of her Mormon upbringing, alienating herself from
friends, ending her marriage and having to rebuild her entire life from a place of joy instead of social obligation.
We talk about how most people ruin their lives by trying to fit in, how to find your true purpose and she pushes me to overcome the ways that I've been playing it safe. She even makes me cry a few times during this conversation. This podcast was beautifully scary for me and I loved chatting with her I hope you enjoy it too.
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On today's episode Charlie from Charisma on Command interviews Dr. Rob Henderson.
Rob Henderson's life story is out of a movie he never knew his father, was abandoned by his mother as a toddler, grew up in the foster care system in 10 different homes where he faced abuse, neglect and early substance abuse issues
But defying the odds he turned his life around and eventually graduated as a Cambridge PhD. He's since created one of the most viral ideas in sociology where he's now become well known for his idea of Luxury Beliefs the idea that the rich signal status through positions like defund the police or marriage isn't important and those positions actually hurt the poor.
We chat about Rob's life and what he has learned from such an incredible story.
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Joe Hudson is an executive coach, connection teacher and someone I have learned so much from. We talk about 5 of the most regretable and costly mistakes I was consistently making in my relationships, how those we costing me (and probably you) in life and business and how Joe's unique approach can resolve those mistakes so you see MASSIVE positive changes today.
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00:00 Intro
00:33 The Victim, Bully, Savior Identity
02:26 The Fear Triangle
06:15 Emotional Awareness and Vulnerability
11:49 Two Ways to Give Service
16:47 Listening is the Best Way to Communicate
21:30 Listen to Your Body
24:18 Why Invulnerability Works?
29:53 Covering Trauma with Anger
33:40 Align Your Actions with Your Emotions
39:01 Dealing with Abandonment and Resentment
44:38 Do What’s Truly Right for You
46:29 Identify the False End
49:46 Emotional Responsibility for Others
53:34 Aggression in Feeling Hurt
55:29 Would You Sell Your Business?
58:28 Passion for Self-Discovery
01:03:51 What’s the Best Gauge of Efficiency?
01:06:44 Confidence in Invulnerability
01:08:11 Do Well or Let Go
01:11:52 Evolution is Necessary
01:13:24 Feel Gratitude First
01:16:17 What’s a Loving Boundary?
01:20:20 The Connection Course
Matthew Hussey is a relationship and confidence coach. Today we chat about what a decade of coaching almost exclusively women has taught him about modern dating, the key components of attraction and his upcoming book Love Life.
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00:00 Intro
00:40 Universal Content
02:32 The Bliss Point
06:56 Unhappy and Hurt
11:13 Dating the Same 5%
15:04 Initiating Conversations
17:54 Expectation Pressures
21:26 Take Away the Hidden Agenda
26:04 Flirt with the World
28:18 Internal Workaround for Introverts
33:21 The Two-Hit Theory
37:45 Certainty is a Valuable Trait
43:43 Trust Issues and Setting Boundaries
50:55 Success Coming From Insecurities
54:48 Why Should You Love Yourself?
01:01:44 Parental Love and Responsibilities
01:06:16 Love Life: How to Raise Your Standards
01:12:22 What is Hurting You?
01:16:47 The Greatest Life Lesson
01:18:13 Why We Choose Pain
Teal Swan is a Youtuber and spiritual teacher.
We chat about what childhood traumas lead to narcissism, what a soul retrieval is and how you can do and if claims of remote viewing, ESP and seeing auras are legitimate
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00:00 Intro
01:09 - Reaction to Theo Von and Tony Robbins Interview
04:16 - How Narcissism Starts
08:59 - Developing the Chronic Manipulation Skill
11:33 - Dysfunctional Family
13:23 - What is Emotional Incest
16:39 - Is It Love or Just an Energy Exchange?
19:42 - The Rigid Idea of a Healthy Relationship
22:26 - This is What Abusive Relationships Do to You
26:41 - Sexual Compatibility Impacts Relationship Compatibility
30:15 - The Difference in Personality Preference
34:45 - Healing Inside a New Relationship
39:18 - What is Soul Retrieval?
44:33 - Little Moments, Huge Impact
50:10 - An Template for Success
55:30 - Diversity and Wokeism
59:57 - Dichotomy Versus Discrepancy
01:03:38 - Human Beings are Overly Identified
01:07:27 - How Can You Inspire Trust?
01:10:17 - Technology is Our Slave
01:11:23 - Is AI Developing Consciousness?
01:13:08 - Ancestral Trauma
01:17:08 - Being Aware of Your Own Gifts
01:23:06 - Where to Find Teal?
Men today have a strange problem. Many of them are just too nice for their own good.
Doctor Robert Glover helps them fix that. Not so that they can become sociopaths or jerks. But so that they can become confident, assertive grown ups who don’t have to resort to manipulation or people pleasing to get their needs met.
We discuss what childhood experiences create nice guy syndrome, why nice guys are on the rise in the last 50 years and how to shift into men that women are actually deeply attracted to and more importantly that respect themselves
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00:00 Intro
00:43 Nice Guy No More?
04:30 The Nice Guy Persona
09:15 How Childhood Uncomfortable Feelings Affect Adulthood
15:19 How Your Relationship Shapes Your Partner
17:47 Don’t Trade Your Purpose for Romance
22:43 Positive Emotional Tension
26:36 The Masculine and Feminine Polarity
30:12 We All Have Masculine and Feminine Energy Within Us
40:43 The Guilt of Returning the Favor Received
45:44 Hidden and Repressed Pleasure of Sexuality
55:22 How Do We Unwire Sexual Shame?
01:01:02 The Share-Test Method
01:05:52 You Control Your Own Sexuality
01:10:15 Take the Shame Away
01:18:50 Learn How to Defend Your Needs
01:22:40 The Concept of Differentiation
01:27:13 Staying Monogamous Without Sacrificing Sexual Freedom
01:32:06 Tension Between Being You and Meeting Your Partner’s Needs
01:34:39 Why Do Men Grow Up Pleasing Women?
Dr. Richard Schwartz is world leading psychotherapist who in the 1980s develop a revolutionary branch of therapy called Internal Family Systems (IFS).
We chat about how people have split personality or "parts", why past traumas are unconsciously keeping you stuck and how 16 IFS sessions can cure anxiety, stress and even PTSD.
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00:00 Intro
01:32 What is IFS?
04:17 How IFS Can Help with Anxiety
06:20 Unlocking a Part of You
08:09 The Other Side of Having Multiple Personalities
11:03 The 8 C’s We All Have
13:24 No Bad Parts, Just Extreme Experiences
15:56 The Negative Effects of Childhood Abuse
19:56 One of the Goals of IFS
20:46 Men’s Mental Health
24:23 Constraining Masculinity
30:17 The Story of an Activist with a Traumatic Past
33:57 Defining Your True Self
35:45 Spirituality and Meditation
39:48 Here’s How to Get to Know Your Inner Self Better
54:02 Other Options to Help with IFS
55:09 Taking in the Energy of the Abuser
59:22 How to Get Yourself Out of Negative Thoughts
01:00:53 Punishment Versus Discipline
01:01:34 Where to Find Dick Schwartz
On today's podcast Charlie from Charisma On Command talks about the source of creativity, why he started eating meat again and his reaction to the Hasan Minaj apology.
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