Welcome to Connecting the Dots with Nathan Tabor
This podcast is about connecting the dots in all aspects of our lives. Learn more at HandlingLife.org
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Welcome to Connecting the Dots with Nathan Tabor
This podcast is about connecting the dots in all aspects of our lives. Learn more at HandlingLife.org
Schadenfreude. It's a German word, but do you know what it means? and do you suffer from it?
Did you know "Unicorns" walked the earth within the last 3,500 years? Yep, unicorns!!! Don't believe me? Take 60 seconds and listen/watch. THEN share it with others.
If you are struggling with life, it's important/critical you find someone to talk with. It's also important you find the right person.
Have you answered the question before it's asked? Are you wondering what question I mean? Then listen to find out.
Do you ever feel like you can't tell God something? I've been there, and it's a powerful obstacle to having a daily relationship with God. Please take a few minutes and listen to how I deal with the feeling.
Are you faced with a blue Christmas? Unfortunately, it's a reality for so many and I've got some thoughts on how to handle it.
Are you struggling to forgive someone? Well, you aren't alone. As you know, forgiving someone is extremely hard. So, why is it important to forgive others?
Have you ever had the thought, "it's my money, and it's ALL mine?" Well, you aren't alone. Everyone has this thought. The question is, how do you answer it?
Does it seem like nothing has gone your way except life keeps piling on? Well, you aren't alone, and thankfully there is a solution to this dilemma.
Do you find yourself saying you hate conflict, but your life is full of conflict?
Are you struggling with the election results? If so, this video was made for YOU!
Is there a way to take a stand and still have a Christ Life? Yes, but there's also a wrong way to take a stand. Agree?
A "Mini Talk" from my Mini Cooper with Nathan Tabor, HandlingLife.org
I can't do it! Have you ever had that thought? Well, I have, especially when I think about having to face the music for some past action.
Is that where you are right now? If so, then this show is for you.
Yes, no, or maybe? What do you think? Well, here's what I think.
Are you trying to figure out what's causing problems in your life?
Have you ever had the thought, "If I give money to God, then I won't have money to do what I want?" I have. Have you? Probably so. Now, let's find out how to handle this thought.
For years, I struggled to be honest with myself about where I was with God. I said one thing, but my actions showed another. Is that where you are right now?
Are you wondering if your spouse knows you're struggling? The answer is yes. So, what should you do? Listen to find out what I did.
As you know, it's easy to give others advice, but how do you respond to your advice? Well, recently, I was faced with applying my own advice to a situation. Listen to find out what happened and what I did.
Do you feel like no one else will understand your situation? Well, you aren't alone in your feelings!
No matter where you are, God loves you and He has a plan for you. If you are ready to start serving God but not sure where to start, then check out my personal story at https://www.handlinglife.org/program
There are two types of trials in our lives. Can you identify what type of trial you are in?
Reflection is good, just make sure you don't get stuck reflecting. Why? Listen to find out.
When circumstances change, are you willing to change? I've recently had to answer this question for myself - it was quite liberating. I hope what I learned will be a help to you.
What type of example are you to others? I know for at one point, I was a terrible example.
We can't stop bad things from happening, but we can start handling bad news the right way. Ready to learn the right way?
What happens when you don't pay attention? Usually, you make a mistake and possibly even hurt yourself.
Well, I recently hurt myself because I wasn't paying attention, and while it was a small abrasion, it was excruciating and it took weeks to heals.
So, how does "Not Paying Attention" apply to our walk with God? Listen to find out!
The way we react to distress impacts us and those around us. So, how should we respond in times of distress?
What does truth mean? Does it mean true until proven otherwise? Or, does it mean absolute, unchanging?
Listen to find out what TRUTH means and why it matters.
I've always heard you have a choice to either do right or do wrong. Well, is that true for a Christian? If not, what two choices does a Christian have? Listen to find out!
Do you understand the significance of putting God first? Do you realize the difference it will make in your life?
Take 5 minutes and listen. I promise it will be worth your time.
If you do something half-hearted does it count? If you obey God half of the time does it count? Listen and let me know what you think.
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Are you looking for joy in your life? Tired of always being down? Well, there are five things, if done daily, that will help you find and maintain joy.
What does searching for shark teeth have to do with life? Well, there are three principles I've learned, and these principles should be applied to all areas of life.
What's holding you back from giving God control of your life?
The Handling Life Program is my personal story of coming back to God. All materials are Bible-Based, Christ-Centered, and the program is free. Sign up at https://www.handlinglife.org/program
How does this apply to our lives? In two ways: As a believer, our example should "sharpen" others, not dull them, and as a believer, we should seek out others who will "sharpen" us, not dull us.
Does the order in which you do things matter?
Yes, the order matters and if you don't do things in the right order you won't get the results you desire. Think about it, even God does everything in order.
We are living in uncertain times BUT there are ways to anchor yourself in the midst of a storm. If you need encouragement or advice, then please listen to this talk with Harold Vaughan.
Learn more about Harold and his ministry at https://www.christlifemin.org/
As you know, the way you say something or when you say it can have a lasting impact. So, we must be careful to build others up. If you struggle with this, then this podcast is perfect for you.
How does one overcome an abusive marriage, being flat broke, not having a relationship with their mother and having to make a life-changing decision? Well, my guest today, Teresa Overcast, BIC/Owner for Realty One Group Results, has done just that and much more and I guarantee you will be encouraged and inspired by her story.
Pastor Daniel Hawtree joins me on Handling Life today to discuss the "Good News" of COVID-19. From sharing the gospel, spending time with family, tradition versus God's word to lifting each other up.
Pastor Hawtree is my pastor and what you see is what you get. He's a sinner saved by the grace of God who loves others and who preaches the word of God.
If fear is controlling you then there are Biblical steps you can take to overcome fear. Listen to how Steve Newton, CEO, Newton Media, is handling fear during these uncertain times.
1 Thessalonians 5:18 says, "in everything give thanks" and that is exactly what we should do. The song "Count your Blessings" says name them one by one and James 1:17 states, "every good gift and every perfect gift is from above, and cometh down from the Father."
So, I have a #CountYourBlessings Challenge for you. I've started making a list of all the blessings I have in my life and I challenge you to do the same.
Is something Godly just because it's legal? I hate to admit it but I've used the argument, "well, it's ok, because it's legal." Have you?
Ephesians 5:22 says, "Wives, submit yourselves unto your own husbands, as unto the Lord" WOW! It says "wives submit" - but what does that truly mean? What responsibility does the husband have? Join me to find out my thoughts.
When someone makes a mistake my natural reaction is to give it to them! Does that ever happen to you? If so, take a minute and listen to what recently happened to me and how I handled it.
Do you have a habit of waiting? I do. Why? Because part of me wants to make sure everything is right while the other part is afraid of how's it's going to turn out. This isn't a good behavior and I hope you will listen to find out why you should break the habit of waiting.
Too stressed to be blessed. Yes, you read it right. At times, I'm too stressed out and it takes my focus off God. Does this ever happen to you?
Handling Life with Nathan Tabor is a non-profit outreach ministry focused on helping others "handle life" by applying God's word to their lives.
Have you ever had the thought you are better than others? I have and I'm sure you have but as Christians should we have this thought?
Instead of telling others how wrong they are and how right you are, why not just share your story? Focus on what God has done for you and what He continues to do for you. You will be amazed what happens.
Have you ever stopped to consider that others are dealing with in their lives? I'm going to be honest, at times I don't because I'm focused on what's going on in my life. Listen to find out why we should care about sharing the burdens of others.
Whether you are killing it in life OR struggling to get by where is your focus? I can promise you - if your focus isn't in the right place - it will eventually cause you issues.
Are you ready to be challenged on your focus?
"Jonah rose up to flee" - Jonah 1:3a. This means Jonah made a choice to flee and what did his choice cause? It caused struggles and chaos in his life. Have you found yourself in this situation? I have. So, if you're looking for the "cure" from a Biblical perspective, then take a few minutes and listen.
Do you feel like your efforts for God aren't producing any results? Well, you aren't alone. I've been there. I do and do but I don't see any results. It makes me feel like I'm not doing something right, or God isn't paying attention, or it makes me question what's the purpose of even doing it!
Don't fret though. Listen to my podcast and learn what God has to say about this matter and how I've handled it in my life.
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Rationalization is a powerful tool. It can be used to support a position but most often it's used to "excuse" bad behavior. I know that's how I often use rationalization in my life. However, is rationalization good for us? Listen to find out! Trust me, it will be worth your time.
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Every Christian needs fellowship but do you know what fellowship actually means? Does it mean getting together and having a meal? or just hanging out? Unfortunately, that's what it's become to mean but the purest definition of fellowship is a "bond for a united purpose."
As Christians we are bonded together for a united purpose through our relationship with Jesus Christ. What does this mean and what are the benefits? Listen to find out!
It's that time of year again! A time when most want to pull their hair out and escape from all the hustle and bustle. So, what can you to enjoy Christmas? Listen to find out!
The "Urging" - you know, that persistent feeling you get when you should say about God to the person in front of you? The one that makes you feel really uncomfortable? Yep, that one.
So, what should you do when that happens? Listen to the Handling Life Show and see how God worked in my life through an urging. You never know what God has planned when He urges you to do something.
Do you think it means just being a missionary or preacher? I use to think that's exactly what it meant until ... Take a few minutes to listen to my thoughts on God's calling is?
Learn more at HandlingLife.org
Do you struggle with bad health or pain? If the answer is yes, then I have to ask you, are you doing everything you can to feel better? Hold up Nathan! You have done gone and stepped on my toes! You should mind your own business.
But before you tune out, can I ask you to stick with me for just a moment and let me share my health journey with you?
It's time to stop complicating our relationship with God and start focusing on what God has asked us to do. I know for many years I focused on all the "do's and don'ts" and it caused my relationship with God to be very complicated. Is that where you are with God? If so, take 5 minutes and listen to this podcast/video.
Are you wondering how to integrate your faith into your everyday life? Well, you aren't alone. Join me as I discuss how to integrate your faith into your everyday life.
Want to learn more? Visit https://www.handlinglife.org
It's important to engage with others. Why? Because you never know what's going on in their lives; you never know how God might use you to encourage them; or you never know they might just need someone to listen to them.
I challenge you to try it and see what happens!
Are you a business-minded person who is trying to get employees to step up? Or are you dealing with the fear of rejection? Or are you wondering how to have victory in Jesus? Then join me as I discuss these topics and many more with David Greene.
David Greene is a former police officer with over nine years of experience investing in real estate that includes single family, multifamily, and house flipping. He is also an author and the co-host of the BiggerPockets Real Estate Podcast. David has a passion for teaching and helping others grow wealth through real estate and David has a passion for Jesus Christ.
Does having a daily relationship with God make decision making easier? Listen as Tami Heim details how her relationship with God helps her make decisions in her life and her families life.
Tami Heim has been the president and CEO of Christian Leadership Alliance since January 2012. Her professional career includes executive leadership experience in the technology, marketing, publishing and retail industries.
Learn more about the Christian Leadership Alliance at https://christianleadershipalliance.org/
Did you know God's word lays how exactly how we should do things? 1 Corinthians 14:40 states, "Let all things be done decently and in order." I've found in my personal life when I don't do things God's way it always causing problems. So, if I want the right results, I must do things in the right order.
Sermon delivered at Friendship Baptist Church of Asheboro (NC)
Are you trying to figure out God's will for your life? Well, you aren't alone, for many years I struggled with this very question. Listen as Evangelist Harold Vaughan and I discuss how to know God's will for your life.
The Slow Drift happens and you normally don't even notice it. Over time, I personally slowly drifted away from God but I've learned how to avoid the slow drift. Are you ready to stop drifting away from God? Then take a few minutes and listen.
Serving God is a choice and you are either serving Him or you aren't. For many years, I thought I could do a little here and a little there. Unfortunately, that isn't how it works, serving God is black and white. So, are you serving God or not?
Do you feel alone in your marriage or in your parenting? Don't panic, you aren't alone. Listen as Ryan Dobson, President, REBEL Parenting joins me on Handling Life. Ryan states, I asked a marriage counselor what the hardest part of his job was? "Easy," he answered, "By the time most people get to me, it's already too late."
Want to learn more about Ryan and his ministry? Text REBEL to 444999 or visit https://www.rebelparenting.org/
Question: Are you focusing on what other's have? Or are you focusing on your relationship with God?
Whether you are slightly struggling, or barely keeping your head above water, it's critical that you seek help and advice from others. Trust me, I know. It took me years to seek out help and advice and had I done it sooner I could have avoided many negative things.
Do you have regrets? I do. At times, regret has even paralyzed me. The guilt of my past actions kept me from moving forward. I just didn't know what to do. So, can regret be beneficial? Yes. I've found it motivates me to not make the same mistakes again. What else can be beneficial?
At times, it's quite easy to separate your faith and your life. I'm guilty of it. I built a nice, white picket fence and put God on one side and my life on the other. Do you ever do it? or are you currently doing it?
Have you ever NOT wanted to forgive someone? I have and so has my guest. I hope you will take a few minutes and listen to what Harold Vaughan has to say on forgiving others. Harold is the author of "Forgiveness: How to Get Along with Everybody all the Time" and has been in full-time evangelism since 1979. Learn more at http://www.christlifemin.org
Every Christian needs fellowship. Fellowship is defined as a bond for a united purpose. The benefits are well documented in life and God's word says "where two or three are gathered together in my name, there am I in the midst of them." During this talk, we will investigate what's holding you back, what are the benefits and are you ready to make the commitment.
The word "truth" has two completely, different meanings. In today's society, truth means true until proven false. However, when referring to God's word as the truth, we mean absolute and unchanging. So, why does this matter? Listen to find out.
I've known David Botkins since 1998 when we worked together in Richmond, VA. Today, we are discussing topics such as heart connection vs head connection; humility leads to forgiveness; the simplicity of serving God; seeking advice of another; three things you should do when struggling; and much more!
Is Questioning God OK? Think about that question for a minute.
I find myself asking God questions all the time. Do you? If you are struggling with the thought of questioning God you should definitely listen to this podcast.
Do the decisions you make every day have an impact on you? Yes, they do. If you make bad decisions, then bad things will happen. If you make good decisions, then good things will happen. Basically, life is about choices.
My special guest is Paul Moore. Paul graduated with an engineering degree and then an MBA from Ohio State, then started on the management development track at Ford Motor Company in Detroit. After five years, he departed to start a staffing company with a partner. They sold it to a publicly traded firm five years later. Along the way, Paul was Finalist for Ernst & Young's Michigan Entrepreneur of the Year two years straight.
Paul later entered the real estate sector, where he completed over 85 real estate investments and exits, appeared on an HGTV Special Real Estate episode, rehabbed and managed rental properties, built a number of new homes, developed a waterfront subdivision, and started two successful online real estate marketing firms. Three successful developments, including assisting with the development of a Hyatt hotel and a multifamily housing project, led him into this arena. Paul is married with four children and lives in Central Virginia. Learn more about Paul at https://www.wellingscapital.com
Sometimes I struggle with wanting to get even with others. If I allow it, it will consume my thoughts. WOW! I can't believe I'm admitting it, but if we are all honest, we all have these thoughts.
But what does God's word say about getting even? Romans 12:19 states "vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord." So, when I'm trying to get even I'm taking my focus off God and I'm getting in His way. Think about this, what I can do to someone pales in comparison to what God will do.
We all need counsel in our lives. God's word is very clear about this. So, why don't we seek counsel and what does it mean to "seek counsel"? Also, there is good counsel and there is bad counsel. What's the difference? Listen to find out!
I personally lived as a "split-rail" Christian for most of my adult life. I was open about my faith when asked and "tried" to live according to God's word each day. But in reality, I had separated God from my life. I went about my day-to-day business using God when I needed Him and leaving Him out when not convenient. This dichotomy of existence caused internal issues within me that rose to the surface as both the inability to control my temper, frustration, and bitterness. Then one day it hit me! I couldn't live like this anymore. Something had to change. It was time to become a man of God. If you are at this point then take a few minutes to listen. You will learn what's holding you back and the 3 steps you can immediately take to get on the right path. Nathan Tabor is the founder of Handling Life. Handling Life is a ministry focused on helping others "handle life" by turning back to God. All Handling Life materials are from a Bible-Based, Christ-Centered perspective. Handling Life reaches tens of thousands of people through social media, videos, podcasts, blogs, websites, and emails to reach people on a daily basis. Learn more at https://www.handlinglife.org/
I've been rejected numerous time in my personal and professional life. It's a hard fact of life, but each time it happens it hurts. At one point in my life, it deeply affected me and how I dealt with others. Take a minute and learn how I dealt with rejection. You might be able to apply it to your life!
Stop gossiping and talking bad about others and start praying for them. James 4:11 states, "speak not evil one of another" and James 5:16 states "pray one for another, that ye may be healed."
This is a hard principle to follow, but we must fight the urge to kick someone when they are down. We need to focus on praying for others. Do you agree or disagree?
Does it matter who you hang around? Yes, it does. Why? Well, it's simple. A rotten apple WILL turn a good apple bad. In 1 Corinthians 15:33 it states, "Be not deceived: evil communications corrupt good manners." This means that bad company corrupts good character.
Do you agree or disagree?
Hope you will take a minute and listen!
Do you feel like you are clearly telling someone something, only to get into an argument about it later? Well, you aren't alone. It happens to me and it happens to everyone.
But don't lose hope! There is a simple solution. Take 5 minutes and listen to this podcast and you will learn a proven technique on addressing this situation.
How does "watch where you park" apply to my life? Well, I guarantee you it does. Why? Because perception is reality and we must be careful what type of perception we show to others.
Remember, 1 Timothy 4:12 states, "be thou an example."
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Are you setting limitations on God? Or are you assuming He can only do certain things? If so, then you are boxing God in and it's time to stop. Remember what Matthew 9:26b says? It states, "with men this is impossible, but with God all things are possible." It's time to start letting God be POSSIBLE in your life!
At times life isn't fair and at times we have nothing to do with what happens in our lives. When this happens, it's hard to be spiritual or Godly, right? If you are dealing with this right now in your life, then you need to listen to this podcast. I promise it will be an encouragement to you.
Please know you aren't alone. Look at the life of Joseph. His own family betrayed him and sold him into slavery. Talk about life not being fair! What did Joseph do? Listen to learn what he did and what you can do.
What's the most offensive part of your body? Your mouth. What's the hardest part of your body to mouth? Your tongue. What's gets you in the most trouble? Your mouth. What's the best way to control your mouth?
1. Be aware of your words - don't hurt others or offend them. 2. Be honest with your words - don't lie or mislead others. 3. Be in control of your words - don't spout off. Listen to find out more!
The English idiom "don't judge a book by its cover" is a metaphorical phrase that means one shouldn't prejudge the worth or value of something by its outward appearance alone per wikipedia.
What exactly does that mean as a Christian? God's word is full of instructions about not judging others, but it's part of our nature. So, how do we handle it? What should we do? Listen to learn more.
It's an honor to have Rashawn Copeland join me on the Handling Life Show. Please listen as we discuss topics like meeting people where they are and learning to engage them, but not their lifestyle; allowing God to work in your life; understanding God is a God of order and we often over complicate what He's asked us to do; and learning about Rashawn's life before Christ.
Rashawn Copeland is an Evangelist, Published Author, and Medical Service Officer in the United States Army. University of Central Oklahoma Graduate. He is also the founder of Without Walls Ministries. Without Walls Ministries is a Christ-centered outreach serving individuals who are searching for light in a dark world. Learn more about Rashawn and Without Walls Ministries at https://www.copelandministries.org.
What is a talent? It's a skill or trait you are born with. It's part of your DNA. The question I want you to consider is who owns your talents and how are you using them?
If you aren't using them for the glory of God, then I want you to listen to this sermon. God has placed a calling on your life. He has given you unique talents which should be used for His Glory and to build the Kingdom.
At times I struggle with who should I interact with or who I should help. Is this the right attitude to have? I've got some thoughts on the matter and hope you will listen.
Do you agree with me? Disagree? Or do you have something to add? Please comment and let me know. Learn more about Handling Life at https://www.handlinglife.org
No matter what phase you are in life, you are going to face different challenges. Whether it's going through a divorce, controlling your temper, or growing your business, it's all about how you handle matters and the choices you make.
Join me and learn from Greg Dickerson. Greg is a believer, an entrepreneur, real estate investor and developer. In the past 20 years, he has started 12 different companies from the ground up and bought, developed and sold over $200 million in real estate. Learn more about Greg at https://gregdickerson.com/
Addiction comes in many forms but ultimately produces the same result. The person hurts themselves and those around them. So, what can be done about it?
Listen to learn the steps I take in my life.
Disclaimer: This show is targeted to those who have the ability to change their circumstances and handle their addictions. There are different forms of addictions. If you can't resolve your addiction on your own, then immediately seek help from a licensed medical professional.
How do you know God's will for your career? your marriage? your finances? or for any part of your life? Listen to find out how I know God's will for my life. It's simple and you can quickly apply it to your life.
The Modern Day Jonah Syndrome is a condition caused when a believer ignores God's calling on their life. The symptoms include but aren't limited to stress, anxiety, conflict, chaos, depression, misery, bitterness, strife, self-deception, confusion and sleep deprivation.
Those affected by the Modern Day Jonah Syndrome don't acknowledge or appreciate the severe and damaging effect this syndrome has on their lives and those around them until it has reached an epic, dangerous, serious and advanced stage. The Modern Day Jonah Syndrome affects all aspects of life: personal, professional, financial, physical and spiritual.
Listen to learn how to overcome the Modern Day Jonah Syndrome. Sermon presented at Union Grove Baptist Church, Oak Ridge, NC
How are you handling life? Take the Handling Life Assessment Quiz at https://nathantabor.daquiz.com/handlinglife/