Professional Baseball Thrower – Amateur Podcaster
Welcome To The Show
My goal is to provide YOU with as much insight, information, knowledge, and experience that I’ve accumulated throughout my journey to better equip YOU for your journey!
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Professional Baseball Thrower – Amateur Podcaster
Welcome To The Show
My goal is to provide YOU with as much insight, information, knowledge, and experience that I’ve accumulated throughout my journey to better equip YOU for your journey!
This is Part 2 of a 3-part Heat Check Series where I walk through different points in my career journey in which I threw hard. There's been 4 specific occasions throughout my journey where I threw hard, but each experience entailed completely different approaches to the same goal — so it's fun to reflect, unpack it all, and hopefully it's of value to those listening in.
In this episode, I pick up where Part 1 left off and dive into the Winter of 2017 moving into 2018. I'll set the stage with the full context — Big League Spring Training with the Cardinals, getting released, Indy ball, Hurricane Maria hitting Puerto Rico, and then the specific mechanical approach that unlocked some of the best stuff I've ever had. This one gets into the loading phase, Hector Barrios, and the biggest lesson I learned about trust in this game. Experience-based, not absolute. Hope this helps someone!
👇Part 1 of “Things I Did to Throw Hard”
This is Part 1 of a 3-part Heat Check Series where I walk through different points in my career journey in which I threw hard. There’s been 4 specific occasions throughout my journey that I threw hard but each experience entailed different approaches to the same goal so it’s fun to reflect/unpack it all and think it could be of value for those listening in.
In this episode, I reflect on my high school years and what I was actively doing to influence my throwing velocity which landed me the 88th overall pick in the 2010 MLB Draft (when things were so simple lol) Then we’ll dive into the 2014-2015 season, breaking down how athleticism, long toss, mindset, and freedom played a massive role in power output. This is experience-based, not absolute! Hope this helps someone!
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Episode Timeline 👇
02:02 – Velocity Is NOT Absolute
Why velocity advice shouldn’t be taken as black-and-white rules and why individual process matters.
02:43 – Watching Elite Throwers Develop Differently
Observations from pro ball and why different athletes reach high velocity in completely different ways.
04:07 – High School Velocity Context
Being highly scouted, showcase environments, and why early velocity is often more genetic than developmental.
06:32 – Showcases vs Game Pitching
Why velocity showed up most in short stints and what that environment allowed mentally and physically.
07:08 – No Weightlifting, Tons of Athleticism
Distance running, jump rope, long toss, and why developing as an athlete mattered more than loading weight early.
08:07 – Pre-Start Routine & Process Orientation
Detailed warmups, mental preparation, and how being obsessive about process built confidence.
10:57 – Long Toss as an Athletic Stimulus
Why extensive long toss was one of the most powerful velocity builders in high school.
12:47 – Loving Pitching More Than Throwing Hard
Sequencing, command, and how being a “pitcher first” may have limited raw velocity at times.
14:34 – Velocity Dip & Getting Released (2014)
Leaving Pittsburgh, velocity falling off, and the mental reset that followed.
15:05 – Returning to High School Roots
Distance running, simplified training, and rebuilding athletic movement patterns.
17:30 – Training in the Backyard Lab
Homemade strength work, front squats, sandbags, and throwing far with intention.
18:40 – “If I Need to Throw Hard, I Need to Throw Far”
How increased long toss volume organically reshaped arm path and movement efficiency.
19:51 – 2015 Velocity Jump
Going from unknown free agent to touching upper-90s through intent, freedom, and consistent stimulus.
20:20 – Long Toss vs Mound Mechanics
The realization that controlled chaos in long toss can (and should) influence mound movement.
21:07 – Over-Exaggerating Athleticism on the Mound
Learning to load aggressively, use the ground, and embrace movement instead of fighting it.
22:53 – Mental Freedom & Power Output
Why letting go of fear and expectation unlocked the best velocity of my career.
24:08 – Ground Force, Loading & Energy Transfer
Early understanding of force absorption, storage, and release — before knowing the biomechanics language.
25:22 – Being Released Was a Gift
How freedom from pressure allowed velocity to climb rapidly in 2015.
26:03 – Training That Supported Velocity
Front squats, med balls, arm care, and throwing volume — no magic exercise, just alignment.
27:11 – Velocity Spike & Injury Reality
Rapid velocity gains, accumulated stress, and the bone spur surgery that followed.
28:18 – Setting Up Part 2
Previewing the 2017–2018 velocity journey and a completely different path to power.
30:17 – Closing Thoughts
Why reflecting on the journey matters and what’s coming next in Part 2 and Part 3.
In this episode of The Heat Check, I’m joined by my Boo-Skenes AKA Girlfriend @coachmorganfontaine, for a completely unscripted, real conversation about 2026 goals, consistency, perfectionism, routines, and what it actually takes to stay authentic when life, content, and identity start shifting.
This one is raw by design. No outline. No polish. Just us talking through communication habits, filler words, social media pressure, athlete identity, burnout, and how hard it can be to keep promises to yourself — especially when motivation fades.
Should I have her on the Pod more often 🤔
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⏱️ Episode Timestamps + Topics 👇
01:12 – 03:30
Awkward beginnings + filler words
• Why filler words exist
• Learning to be okay with silence
03:30 – 08:00
Communication, pace, and clarity
• Slowing down how you speak
• Engagement vs filler words
08:00 – 10:30
Creating content without a script
• Off-the-cuff content vs structure
• How filler words creep in
• Adapting to new environments
10:30 – 13:30
Authenticity on social media
• Losing personality in “serious” content
• Algorithm pressure and retention
• Feeling boxed into one content style
13:30 – 18:00
Excitement, novelty, and creativity
• Why newness fuels authenticity for me
• Consistency vs variety
• Being energized by learning something new
18:00 – 21:30
Morgan’s 2026 goals
• Consistency as an identity
• How perfectionism blocks action
• Letting yourself be bad before getting better
21:30 – 25:00
Routines, mornings, and accountability
• Why the morning sets the tone for the day
• Phone placement and discipline
• Setting yourself up for success
25:00 – 28:30
Consistency and self-trust
• Keeping promises to yourself
• How inconsistency affects identity
• Truth, honesty, and self-respect
28:30 – 31:30
Peaks, valleys, and emotional regulation
• “Worst roller coaster ride possible” metaphor
• Limiting emotional extremes
• Controlling what you can control
31:30 – 35:30
Rediscovering joy after burnout
• Losing love for the game
• Stepping away to reconnect
• Childlike joy vs outcome-based identity
35:30 – 38:30
Athlete parallels + future conversations
• Similar struggles across different sports
• Body, consistency, and enjoyment
• Teasing a deeper dive into Morgan’s journey
38:30 – 40:06
Wrap-up
• Reflections, gratitude, and future episodes
• Newsletter shoutout
• Closing thoughts
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In this episode of Heat Check, Robby unpacks one of the biggest realizations of his playing and coaching career — why chasing perfect mechanics often kills performance, and how flow, freedom, and controlled chaos are what actually unlock elite movement.
From backyard wiffle ball battles and mimicking MLB pitchers… to pro ball, injuries, overthinking, and ultimately rediscovering simplicity — this episode is a raw reflection on why athletes perform best when they stop forcing it and start trusting it.
If you’re a player, coach, or parent trying to navigate development without burning the joy out of the process — this one hits.
🔥 Quote That Sums It Up
“The throw is the throw. Your body will organize how it organizes — flow is what unlocks it.”
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⏱️ Episode Breakdown & Key Moments
00:00 – 00:50 | Pre-Roll + What This Episode Is Really About
Setting expectations, birthday reflections, identity, and teasing the flow vs mechanics conversation.
00:50 – 02:50 | New Look, Cold Weather & Life Check-In
Shaving the beard, Connecticut winter, mouth taping, and seasonal shifts.
02:50 – 04:55 | Monthly Challenges, Tightness & Body Awareness
Daily challenges, soreness, desk work, and the realization that mobility may matter more than grinding.
04:55 – 06:30 | Simplicity vs Overthinking (Content + Performance)
How more gear, more knowledge, and more complexity don’t always equal better results.
06:30 – 08:20 | Changing Deliveries & Early Baseball Memories
Loving deviation, changing windups, travel ball memories, and falling in love with Anthony Reyes’ delivery.
08:20 – 10:25 | Wiffle Ball, Competition & Athletic Development
Backyard wiffle ball, mimicking teams and players, and why play accelerated arm speed and skill.
10:25 – 12:35 | Chaos as a Development Tool
Lawn chair strike zones, throwing runners out, target acquisition, and learning to organize the body under pressure.
12:35 – 14:30 | Flow, Deviation & Mental Freedom
Why changing things sparks excitement, frees the mind, and unlocks better movement.
14:30 – 16:10 | Mimicking MLB Pitchers & Identity Questions
Dontrelle Willis, Tim Lincecum, Josh Beckett — copying deliveries as exploration, not insecurity.
16:10 – 18:40 | Consistency Beneath the Chaos
Despite changing styles, key mechanical positions stayed the same across years and levels.
18:40 – 21:15 | When Mechanics Became the Enemy
Hyper-fixation, robotic movement, loss of flow, and how overthinking derailed performance.
21:15 – 23:45 | Why ‘FLOW’ is the Key
Mechanics matter — but they’re not the main driver. Flow, environment, and mindset are.
23:45 – 26:15 | Coaching Philosophy Shift
Moving away from “what it should look like” toward creating conditions that let the body self-organize.
26:15 – 28:40 | Variability, Arm Slots & Athletic Training
Multiple arm angles, jumping throws, body angles, and teaching adaptability.
28:40 – 30:45 | Controlled Chaos & Mental Performance
Why chaos simplified the mind, improved command, and unlocked repeatability.
30:45 – End | Final Reflection + Call to Action
Be a kid. Protect curiosity. Fall in Love
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🧠 Core Takeaways ✅
Mechanics matter — but they’re not the main driver
Flow beats fixation Athleticism thrives in controlled chaos
Kids need play, competition, and creativity first
The body organizes itself better when the mind gets out of the way
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A raw, honest look at perfectionism — where it comes from, how it shaped Robby’s baseball journey, and why the pressure to be different can quietly erode joy, confidence, and identity.
In this episode, Robby settles into the sauna blanket and unpacks the invisible forces that drove him for years: childhood expectations, early success, attention, insecurity, the obsession with mechanics, and the internal collapse that comes when identity is built on being “the guy.”
If you’ve ever chased perfection, battled validation, or felt like failure meant losing a part of who you are — you’re gonna feel this one.
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⏱️ Episode Timestamps + Topics
00:00 – 01:18 — Pre-Roll Setup & Show Notes
• Why these Heat Check episodes bounce around
• The purpose of timestamps and how listeners can navigate the episode
• Setting the scene inside the sauna blanket
01:18 – 02:24 — When the Brand Doesn’t Match the New Chapter
• Feeling disconnected from the past “always fired-up athlete” persona
• Learning what content looks like now that playing days are over
• The identity tug-of-war after walking away from baseball
02:24 – 04:13 — Childhood Memories, Dad, and Why the Brand Began
• Watching his dad retire from pro ball
• Wanting to show fans the behind-the-scenes perspective players never shared
• The spark that eventually became The Robby Row Show
04:13 – 07:17 — Rookie Ball 2010 & The Surprise Breakthrough
• Repeating rookie ball and entering the season with low expectations
• The unexpected success that followed
• Looking back at one of the most fun periods of his career
07:17 – 10:10 — Where the Mechanics Obsession Started
• Too much downtime in extended spring training
• Endless video room deep dives
• The moment curiosity turned into obsession
10:10 – 13:15 — Wanting to Say All the Right Things
• Talking to mental skills coaches
• Developing the “right answers” identity
• Trying to be the ultra-motivated, hard-working guy everyone expected
13:15 – 14:19 — Why Hard Work Didn’t Fill the Void
• Being praised for effort but still feeling empty
• The disconnect between work ethic and performance
• Early signs of perfectionism taking over
14:19 – 17:07 — The Dark Side of Perfectionism
• Why perfection removes joy
• The internal pressure to never mess up
• How it slowly made baseball feel heavier than it should
17:07 – 19:12 — OCD Tendencies & The Brita Jug Example
• Robby vs. household timers (and why he always has to win)
• The funny but real ways competition shows up in his daily life
• How this wiring affected baseball
19:12 – 20:31 — When Perfection Makes the Game Harder
• Baseball is built on failure… perfectionism is not
• Why the two don’t coexist
• How expectations suffocated enjoyment
20:31 – 23:15 — Feeling “Different” Growing Up
• Being a big-leaguer’s kid
• Early expectations and identity shaping
• Wanting attention, wanting to stand out, wanting to be “the guy”
23:15 – 24:00 — Clearing the Air: Parenting & Perception
• Giving his parents credit
• Why this isn’t about blame
• Understanding how kids naturally form identity
24:00 – 25:12 — The Early Personality Formation
• Loving attention
• Playing to the crowd
• The confidence loop that formed early
25:12 – 27:29 — Seeking Eyes in Bullpens & Catch Play
• Performing better when being watched
• Using attention as fuel
• Why it eventually stopped working
27:29 – 30:10 — When Attention Turned Into Pressure
• Anxiety replacing swagger
• Mechanical breakdowns tied to mental spirals
• The shift from confidence → fear
30:10 – 31:04 — Mental Health, Denial, and Hiding the Struggle
• Trying to “power through it” quietly
• Creating an inauthentic persona
• The emotional cost of pretending everything’s fine
31:04 – 33:03 — Validation vs. Confidence
• The dangerous loop of chasing external approval
• Why validation feels good… but doesn’t last
• How baseball exposed the cracks
33:03 – 34:42 — Dad’s Influence & Staying Hungry
• The motivation he got from his dad
• Why that push was healthy — but still fed perfectionism
• Seeing both the good and the shadow side
34:42 – 37:21 — Losing Himself in a “Killer Instinct” Culture
• Trying to be stone-cold to fit in
• The slow drift away from authenticity
• How identity shapeshifted during the grind
37:21 – 39:48 — Big Fish, Small Pond: The Ego Trap
• Why success at a young age can create false stability
• Malcolm Gladwell’s “David & Goliath” effect
• What happens when the environment finally challenges you
39:48 – 41:24 — Not Knowing How to Fail
• Feeling failure for the first time
• How perfection amplified the sting
• The identity crisis that followed
41:24 – 42:40 — Early Success vs. Real Failure
• Why failure didn’t matter as a kid
• Why it suddenly mattered as a pro
• The emotional punch of “this counts now”
🎙️THE HEAT CHECK - When a Ball Player Stops Ball Playing (Episode 2)
A raw, vulnerable walk through identity, retirement, faith, and finding purpose beyond the game
In this episode of Heat Check, Robby climbs back into the sauna blanket and opens up about one of the hardest transitions a ballplayer can face — stepping away from the game that shaped your entire life.
From childhood memories of watching his dad retire from pro ball… to the confusing emotional aftermath of his own final seasons… to the weird limbo of feeling done but not finished…
This one cuts deep.
If you’ve ever stopped playing, lost a version of yourself, or struggled with purpose when a chapter ends — you’re gonna feel this one.
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⏱️ Episode Timestamps + Topics
00:00 – 02:25 — Pre-Roll Vulnerability
• Robby sets the scene: sauna blanket, no script, full vulnerability
• Why these episodes feel like therapy
• Encouragement for listeners to submit topics via Ask Robby Platform (therobbyrowshow.com/ask)
02:25 – 06:00 — Letting Go of Opinions & Fear of Sympathy
• Wrestling with how people might perceive this openness
• Processing ego, validation, and the fear of “sounding ungrateful”
• How speaking out loud helps emotional healing
06:00 – 07:30 — The Discomfort of Closure
• Robby admits this topic gives him “heebie jeebies”
• Why he resists calling his career “over”
• The internal battle between acceptance and hope
07:30 – 12:00 — Childhood Flashbacks (1997 Memories)
• His dad in spring training with the Giants
• Life in the RV, family photos, early baseball impressions
• Funny/chaotic moment tipping a foul ball into his brother’s mouth
• Early realization of who his dad was in the baseball world
12:00 – 17:00 — Moving to the Woods + Dad’s Retirement
• Family relocating after dad leaves baseball
• Life on acres of land, trampolines, fire truck hoses
• The infamous “rock to the face” story
• Seeing subtle emotional changes he didn’t understand as a kid
17:00 – 21:00 — Watching His Dad Fall Out of Love With Baseball
• Dad unable to watch games anymore
• Learning as a teenager how deeply retirement affected him
• The weight of retiring when the game didn’t force you out
21:00 – 25:00 — Robby’s Early Mindset About His Own Career
• How his dad’s story shaped his expectations
• Belief that he’d “play until they ripped the jersey off”
• Realization that experience hits different than second-hand wisdom
25:00 – 30:00 — 2022 Season, Coaching, and Sour Endings
• The tough Indy Ball season as a player/coach
• Being excited to rebound… but not getting the ending he imagined
• Winter Ball ups and downs
• Navigating being Phantom’d after performing well
30:00 – 33:30 — When Teams Don’t Want the Brand
• Teams telling him to tone down or stop his content
• The confusing shift from “my brand is my résumé” to “it’s a distraction”
• Choosing between baseball and content creation
• Feeling like either choice had a cost
33:30 – 36:00 — Identity Crisis: Player Rob vs. Creator Rob
• The weirdness of waking up without a team
• Missing the structured purpose baseball gave
• The pressure of content performance affecting self-worth
• Why engaging directly with fans helps ground him
36:00 – 39:00 — Winter Ball Comeback Attempt
• Reinventing himself as a 3-slot pitcher
• Feeling re-energized and excited again
• Performing well… and still getting Phantom’d
• Questioning whether God was closing a door or testing resilience
39:00 – 41:30 — The Emotional Toll & Loss of Faith
• Honest conversation about resentment toward God
• The “Disney ending” he felt he was on track for
• Recognizing that the game doesn’t owe you anything
• Wrestling with purpose outside of playing
41:30 – 43:15 — Moving Forward & What’s Next
• Accepting that he didn’t call every team back
• The mental gap between liking baseball and liking playing
• Realizing baseball is therapeutic only when tied to a bigger mission
• Longing for deeper purpose and identity beyond the field
43:15 – End — Closing Thoughts
• Thanksgiving gratitude
• Plans to get mom & dad on future episodes
• Invitation to ask questions via his website
• “These episodes may not be for everyone… but they’re good for me.”
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This one’s personal. I’m breaking down my own throwback mechanics from my pro ball career and the mistakes that cost me years of development.
👉 Watch the full YouTube breakdown (with throwback clips of my mechanics throughout the years): https://link.mcpay.io/BHHdnjt
From being drafted in 2010… to getting released in 2014… to reinventing myself in the bullpen… I learned the hard way that:
• Velocity is a choice — you throw hard by training to throw hard
• Your environment dictates how your body organizes
• Athleticism is more important than robotic mechanics
• The mental approach you take into every throw will shape your movements
• Skipping the adaptation phase is what leads to injury
If you’re a pitcher who’s struggling with mechanics, command, or velocity… this episode is going to hit home. My journey had a lot of failures, but now I use those lessons to help guys like YOU avoid the same mistakes.
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What you’re thinking impacts the way your body is going to move in an effort to complete the task at hand.. something I learned the HARD WAY and I know a lot of us ball players struggle with..
For me I struggled sooo hard trying to get the ball to move and NOT THROW BALLS that I forgot my body is the most adaptable thing on this planet n it knows how to get the job done IF I’d just get out of my own frickin way lol
That’s why I’m such an advocate for training in environments that DEMAND athleticism/freedom/power and FLOWWW 🌊
Want to throw hard - Throw HARD
Think aggressive - be aggressive
Think passive - be passive
Simplicity is the gateway to athleticism
When I finally found my groove in 2015 I realized I could literally think “throw it as hard as I frickin can” and it’d actually go where I wanted it to go because I was just FLOWING bruh.. I also intentionally trained my body to adapt to the movements of high velocity demands in my preparation (long toss, pulldowns, and high intent catch plays)
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