Episode 14 features our friend Carolina Montenegro! She’s a Chilean-Canadian-American wife and mother of 3 beautiful kids. We get into her life as a mother, the responsibility it entails, and what does one dream about when your kids grow up? What is your personal identity outside of being a parent? What do you do when the kids are out of the house? This was recorded many months ago which is why we’re drinking egg nog.
01:46 - Egg Nog 03:36 - Carolina’s Day 08:07 - Veneers 18:00 - Toronto Pop Quiz 26:30 - Chilean Immigrants 32:33 - USA & a Wedding 36:45 - Having Kids 38:45 - Mom vs Career 46:55 - Carolina’s Dreams 55:22 - Dante’s Take on Parenting 59:04 - Future Empty Nester
Episode #13 - Andy Shin (Season 2)
May 14, 2019
Welcome back! We're here for another season after being picked up for round 2 by our invested sponsors. Today we talk to our friend Andy Shin. Andy is a brilliant musician who moved here from Korea many moons ago. We talk about his journey and what life has been like in America.
00:00 - Music by LukeAndy 00:50 - Season 2! 03:18 - South Korea 06:37 - Class of 2011 13:45 - New Hobbies 15:56 - Story Time with Dave 21:45 - Tapeworms 25:42 - Bullballs 30:28 - Sheepbrains 32:35 - Andy Moves to America 35:25 - Korean Church 38:55 - Life of an Immigrant 44:30 - American Reception 1:04:04 - Speed Round
Episode #12 - Two Mics
May 26, 2018
The NFL just released their updated national anthem policy making it mandatory for everyone to either stand during the anthem or stay in the locker rooms. We talk a lot about that today.
Dave Michener is the executive pastor at Bridgeway Community Church where Dave and I also do ministry. "Pastor Mich" has an inspiring and mostly, in my opinion, faith-led and brave, story. It's a story of uprooting his family to leave Ohio to move to Maryland to be a youth pastor with no Salary! It was his relationship with Dr. David Anderson and his eagerness to be a part of a diverse body of people that directed his path here. It is that same eagerness and pastoral heart that Mich possesses that has led to his relationship with Dave and me where we are hand in hand in ministry. As you'll be able to tell from this episode, Mich just exudes wisdom and life experiences that teach without him "teaching." This is our landmark episode number 10!
00:10 - 83 North 02:40 - Guinness 09:03 - Weird Al Seattle 16:10 - Mich’s Eggs 23:20 - Question Time 35:11 - Mich Almost Dying 43:45 - Balding 53:53 - Mich’s Defining Moment
Here's the crew in the car. Dangerous stuff!
This is me in Seattle at the restaurant Kamonegi! I like to lean on walls.
This is my nephew Leo and I'm eyeing his soba noodles.
We got to meet the brilliant Mutsuko Soma. She's the soba master at Kamonegi and she wasn't really excited to meet us. See? Can you tell?
Episode #9 - Anais Garcia
Feb 08, 2018
Anais is currently a student at Towson University here in Maryland. She joins us on the show to share her heart-wrenching story of how she’s struggled with eating disorders throughout her life. Growing up as a talented dancer studying ballet, she was constantly told that she didn’t have the right body type to be among the best. This mentality is what set her on the path of unhealthy eating habits. Still, Anais’ story of strength, redemption, and recovery is one to inspire all.
00:10 - Hungry Children 02:50 - Intro to Anais 05:18 - Story Time with Dave 07:48 - Anais Growing up 10:25 - Dancing & Health Issues 15:12 - Baltimore School for the Arts 28:46 - Towson University 34:45 - Hospitalization 36:45 - Relapsing 42:00 - Near-Death Experiences 46:42 - Philadelphia 50:20 - How to Help? 56:03 - Jonathan 59:00 - Strength
Here's a link to Anais' Instagram. Also, please follow her blog. She just started it back in January. Read up on how Anais is doing and what her journey is like through her own words. Click the pic below for her blog.
Episode #8 - Wendy Laybourn
Jan 31, 2018
Wendy Laybourn is currently a PhD candidate in Sociology at the University of Maryland, College Park. At four months of age, Wendy was adopted by a white working class couple and was raised in Memphis, TN. Growing up in a city haunted by the assassination of Martin Luther King, Jr., she was acutely aware of the centrality of race in America. Experiences of racial division, racial inequality, and bridge building have informed her perspective and academic work. She joins the show today to talk with Dante and Dave about her experiences growing up and how they have led her to where she is now.
00:10 - George Foreman Grill 03:10 - Latte Art 07:41 - Intro to Wendy 09:42 - Who Are You? 11:30 - Risky Business 14:41 - Growing Up in Memphis 27:28 - Pop Quiz for Wendy 33:20 - Wendy’s Defining Moment 43:35 - Racial & Ethnic Identity Development 55:07 - What’s Next?
Here's a shot of the latte Dante made for Wendy. He's getting better and better with each pour. Still has quite a ways to go but Dave and Wendy were impressed.
Dave and Dante back again. This episode gets loopy at times and then thought provoking at others. We'll let you decide if can tell which is which.
00:10 - Mocha Latte Attempt 13:25 - Records 21:36 - Part-Time Jobs 30:09 - Pop-Quiz for Dante 38:42 - Hey Ya! 41:10 - Sensitivity 54:00 - Your Life As a Movie?
Here's a pic of that latte Dante made. Not the worst, but far from the best.
Episode #6 - Deshaun Sheppard
Jan 18, 2018
Dante's little brother Deshaun, aka Chuki, sits down for a chat. Deshaun is a busy young man who has big dreams. When big dreams meet an unparalleled work ethic, you get success. And Deshaun, he's just getting started!
00:00 - Recommendations 03:46 - “Mocha Latte” 08:45 - Our Guest 12:36 - Last Thing You Cooked 17:00 - Social Media 28:06 - Deshaun’s Defining Moment 38:45 - Resolutions 45:02 - New Orleans 55:02 - Appreciation VS Appropriation
this is the video where Deshaun explains how is company "Enticement Entertainment" came to be. This is his coming of age moment...or something like that.
Here's the beautiful painting in New Orleans that we spoke about.
Follow the professional MMA fighter Deshaun represents. His name is Scott Noble and he's a lifelong friend of ours. Here's his Instagram.
We talk with our friend Sarah about her travels around the world and her personal story involving sexual harassment.
00:22 - Breakfast & Coffee 04:50 - Sarah’s Introduction 09:17 - World Travel 11:50 - Sarah’s Defining Moment 18:57 - Sarah’s Book 24:00 - Fire 25:02 - Aviation 35:48 - #MeToo 39:24 - Sarah in D.C. 47:02 - Women in Culture 56:48 - The Future
here's the video sarah put together while interning with us in student ministries.
Episode #4 - Science & Cupcakes
Nov 25, 2017
We were supposed to have this show uploaded last week hence all the "pre-Thanksgiving" chatter. Still, nothing said was necessarily 2017 Thanksgiving specific.
04:16 - I'm an Idiot 06:31 - Science & Cupcakes 15:20 - I Don't Know 18:51 - Dave Knows Julie 20:54 - Thanksgiving 25:25 - Story Time with Dave 29:15 - "Friendsgiving" 33:00 - Recipes 39:49 - Last Year VS This Year 50:25 - Dave is Preaching 52:10 - Honesty
Episode #3 - Loneliness
Nov 13, 2017
On this episode, we talk about friendships as we age, loneliness, and water.