Bar Talk With Jay

How women get men? Oct 31, 2024

How women get men, come see what we found out!

Attention hoarder Oct 24, 2024

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From Laughter to Legacy How to Turn Good Times into Everlasting Memories Apr 26, 2024

Unveiling Hidden Truths People There Secrets Revealed Apr 20, 2024

Bad Boy for Life The Rise and Fall of P Diddy a Music Legend Apr 11, 2024

The Hidden Dangers of Selfishness How It Sabotages Relationships Apr 11, 2024

finding Strength in Faith Mar 21, 2024

What's Your Wish_ Let's Talk About What You Want - Bar Talk With Jay Mar 14, 2024

Why Self-Awareness is the Key Skill Nobody Teaches You Feb 23, 2024

Why We Need Morals in a Modern World Feb 02, 2024

Unlock the Secret Door to Abundance Mastering the Law of Attraction in 2024 Bar Talk With Jay Jan 26, 2024

Red Flags to Green Lights_ Spotting Relationship Blockers & Cultivating Connection Jan 12, 2024

Level Up Your Life 3 Game-Changing Rules to Unlock Your Hidden Potential Bar Talk With Jay Jan 05, 2024

Ripple Effect_ How One Pass Decision Can Change Your Life (and Not Just Yours) Bar Talk With Jay Dec 29, 2023

From Pandemic to Pandemonium_ How the World Unraveled in 2023 (Uncensored Truth) Bar Talk With Jay Dec 23, 2023

Brittany Dr Dec 15, 2023

Mindblown! How Childhood Shapes Your Relationships (For Better or Worse) Dec 15, 2023

Gratitude and Growth Thanksgiving Edition Nov 24, 2023

Navigating Modern Dating with Righteous Intent_ A Guide for Today's Singles Nov 17, 2023

Don't Settle for Less! Unleash Your Potential Nov 12, 2023

❤️💋 Love vs Lust Are You in the Right Relationship 💔😍 Nov 03, 2023

Don't Settle for Less Oct 27, 2023

Unlocking Greatness The Surprising Secrets You Need to Succeed! Oct 21, 2023

🌟 Is Religion a Blessing or a Curse 🙏😈 Unveiling the Impact Oct 13, 2023

Entrepreneur vs. 9 to 5 Which Path Leads to TRUE Freedom Oct 06, 2023

What's Holding Her Back_ Why a Perfectly Put-Together Lady is Still Single Sep 29, 2023

Unmasking the Future_ How the virus and its Variants Will Shape Our World!_ 😱🔮 The 2nd coming Sep 24, 2023

Myth vs. Reality_ Are Women Really 'Damaged Goods' After Toxic Relationships_ 💪 #bartalkwithjay Sep 15, 2023

Unexpected Love_ Embracing Connections That Don't Fit (1) Sep 08, 2023

Battling Back Empowering Yourself in the Fight for Health Sep 08, 2023

Time Flies When You're... Productive_! Discover the Time Management Tips You Need Now!_ Sep 08, 2023

If She Has Bad Sex_ How to Improve Intimacy in Your Relationship (1) Sep 08, 2023

The Power of Perseverance How to Overcome Obstacles and Find your Drive Sep 08, 2023

The Truth About Online Dating_ Myths Debunked and Insights Revealed Sep 08, 2023

From Turmoil to Triumph_ The Ultimate Guide to Mastering Chaos and Finding Inner Peace Sep 08, 2023

Unlock Your Potential_ 5 Surprising Reasons Why You're Stagnant and How to Overcome Them Sep 08, 2023

Stuck in a Relationship Rut_ How to Move On When You've Already Checked Out Sep 08, 2023

Game Recognize Game_ The Ultimate Guide to Spotting who's running game and Connecting with People Sep 08, 2023

Navigating the Storm_ When Turmoil Leads to Action_ #shorts Sep 08, 2023

In Dating... Are we asking the right questions or does it even matter_ Sep 08, 2023

Cheating 101_ Understanding the Root Causes and How to Prevent It in Your Relationship Sep 08, 2023

AT WHAT POINT IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP DO YOU CUT TIES WITH PREVIOUS BOOTY CALLS _ Sep 08, 2023

Sapiosexual_ Finding Intelligence sexually attractive or arousing! Sep 08, 2023

Toxicity Talk_ Candid Conversations About the Impact of Toxicity on Our Lives Sep 08, 2023

Unlocking the Science of Sexual Chemistry Sep 08, 2023

The Money-Sex Connection How Finance Impacts Your Love Sep 08, 2023

The Accountability Challenge_ Should Celebrities Be Role Models Sep 08, 2023

When a person say they do not need you, How do you interpret Sep 08, 2023

Love in the Age of Technology_ The Pros and Cons of Modern Dating Sep 08, 2023

AT WHAT POINT IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP DO YOU CUT TIES WITH PREVIOUS BOOTY CALLS Sep 08, 2023

Shouldn't a woman _ go for it_ if she sees a men she likes and wants_ Sep 08, 2023

Ethical Dilemmas_ Navigating Life by Doing the Right Thing Sep 08, 2023

Love & Currency_ Navigating Finances in Modern Dating 💑💰 _ Money Talk Series Sep 08, 2023

Unlocking the Science of Sexual Chemistry Sep 08, 2023

😮 Myth vs. Reality: Are Women Really 'Damaged Goods' After Toxic Relationships? 💪 #bartalkwithjay Sep 08, 2023

Why women always say men are not shit_ How about we look at the women decision making skills are not shit Sep 07, 2023

Dating multiple people what are you thoughts_ Sep 07, 2023

If A Man Pays Half The Bills Can He Still Be Called A Provider_ Sep 07, 2023

Would you support the Idea of marriage licenses expiring like drivers licenses_ Sep 07, 2023

The Psychology of Haters_ Understanding Jealousy and Its Impact. (1) Sep 07, 2023

Unexpected Love_ Embracing Connections That Don't Fit Sep 07, 2023

If She Has Bad Sex_ How to Improve Intimacy in Your Relationship Sep 07, 2023

In Dating... Are we asking the right questions or does it even matter? Feb 03, 2023

In Dating... Are we asking the right questions or does it even matter?

Is it even worth it? Relationships,Life or Business Jan 29, 2023

Is it even worth it? Relationships,Life or Business

Are more Single people becoming uncertain about relationships? Jan 29, 2023

Are more Single people becoming uncertain about relationships?

Mindset 2023 lets talk! Jan 29, 2023

Mindset 2023 lets talk!

Mistrust Dec 18, 2022

A Controlling Man vs. A Good Man Oct 06, 2022

Would you support the Idea of marriage licenses expiring like drivers licenses_ Sep 30, 2022

Six year anniversary show Sep 15, 2022

Dating multiple people what are you thoughts_ Aug 18, 2022

Can You Date Without Sex?Can You Date Without Sex? Aug 04, 2022

Question….What’s it gonna take for the next person you date to lock your ass Down??? Jul 21, 2022

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People and their Fetishes...how far are you willing to go? Jun 23, 2022

What is the major Red Flag 🚩 in a partner that shows they’re not good for your mental health? Jun 09, 2022

You come home from work to this. Do stay or run?? Next topic? Jun 02, 2022

Why women always say men are not shit_ How about we look at the women decision making skills are not shit May 27, 2022

Is age difference important in a relationship? May 19, 2022

If a Man is dating a Woman with kids, is he wrong for going to her house with dinner for 2? Or is he obligated to feed her kids as well? May 12, 2022

My Response to having sex on the first date is_____________ (1) May 06, 2022

Honest hour: What’ s hard about dating you?👀 Apr 28, 2022

Men…what made you sleep with her and never call or not answer her calls or text again? Apr 21, 2022

What’s the difference between being spiritual and being religious? Apr 14, 2022

If a man propose to a girl and she says No, is the relationship OVER? Apr 07, 2022

Do women cheat for the same or difference reason than men? Mar 31, 2022

How many women can relate? And even if you know men who are faithful, would you say they are rare? Let talk! Mar 24, 2022

Do women save anything for their future husbands anymore or do we just do everything with our boyfriend????? Mar 17, 2022

How to come back from a setback. Mar 11, 2022

If a person showed you TRUST, LOVE, AND HONESTY..but not MONOGAMY, how do you leave and move on? Mar 04, 2022

Why do women over look good men? Be real! Feb 24, 2022

If You Grow Beyond Your Spouse Or Your Business Partner Should You Leave Them Or Let Them Go? Outgrowing People. Feb 11, 2022

If You Grow Beyond Your Spouse Or Your Business Partner Should You Leave Them Or Let Them Go? Outgrowing People.

If You Grow Beyond Your Spouse Or Your Business Partner Should You Leave Them Or Let Them Go? Outgrowing People. Feb 11, 2022

If You Grow Beyond Your Spouse Or Your Business Partner Should You Leave Them Or Let Them Go? Outgrowing People.

Can a man without money make a woman happy in a Relationship? Be 100 with it! Feb 04, 2022

HOW MEN REALLY FEEL WHEN THEY GET THEIR HEART BROKE😳❤ Jan 21, 2022

Ladies, do you need titles and marriage to feel secure in a relationship? Is age a factor? Please elaborate! Jan 14, 2022

It’s 2022, why are women hiding that they desire women too? Is it a generational thing? And do we judge women who are Bi? Jan 07, 2022

Are you cool with the idea of being single in 2022 or are you ready for significant other? Dec 31, 2021

OPEN DISCUSSION: Can A Man Accept The Same Hurt He Put A Woman Through 🤭 Dec 23, 2021

Why do couples who were once “Getting It In” stop having sex? And how do you get that passion back? Dec 17, 2021

How would your family respond if you came home for the holidays with a partner of a different culture, much younger, or of the same sex? Dec 10, 2021

Wake Up Ladies! Monogamy mostly benefits men, not women! Is today' ya'll reads man REALLY enough? Arey to talk, or what? Dec 03, 2021

Men say they want a beautiful/curvaceous woman but can they handle the attention she gets? Nov 19, 2021

I will not be mentally, spiritually, psychologically, emotionally or financially abused by you FEMALES! Nov 12, 2021

How do you define a relationship with no title? Nov 04, 2021

If U are in a serious 🧐 relationship should your mate be able to answer your phone? Oct 21, 2021

Ladies, would you stay if your man got the side chic pregnant? What if you were married with children? Oct 14, 2021

THINGS MEN FIND UNATTRACTIVE BUT WON'T TELL YOU! Oct 07, 2021

Ladies, If a man asked you to wait until marriage to have sex, would you? Sep 30, 2021

When women say, "Men can't handle me" what does that mean? Sep 23, 2021

Can friends have good sex and keep it on that friendship level? Sep 16, 2021

Scenario: You go on a trip with friends, and one decides to cheat. Their spouse finds evidence and calls you to ask questions? (keep it real Sep 09, 2021

Shouldn't a woman " go for it" if she sees a men she likes and wants? Sep 02, 2021

EVERY COUPLE ARGUES.... BUT SHOULD THEIR BE BOUNDARIES!! WHAT DO YOU CONSIDER NOT FIGHTING FAIR Aug 26, 2021

AT WHAT POINT IN A NEW RELATIONSHIP DO YOU CUT TIED WITH PREVIOUS BOOTY CALLS OR DO YOU? Aug 19, 2021

Sapiosexual: Finding Intelligence sexually attractive or arousing! So what turns your cerebral on and make you wet? I Aug 12, 2021

Should a husband defend his wife against insults from his family? Aug 05, 2021

Have you ever been injured during sex! If so, How? Jul 29, 2021

If someone you're dating says they're single and you find out otherwise...WHAT WOULD YOU DO??? Jul 22, 2021

What is unattractive about nice guys? Why don’t women choose nice guys? Jul 15, 2021

Why is it so hard even for people over 40 to be honest about wanting to see other people? Jul 08, 2021

DID YOU EXPECT TO BE SINGLE AT THIS POINT IN YOUR LIFE? Jul 01, 2021

Can a broken woman ever truly love and trust again, ever a good man Jun 24, 2021

Why do people think that we had sex we are a couple? Jun 17, 2021

HOW DO YOU RELY KNOW IF "YOUR STUFF IS GOOD? AND DON'T SAY, "BECAUSE THEY KEEP COMING BACK Jun 03, 2021

How far do you go for the one you love? May 27, 2021

How to deal with bad habits in the bedroom or in a relationship May 20, 2021

Should you go into a relationship with a child hood friend or just stay friends? May 13, 2021

Can a person social media timeline influence you not to date them? May 06, 2021

Is it important that your significant other is in good shape? Apr 15, 2021

If you're dating someone who has kids by different men, are you willing to take her kids and yours on vacation? Apr 01, 2021

If you got your"STIMULUS CHECK" should you share it with your significant other? Mar 25, 2021

How do you protect yourself in life, sex and relationships? Mar 18, 2021

Besides SEX...what can you bring to the table? Mar 11, 2021

If your partner ask to bring another person in the bedroom to spice up the relationship, what would you do? Mar 04, 2021

How much of your "Inner Freak" are you willing to share with someone you just met or been knowing? Feb 26, 2021

Fellas would you start a new relationship with a pregnant woman Feb 11, 2021

In a relationship, do you know your position? Dec 03, 2020

Forgiveness is a must in a marriage, What about a relationship? Nov 19, 2020

Why Actions Speak Louder Than Words In Relationships (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 336) Oct 22, 2020

Can you count on someone else word or do you need to see it first? Is it a necessity that all actions speak louder than words in
your relationships?

Unreal Expectations Oct 15, 2020

Love Versus Loyalty (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 334) Oct 08, 2020

Do love and loyalty always go hand and hand? Can you have love without loyalty? Some will stay "in love" for loyalty. But why? Loyalty can make people miserable because there is no love to go with it.

Relationship Goals and How To Make Them Work (Bar Talk with Jay Ep. 332) Sep 24, 2020

Everybody wants to be #relationshipgoals on the Gram but what it doe it take to make them happen? Do you believe every relationship is as it seems to be? There are not always clear visuals of what your relationship goals look like. Take in input and find what you really achieve with your significant other.

We Still Here! Bar Talk With Jay 4th Anniversary Celebration (09-17-20) Sep 17, 2020

It's here again! We take a look back at what got us here. We play a few clips from the past. Say what up to a few peeps and enjoy the night. Most of all thank each and every one of yall for your support.

Keeping The Flame Alive, Gladys Knight Vs Patti LaBelle, and Relationship Advice With The Show Sep 10, 2020

This week on the podcast we discuss if your flame is still burning as much as it did day one. We also discuss Gladys Knight Vs Patti LaBelle, and the fellas take relationship questions from the viewers.

Is Negativity Ruining Your Relationship? (Or Friendship?) Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 329 Sep 03, 2020

Starting to feel like some people's energy gives you a false positive? One of Those Molly from “Insecure” types? Those the hardest ones to point out. We are talking about people who are really negative and seem like they want good for you. It either they don't
Are you or someone you know in a toxic or negative relationship?

Does Influence Actually Change People? (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 328) Aug 27, 2020

In today's climate, we talk a lot about change because it's definitely the way progress is made. However, that change has to made by people in their own minds. We all know people can be influenced but can you really change them? Politics is one thing but what about people in your everyday life? Your significant other has some bad habits that you can influence but if they don’t commit to the change it’s not being made.

Define Hoe Phase? Sexual "Experience" Preferences, Images of Leadership and More (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 327) Aug 20, 2020

This week on the podcast we look into sexual experience preferences. We talk about the way men and women look at each other for their needs.

Do You Look at People or Yourself Differently After COVID-19? (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 326 ) Aug 13, 2020

We explore if you found something new about people or yourself. Did find out the true character of people around you? Did figure that humans had lower lows than you expected or did you find that there is still faith in humanity. So many things changed but did they or did they get amplified.

How To Tell When You Found The "One'' and When To Commit (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 325) Aug 06, 2020

So you have someone you feel like is the one? How long did take you to feel like that and how long did it take for you to know you needed to commit to that person?

Who Does Cheats Better? Men or Women? (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 323) Jul 23, 2020

So who cheats better? Is it men or women? First, what is better? Getting away with more or not getting caught for longer? This can go either way. but to really know you have to look at the way each side cheats. Most will say Women have more emotion tied into their cheating while men cheat more for the opportunity when loyalty is absent. Where do you fall?

Can You Openly Discuss Your Sexual History with Your Partner? (Bar Talk With Jay Ep 322) Jul 16, 2020

Can you put it all on the "table"? This week on the podcast we will talk about entanglements, but really we are here to talk about the ability to bare it all with the one you are with. It’s one thing to talk about what happened before you ever together, it another thing to talk about anything that happens in the course of the relationship. Jada and Will came to the Red Table Talk to show how real it is. Can you sit at your table and do the same?

How Do You Handle A Lack of Enthusiasm In Your Relationship? (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 321) Jul 09, 2020

When you noticed your relationship isn't where you want out to be? Is the fire not there? How do you deal? Do you encourage a change or do you move on? You tell us

Overcoming The End: How To Move On From Long Term Relationship Scenarios (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 320) Jul 02, 2020

We all, for the most part, an inherent desire to do better and be better. At some point in our lives, people who are close to us will want to do the same and they may not be far as yourself. They may even ask you to help them get closer to where you are. So where is your line? Is it money or are you willing to go all the way and supply infrastructure to support the intended desire. Our families have people that come along with a variety of characters and some of them could really use our help while others may look to take advantage of your kindness. It’s always more than meets the eye in most situations and you don’t know until your close. Thanks for listening!

Daddy Issues: How DID Men Get So Undercelebrated in Society? (Bar Talk WIth Jay Ep. 319) Jun 18, 2020

Maybe it’s social media or maybe its just facts but the perception that Father’ Day is a second rate holiday next to Mothers’ Day isn’t that false. The question is why? Why do men feel like this and why is the perception seem to be so universal? We have come to realize that men have a lot of issues and in society have been the dominant species for some time. Is there some resentment going on subconsciously? That’s a wide look. What about the individual? We talk about women having “daddy issues” but it some men have the same issues because they seem to lack examples when it comes to love and being a father. So who really has the “daddy issues”? As men start to look at their own mistakes we start to build better men and if we can start reaching out we can starter to building stronger as a whole. Thanks for listening!

Managing The Dating Age Dynamics (Bar Talk WIth Jay Ep. 318) Jun 11, 2020

Managing Dating Age Dynamics (Bar Talk WIth Jay Ep. 318)
Do you have a preference when it comes to dating age? Before we go in the wrong direction, let's focus on the way that grown people are supposed to work. Going in different directions on the age spectrum can give you pros and cons depending on where you are in your life. It could be stability, it could be to grow or maybe just to have fun and enjoy life. Whatever your preference, age usually plays a factor in our bias of expected behavior and what compromises we are willing to make because of those behaviors. The larger age discrepancies seem to draw the most ire from others. When you look at the situations where people frown upon or may assume dysfunction based on known ages of the parties.(i.e. Tiger King).
Whichever way you fall on the side of age preference whether it be older or younger, you understand for the most part what the fundamental differences are. The thing people see to struggle with is when the age difference causes a difference in lifestyle choices. This friction is much more apparent after cohabitation. After a mistake or two an individual builds a profile based on their life and easily avoids the wrong type of individuals in a given age group.

A Critical Time To Use Your Voice (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 317) Jun 04, 2020

In the last week since the out right murder of George Floyd, protest are starting to pop up not only in Minnesota, not just America, but the world! We continue to protest in numbers and in some cases riot. It’s beyond the comprehension of some why people are acting the way they are and some are asking what can we do? On tonight’s episode. We explore that and more this week on Bar Talk With Jay.

Dropping The Baggage Of Old Relationships (Bar Talk With Jay Ep. 316) May 28, 2020

Leaving relationships always comes with some scars, some lessons, and some new expectations because there is always something new we will not put up with in the future. There can be a line that some of us can cross where some of these lessons and scars can turn a small reminder into a full PTSD episode. Some of the negative feelings around certain areas of our relationships can cause avoidable situations and can even go as far as ending a relationship all together
Have you gotten accused of treating your new boo like your ex? Do you have wounds that cause you to get labeled unreasonable? Maybe the shoe is on the other foot. You may be dealing with someone you are really into but they keep me showing things that they are not over from the past. Whichever roll you may play, you can agree that for the most part, baggage in this form is unhealthy and should be left at the door.
Thanks for listening!

How Willing Are You To Challenge Your Intimacy? (Bar Talk WIth Jay Ep. 315) May 21, 2020

In the last few months you and your significant other may have been spending a lot more time together. In some cases maybe too much. Nonetheless you may have hit a crossroad where the intimacy may have gone dull. The real challenge may lie in the willingness to up the ante on where are the outer edges a partner’s intimacy is.
So the question usually comes up and sounds like “Are you comfortable with that?” or Have you ever done…”. This could create a beautiful new beginning or could ultimately be the end of everything. People have different levels of where they are willing to go. The key is hopefully finding someone who wants to go to the same place. So...how far do you go?

Overcoming Fear and Anxiety of the Unknown (Bar Talk With Jay 5-14-20) May 14, 2020

This week on the podcast we go a little more personal. We usually keep it to you and your significant other but today let us focus on the individual. With the onset of the COVID-19 pandemic, the unknown had shaped the way we have lived our everyday lives. It’s to the point that the uncertainty is messing with people’s heads and it’s affecting our thinking and may not even know it. Some are aware and are dealing with like nothing wrong meanwhile most of us are coping and making sure we are staying safe. Thanks for listening!

Are you mentally and physically able to maintain a healthy relationship amidst the COVID-19 pandemic? (Bar Talk With Jay 5-7-20) May 07, 2020

Are you mentally and physically able to maintain a healthy relationship amidst the COVID-19 pandemic? (Bar Talk With Jay 5-7-20)

Quarantine Times Update with Bar Talk With Jay (4-30-20) Apr 30, 2020

Depending on your situation we’ve been under the quarantine for over a month and things have certainly been different and the evolution has gone in a few different directions. Living situations in sort of varieties has brought about things that may have been small and taken a magnifying

Quarantine Cuddle or Clash? Your Relationship During Quarantine Time (Bar Talk With Jay 03-26-20) Mar 26, 2020

So we are going into the first month of post coronavirus life where everything has changed. At this point if you have a significant other chances are you've spent significant time with them. Every working and learning remote has caused us to have much more time at home to open the door for opportunity.
Now that could be an opportunity to make some serious love, it could be a time where you can find appreciation for someone or it could be the moment where you confirmed you can’t stand the person you keep having to look at. With more time you tend to go a bit more deeper into the what makes the makeup of what a relationship is.
Thanks for listening!

Quarantine Cuddle or Clash? Your Relationship During Quarantine Time (Bar Talk With Jay 03-26-20) Mar 26, 2020

So we are going into the first month of post coronavirus life where everything has changed. At this point if you have a significant other chances are you've spent significant time with them. Every working and learning remote has caused us to have much more time at home to open the door for opportunity.
Now that could be an opportunity to make some serious love, it could be a time where you can find appreciation for someone or it could be the moment where you confirmed you can’t stand the person you keep having to look at. With more time you tend to go a bit more deeper into the what makes the makeup of what a relationship is.
Thanks for listening!

Coronavirus Chronicles: Making It Through a Trying Time (Bar Talk WIth Jay 3-19-20) Mar 19, 2020

It’s impossible that you haven’t been affected by the Coronavirus pandemic. We have had to alter our ways of everyday lives.There are the 5 things we must do to stop the spread but what is really being done to our psyche? The mental effect of the news cycle and all of the speculation around what may be going on behind the scenes have been making conversations have a different tone. We try to explore the ramifications of some of the behavior of society in general and look for some thought processes that provide healing. Thank you for listening!

Are You Always Comfortable With Sexual Feedback From Your Mate? (Bar Talk With Jay 3-12-20) Mar 12, 2020

How does it make you feel when you get feedback from your significant other….in the bedroom? I It can be an uncomfortable situation when you add certain variables. Are you open minded when someone wants to change the pace to get where they need to be? HOw far does it have to be before it becomes uncomfortable. How many kinks are really on the table? You may think that this is simple but feedback can go a long way.

Two Women One Mess - Loving Someone Who Doesn’t Have Your Back (Bar Talk With Jay 3-5-20) We experience some sort of crossroad moments whe Mar 06, 2020

We experience some sort of crossroad moments where we have to make some tough decisions in our lives. The toughest of them all usually involves moving away from a particular person in your life. Sometimes it may be for love, lack of love, or that person may be no good for you. What if you get to the point that you have love for a person but that person does not have your back or best interests while another person may hold your best interest but they do not have your love interest. This scenario happens more often than you think. We all have had a friend whose partner we knew was no good and tried to tell them and warn them but they never listen. Sometimes we are that friend. We often love things that are not the best for us. So what do when with the things or people that love us? I guess we’ll find out at the crossroads or this week on Bar Talk With Jay!
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Old School Vs New School Dating (Bar Talk With Jay 02-27-20 Feb 28, 2020

Old School Vs New School Dating
So whats really the difference? Has dating really changed at its core? There has definitely be a revolution on how dating has changed. Technology has created new environments for interaction and made selection into a sport. We explore all this and more this week on the podcast! Thanks for listening!

Is Time To Spice It Up? (Bar Talk With Jay 2-20-20) Feb 21, 2020

Is Valentine's Day’s a Celebration of Double Standards? (Bar Talk With Jay 2-13-20) Feb 14, 2020

This week we explore the double standard that is associated with holidays like Valentines Day. There are pretty much double standards across the board but when it comes to this particular holiday, we tend to see the balance get even more out of whack. Traditionally in western culture the man in the relationship shoulders the load and is really under more pressure because there are more ways to fail than to succeed. As time has gone along the playing field has become somewhat more level but that is more the exception than than rule Thanks for listening!

Dealing With The 7 Deadly Sins Part 2 (Bar Talk With Jay 02-06-19) Feb 07, 2020

This week we continue our discussion on the Seven Deadly Sins. Last week we went a little deep on lust (surprise!) but we manage to cover all of them in one way or another. We look into the opposite of each sin and how to combat them in the bet way. Thanks for listening.

Dealing With The 7 Deadly Sins Part 1 (Bar Talk With Jay 01-30-20) Jan 31, 2020

The Art of Holding Out: Why Do We Weaponize Sex? (BTWJ 01-23-20) Jan 24, 2020

You mad? Does that mean I can’t get none? The most notable place sex has been weaponized is in an interrelationship argument. When someone is mad (usually women) one place that tends to get used against the other side is the act of holding out. In theory, a punishment to get a desired behavior but who is really being punished if you have great sessions all the time?
In another sense, sex can be weaponized to manipulate behavior usually for “selfish” reasons. People who use sex like this have needs t or goals hat need to be met and if sex can help achieve those goals then it’s definelty coming out the tool bag. The emotion that is attached to the act and the intent of sex can be enough to motivate a person to act in irrational and in some cases even dangerous.
We explore all this and more on this week's episode of Bar Talk with Jay! Thanks for listening!

Impulse: Why We Do What We Do, Without Knowing Why We Do It Jan 17, 2020

Can you resist it? That natural impulse that takes your time, money or energy? Checking social media when you wake up, that candy at the checkout line, or that person who always seems to change your mood or focus, all of these are examples of decisions made with impulse. How do we get to that point? Is it nature or learned behavior? More than likely, it will be a bit of both. Not all impulses are negative. Because of what you learned over time you may develop impulses that protect you and your loved ones from harm. You may make impulsive decisions because you love someone and want their affection. Getting them flowers or their favorite snack goes a long way with someone when it shows you care. Is in your nature to treat a person like that or does that person create an impulse to enact the behavior? We discuss this and more this week on Bar Talk With Jay. Thanks for listening!

Who’s Pimping Who? How to Play The Game With Unfair Players. (Bar Talk With Jay 01-09-20) Jan 10, 2020

Have you been played by an underhanded person? Have you dealt with people whose life mission is to get over? We all have and this week we discuss how to deal with these types and keep playing the game the right way. You may feel like playing the game their way is the way to go but in reality this is only bringing you down in a whole. Working around them tactfully will protect your best interests and keep their influence far away from you. Thanks for Listening !

Opening Up For Love After Heartbreak (Bar Talk With Jay 1-2-20) Jan 02, 2020

This week in our first show of the new year, Jay and Craft will be discussing how do you open your heart for love again. We have all experienced heartbreak in some way or form. Whether it be in a relationship, a loss of a loved one or even a sports team that lets you down when they are winning 28-3 the championship game. Heartbreak is real and it can keep you from carrying on and being able to show the love you are capable of showing. It is a must for true happiness to find healing in the heart. Do not let fear you hold back in love or life. You can move safely but not fearful. Think about how you overcame a heartbreak. Did you learn a lesson or have some PTSD that needed some support? It is possible for everyone to love again. Thanks for listening!

How Can You Find an Ideal Mate? (Bar Talk With Jay 12-26-19) Dec 27, 2019

This week on the podcast we discuss the ideal way of finding a mate. There are proven methods that are done using science but that path is a choice and finding an ideal mate is probably more about philosophy. Some rely simply on fate or chance while others say being methodical and defining the perfect mate and looking for someone to fit that profile. The answer probably lies in between. Of course, there is the philosophy of the soulmate and believing that there is one special person just for them. Going into 2020, the methods of finding a mate are endless. From general dating apps to ones that centered around certain interests, and now even Facebook has stepped into dating. Mingling isn’t going anywhere and neither are the matchmaking friends. However you choose your path, there will be some bumps in the road and you may find out perfect isn’t actually perfect. Thanks for listening!

2019 vs 2020: Making It Our Best Year Ever! (Bar Talk WIth 12-19-19) Dec 20, 2019

We are at the end of the year and 2019 has been an interesting year for some and just another one for others. What can we take into 2020 in order to make it the “The Best Year Ever”? Do we need to shed a few things before we start or are there are few more things that need to be gathered before we begin the new year? What lessons are key for what the building blocks for a great 2020? We look into many of these questions and more this week on Bar Talk With Jay.

Break-Up Recipe: Has The Reason for Break-Ups Changed Over Time? Dec 13, 2019

Depends on who you ask but that’s more than obvious. Has the reason for break ups differ amongst generations? If you go by decades, the surface reasons have changed but the core reasons are the same. On the surface, may lye on what decade you pop up in. Going back 100 years or so, everything was a bit more family centered and marriage was more of a business tool than a love laten relationship. Break-ups were much rarer and divorce in a religiously homogeneous society was frowned upon. Dating was much of dream during those time. As you move on throughout time love had been at the center of relationships and marriage. Things like compatibility,, family history, bad habits, status, appearance, money and more come into play when relationships are pursued and can also cause a demise.

Dealing With Society's Obsession of Material Things Dec 06, 2019

Dealing With Society's Obsession of Material Things
Society is undoubtedly addicted to technology. From the phones, the way we use them, the labor of seeking approval, and all of the money-draining services. When we go deeper into the fold, we can see that we as people are starting to get obsessed with material things and companies are looking to hold that over our collective heads. In some cases, these things fracture relationships, cause violence and even end life. Commercialization in a capitalist society is a commodity and the more targeted this advertising becomes to every facet of our life, the more urgency seems to be real to have something that probably don’t need or does more harm than good.

Does Your Relationship Truly Have Freedom of Speech? (Bar Talk With Jay (11-21-19) Nov 22, 2019

Do you always speak up? Can you speak up? Is it always your space to say something? We often think of freedom of speech when it comes to the ability to say anything in public but we all know there are limitations. Whether it be your job, your beliefs, the environment, or your relationship, you are limited to what you are able to say. The real question that comes up in a relationship is when it comes to sensitive or important instances, when do you earn the right to say something or more importantly exert your influence? It can be a source of frustration when one party feel improvements can be made. It may require some self reflection and admitting you may not be a perfect person.

Drawing a Line: Dividing and Defining The Financial Responsibilities of Relationships (Bar Talk With Jay 11/14/2019) Nov 15, 2019

Drawing a Line: Dividing and Defining The Financial Responsibilities of Relationships (Bar Talk With Jay 11/14/2019)
Going Dutch can be taboo in the dating discussion. Philosophies may differ from person to person but it is far less complicated in a casual dating situation. On the other hand when it comes to being in a relationship, cohabitating, and we are talking about splitting these bills, you are looking at decisions that directly affect your livelihood.
Income level does influence the way we navigate this topic. Customarily the man in the relationship is looked to be the one to take care of the bills and the woman helps where she can. In 2019 with high earners coming from both ends of the spectrum, you may find that the woman may be a better choice to do the financial lifting. Also in the current society, inflation and development have affected everything from food to property value. In some cases, it really takes two to make things go. If we have the same goals financially, maybe decide to pool resources, with everything being equal where should the divide of financial responsibility come? How much trust is needed in order to feel like you are financially taken care of? However you need to accomplish your financial goals shouldn’t matter but deep down inside, does it?

The Ups and Downs of Bedroom Intensity (Bar Talk With Jay 11-7-19 Nov 08, 2019

Take a moment to yourself and think about something. What ties you to the person who has given you the best bedroom experience? Be honest was it the love of your life, the crazy one that you couldn’t let go, a chance encounter, or the one you are with now. If it’s not the one you are with, then why not?
Was there ever a downside whether with that person or going forward? Did it mess up your expectations and cause some strife? There are truly some highs and lows when it comes to those super passionate sessions sending sensations to all five senses. We will explore all these threads and more. Thanks for listening! - BTWJ

The Boundaries of The Work Spouse or Keep Your Distance? Oct 31, 2019

When your special someone mentions to you about something about their work spouse how does that make you feel? Is it a family friend that’s around all the time or is it a person that you hardly know that is in constant contact and it’s always “about work”?
For any person, single or attached, a work spouse relationship can develop in different ways, with the Utopian
scenario is very endearing friendship. The most useful versions would be a strategic alliance or a chemistry-based alliance. In most situations, both parties are knowingly keeping this relationship limited to a professional manner but each person actually cares. Now when there is any level of physical attraction, it is suggested to have honesty but….you know.
So where do you set your boundaries with workplace-only companionship? Could you handle your significant other having someone really looking out for them in a caring way? Is it a must for you to meet the key co-workers or is it we keep our distance?
Thanks for listening and watching!

Scary Dates and More (Bar Talk With Jay 10-24-19) Oct 24, 2019

Your scariets dates

Living With Cheaters...or Not? (Bar Talk With Jay 10-17-19) Oct 17, 2019

Everyone has a cheating story but what is best way to deal with situation? Stay and work it out or leave?

Moving Around Haters and Working Above Oct 10, 2019

In 2019, haters have evolved. They have different methods of coming at you. They use different channels such as Facebook and Twitter and a multitude of methods to get under your skin. Everyone has haters of some kind. Some may be less obvious than others, ranging from anonymous commentators to your trusted inner circle. Some people may see those who oppose them as haters but may only have passionate fans who want the best. How can you tell the difference? Before you can deal with haters, if they are, you must recognize the different types of haters that can exist and their motives. Once you know what you're dealing with, then it’s time to use the proper technique of dealing with them. The most common way is just to work above their existence. This may seem harder when some of your biggest haters are people close to you and could even be family. It may even seem tougher when are actively sabotaging your efforts. You are not looking to carry yourself above someone like your better but in the sense that you can refrain from using thought processes that don’t keep your spirit in line. Ultimately you are trying not let your haters control, you, your actions, or thoughts. Once they have influence, they have control. Be wary of them all.
Thanks for Listening!

The Selection Process: Picking A Perfect Mate Oct 03, 2019

When we talk about the objective of dating, it is usually in order to find a mate or someone you are most compatible with. Some may say they are not looking, just dating. This may be a conscious decision not to find yourself in a serious situation but really you are still discovering your preferences in a mate finding new things about yourself.
The selection process is multifaceted. You have your criteria that define some general rules on what your preferences are. There is also the act of defining your dating pool or where will you be looking to date. Some prefer the club, some prefer church and the internet seems to be what’s hot in the street.
There are some outside influences as well, we like to call this the “selection committee” These are the people you trust the most to help discern between what’s good at the moment vs. what’s good for you long term. This committee is mostly made up of immediate family, close friends and relatives, and maybe even a wise coworker or two. That last one goes double for you in interoffice exchanges.
While these cover some basics of selection there are many factors that will determine your success in the ability to find great mate versus spinning your wheels in the dating cycle. Clearly defining your happiness is important before you can ever make anyone else happy. Other factors include limiting your pool too narrow by way of your criteria being too complicated or hard to obtain.

The Selection Process: Picking A Perfect Mate Oct 03, 2019

When we talk about the objective of dating, it is usually in order to find a mate or someone you are most compatible with. Some may say they are not looking, just dating. This may be a conscious decision not to find yourself in a serious situation but really you are still discovering your preferences in a mate finding new things about yourself.
The selection process is multifaceted. You have your criteria that define some general rules on what your preferences are. There is also the act of defining your dating pool or where will you be looking to date. Some prefer the club, some prefer church and the internet seems to be what’s hot in the street.
There are some outside influences as well, we like to call this the “selection committee” These are the people you trust the most to help discern between what’s good at the moment vs. what’s good for you long term. This committee is mostly made up of immediate family, close friends and relatives, and maybe even a wise coworker or two. That last one goes double for you in interoffice exchanges.
While these cover some basics of selection there are many factors that will determine your success in the ability to find great mate versus spinning your wheels in the dating cycle. Clearly defining your happiness is important before you can ever make anyone else happy. Other factors include limiting your pool too narrow

Wrong Time Love: Finding Love With Someone...Else (Bar Talk With Jay 9-26-19) Sep 26, 2019

Topic of the week: Have you been in love with another person while in your current relationship? Would you compromise happiness for the success of a relationship?
As always we have weekly check-ins with Jamal and good ‘Dr. Rev.’ Jeffery
There are many ways to look at how cheating can be done but the part that usually goes deeper is of the emotional kind. This is when feelings can really start to get involved and love can manifest. The first question that comes up is what are the circumstances that allow this to happen in the first place? You may find yourself lacking certain things in your current situation that you may get in abundance in another. If you are that person you really have to consider is it really love and is something you should take action on? There are many situations where the success of a relationship are based on the union more than love. Some great times may not be worth letting go of what you have overall. On the other hand could you be passing on true happiness?

Ex Marks The Spot: Friends with an Ex (Bar Talk With Jay 09-19-19) Sep 19, 2019

Are you freinds with yout ex?

Wrong Impression or Love and Affection? (Bar Talk 9-12-19) Sep 12, 2019

This week’s question: What is the real meaning of love and affection?
When it comes to affection it is synonymous with love. This is because we tend to show people who we love the most affection. Now when we are in love with a person, affection has a deeper meaning. In the confines of a romantic relationship affection is an unspoken language of communication that can denote a change in the status of the relationship.It can reveal how pleased or displeased we are with a person. It can also showcase true feelings when the mouth can’t or won’t express it. When interpreting these communications, we must account for the way people are affectionate and how much affection is needed per person. There are different levels of affection that are required for different people. Some are very affectionate while some are just plain cold to the touch.
With so many variations how can you tell if you are giving the right amount and when can you tell when you are not getting enough? What happens with our affectionate ways get to be misinterpreted as something else? How do you confront a situation where you may be getting too much affection and having to answer the question why is a problem? We try to answer these questions on this week’s episode of Bar Talk With Jay.
Thanks for listening

I Need Some Space! The Chronicles of Needy Of Possessive (Bar Talk 8-5-19) Sep 05, 2019

Where is the line between spending a lot of quality time and suffocating under someone’s company?
Most people have been in a situation where they have been with a person that needs more attention from them than a toddler or have been with a person that won’t let them leave without being attached to the hip. Maybe you have been with a person that won’t let anyone get too close to you without getting aggressive? On this week’s show, we will explore how to deal with someone who wants more of your time than you are willing to give or is just waaay to possessive. We also look into why people are needy and what you can do to help. As always Jay and Craft are joined by Jamal and the good Dr. Rev. Jeffery. Thanks for listening.

Crossing The Monogamy-Fixin’ Line: The Assumption of Monogamy in a Dating Relationship Aug 29, 2019

Question: Why do people assume monogamy when doing relationship things together?
When it comes to dating, there is a point where you start to do things with a person because you are comfortable or even value that person. Sometimes it may seem a little deeper to one person based on the activities that have been engaged in. At one point can you assume that you are a monogamist situation? Or is it better to assume that it is not monogamist unless defined and verbally communicated that that is the case? Who’s fault is it when this occurs? Is it the person who introduces his or her parents on the second or third date? Is it the person who is willing to let you put a lot of time and don’t say anything about getting serious? Maybe it’s the big gift giver that goes over the top when comes material but not so much in dedication to building something?
As always we have or weekly contributions from Brother Jamal with advice for all the cornballs out there and the good Dr. Rev. Jefferey brings everyone to task about what they or may not be doing right. We explore all of these and more on this week's episode of Bar Talk with Jay.

Crossing The Monogamy-Fixin’ Line: The Assumption of Monogamy in a Dating Relationship Aug 29, 2019

When it comes to dating, there is a point where you start to do things with a person because you are comfortable or even value that person. Sometimes it may seem a little deeper to one person based on the activities that have been engaged in. At one point can you assume that you are a monogamist situation? Or is it better to assume that it is not monogamist unless defined and verbally communicated that that is the case? Who’s fault is it when this occurs? Is it the person who introduces his or her parents on the second or third date? Is it the person who is willing to let you put a lot of time and don’t say anything about getting serious? Maybe it’s the big gift giver that goes over the top when comes material but not so much in dedication to building something?
As always we have or weekly contributions from Brother Jamal with advice for all the cornballs out there and the good Dr. Rev. Jefferey brings everyone to task about what they or may not be doing right. We explore all of these and more on this week's episode of Bar Talk with Jay.

Is Etiquette A Lost Art in 2019? Aug 22, 2019

Etiquette in 2019 has a different feel than it ever has before. This phrase has probably been uttered at different times throughout history. Switch out the year and you will hear the elders of that society saying the same. There are rules in society, in business, and of course interpersonal, when it comes to the way we carry ourselves. But 2019 is in the apex of a communication boom. There are so many different ways we communicate now that there are new etiquette rules being established and some being left to side.
I saw that some have problems with grown people in PJs in public. Acceptable is subjective. Frowned upon can be objective. Dating has new dimensions and so does the courting process. The difference is there’s no template on how properly online date. As the online behavior is starting to blend in real life so does the certain etiquette. With a new generation emerging with less connection to the past, will the old ways of doing die out for good?

Is Your Love Being Earned? Reserving Space In Our Hearts For People Who Don't Make An Effort To Stay Aug 15, 2019

Question for the week:
Why do we?
As always, we take the relationship angle of the subject, but this is more of a life issue in a whole. People often give us what they want us to have and not what we deserve. We must take in consideration when we give people a place in our hearts, does this person match the amount of love that I’m giving out? Are they showing us that they really care? Does their actions reflect what their words are saying? We explore this and more this week’s episode.

Is Your Love Being Earned? Reserving Space In Our Hearts For People Who Don't Make An Effort To Stay Aug 15, 2019

Question for the week:
Why do we?
As always, we take the relationship angle of the subject, but this is more of a life issue in a whole. People often give us what they want us to have and not what we deserve. We must take in consideration when we give people a place in our hearts, does this person match the amount of love that I’m giving out? Are they showing us that they really care? Does their actions reflect what their words are saying? We explore this and more this week’s episode.

Is Your Love Being Earned? Reserving Space In Our Hearts For People Who Don't Make An Effort To Stay (Bar Talk With Jay 8-15-19) Aug 15, 2019

Question for the week:
Why do we?
As always, we take the relationship angle of the subject, but this is more of a life issue in a whole. People often give us what they want us to have and not what we deserve. We must take in consideration when we give people a place in our hearts, does this person match the amount of love that I’m giving out? Are they showing us that they really care? Does their actions reflect what their words are saying? We explore this and more this week’s episode.

The Other Side of Domestic Violence with Bernard Ellis and Gun Violence In America with Phillip Adams (Bar Talk Wit Jay 8/8/19) pt 2 Aug 08, 2019

The Other Side of Domestic Violence with Bernard Ellis and Gun Violence In America with Phillip Adams (Bar Talk Wit Jay 8/8/19) Aug 08, 2019

Can You Say It? The Whens and Hows To Confessing Your Love and Leslie Greene of @RtSECasting (Bar Talk With Jay 08-01-19) Aug 01, 2019

Have you recognize that you are in love? Maybe you're afraid to admit it? Afraid of getting hurt? Afraid of being rejected? Or maybe you don't want to be in love?
This week on Bar Talk With Jay we discuss the hows and when to confess your love for the one you're with and the different ways we arrive at that moment and what do when it come. Also we have a special guest. Ms. Leslie Green of RTSE Casting coming on to talk about her business and put in her two cents on the main topic.

I Need Security!: Overcoming Insecurities In Your Relationship (Bar Talk With Jay /25/19) Jul 25, 2019

How do you overcome with insecurities in your relationship? There are many different types of insecurities that we carry into the relationship and some that develop after we begin. Do you always discuss your insecurities or are you too insecure to talk about them?

Is self pleasure a bad habit. Would you disclose this or any other bad habits to someone your dating? Jul 18, 2019

Is self pleasure a bad habit. Would you disclose this or any other bad habits to someone your dating?

Is it better to earn alot of money or follow your passion Jul 11, 2019

Is it better to earn alot of money or follow your passion? Jul 11, 2019

Bar talk Jun 20, 2019

Bar talk with Jay 6-20-2019 Would you leave your partner that you're madly in love with because you don't want to get married? Jun 20, 2019

Would you leave your partner that you're madly in love with because you don't want to get married?

Bar talk with Jay 6-13-2019 Jun 13, 2019

Oral Sex and Raw Dogging...would you let your "Inner Freak" out when just casually dating?

Bar talk with jay 6-6-2019 Jun 06, 2019

Is there an appropriate time limit to walk away from a relationship that is stagnant?

Bar talk with Jay 6-6-2019 Jun 06, 2019

Is there an appropriate time limit to walk away from a relationship that is stagnant?

Bar talk with Jay 5-30-2019 May 30, 2019

Why do we allow ourselves to be in a relationship with a married person knowing that they will never be yours?

Bar Talk with Jay 5-23-2019 May 23, 2019

Why do we allow people to take us out of character?

Bar talk with Jay 5-16-2019 May 16, 2019

What is the best way to stay motivated in a relationship or in life to accomplish your goals?
What is the best way to stay motivated in a relationship or in life to accomplish your goals?

Bar talk with Jay 5-9-2019 May 09, 2019

How to build a relationship that's not based on sex?

BAr talk with Jay 5-2-2019 May 02, 2019

What relationship goals are in your near future?
What relationship goals are in your near future?
What relationship goals are in your near future?
What relationship goals are in your near future?
What relationship goals are in your near future?
What relationship goals are in your near future?
What relationship goals are in your near future?

Bar Talk with Jay 04-25-2019 Apr 25, 2019

Could you have a REAL INTEREST/RELATIONSHIP with someone you've never met?

Bar Talk with Jay 4-18-2019B Apr 18, 2019

Bar talk with Jay 4-11-2019 Apr 11, 2019

do men like sexually aggressive woman?

Bar Talk with Jay 4-4-2019 Apr 04, 2019

What is it about relationships that makes it so hard? Improving our relationship skills.

Bar talk with Jae 3-28-2019 Mar 28, 2019

How can we heal our minds bodies and souls, if we are addicted to what makes us sick?

Bar talk with Jay 3-28-2019 Mar 28, 2019

How can we heal our minds bodies and souls, if we are addicted to what makes us sick?

Bar talk with Jay 3-21-2019 Mar 21, 2019

et's talk about Technology... Social Media, Cell Phones, GPS etc... How do they influence our lives?

Bar talk with Jay 3-14-2019 Mar 14, 2019

LOVE or LUST... do you understand the difference?

Bar talk with Jay 3-7-2019 Mar 08, 2019

Married..Living Single. How/Why would you choose this lifestyle?

Bar talk with Jay 3-7-2019 Mar 08, 2019

Married..Living Single. How/Why would you choose this lifestyle?

Bar talk with Jay 2-28-2019 Mar 01, 2019

How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?

Bar talk with Jay2-28- 2019 Mar 01, 2019

How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
vHow do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
vHow do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?
How do you date someone for three years without taking the necessary steps to the next level?

BAr talk with Jay 2-21-2019 Feb 21, 2019

Would you take a lie detector test to prove to your partner that you're not cheating?
Would you go to such lengths and hire a private detective to catch someone cheating on you?

bar talk with Jay 2-7-2019 Feb 08, 2019

Why are people so focused on drama in order to escape from reality?

Bar talk with Jay 2-7-2019 Feb 08, 2019

Why are people so focused on drama in order to escape from reality?

Bar talk with Jay 2-7-2019 Feb 08, 2019

Why are people so focused on drama in order to escape from reality?

Bar talk with Jay 2-7-2018 Feb 07, 2019

Why are people so focused on drama in order to escape from reality?

Bar talk with Jay 1-31- 2019 Feb 01, 2019

How do we get the darkness from making us weak and becoming strong again?

Bar talk with Jay 1-24-2019 Jan 25, 2019

Time to say goodbye

Bar talk with Jay 1-17-2019 Jan 18, 2019

Bar tlak with Jay 1/10/2019 Jan 11, 2019

Have you ever laid it down so good that the person became a stalker?

Bar Talk With Jay 1/3/2019 Jan 04, 2019

TOPIC: Why do we need resilience to live a fulfilling life?

Bar Talk with Jay 01-03-2019 Jan 04, 2019

TOPIC: Why do we need resilience to live a fulfilling life?

Bar talk with Jay 12/27/18 Dec 28, 2018

What your New Year’s resolution?

Bar Talk with Jay 12-27-2018 Dec 28, 2018

Bar Talk With Jay 12-20-2018 Dec 21, 2018

My husband doesn’t know that I’m trans!

Bar talk with Jay 12-20-2018 Dec 21, 2018

My husband doesn’t know that I’m trans!

Bar Talk with Jay Dec 14, 2018

Topic: How to fix living in a sexless relationship?

Bar Talk with Jay 12-13-2018 Dec 14, 2018

Topic: How to fix living in a sexless relationship? 2

Bar Talk with Jay 12-13-2018 Dec 14, 2018

Topic: How to fix living in a sexless relationship?

Bar Talk with Jay 12-06-2018 Dec 07, 2018

Topic: #1.How do you build a healthy relationship?

Bar Talk with Jay 11-29-2018 Nov 30, 2018

Topic: Why is money a relationship breaker?

Bar Talk with Jay Nove 15,2018 Nov 16, 2018

Since sex became easier to get, Love has become hard to find!

Bar Talk with Jay 11-15-2018 Nov 16, 2018

Since sex became easier to get, Love has become hard to find!

Bar Talk with Jay 11-08-2018 Nov 09, 2018

Does sex on the first date kill the chances of having a relationship?

Bar Talk with Jay 11-01-2018 Nov 01, 2018

If your partners hygiene habits "SUCK"..would you stay and work it out or move on?

Bar Talk with Jay Oct 25, 2018

BNar Talk with jay 10-25-2018 Oct 25, 2018

Topic: What are the secrets to better sex!! Give your thoughts, comments or questions about sex.

Bar Talk with Jay 10-25-2018 Oct 25, 2018

Topic: What are the secrets to better sex!! Give your thoughts, comments or questions about sex.

Bar Talk with Jay 10-18-2018 Oct 18, 2018

Do you think (Music) ie..rap, or hard core rap has a negative effect on our young people and community?

Bar Talk with Jay 10-11-2018 Oct 11, 2018

Topic.What is the relevance of faith... what is it and what does it do for us in life?

Bar Talk with Jay 10-04-2018 Oct 04, 2018

Who should initiate the "Romance" in a relationship..men or women? Share your thoughts or ideas with BAR TALK.

Bar Talk with Jay 09-27-2018 Sep 27, 2018

Topic: How do we overcome our fears by preparing for the storm?

Bar Talk with Jay 09-20-2018 Sep 20, 2018

When it's time to let go of a relationship...what are the warning signs?

Bar Talk with Jay 9-13-2018 Sep 13, 2018

Topic: Why would people assume that when a person help with the bills, have a key to the house and help with the children that they are a couple?

Bar Talk with Jay Sep 06, 2018

When your friend with benefits starts to fall in love with you and the feeling isn't mutual, what do you do?

Bar Talk with Jay 8-30-2018 Aug 30, 2018

How do we overcome our fears and chase our dreams, in order to fulfil our potentials?

bar talk wit jay Aug 23, 2018

Bar Talk with Jay 8-23-2018 Aug 23, 2018

RAISING CHILDREN IN TODAY'S ENVIRONMENT: HOW WOULD YOU HANDLE CERTAIN SITUATIONS??

Bar Talk with Jay 08-16-2018 Aug 16, 2018

In a relationship what is the main reason people break up, and the screening process and success vs. Failure rates.

Bar Talk with Jay 8-09-2018 Aug 09, 2018

Topic
Your friend with benefits just recorded you giving him/her oral. You’re watching the video, then see more featuring other people. What do you do?

-Bar Talk with Jay 8-02-2018 Aug 02, 2018

You're partner is ready for round two. Sends you to the bathroom for protection but instead you see Herpes meds, what do you do?

Bar Talk with Jay 7-26-2018 Jul 26, 2018

Your girlfriend is broke and needs a roommate ASAP. You're not ready to " shack up" but her ex is interested in filling her vacant room. Would you approve?

New Recording (draft) Jul 22, 2018

Bar Talk with Jay 7-19-2018 Jul 19, 2018

How does self- improvement help us to cope with life transitions? What are some things holding you back from being your best? I.e. vices, fears, excuses, etc.

Bar with Jay 7-12-2018 Jul 12, 2018

What are your feelings on dating multiple people and sex got involved, What would your relationship status be considered as and what would you do?

Bar Talk with Jay 7-12-2018 Jul 12, 2018

Bar talk with Jay 7-12-2018

Bar Talk with Jay 7-5-2018 Jul 05, 2018

You're in a committed relationship but not in love with him/ her anymore, but in love with someone else, what should I do?

Bar Talk with Jay 6-28-2018 Jun 28, 2018

You and your partner of three years are looking up your ancestroy and realize that you're second cousins. Nobody else, not even family knows, what do you do?

Bar Talk with Jay 6-14-2018 Jun 14, 2018

Your spouse invite you to go for a ride, you agree without asking where to and they take you to the Maurer Show. What’s your next move?

Bar Talk with Jay 5-31-2018 Jun 01, 2018

Your best friend needs to crash for the weekend, but you're not at home. However, your bae is. Would you let them?

Bar Talk with Jay 5-31-2018 May 31, 2018

Your best friend needs to crash for the weekend, but you're not at home. However, your bae is. Would you let them?

Bar Talk with Jay 5-24-2018 May 24, 2018

If your significant other gained weight and refused to lose it, What would you do?

Bar Talk with Jay 5-17-2018 May 17, 2018

You're married to the love of your life. A billionaire offers you 100 million to have one night with your spouse. What do you do?

Bar Talk with Jay 5-10-2018 May 10, 2018

Bae on his/her death bed and their side piece walks in. What do you do?

Bar Talk with Jay 4-26-2018 Apr 26, 2018

A couple has been together for 5 years, and the guy hasn't proposed yet. what's likely the issue?

Bar Talk with Jay 4-19-2018 Apr 19, 2018

What would be your response to someone telling you, “I LOVE YOU” When you don’t love them back? A. I love you too (out of kindness then back track later) B. I’m sorry, I don’t feel the same C. Haha you’re so crazy D. Thank you

Bar Talk with Jay part 2 4-12-2018 Apr 13, 2018

Part 2

Bar Talk with Jay 4 12-2018 Apr 12, 2018

What leads men/ women to cheat? can they earn from their mistake and bounce back? If you caught him/ her in the down low what wounld you do?

Bar Talk with Jay 4/5/2018 Apr 05, 2018

If a man can't afford an engagement ring, should he wait to propose or just do it anyway?

Bar Talk With Jay 3-22-2018 Mar 22, 2018

You wait for the time to have sex, then realize your partner craves sex twice as often as you. What do you do or not do?

Bar Talk with Jay 3-8-2018 Mar 09, 2018

Booty and Beauty or Chemistry and Sex... what's more important to You? Bar Talk with Jay wants your side of the conversation.

Bar Talk with Jay 3-01-2018 Mar 02, 2018

How can you tell if you're really in love with someone? What are the signs or symptoms of REAL LOVE

Bar Talk with Jay 2-24-2018 Feb 25, 2018

Old school vs New school... How do you engage a conversation with someone you're interested in?

Bar Talk with Jay 2-15-2018 Feb 15, 2018

What's on your BUCKET list?? Share with us.. Bar Talk with Jay

Bar talk with Jay 2-08-2018 Feb 08, 2018

Should a woman in a relationship give a man sex every time he wants it, Whether She's in the moon or Not!!

Bar Talk With Jay February 1, 2018 Feb 02, 2018

what are the things that people do to push one another away? Personal and professional. How do we mess up a good thing? Pitfalls of building relationships.

Bar Talk with Jay 1-25-2018 Jan 26, 2018

are we here to be haapy or forfill a purpose? could it be both or neither. let talk about the meaning of life and what it means to live life.

Bar Talk with Jay 1-18-2018 Jan 19, 2018

Topic: Let's talk about the life of a single person. Dating, success and lifestyle. What kind of life do people live who aren't in love or married?

Bar Talk with Jay 1-11-2018 Jan 12, 2018

Sharing is caring... Should you disclose your sexual health history with your partner? When is the right time? Early on or later in the relationship? Tu
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bar Talk with Jay 1-04-2018 Jan 04, 2018

Topic: Craftmatic coaches smooth Jay threw a nice plan for the 2018 year... let all get laser focused.

Bar talk with Jay 12-28-2017 Dec 29, 2017

Out with the old, In with the new... What relationships need more nuturing in 2018? Finance, Romance etc.

JayTalk with Jay 12-21-2017 Dec 21, 2017

Polyandry and Polygamy... Is this something you would engage in? What are the benefits? Let's talk about it!

Bar Talk with Jay Dec 15, 2017

Topic: How does one reform back to society after being incarated? What are some ways of transformation? What are your thoughts?

Bar Talk with jay !!-29-2017 Dec 01, 2017

In a relationship, do you know your position? People sometimes overplay their area... What's your take on this? Bar Talk w/Jay has some insight on this

Bar Talk with Jay 11-16-2017 Nov 16, 2017

Being financially successfull...what are you willing to sacrifice? Bar Talk With Jay would like to hear your thoughts

Bar Talk with Jay 11-09-2017 last week show #6 Nov 14, 2017

Topic : How do we deal with the obstacles of life in order to progress?

Bar Talk with Jay 11-09-2017 last week show #5 Nov 14, 2017

Topic : How do we deal with the obstacles of life in order to progress?

Bar Talk with Jay 11-02-2017 last week show #4 Nov 14, 2017

Topic : How do we deal with the obstacles of life in order to progress?

Bar Talk with Jay 11-09-2017 last week show #3 Nov 14, 2017

Topic : How do we deal with the obstacles of life in order to progress?

Bar Talk with Jay 11-09-2017 last week show #2 Nov 14, 2017

Topic : How do we deal with the obstacles of life in order to progress?

Bar Talk with Jay 11-09-2017 last week show #1 Nov 14, 2017

Topic : How do we deal with the obstacles of life in order to progress?

Bar Talk with Jay 11-09-2017 Nov 09, 2017

How do we deal with the obstacles of life in order to progress

Bar Talk with Jay 11-02-2017 last week show #6 Nov 07, 2017