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What Nobody Tells You Before Marriage... Sep 15, 2026

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Everyone gives marriage advice. Very few people tell you what they wish they would’ve known before they got married. What surprised them? What got harder than they expected? What got better? What do decades of marriage teach you that dating never could?

In this episode, three married Christian men answer the questions they wish someone had answered before they said, “I do.”

We’ll talk about:

The biggest lies men believe about marriage before they get married
Whether the first year of marriage is actually the hardest
What every husband loses when he gets married and why it’s worth it
The seasons of marriage no one posts about online
Whether attraction fades or changes over the years
What loving one woman for decades teaches you about commitment
Why so many married men struggle alone
What they wish someone had told them about sex before marriage
How kids completely change your marriage
Practical ways to keep your marriage strong after becoming parents
What they’d tell the guy who’s been dating for years but won’t propose
The qualities every woman should look for in a future husband

Marriage isn’t about finding the perfect person. It’s about becoming the kind of person who knows how to love, sacrifice, communicate, and stay committed through every season.

Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, newly married, or years into marriage, we think this conversation will leave you with a healthier picture of what marriage is really like.

Let’s talk about it 👇

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The Truth About Christian Dating Sep 01, 2026

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Everyone says, “Date God’s way.” Almost nobody tells you what that actually looks like.

What boundaries did you actually keep? How did you handle physical temptation? When did you have the hard conversations? Did you ever doubt the relationship? And how did you know they were the one?

In this episode, we’re joined by another couple who dated God’s way and are now on the other side of it. Together, we’re pulling back the curtain on what Christian dating looked like behind the scenes.

We’re not glossing over it, or pretending it was easy. Just sharing honest stories about what worked, what was difficult, and what we’d do all over again.

We’ll talk about:

The biggest mistakes Christian couples make with dating boundaries
Why “How far is too far?” is the wrong question
Whether protecting physical boundaries was actually worth it
The hardest conversations every dating couple should have
How much of your past you should share before marriage
What their first major conflict revealed about each other
How to tell the difference between chemistry and character
Whether God really tells you who you’re supposed to marry
What role wise counsel played in their relationships
How they knew they had found the person they wanted to marry
What they wish they could tell their dating-season selves

This episode isn’t about finding a perfect formula. It’s about learning how to date with wisdom, intentionality, and integrity so you can build the kind of marriage you’re hoping for.

Whether you’re single, dating, or wondering if doing relationships God’s way is really worth it, this conversation is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇

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How Christians Should ACTUALLY Pursue Someone They Like Aug 18, 2026

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Pursuit isn’t a personality trait, it’s a skill. And so is being pursued.

Too many Christian singles think one person should do all the work while the other just waits to be chosen, but healthy relationships aren’t built on passivity. They’re built on intentionality from both people.

In this episode, we’re breaking down what it actually looks like to pursue someone well and what it means to receive pursuit without playing games, sending mixed signals, or disappearing into passivity.

Whether you’re the one asking someone out or the one deciding whether to say yes, this conversation is packed with practical advice to help you date with clarity and confidence.

We’ll talk about:

The five biggest mistakes men make when pursuing a woman
How women can encourage pursuit without chasing
Why “playing hard to get” usually backfires
What healthy leadership actually looks like in dating
How to show interest without sacrificing your dignity
When it’s time to define the relationship
Whether women should ever make the first move
If the guy should always pay for the date
How to know when pursuit becomes pressure
What to do when someone pursues you well… but there’s no spark
Whether you owe someone an honest “no” instead of fading away

This episode isn’t about dating games, it’s about learning the practical skills that lead to healthy relationships, strong marriages, and dating with intention.

Because how you date is often how you’ll marry.

Let’s talk about it 👇

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Links:

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What Christian Women Get WRONG About Christian Men Aug 04, 2026

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Do men really think about sex all the time? Are they actually less emotional than women? Does getting married make lust disappear? And what does “men are visual” even mean?

In this episode, we sit down with three Christian men to answer the questions women ask about men when the guys aren’t in the room.

No macho posturing. No stereotypes. Just an honest conversation about how men are actually wired and what women often misunderstand.

From attraction and temptation to rejection, insecurity, romance, and sex inside marriage, we’re unpacking what it’s actually like to be a man from a biblical perspective.

We’ll talk about:

Whether men really think about sex as much as people say they do
What “men are visual” actually means and where the line is between noticing and lust
Whether marriage changes attraction or temptation
What actually builds attraction inside of marriage
How men experience rejection in dating and marriage
The hidden insecurities men carry that women rarely see
Whether men are really less emotional than women
Why some men hesitate to make the first move
What happens when a husband and wife have different sex drives
The fears men carry into marriage and even into the bedroom
Practical ways women can encourage the men in their lives

This episode will help you understand men well enough to love them wisely, communicate better, and build healthier relationships.

Whether you’re single, dating, engaged, or married, we think this conversation will help you see the men in your life through a different lens.

Let’s talk about it 👇

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Links:

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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

Is Submission in a Relationship Biblical? Jul 21, 2026

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When you hear the word submission, what comes to mind? For a lot of people, it’s control. Silence. Inequality. A woman losing her voice. But what if that’s not what the Bible is describing at all?

In this episode, we sit down with three Christian women who have lived out biblical submission in marriage and ask the questions people are actually wrestling with.

No clichés or stereotypes, just an honest conversation about what Scripture teaches and what it looks like in real life.

We talk about why submission has become one of the most misunderstood ideas in Christianity and why God’s design is far more beautiful than most people realize.

We’ll talk about:

- What biblical submission actually is and what it isn’t

- Why Ephesians 5 begins with “submit to one another”

- Whether submission means a woman loses her voice or identity

- What submission looks like during real disagreements

- How to respond when your husband isn’t leading well

- Where the line is between honoring your husband and saying “no”

- Whether the trad wife movement is biblical or just an aesthetic

- What submission looks like when the wife earns more, leads more, or is more spiritually mature

- How to know if a man is actually worthy of your trust before marriage

- Whether submission has any place in dating and engagement

- Why God’s design for marriage is meant to help both husband and wife flourish

This isn’t a conversation about making women smaller. It’s about understanding God’s design well enough to discover the freedom that’s actually inside it.

Whether you’re married, dating, engaged, or simply trying to understand what the Bible teaches, we hope this conversation brings clarity to one of the most debated topics in Christian relationships.

Let’s talk about it 👇

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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

If THIS Has Ever Happened to You… You’re in a Situationship Jul 07, 2026

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You’re texting every day. Hanging out one-on-one. Sharing your deepest thoughts. Praying together. Maybe even imagining a future together. But you’ve never actually defined the relationship.

So… are you really “just friends”?

In this episode, we’re taking on one of the biggest blind spots in Christian dating: the almost-relationship. The situationship. The undefined “friendship” that’s functioning like dating without the clarity, commitment, or courage.

We unpack why so many Christians end up here, what it costs, and how to know if you’ve been lying to yourself about what this relationship really is.

We’ll talk about:

The seven biggest signs you’re actually in a situationship
Why men and women end up settling for ambiguity
Whether daily texting is already dating
How emotional intimacy can outpace commitment
Why “I’m waiting on God” can sometimes be a cover for fear
The difference between being friendly and being flirty
How to love someone without leading them on
Whether it’s okay to date someone else if you haven’t defined the relationship
How to know when it’s time to have the DTR conversation
Four practical ways to get out of a situationship with integrity

This isn’t a conversation about putting more rules around dating. It’s about choosing clarity over confusion, courage over comfort, and honesty over emotional limbo.

If you’ve ever found yourself wondering, “What are we?”… this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇

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Links:

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How a Christian Can Overcome a Porn Addiction Jun 23, 2026

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What if freedom from porn is actually possible? Not behavior management. Not white-knuckling. Not “doing better this time.” Real freedom.

In this episode, we sit down with three Christian men who used to struggle deeply with pornography and are now walking in freedom. Three stories. Three different seasons of life. One honest conversation about what actually works.

Aaron leads the Whole Man Project and disciples men fighting for sexual integrity every week. Aiden is 22, newly married, and got free before dating his now wife. Judah is 22, single, and learning how to pursue purity while waiting for marriage.

We talk about what porn took from them, what finally changed, and what they wish every struggling guy knew.

We’ll talk about:

The moment porn stopped being accidental and became a secret battle
Why “marriage will fix it” is one of the biggest lies Christian men believe
The difference between sobriety and actual freedom
What finally broke the cycle after countless “I’m done for good” moments
The one thing that consistently helps men get free
How to fight porn when the struggle started before puberty
What to do if you only watch “once in a while” but still feel stuck
How to talk to a future spouse about porn without destroying trust
How freedom changes dating, intimacy, and marriage
AI porn, fantasy chats, deepfakes, and what Gen Z is up against now
Whether total freedom is actually possible

This episode is not about shame. It is about truth, freedom, and what to do when you are tired of starting over.

If you spiraled this week, feel hopeless, or secretly think this is just who you are now, this conversation is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇

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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

Asking Christian Men WHAT THEY REALLY Look For in a Wife (Part 2) Jun 09, 2026

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Our episode with 3 single Christian men answering women’s questions completely blew up. 200K+ views. Hundreds of comments. And one overwhelming response: “PLEASE do a part two.” So we did.

This time, we’re going deeper. Responding to your pushback, reacting to the most-liked comments from Part 1, and answering the questions we did not get to the first time.

We brought back Mark and Ariel, replaced Sam (RIP to the single men panel, he got a girlfriend 🫡), and added Jye to give a fresh perspective.

And yes… this conversation gets more honest than Part 1.

We’ll talk about:

- Whether women making the first move is actually a turn off

- When “getting to know someone” turns into leading them on

- If men should date multiple women at once while figuring things out

- What guys actually owe a woman if they are not interested anymore

- Whether “friendship first” is wisdom or just indecision

- The insecurities men deal with that women rarely see

- What men actually think about a woman’s past and when it matters

- Whether there are sexual histories that become dealbreakers

- How to lead someone with shame from their past without becoming their therapist

- Where single Christian men actually draw the line physically while dating

- What to do when someone wants to push boundaries further than you do

- Christian dating hot takes the guys think need to die immediately

We also react to your comments from Part 1 in real time, including some very direct pushback from women.

So yes… some opinions got challenged.

If you are single, confused by Christian dating culture, or just trying to understand what is actually going on inside a Christian guy’s head, this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇

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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

Asking Christian Women What TRUE Modesty Looks Like May 27, 2026

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Is modesty about honoring God… or controlling women?

Can you be fashionable, feminine, confident, and still modest? Does what you wear actually matter? And what do we do with all the church baggage around “causing your brother to stumble”?

In this episode, we sit down with three Christian women for an honest, nuanced, and probably overdue conversation about modesty.

We’re talking about beauty, conviction, femininity, social media, lust, validation, and what modesty actually means from a biblical perspective.

We’ll talk about:

Whether women are responsible for men’s lust
What modesty is actually about if it is not just “covering up”
What “don’t cause your brother to stumble” actually means in context
The difference between dressing confidently and dressing for validation
Whether modesty standards should change when you’re married
How Christian women practically think through what they wear
If Christian women should dress differently online versus real life
Why modesty conversations almost always target women and not men

This conversation is not about hiding your body or being ashamed of beauty. It is about conviction, identity, wisdom, and honoring God without fear, shame, or performance.

If modesty has ever felt confusing, controlling, legalistic, or honestly just exhausting, this episode is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇

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God's not ashamed of sex, so neither are we. We'll have any conversation and answer any question. No topic off limits.

Real Christian Answers To AWKWARD Relationship Questions May 12, 2026

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Does oral sex count as sex? Can you slap a guy if he gropes you? Why didn’t Jesus ever get married?

In this episode, we answer some of the most awkward, controversial, and honestly fascinating questions Christians secretly wonder about when it comes to sex, relationships, faith, cheating, gaslighting, and marriage.

Nothing is off limits.

Some of these questions made us laugh. Some got very serious very quickly. And some are the kinds of questions most Christians think about but are too nervous to ask out loud.

We’ll talk about:

What is actually happening when you “get the ick”
Whether oral sex counts as sex and what the Bible says about sexual boundaries
What grace really means and why it is not permission to keep sinning
How to recognize and respond to gaslighting
How to love someone who believes God hates them because they are gay
Whether God chooses your spouse and how much weight to give prophetic words
Whether it is okay to physically defend yourself if someone crosses a boundary
Why Jesus never got married even though God said it’s not good for man to be alone
How to know when cheating should lead to divorce versus reconciliation
Whether you have to take your husband’s last name

This episode is honest, biblical, practical, and definitely not surface level.

If you’ve ever had a question you felt too embarrassed to ask at church, this conversation is for you.

Let’s talk about it 👇

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This is the list of 10 sex acts that Scripture explicitly forbids, as originally compiled by Pastor Mark Driscoll:

1. Fornication — sex before marriage

1 Cor 6:18; 1 Thess 4:3–5; Heb 13:4

2. Adultery — sex with someone outside of your spouse

Ex 20:14; Matt 5:27–28; Heb 13:4

3. Polygamy — God designed marriage as one man + one woman; Scripture describes polygamy, it doesn’t prescribe it

Gen 2:24; Matt 19:4–6; 1 Tim 3:2

4. Rape

Deut 22:25–27; 2 Sam 13 (Tamar); Rom 13:10

5. Incest

Lev 18:6–18; Lev 20:11–21; 1 Cor 5:1

6. Homosexuality / same-sex sexual activity

Lev 18:22; Lev 20:13; Rom 1:26–27; 1 Cor 6:9–10; 1 Tim 1:10

7. Bestiality

Ex 22:19; Lev 18:23; Lev 20:15–16

8. Prostitution

Lev 19:29; Deut 23:17; Prov 5:3–5; 1 Cor 6:15–16

9. Sexual immorality (porneia) — catch-all Greek term — lust of the eyes, lusting after anyone who is not your spouse, pornography

Matt 5:27–28; 1 Cor 6:18; Gal 5:19; Eph 5:3

10. Pagan sexual activity — sex tied to the worship of false gods or one’s own sexual gratification as an idol

Ex 34:15–16; Num 25:1–3; 1 Cor 10:7–8; Rev 2:14, 20

On a recent episode of his podcast where he referenced this list, Pastor Josh Howerton added to the list “anything that harms, degrades or is unwanted.”

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Connect with us:

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