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Latest Episodes:

Making Marriage Easier with Arlene Pellicane Jun 03, 2025

Summary: In this engaging conversation, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn are joined by Arlene Pellicane, author of Making Marriage Easier. Arelene shares insights on how to prioritize marriage, avoid the roommate syndrome, and implement small, practical actions to strengthen relationships. The podcast also explores the profound effects of social media on relationships, emphasizing the need for intentionality in how we engage with technology.

Link Mentioned:      

Book: Making Marriage Easier

https://arlenepellicane.com/

The Happy Home Podcast

Important questions from this week’s podcast:

What’s it like to be married to me?
When was the last time we had fun together?

The Impact of 'No Contact’ on Families May 20, 2025

Summary: 

In this conversation, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn, along with clinical psychologist Dr. James Sells, explore the phenomenon of young adults going “no contact” with their parents. They discuss the emotional turmoil this causes for both parents and children, the factors contributing to this phenomenon, and the importance of family therapy in addressing these issues. The conversation highlights the need for understanding, communication, and the potential for healing within family dynamics.

Link Mentioned:     

Parent–adult child estrangement in the United States by gender, race/ethnicity, and sexuality.

https://doi.org/10.1111/jomf.12898

Fame, Faith, and Putting Marriage First with Montel and Kristin Jordan - Part 1 May 06, 2025

Episode 8 and 9 Details

Summary: In this conversation, Montel and Kristin Jordan share their transformative journey from the music industry to marriage ministry. They discuss the challenges they faced in their marriage, including a crisis that led to a renewed commitment to each other and their faith. Through their experiences, they emphasize the importance of prioritizing marriage and the lessons that now guide their work in helping others strengthen their marriages. The Jordans also discuss Marriage Masterpeace, which offers retreats for couples to heal and grow together. 

Resources & Links Mentioned:    

Marriage Masterpeace 8-Week Study Bundle

Marriage Masterpeace Retreat at Jordan River

Montellandkristin.com

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Fame, Faith, and Putting Marriage First with Montel and Kristin Jordan - Part 2 May 06, 2025

Resources & Links Mentioned:    

Marriage Masterpeace 8-Week Study Bundle

Marriage Masterpeace Retreat at Jordan River

Montellandkristin.com

One of You Wants More Sex? Here’s What’s Going On. Apr 22, 2025

Episode 7: One of You Wants More Sex? Here’s What’s Going On.

Release Date: April 22, 2025  

Duration: 33 minutes   

Summary: In this podcast episode, Jeff and Shaunti Feldhahn look at the disconnect that some couples experience around intimacy—especially focusing on the statistically common scenario of one spouse (typically the husband) desiring more intimacy than the other. They discuss common myths that feed this disconnect, and provide practical advice for couples. This episode will help you not feel alone! In fact, you’ll gain an understanding of each partner’s unique desire type—fostering a healthier and more fulfilling marriage.

Resources & Links Mentioned:   

Secrets of Sex and Marriage website: secretsofsexandmarriage.com

Secrets of Sex and Marriage

Unlocking an Intimate Marriage

If you are interested in having Shaunti bring research-based strategies, practical wisdom and biblical principles to your next event, please contact Nicole Owens at nowens@shaunti.com

From Wrecked to Restored: Lessons from a First Responder with Dan Defenbaugh Apr 08, 2025

Summary: This conversation explores the profound journey of Dan Defenbaugh, a former law enforcement officer who faced trauma and addiction, leading him ultimately to try to take his own life. Through his story, we learn about the struggles first responders face with mental health, the impact on their families, and the hope found in recovery and ministry. Dan's transformation from despair to purpose serves as a beacon of hope for others in similar situations. In this conversation, Dan recounts a pivotal moment where he sensed God leading him to establish a support organization for first responders struggling with mental health issues.

Resources & Links Mentioned:   

10-42project.org

Shared Voices podcast (available on most streaming platforms)

Shaunti.com

Turn Conflict Into Connection Mar 25, 2025

Summary: In this podcast episode, Shaunti and Jeff Feldhahn take a look at one of the main sources of conflict and heartache in marriage—looking at how to transform this source of conflict into a source of connection. The episode is rooted in decades of nationally representative research—making their insights much more than just their opinion or an unscientific poll of social media followers. After tuning in, you’ll understand the main insecurities that most men and most women face, and you’ll leave knowing how to support your spouse rather than unintentionally nicking their most raw nerve.

Resources & Links Mentioned:   

For Women Only

For Men Only

Today’s podcast features the type of game-changing, research-based findings that will strengthen the marriages in your church. If you are interested in bringing Shaunti and Jeff to your next event, please contact Nicole Owens at nowens@shaunti.com. 

Navigating Life’s Trials with Gary Thomas Mar 11, 2025

Summary: In this heartfelt conversation, Gary Thomas shares his personal journey through trials, the legacy of love from his family, and the profound impact of marriage on spiritual growth. He reflects on the challenges of writing and the importance of perseverance in the face of rejection, all while emphasizing the beauty of relationships and the lessons learned through life's hardships. Also in this conversation, Gary and the Feldhahns recalled the power that a simple phone call can have to encourage someone in their life and ministry.

Resources & Links Mentioned:  

https://garythomasbooks.substack.com/

https://garythomas.com/

Books On Amazon

The Power of Believing the Best in Your Spouse Feb 25, 2025

Shaunti and Jeff explore the secrets behind the happiest marriages, focusing on the importance of believing the best of your spouse's intentions, even during conflicts. They share insights from their research, personal experiences, and practical applications to help couples navigate challenges and enhance their relationships. The conversation emphasizes the significance of communication, understanding, and the power of good intentions in fostering a loving and supportive marriage.

Resources & Links Mentioned:  

The Surprising Secrets of Highly Happy Marriages

Speaking Agent: Nicole Owens nowens@shaunti.com

More info about having Shaunti and Jeff speak HERE

“From Struggle to Strength” with Scott and Sherry Jennings Feb 11, 2025

Divorced and remarried, Scott and Sherry Jennings share their journey from a marriage marked by control, addiction, and infidelity to a transformed relationship rebuilt on faith and kindness. They discuss their early lives, the patterns they brought into their marriage, and the pivotal moments that led to their healing and reconciliation.

Resources & Links Mentioned:

The Rendezvous Project (https://www.therendezvousproject.com)

Scott and Sherry guided the creation, production, and such for this resource.

They are speaking at several events coming up.

You can reach out via email Scott@zoweh.org / Sherry@zoweh.org

Shaunti.com

Social Researchers, Authors, and Speakers: Our Story Jan 28, 2025

You know us as social researchers and best selling authors. You may have also heard us speak at a marriage event. But do you know how Jeff and I met? In episode 1 you will hear that story, as well as why Jeff and I do what we do.

Mentioned in this episode:

Experiencing God

For Women Only

For Men Only

More information about having Shaunti and Jeff speak