Date Yourself Instead - Lyss Boss

How to manifest anything extremely fast Nov 17, 2024

In this episode, I give you my best tips on how to manifest and attract whatever you want in your life, guaranteed.

DOORS ARE OFFICIALLY OPEN NOW.

MIND BODY SOUL RESET - Reset your entire life and become unrecognizable. Welcome to your glowup. On sale at it's lowest price currently, don't miss it <3

If you're loving these episodes, feel free to leave a comment and send me a dm @lyss @dateyourselfinstead.

I love you all very very much x.

How to change your entire life in 1 month - the Mind Body Soul Reset Nov 11, 2024

It's time to follow your soul's calling and purpose. Here is a sneak peek into one of the modules from my new masterclass, the Mind Body Soul Reset. In this masterclass, you will learn how to follow your soul's calling and completely reset your mind, body and soul. If you want to become the most unstoppable, powerful, confident version of you - my masterclass is designed to help you tap into your higher self in just 21 days.

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If you have any questions, please reach out to @lyss @mindbodysoulreset on instagram.

How to de-center a man and DETACH - you are a GODDESS. Nov 04, 2024

If you're seeing this right now, it's for a reason. I spent most of my life putting relationships and men as the center of my universe, my world, and bending over backwards to make things work out with a person...only to leave myself drained and feeling discarded. In this episode, I dive into why you should de-center a man and detach, and how it truly makes you the most powerful person in the room. Bali is a VIBE. ;)

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Doors open November 9th, 2024.

I love you, I appreciate you.

-Lyss

THE POWER OF DIVINE TIMING & FAITH - lessons from Bali Oct 28, 2024

This is my favorite episode I've ever recorded. THE POWER OF DIVINE TIMING & FAITH. Having faith and staying strong. Being a warrior of love and light. Trusting in God and a higher power at play. Knowing that things WILL improve and turn around for you. You deserve the world, and I'm here to remind you of that.

I love you all so much.

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The book in this episode: Your Greater Is Coming by Joel Osteen

Coming in November 2024...join the waitlist. Doors open so soon.

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You will BREAK down before you BUILD UP. Signs you are transforming. Oct 21, 2024

On today's episode, I discuss some eerie things that happened to me as my life was breaking down and a big karmic cycle for me ended - I started seeing exes everywhere. God will break you down before he builds you up again and changes your reality for the better.

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God will NEVER give you peace in something that isn’t meant for you - my narcissistic abuse story Oct 14, 2024

This episode is very vulnerable as I start to open up about my 4 year toxic on and off narcissistic abusive relationship that I had struggled with mentioning because I'm still in the process of healing from what happened. What this relationship taught me most is that the universe and God will never allow you to settle in a narcissistic, abusive relationship - let alone any toxic relationship that is holding you back from fulfilling your destiny.

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I love you. Thank you for being my best friends and the most amazing community. <3

How to break the cycle - SET YOURSELF FREE. Let go of your old self now. Oct 07, 2024

SET YOUR SOUL FREE. You deserve to be happy. In this episode, I get vulnerable about my current situation and dive into some mental health issues surrounding the concept of truly feeling free and knowing when it's time to change your life.

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How to stop being "TOO NICE" - stop giving them chances (they showed you who they are!) Sep 30, 2024

For the ones who are sometimes just "too nice" and passive when it comes to dating...

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How to stop being desperate - become obsessed with YOURSELF Sep 23, 2024

There's nothing worse than desperate energy when you are constantly chasing after people or wanting them to be obsessed with you or validate you in some way, shape or form. In this episode, I talk about how you should focus on becoming obsessed with yourself and not tolerating BS from anyone around you. I also cover how to set your standards high and the boss a** b*tch that you truly are.

I have a detachment masterclass, as well as a new masterclass for health and wellness coming later this year.

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I love you, sending you all my hugs and healing energy as always -Lyss

How to set STRONG boundaries - don’t lift a finger for ANYONE who hasn't earned a place in your life Sep 16, 2024

IN THIS VIDEO episode, I dive into all the tea about what really happened this summer in London with my last relationship...and why I've learned how important it is to take your time if you're looking to build a really strong foundation for a future with a partner. When newly dating someone it's very important to set boundaries and to remain in your feminine energy. This is ultimately my opinion, experience and perspective on how to approach future relationships.

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The right person WOULD WANT TO DATE YOU - if someone wants you, you will know. Sep 09, 2024

On today's episode, I talk about how the right person for you WOULD WANT to be with you and date you. If someone wants to be with you, they will be with you. If a man loves you and IS your soulmate, he will commit to you. It should feel easy. It should feel good. It should feel RIGHT. If you are waiting on someone to DECIDE if they want to be with you, this episode is a wakeup call.

If you're loving the podcast, always send me a message @lyss @dateyourselfinstead on Instagram.

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My plastic surgery journey + the honest truth (botox, fillers, rhinoplasty & more) Sep 09, 2024

I've had so many questions about the cosmetic work I've had done, and this episode is dedicated to full transparency about all of the procedures I've tried, have done, and still currently do.

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How to heal from a heartbreak (you deserve better and so do I) Sep 02, 2024

It's time to end the toxic cycles. In this episode, I cover everything I know about going through heartbreak - and what I've learned over the years on how to recover quickly and how to move on. As I reflect back over the last two weeks, I feel like the rug had been ripped out from under me and at first I couldn't understand why...but I truly believe that everything happens for a reason - and the universe always remove someone or something in order to REPLACE IT with something better. Although I spoke highly of this person out of respect, after recording this episode and taking a step back, I recognize that I was mostly definitely love bombed, and no one should have to go through that.

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Your reminder to stop settling in your dating life and to love yourself first. Aug 25, 2024

In full transparency, I recorded this episode back in July when I was still dating someone who I thought could be someone significant in my life. Although that relationship has recently ended, I still wanted to share this episode because everything I'm saying still holds the same truth to it - which is your reminder to never settle for basic behaviors in relationships. To experience someone who makes a genuine effort to see you, to spend time with you, and to focus on you - is what everyone deserves.

I LOVE YOU ALL and I'm so so grateful for this community.

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This is the last week to access the masterclass as new programs will be coming out in later this fall.

Work on yourself until they're not your type [REVISIT] - how to level up 100x and own your power Aug 18, 2024

[REVISIT]

WORK ON YOURSELF SO much until they're not your type anymore. This week I'm resharing an episode from last summer as it's one of the greatest reminders to really own your power and remember your worth when it comes to dating someone. We often tend to lose ourselves in the thick of emotions when we really like or love someone, and this episode covers how to truly work on yourself in order to level up past a relationship that isn't right for you.

How to shift into a brand NEW REALITY. You deserve true love, abundance, and miracles. Aug 12, 2024

Open your heart and your mind to a brand new reality. You deserve unconditional love and abundance.

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DOORS ARE OPEN FOR AUGUST.

I love you all so much x

How to DATE YOURSELF, love yourself, value yourself, and KNOW YOUR WORTH. Aug 05, 2024

Dating yourself is the VIBE. It's the mood. It's everything. Dating yourself means knowing your worth. Dating yourself means YOU get to decide what and who makes you feel good. You get to choose what works for YOU.

Feel free to dm me if you loved this episode, @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead.

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Doors open August 11th!

My worst dating story times EVER in New York City - part 2 Jul 29, 2024

New York City dating is WILD. In today's episode, I'm giving you alllll the tea on my past dating stories and the crazy experiences I've had.

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How to become MAGNETIC and HARNESS YOUR POWER (become unstoppable) Jul 22, 2024

Shifting your energy and focusing on YOU instead of on external factors, you become so magnetic and powerful. Stop telling everyone your dreams and goals, keep it to yourself and HARNESS YOUR POWER AND ENERGY.

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Super excited to have you! x

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This is YOUR life - NO ONE ELSE'S. YOU make the rules. LIVE YOUR TRUTH. Jul 14, 2024

Who is stopping you from living your best life? This episode is your wake up call to live your life FOR YOU, and no one else. YOU get to create your reality. You make the rules. Step into your power. Live and speak your truth. Move forward in confidence. If you loved this episode, dm me @dateyourselfinstead or @lyss. JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS Doors open in August.

How to stop placing them on a pedestal Jul 07, 2024

Stop giving someone else so much power and putting them on a grand pedestal. You're fucking great, act like it.

Why solo travel will change your life forever Jun 30, 2024

Solo travel is such a life changing experience, and one of the most popular questions I get asked is, WHY do you travel alone and how? So, on today's episode, I wanted to dive into this topic of traveling on my own, what it means to me, the value in traveling independently and the lessons I've learned along the way.

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Love yourself enough to leave - stop abandoning yourself pls Jun 24, 2024

Love yourself enough to leave. If it's not right for you and you know it, it's time to walk away. If this title resonates, I know this episode was made for you. I made this for the people who are scared to let go. If you continue to grasp at potential and it's taking away from your self love, YOU ARE ABANDONING YOURSELF. You deserve more out of love and life xx.

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10 things I'm letting go of this summer (AND FOREVER) Jun 17, 2024

Summer is the perfect season to DETACH, LET GO AND CLEAN UP your life. It's a total reset for me, personally. Some things I'm letting go of include...

Self doubt
Negative self talk in my head
Anyone who makes me feel afraid to be myself
The fear of embarrassing myself (whoops)
Procrastination
Worrying about other people's opinions

AND MORE.

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GO AFTER WHAT YOU WANT (Taking a leap of faith into the unknown) Jun 10, 2024

This episode is all about going after your purpose and your passion and not being afraid to take a leap of faith when it comes to your future. If you know you’re meant for something greater, why not go after it?

If you loved this episode, always dm me @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead.

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HOW TO HAVE A MAJOR GLOWUP POST BREAKUP Jun 03, 2024

IT'S TIME TO SHINE BABY. It's time to heal and GLOW from the inside out.

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IT'S A SELF LOVE SUMMER (Protect your peace and energy) May 27, 2024

I'M BACK IN NYC! IT'S A SELF LOVE SUMMER. In this episode, I cover a variety of questions around dating and relationships. Most of the questions are focused around self-love and learning how to protect your peace and energy while navigating the dating world. As always, if you loved this episode, rate on Apple and Spotify and send me a message @lyss.

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THE ULTIMATE GUIDE TO MANIFEST YOUR DREAM LIFE (Step by step tutorial) May 20, 2024

In this episode - I cover a WILD Bali dating story time that ultimately made me realize how much healing I have left to do and how I need to take this trip as a true opportunity to focus on myself! I also talk about all the steps I take to help my manifestations come to fruition, and I explain why manifesting your dream life is never too late. Keep in mind l'm 31 years old and I feel like my life is just beginning! So no matter what age you're at - you are capable of creating your dream reality through the power of your mind.

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IF YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEONE, LET THEM GO (Why love is freedom + The POWER of divine timing) - lessons from Bali May 12, 2024

Hello from Bali! In this episode, I cover why trusting your intuition and trust in your higher self is always the best way to go when exploring a relationship that keeps you feeling stuck. I also dive into this concept of what true love really means to me and why excepting someone for who they are is the definition of love to me. I also explore the concept of freedom and how freedom ties into true, authentic love.

I love you, as always, if you feel called to send me a message on Instagram @lyss @dateyourselfinstead, I'm always here. x

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How to detach and let go of the outcome in relationships May 05, 2024

The only episode on detachment you'll ever need to understand HOW and what it really means to let go. In this episode I dive into this concept of truly detaching from any situation in order to heal and evolve into your higher self.

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How to manifest 100x faster - LIVING IN THE END Apr 29, 2024

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The Dare to Detach masterclass is all about letting go of the outcome, detaching, and stepping into this version of you that you KNOW you're supposed to be. It's time to manifest anything you want as well as let go of the bullshit in your life holding you back. Let's do this. You can use code "manifest" for 20% off the course.

What to do when they act distant, pull away or breakup with you Apr 22, 2024

If you are in a situation right now where you feel like someone is acting distant, avoidant, or they are breaking up with you...or have broken up with you...this episode is for you. <3

Ready to uplevel, detach and change your entire life? If you're ready to fully let go and step into your power and reclaim your life, my masterclass is meant for you. It's designed to rewire your mind in just 4 DAYS. See all of the testimonials at the link below.

DOORS OPEN MAY 1, 2024.

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How to trust your higher self and divine calling - a breakup pep talk Apr 15, 2024

This episode discusses how to the process of your life and how to tap in to your higher self so you can live to your fullest potential. In this episode, I also dive into several story times about my past relationships and the lessons I learned over the recent solar eclipse. It's time to step into your power and really acknowledge that in her voice that's calling you to do more and TRUST in your future.

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Get over the fear of being alone NOW ft. Jemma Sbeg (Psychology of your 20's) Apr 07, 2024

We're back again!!! Me and my beautiful Aussie friend and host of the top podcast Psychology of your 20's, Jemma Sbeg, are back with another episode conquering the topic of being alone. We discuss how to get over the fears associated with being single, being on your own, and dealing with the anxiety around "not having the one" just yet.

JEMMA'S SOCIALS: Her podcast - Psychology of your 20's

Her instagram: @jemmasbeg @thatpsychologypodcast

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How to radiate confidence, self love and power Mar 31, 2024

The only episode you'll need to reclaim your power and feel confident, lovable and worthy.

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How to stop being attracted to the wrong people ft. Haley Hoffman Smith Mar 24, 2024

I'm so excited to introduce you to my BFF and spiritual EFT coach, Haley Hoffman Smith. In this episode, we cover one of the most important questions - How do I stop getting attracted to the wrong people?

Attracitng the wrong people can be a COMMON pattern, and something that happens over and over again - to the point where you start questioning if it's your own doing. Haley dives into the power of our subconscious mind and how healing our subconscious can actually help us heal these toxic patterns.

Haley's social links:

Instagram & Tiktok and her podcast: Big Conversations

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Doors open again March 19th, 2024.

How to get over a situationship and find your soulmate Mar 18, 2024

Situationships are the HARDEST to get over, from my perspective. Why? Because you're left feeling like you've had no proper closure, you couldn't live out the potential you've built in your mind about the relationship, and it can feel like the "what if" lingers over your head for a long period of time. In this episode, I cover how to properly move on from a situationship, why you deserve the absolute most out of life and your relationships, and how to find the person of your dreams. You don't need to settle any more.

If you've loved this episode, feel free to always message me on instagram @dateyourselfinstead.

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How to let go of the toxic cycle, set boundaries, and move on Mar 11, 2024

You shouldn't have to threaten someone in order to stay with you. You shouldn't have to lower your values or your boundaries to stay inside of a relationship. You shouldn't have to compromise your own needs or give up parts of who you are for someone else.

In this episode, I dive into ways to let go of toxic relationship cycles, how to set healthy boundaries, and how to truly move on and be your best self.

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Your only competition is YOU - stop comparing yourself to other people Mar 04, 2024

When you're truly insanely confident in the person that you're becoming and what you're working towards -- there is no competition. The only competition is you versus your future self.

Let's talk about it. If you loved this episode, always feel free to message me on instagram @dateyourselfinstead.

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I got sick from a toxic relationship + how I healed my PCOS naturally Feb 26, 2024

A highly requested topic about how I got physically sick from being in a toxic relationship, and how I was able to heal my body naturally after suffering from PCOS for years and having irregular periods, mood swings, weight gain, and more. For years, I didn't feel good in my body, and I knew I needed to make significant changes.

DISCLAIMER: I am not a doctor and I am not here to provide concrete medical evidence, I am here to simply tell my story and share it with you.

How to master your emotions and remain in your power Feb 19, 2024

Have you ever lashed out at someone and later regretted how you responded to a situation? Have you ever overreacted in your relationships and later realized things weren't nearly as bad as they seemed? To be honest, sometimes in the past I have tended to go off the rails in situations and later didn't really like how I acted. This episode is all about steps to make those changes to MASTER your emotions in the moment so you can remain grounded and in your power. That way, you can approach situations and conflicts from a place of calm, and make better decisions for your future.

8:00 - Being non-reactive and how to master your emotions. - JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS - use code 'SELFLOVE' for $20 off the course. IF you’ve been holding onto someone who you know isn’t good for you, if you feel stuck in your life and can’t seem to figure out your “why”, if you feel held back by ANYONE or anything and you want to skyrocket forward into the new year, THIS course is it. This is the game changer and I am so insanely excited for you to join us!!! WHAT DO YOU GET?

4 days of videos instructed by me •detailed workshops on the power of letting go •the exact meditations I used to get over my breakup quickly •an exclusive private group chat 💬 with all of our members •unlimited access to classes (once you have it, it’s yours forever) •instant access via email - Follow me on instagram @lyss and the podcast account @dateyourselfinstead and send me a message if you enjoyed this episode! :) I love you x

My biggest dating icks + dealbreakers in 2024 Feb 12, 2024

Moving into the new year, I've decided that I have new boundaries and standards when it comes to dating, so here's a full episode about it. As always, send me a DM on instagram @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead if you enjoyed this episode.

ARE YOU READY TO DETACH? The Dare to Detach masterclass is officially OPEN with limited spots available this time around. If you’ve been holding onto someone who you know isn’t good for you, if you feel stuck in your life and can’t seem to figure out your “why”, if you feel held back by ANYONE or anything and you want to skyrocket forward into the new year, THIS course is it. This is the game changer and I am so insanely excited for you to join us!!! WHAT DO YOU GET?

4 days of videos instructed by me
detailed workshops on the power of letting go
the exact meditations I used to get over my breakup quickly
an exclusive private group chat 💬 with all of our members
unlimited access to classes (once you have it, it’s yours forever)
instant access via email

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10 BIG ways to improve your mindset & manifest your dream life Feb 05, 2024

Having a healthy mindset is the key to ultimate success. There's been many times in my life where I've gone through periods of time where my mindset was not in a healthy place. In this episode, I discuss 10 big ways I've changed my entire mindset for the better and had major breakthroughs when it came to my mental health. If you loved this episode as always, send me a DM @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead.

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Get ready with me for a first date in London (VLOG) Jan 29, 2024

A different type of podcast - vlog style. If you have Spotify, you can watch the video on the app, or watch the video on YouTube here. GET READY WITH ME FOR A FIRST DATE in London, one of my favorite cities in the world. This past December I decided to take a solo trip back to the UK to celebrate the holidays, have some good comfort food, and experience what it's like to use dating apps for the first time in A WHILE. In this particular situation, I ended up connecting with a guy on instagram, and then there was a major plot twist...enjoy!

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How to fall in love with YOURSELF in 2024 Jan 29, 2024

Fall in love with YOURSELF and your own life in 2024. Let me ask you a serious question. Would you want to date yourself? Would you want to get to know YOU? In today's episode, I cover the ways you can learn to love yourself deeply and like never before into the new year. I hope you enjoy! As always, feel free to message me on instagram @lyss and @dateyourselfinstead if you're loving the podcast. JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS DOORS OPEN AGAIN SOON. If the doors are not open, be sure to join the waitlist so you can snag a spot next time it's available!

Stop projecting a fantasy of what someone could be…THEY'RE NOT THAT PERSON. Jan 22, 2024

Do you fantasize a lot about the potential of a person? Then this episode is for you. If you continue to try to change or mold someone into something that they're not, you're simply wasting your time and energy. Just listen! :) JOIN THE DARE TO DETACH MASTERCLASS And remember to download my free higher self meditation and free worksheet! xx

31 life lessons I learned before turning 31 Jan 15, 2024

Happy birthday to me! IT'S CAPRICORN SEASON! On this episode, I talk about 31 valuable life lessons I've learned before turning 31 years old. Enjoy!!!! xx

What to do when they pull away + the best dating advice EVER ft. Jemma Sbeg Jan 08, 2024

NEW YEAR, NEW EPISODES! FINALLY, I have my very first guest on the Date Yourself Instead podcast, my dear incredible friend Jemma Sbeg, who hosts the Psychology of Your 20's podcast. In this episode, we discuss what to do when someone pulls away from you, and we also cover tons of widely popular dating topics + YOUR sent in questions!!!

If you've enjoyed this episode, feel free to always message me on instagram @lyss or on the podcast instagram @dateyourselfinstead.

Jemma's socials: @thatpsychologypodcast and @jemmasbeg

Be sure to check out Jemma's podcast here.

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Why going no contact WORKS. Jan 01, 2024

GOING NO CONTACT IS THE MOVE IN 2024.

It is a PRIVILEGE to have access to you and your energy.

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Are you tired of constantly holding onto what or WHO isn't good for you? Are you feeling stuck and discouraged because you KNOW your higher self is calling for a massive upgrade? Are you ready to become a new, more powerful, more fearless, more unstoppable YOU? Let’s do this.

It is TIME to uplevel into the most amazing version of you. MY DARE TO DETACH masterclass is designed to help you let go and set yourself free so you can UPGRADE YOUR LIFE baby. THERE'S NO MORE TIME TO WASTE.

How to manifest a specific person back into your life Dec 25, 2023

How to manifest a specific person! Listen intentionally with caution. I want you to be happy overall, so I want you to manifest someone ONLY if you truly feel they were your person. Also I feel like I'm going to get cancelled for being a cold hearted Capricorn in this episode because I discuss my icks, but oh well. In this episode I also talk about my experience from dating apps recently and some fun life updates. Enjoy! :)

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Are you tired of constantly holding onto what or WHO isn't good for you? Are you feeling stuck and discouraged because you KNOW your higher self is calling for a massive upgrade? Are you ready to become a new, more powerful, more fearless, more unstoppable YOU? Let’s do this.

It is TIME to uplevel into the most amazing version of you. MY DARE TO DETACH masterclass is designed to help you let go and set yourself free so you can UPGRADE YOUR LIFE baby. THERE'S NO MORE TIME TO WASTE.

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If they wanted to, THEY WOULD. Dec 18, 2023

If they wanted to, they would...? Or maybe they just can't. Maybe they don't have the capacity to love you the way you love them. Let's dive into this topic together.

5 BIG ways to level the f*ck up in 2024 Dec 11, 2023

If you're ready to step into your POWER in 2024, this episode is for you.

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Decenter that toxic man now. YOU are the main character. Dec 04, 2023

A reminder to focus on you, because you have one f*cking life to live. Stop making someone else the main focus of your orbit. You are the SUN. You deserve to be front and center in your own movie. Xoxo.

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DETACH to ATTRACT - how being detached helps you manifest faster Nov 27, 2023

DETACHMENT SPEEDS UP MANIFESTATION. When you truly let go, miracles happen. I WANT YOU TO UPLEVEL. UPGRADE. DETACH. BE FREE. BE F*CKING HAPPY. Because...why not? If you need a little push or a sign from the universe, this episode is for YOU.

Detach to attract.

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Feeling lonely this holiday season? I've got you. Nov 20, 2023

Being alone during the holiday season or any celebration day in general can feel like sh*t, let's just be honest. HOWEVER, it can also be empowering and fun if you make it that way - which is why I created this episode. TIS THE SEASON to embrace yourself and love yourself even more. I love you lots. Here is the link to my masterclass, use code selflove for a discount. xx Lyss

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SEND THEM LOVE anyway - the ultimate healing guide Nov 13, 2023

Send them love. They need it the most. When someone hurts you, it can be easy to hate them - but what I've learned is that healing works from the inside out by becoming an energetic vessel of LOVE.

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Stop procrastinating, your future self needs you Nov 06, 2023

Why do we procrastinate? I was the queen of procrastination and I would always assume things would just happen for me, but YOU NEED TO take action to get results and become your best self. Stop putting shit off! ;) I love you. Much love. Xoxo, Lyss.

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It's time to upgrade, uplevel, and become f*cking unstoppable this fall season Oct 30, 2023

Do you know how special and important you are??? Do you know how much you bring to the table? NO ONE IS YOU and that is your superpower. In this episode, I discuss ways to level up, create boundaries, know your worth and much more.

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How to handle rejection & move on Oct 26, 2023

Rejection is redirection - everyone has dealt with rejection at a point. Sometimes the universe is here to just guide you into a much bigger and better situation that you could've even imagined for yourself.

In this episode, I dive into a dating story time about a guy who got me hooked on him and then ghosted me - ultimately leaving me feeling rejected, hurt, and embarrassed. I also talk about how to know your value and how it was fairly easy for me to overcome this situation after time had passed.

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4 DAYS OF MATERIAL - WORK AT YOUR OWN PACE. Each day is designed to reprogram your mind, help you let go, detach, and free yourself from anything that is no longer serving your growth.
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The power of being direct and communicative (stop playing games) Oct 16, 2023

In this episode, I talk about the power of being direct, forward and just communicating versus running from your problems - especially when it comes to dating. Sometimes I've been anxious or afraid to speak my truth because of the fear of messing things up. But, as of recently, that changed. Here's everything I've learned about being honest and direct about my feelings. If you enjoyed this episode, always dm me @lyss and let me know your feedback. Love you xx.

Mastermind - how to get anything or anyone you want Oct 09, 2023

Become a mastermind and manifest anything or anyone you want with just a simple mindset. Trust the process baby. You've got this. If you enjoyed this episode, dm me on instagram and check out the new masterclass, Dare to Detach, coming October 11th!

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If you can't match my energy, BYEEE (masculine vs. feminine energy) Oct 02, 2023

If I'm dating you, you better bring the same vibes and energy to the f*cking table. If you don't reply to me for days, it's not the vibe. If you could go 48 hours without a reply...it's a no. Here are some of my dealbreakers, my opinions on matching energy in dating, and alllll the coverage on masculine versus feminine energy. If you enjoyed this episode, dm me @lyss and feel free to share it - it helps the pod grow. I appreciate you xx

5 signs you need to breakup + my views on sex & casual hookups Sep 25, 2023

If you're in a sticky situation where you are attached to someone but you just can't seem to let them go, this episode covers the major warning signs and red flags that I personally feel could make or break a relationship. These are some of my dealbreakers that I find are helpful when deciding when to leave a relationship. In the second half of this episode, I talk about my views on sex and intimacy for the first time ever on the pod, and my perspective on casual hookups. If you enjoyed this episode, dm me @lyss! xx

You deserve consistency. It should feel good - if it doesn’t, let that sh*t go. Sep 18, 2023

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YOUR THOUGHTS CREATE YOUR REALITY Sep 11, 2023

SURPRISE to the video episode :) It's the 1 year anniversary of DATE YOURSELF INSTEAD baby!!! Wow. I can't believe just one year ago I started the podcast and it became what it is today. In this episode, I discuss my mental health journey, as well as this idea of your THOUGHTS creating your reality. Thinking positively about your life and yourself, and your future...is SO essential in order to live the life of your dreams. I hope you love this episode, and let me know if you want more videos. Xoxo.

How to know if they're the 1 - GREEN FLAGS Sep 04, 2023

Self love leads to true love. There is some wholesome loving content on today's episode. This is your reminder that you deserve true, deep, unconditional love. You deserve peace and safety. You deserve to feel secure in a relationship. Xoxo, Lyss <3

Stop diluting your power for a man Aug 28, 2023

It's easy to lose focus when you're so fixated on someone else. But baby, you have to remember that YOU ARE THE MAIN CHARACTER. When it comes to relationships, we often dilute our power and give our energy away instead of directing it towards OURSELVES. Agree or disagree?

He's just not that into you Aug 21, 2023

Signs that he's just not that into you. He's being hot and cold. Flaky with plans. Distant. A bad texter. Says he doesn't know where he stands or what he wants. In this episode, I dish the hard truth and the signs of when someone is just not...that interested.

Here's what to do when they pull away Aug 14, 2023

When someone pulls away, it can be difficult to navigate. Often times we feel like we did something wrong to mess the relationship up. It can cause a lot of anxiety if we're not sure where the other person stands or why they're distancing themselves...when everything seemed to be going well. In this episode, I talk about what to do when they pull away from you - and how to handle it like a pro. You'll feel better in no time baby.

Why we broke up - the breakup that changed me forever Aug 07, 2023

Why my ex and I broke up - the full detailed story. I wasn't sure if I would ever speak on this relationship and the breakup that changed me forever. In this episode, I am finally sharing my experience and more details about the breakup that inspired the Date Yourself Instead podcast. If this resonated with you in any way, I would love to hear your story as well. Always feel free to dm me on instagram @lyss.

How to raise your standards HIGH AF Jul 31, 2023

Cause you deserve the best :-) I love you.

The POWER of solo traveling Jul 24, 2023

Ahhhh. SOLO TRAVEL. One of the most highly requested topics I get asked to cover is my experience doing shit alone. And yeah, it can be intimidating, scary and crazy to go off on adventures completely solo. In this episode, I talk about a few experiences I've had solo traveling, the lessons I've learned, my honest thoughts on it, and a wild story time about my study abroad journey in Australia. I'll definitely be recording a part two. Xoxo.

How to master detachment Jul 17, 2023

It's a detached girl summer.

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How to be unbothered, go no contact, deal with cheating, & more Jul 10, 2023

It's official - I am HERE to answer all of your questions on this very juicy episode of Date Yourself Instead. In this episode, I discuss the art of being unbothered and how to live your truth, how to go no contact and my thoughts on blocking someone if you're broken up, my honest thoughts on cheating, and more.

The red flags you see now are the reasons you'll leave later Jul 03, 2023

Self explanatory. If you see some major issues early on, my best advice is to get out while you still can. The red flags you see in the beginning are the reasons you'll most likely leave the relationship later - or they'll be the reason you're unhappy in a relationship. Yes, people can grow and change, however, I've noticed that my gut was always telling me to run prior to diving deeper into a situation with someone...yet I just ignored it. Let's talk about it.

How to really DATE YOURSELF INSTEAD Jun 26, 2023

Dating yourself instead. What does dating yourself really mean? I'm in London right now, and I decided to push myself out of my comfort zone. Here's a full breakdown of how I've recently started to date myself, take myself out and dive into a brand new timeline to change my life and open my heart up to the idea of meeting new people. When you go through a breakup, it can be difficult to put yourself out there and learn how to be alone, so this episode covers everything you need to know.

How to trust the process of your life & manifest faster Jun 18, 2023

Trusting the process of your life can be a scary thing to do when it feels like everything is falling apart. It's also harder when you're trying to manifest things and you just feel blocked, stagnant and not your best self. Here is my best advice when it comes to trusting your journey, and how to manifest and attract the best things into your life faster. If you loved this episode, would mean the world if you rated on Spotify and sent me a dm on instagram @lyss @dateyourselfinstead. Love you.

Work on yourself so much until they're not your type anymore Jun 11, 2023

If you're overly consumed by the idea of a person instead of focusing on yourself, this episode is for you. We get so caught up and easily fixated on a new relationship, or a partner that isn't giving us the love we deserve, and it becomes an ultimate form of distraction away from who we are, our goals, and what truly makes us happy. This episode is really just a reminder to work on yourself and your goals, and find the passion that drives you, instead of focusing on someone that isn't showing up for you. Remember, if you loved this episode feel free to dm me on instagram @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead, and be sure to rate it on Spotify.

The worst dates I’ve been on in New York City Jun 05, 2023

You asked for it, and here we are. The worst dates I've ever been on in New York City. Dating can be a whirlwind, and an absolute mess - especially with easy access to dating apps. In my late 20's, I would go on dates for fun that often were either really fun or a total disaster. In this episode, I talk about some of the worst experiences I've had. If you enjoyed this episode, feel free to follow and dm me @lyss and stay updated with more content on the podcast account @dateyourselfinstead. Love you.

How to avoid getting attached too quickly May 29, 2023

It's easy to get attached to someone we've just met...because they're nice. Because they're attractive and treat us right. But how soon is too soon to get attached? Often times I'd become so fixated on one person early on, only to realize it was all smoke and mirrors. This person was not at all who I thought they were. So here's an episode talking about that experience, and how to avoid getting attached too fast. If you loved this episode, dm me on instagram @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead and share it with a friend. Xoxo.

I was LOVE BOMBED - a dating story time May 22, 2023

The first half of this episode talks about self worth, valuing yourself and to avoid jumping into a new relationship before you've processed a breakup. The second half of this episode talks about love bombing and a story time of a guy I dated super briefly that was fucking obsessed with me for a hot minute and then put me in a really uncomfortable situation, and THEN vanished off the face of the earth. If you liked or could relate to this episode, follow me and dm me on instagram @lyss and stay updated on the podcast account @dateyourselfinstead. Xoxo.

Stop being desperate & needy in love May 15, 2023

I definitely have had my moments in relationships where I felt like I smothered my partner with desperate energy. I was needy and insecure because I didn't love or value myself enough to know who I truly was. I didn't know my worth, so I would project my insecurities often onto my boyfriends in hopes that would make them want to be with me more, but instead it often backfired and became messy. I also mention this amazing book, The Mastery of Love, in the beginning of this episode which has helped me through my healing process and has helped the relationship I have with myself. If you are loving the podcast, always feel free to DM me on instagram @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead.

Stop giving SO much to someone you’re not even dating May 08, 2023

In this episode, I dive into a storytime about a guy I was taking on dates around New York City. I was putting in an unreasonable amount of effort…and for what? When someone isn’t your boyfriend, you shouldn’t be the only one making concrete plans.

How to feel GOOD being alone May 08, 2023

Being alone can be a scary experience at first, especially after a breakup. In this episode, I dive into my advice about being by myself and what I’ve learned from being my own company.

I did magic mushrooms in mexico - here's what I took from it May 01, 2023

Psyliocybin. Magic mushrooms. Tulum. This experience changed my life and my perception of everything in the world. I was going through one of the worst depressions, and I met a Spirit Guide in Mexico who altered the course of my life permanently. She guided me through a magic mushroom trip that would ultimately lead me to creating the podcast, and free me from a great deal of trauma I had carried with me over the course of my life. In this episode I dive into the lessons this experience taught me and I hope this experience can help some of you.

Forgiving yourself when you've f*cked up Apr 24, 2023

What happens when you're the problem? Forgiving yourself when you've made a mistake can be challenging. We all go through periods of time in our live where we're bound to make mistakes, but those mistakes can turn into valuable learning lessons. In this episode, I give various examples of how we can f*ck up and how it can be helpful to just own up to those mistakes and be honest with who you are. Don't beat yourself up too much, you're still human.

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Not everyone is going to like you Apr 17, 2023

Not everyone is going to like you or accept you - that's just how life is. The most important thing is that YOU like you. In this episode, I talk about my personal experiences with how people treated me poorly for no apparent reason at all - and what those experiences taught me. If you enjoyed this episode, always feel free to DM me on instagram @lyss and @dateyourselfinstead.

How to know if you're with the wrong person vs. right person Apr 10, 2023

Being with the wrong person can feel heavy on your heart and on your mind. It could feel like you're constantly trying to change for someone else or try to compromise your needs for someone else. In this episode, I dive into what it feels like to be in the wrong relationship, or in a relationship that needs some work. I also dive into what it feels like to be in a good and healthy relationship with a partner. I hope it can help guide you and make you feel less alone if you're currently in this type of situation. Always feel free to DM me as well on instagram @dateyourselfinstead or @lyss if you enjoyed this episode.

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Twin flames and karmic relationships Mar 27, 2023

Twin flames - are they a good or bad thing? In this episode, I dive into my personal twin flame experience and the valuable lessons I learned from dating mine. I reflect on how my twin flame taught me a lot about myself, and helped me grow & mature as a person. As always, if you enjoyed this episode, feel free to rate the podcast on Spotify, and send me a message on instagram @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead.

How to let go and move on because you deserve BETTER Mar 20, 2023

This is the ultimate breakup guide and podcast for anyone trying to move on and let go, because you deserve better. You deserve someone who will commit to you and give you the world. Why are you settling? In this episode, I discuss my perspective on this topic and dive into my own emotions as well. Remember, you can always message me on instagram @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead if you enjoyed this episode.

The power of walking away Mar 13, 2023

Why are we so afraid to walk away from a toxic relationship?

Sometimes we're afraid to leave relationships for a variety of reasons, including:

Fear of being alone
Fear of the unknown
Fear of change
Children and family obligations

And so much more. In this episode, I talk about the power of walking away from a relationship that isn't serving you, and some useful tips to navigate a breakup. As always, you can DM me on instagram @lyss or @dateyourselfinstead if you enjoyed this episode!

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Love letter method - manifest your soulmate instantly Mar 10, 2023

Surprise!!! I decided to release this one early because, well...I love you all dearly. Manifest your soulmate literally instantly, this works every time ;) This video is about how I manifested 3 different people into my life using a letter. It's simple, effective, and can bring magic and miracles into your life really quickly. Let's connect on my socials! If you decide to try this, let me know.

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How self-respect changes everything Mar 06, 2023

This episode is all about self-respect, taking a stand for what you believe in, and valuing who you truly are.

Self-respect means honoring yourself over anyone else, and ignoring what other people are saying about you. For most of my life, I've been bullied for my image and my looks, and as I've gotten older, I've realized that the only way to honor who I am is to block out the noise and focus on self-love. I also go into detail about my own personal stories with my self-confidence, and how I've struggled with being assertive in the past.

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Right person, wrong time Feb 27, 2023

The phrase "right person, wrong time” is an expression that describes a situation where two people are deeply in love but are unable to be together due to circumstances beyond their control. So, is this concept real? In today's episode, I dive into why I think the right person, wrong time is not necessarily true. I also dive into different examples and stories that prove that true love will always find its way back if it's really meant to be.

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Setting boundaries in love & how toxic relationships can make you sick Feb 20, 2023

I am guilty of doing too much for the wrong person and I know I’m not the only one, so I wanted to dive a little bit into people pleasing and boundary setting in this episode. Plus, I have some insight on how toxic relationship can impact your physical health, so we are also talking about the signs to watch for and things I’ve learned from personal experience.

Highlights of this episode:

(2:00) - Feeling guilt about saying no
(5:20) - Doing too much for the wrong guy
(14:00) - The story of how I got sick from a toxic relationship
(21:00) - If you’re not with the right person, your body will speak to you
(29:50) - Low self esteem in a toxic relationship
(32:00) - External validation from other people
(35:00) - It’s never too late to find love and start over, including a cute true story time to inspire you

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50 ways to date yourself at any age Feb 13, 2023

Dating yourself - what does it REALLY mean? In today’s episode, I dive into why I think Valentine’s Day is a scam, why learning to love yourself is important regardless of your relationship status, and 50 ways to date yourself at any age. Learning the power of self-love and treating yourself to a day of fun with or without a partner is always a good idea. PS - this Valentine’s Day, I’ll be treating myself to a romantic dinner for one. Feel free to message me on instagram @lyss and @dateyourselfinstead and tell me how you’re celebrating!

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Let go of them and become MAGNETIC as f*ck Feb 06, 2023

We all know how this story goes; You’re in love or like with someone but you’re holding on too tight. When you choose to let go of them, they sense it and try to come right back into your life. In this episode I build on how to take your POWER back after a breakup and talk about what being magnetic means, what letting go looks like and the empowerment you’ll feel when you experience the freedom of stepping into your higher self.

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You’re not “crazy” - why trusting your gut is SO powerful Jan 30, 2023

I pride myself on my sense of intuition, but those gut feelings can be easy to ignore especially if you’re like me and like giving people the benefit of the doubt. In this episode I share a story where gaslighting and red flags were ignored until my gut was screaming at me. Sometimes we get too in our heads to listen to that built-in accuracy radar but know that feelings of insecurity are normal, and the right person will work through those feelings with you.

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How to manifest your dream life in 2023 Jan 23, 2023

With the fresh start 2023 is giving us, it’s the perfect time to start attracting abundance and transforming into your best self. I share the stories of the power of manifesting in my own life and how you can harness your own power and manifest your dream life too! Have you heard about this lucky girl syndrome trend? I’m going to experiment with this over the next few months. I love hearing from you guys so if you want to do it with me, lets DM!

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30 things I learned before my 30th birthday Jan 16, 2023

It’s a big thing to be turning 30 and a lot has happened in the past couple of years to make me who I am today. This week I am talking about 30 things I learned before turning 30. I also wanted to say a belated Happy New Year and I’m so excited about getting listeners involved in the future of the podcast; bringing on guests and incorporating your topic suggestions!

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Proving people wrong is fun Jan 09, 2023

I’ve had a lot of hate over the years in my career and I have learned that I don’t need to prove myself to anyone. All of the energy I put into listening to what other people thought of me never helped me get anywhere. In this episode, I share some of these pivotal moments and tips I use to harness that energy to create an amazing life for myself. Pursue your passions and block out the noise – you are amazing!

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How to detach, let go, and REALLY move on Jan 02, 2023

Detaching is an art that can be very emotionally challenging. Becoming aware of what is NOT serving your growth then letting go of it can make you MAGNETIC. This episode lays out the steps to detach in a healthy way and how I have applied them to relationships in my life. If this is a part of your journey, go easy on yourself. Detaching can be such a beautiful thing!

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Stop being impressed by the BARE MINIMUM Dec 26, 2022

Today we talk about the many reasons why you should raise your dating standards but what does it ACTUALLY mean to claim your power? You are not somebody’s backup plan! I share what I do to remember my worth and the shift that can happen when you learn how to show up for yourself and not tolerate shitty behavior. Once you love yourself so fucking much, you’ll attract someone that matches your love!

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Let’s talk situationships Dec 19, 2022

One of the questions I get in my DM’s regularly is: Am I doing the right thing by staying in this situationship? As always, no pressure to jump out of a situationship if you’re loving where you’re at but if you want to address the pros and cons, we are talking expectations, standards, communication and genuine happiness. If your happiness is being compromised right now, remember that you deserve unconditional love and you are amazing! Thanks for listening!

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Falling in love with a narcissist Dec 12, 2022

If you’re dating a person based on a conceptualized version of them vs. the person they are consistently showing you that they are, I’ve been there. Today I am sharing my challenging experience with a narcissist and what I learned from it. Once you understand narcissistic personalities then start to turn inward to examine your worth, your transformation can begin!

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Why are female friendships so hard? Dec 05, 2022

I got a DM that hit hard: How do you make friends to easily in NYC? Just like other relationships, female friendships can be toxic. If you always gravitate toward masculine energy, maybe you can relate to this. A lot of what I have experienced in the social media space has been superficial, but in this episode you’ll hear about how I balance surrounding myself with genuine, empowering people and wondering, am I the problem?

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How to manifest your soulmate Nov 28, 2022

If you’re ready to receive someone into your life, this story may inspire you manifest it. Once, after listening to a podcast suggesting manifesting a love by writing a letter, I immediately met a new person. It’s easy to match someone’s energy for too long and lose yourself. Instead, you can use your positive thoughts to manifest someone that you can be your true self with.

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Feeling lonely on the holidays Nov 21, 2022

Feeling cozy and celebrating the holidays with a significant other is such a great feeling but when I realized that I will likely be alone for the holidays this year... the anxiety spiral began. If you’re feeling left out during the holiday season, I share some tips what can shift your perspective. You’re welcome to feel your feelings but if you’re ready to embrace this season in a new way, focusing on being alone can be a super positive experience!

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Do all men come back? Nov 14, 2022

I am constantly flooded with this question: Do all men come back? If you’re in a waiting period right now, this episode validates all of the feelings that come along with that. Sharing from my personal experience in situationships and relationships, I talk about how to assess if this is a connection worth exploring and if it is, how to become a magnet. Either way, know that you deserve a healthy and amazing love and that the universe has got you!

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how to take your POWER back after a breakup Nov 07, 2022

This episode is probably my favorite one yet, because it’s going to teach you how to TAKE YOUR POWER BACK after a bad breakup. It’s so easy to lose yourself in a toxic relationship, and this episode covers everything you need to know about claiming who you are again and focusing on healthy ways to heal. You know you’re unstoppable and you have all the power you need within yourself; it’s just about finding it again. I’ve got you covered.

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**A Halloween storytime and my best manifestation tips** Oct 31, 2022
HAPPY HALLOWEEN! For all of you fellow witches out there, I know this day is very special to you because it is to me. This episode is going to be different. I’m diving into a crazy story about how my mom was almost murdered while she was pregnant with me. I’ll also be covering my best manifestation tips and practices for this spooky season. PS - if you have any fun Halloween plans, DM me on instagram @Lyss. I would love to hear what you’re up to tonight.

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Stop Comparing Yourself To Everyone Else Oct 24, 2022

Today's episode is going to talk about COMPARISON and why there is no point in ever comparing yourself to anyone else. In the world of social media, it is so difficult sometimes to pull yourself away from what everyone else is doing. The truth is, most of what you see isn't real. I also talk about my personal experiences dealing with social media and the reality of what I've been through. Let's dive into this together.

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it’s okay to be depressed Oct 17, 2022

It’s okay to allow yourself to feel your feelings. Lyss tells the story of entering therapy and the lows she had to let herself fully experience in order to get to the root of her issues. The only way out is through and Lyss talks about the loss and shock she felt before finding her purpose and reinventing herself. Don’t put off moving your body, trust the process & lean into what make you feel alive.

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My Red Flags When Dating Oct 17, 2022

Have you ever been love bombed or felt underwhelmed by the texting character shown by the person you’re talking to? This week Lyss shares her personal experience with red flags while dating. When no effort is put in to making plans and excuses start to stack up, follow your intuition. Stay tuned for part two!

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So he ghosted you…now what? Oct 10, 2022

Ok so he ghosted you, now what are you supposed to do? In this episode, I take it step by step on what to do when someone ghosts you. Because we all know getting ghosted can be a shitty feeling. Don’t worry, I’ve got you covered.

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How I Attracted My Ex Back with The Law of Attraction Oct 03, 2022

If you’re skeptical about the Law of Attraction, the stories in this episode will convince you otherwise. Lyss was in a loose relationship that ended brutally when months later a symbolic necklace pulled his energy back into her space. Lyss also followed her intuition in a different relationship which built a connection that was a crucial part of her personal development.

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Free Girl Fall, F*ck Boy Fall (And A Dating Story Time) Sep 26, 2022

Lyss is kicking off the fall season in a positive and inspirational way. Join her mental freedom journey as she explains the new routines she’s putting in place to set the tone for the rest of the year. Life is short so Lyss is focusing on fueling her passions + she ends this episode with a classic f*ck boy fall dating story that is to be continued.

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How to Heal from a Heartbreak Sep 19, 2022

Today Lyss speaks on a highly requested topic: Heartbreak. She relives one of the most painful breakups she has ever experienced and covers all of the very relatable insecurities that come post-breakup. This episode is full of practical steps Lyss took to begin the healing process and the inspiration that came after the healing began.

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Trusting Your Intuition and Inner Voice Sep 12, 2022

Today Lyss shares takeaways from past dating experience on valuing herself, trusting her intuition + the amazing things that she has attracted when she wasn’t mirroring a toxic partner. Lyss also had a new experience with a psychic this week and is feeling the pressure of being at a crossroads at work.

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Welcome to Date Yourself Instead Sep 09, 2022

You’ve made it to Date Yourself Instead, a podcast intended to inspire you to become the best version of yourself. In 2021, social media personality Lyss started a self-love series on TikTok which amassed over 100+ million views on her videos and counting. In this podcast, she gets candid about her relationship experiences, and touches on other topics including business, beauty, wellness, and so much more. Welcome to the #dateyourselfinstead movement. Episodes every Monday.

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